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No, he’s resembling Damian Lewis, the lead actor, who is another lucky ginger Not to be confused with… 😅

The dangers to us via hookup apps are far greater than the dangers of anonymous bookstore booths and glory holes back in the day. Just sayin’

Check IMDB - occasionally their real name will show up, especially if they also have any legit credits under own name. There is another database for adult performers but I can’t recall the acronym. Your line “dating myself” would indicate their stardom was quite a while ago. These men, one or both, may have left the business to better themselves and are not interested in being “connected” to an old fan. Please approach with great care, Milo. Even if you’re certain it’s the right Twitter or IG. They’re real people with a present that may be very different from your past with them.

Early on in Friendboy I stumbled across a provider who resembled a coworker. I clicked on Call and sure enough the number came up as my friends name from my contacts. I hung up after 2nd ring. Do these sites trace back the origin number of an incomplete call made thru the site, maybe as a service to advertisers? I’m hoping not- would rather him think it was a random butt dial. His profile long gone, and he had to move to parents to help them during Covid.

My honest assessment is that I was most connected to the community in the 80’s as we were losing people left and right, and needed to lean on each other. It was concurrent with my own coming out and like many others at the time we got to know the excitement of exploring love and sex in a minefield. “Somewhat connected to the community”would apply in the years following, after finding my partner (we both were in industries where neither of us was the token) and overall, less so in the last twenty years as the boomers turning to seniors. What binds us still is to recall the memories of the indignities suffered in school, the kinds of choices available to me in bridging all the elements of family, work, and community, just as young people are today. Together we are a unifying force of self acceptance that we all know to varying degrees. Some of us see it distantly in the rear view, where it serves as a reminder going forward with eyes front. I like to think of myself as “Gaymeritus” An honorary nod that I helped when I could, but needed to tend career and home as I escaped to the suburbs, and continued to promote visibility, and help those individuals still being plowed under by a disease the President at the time chose to ignore. My curious nature keeps me looking for what young people and “new gays” are up to, and the impressive range of activism is so much broader, connected to their direct experience, and approached in more current ways, using universal advantages of our digital comms systems and finding new ways of engaging. Bravo to their fearlessness in tackling new challenges (bigger and more urgent than marriage) and I’m excited to see how they continue to push for the idea of equality and fairness for all, not just fellow queer people.

There was a discussion here a while back about preferences about eye contact during an encounter https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/77803-eye-contact/ Nothing in 5 years about this, my search told me, but I was specifically inspired to raise this when a friend mentioned the other day that between Zoom and masks, her sense of eye contact was all screwy. No eye contact really for zoom/online convos, alternating with relying on it more in casual masked convo to understand what she couldn’t hear or register with a full facial expression/lip reading. I feel the same about having to shift the gears of engagement so often. I have not been working since Mar2020 lockdown began, Zooms mostly social, and my unmasked contact from then until June 21 was at home with one other person. I was completely mask compliant when out. I’ve always been quick to make random eye contact - though never in Manhattan - and good at reading when the conversation or whatever welcomed more attention, and it was instinctual more or less. I loved how it was always essential for in-person cruising (Lordy remember that?) Eye contact is a very important component in what makes a successful sexual encounter for me. Fave positions are almost all face to face in some form. Anybody finding the experience of eye contact is a more self conscious act or otherwise different than it was in the BeforeTimes? We may have some additional mask wearing ahead over this summer into fall, and though I go without it in a smaller group of people who are known to me, it’s bound to continue messing with my head when out. Anybody else here these days who enjoys eye contact with a provider? Hates it? Won’t repeat without it? Have a provider who is great at it? Or after the last year, finding your way back to where it simply feels organic?

“You’re two inches under, so let’s call it even…”

I’ve tried CBD balm directly applied to the anus. Kind of like the expensive vaginal creams that used to be prescribed to older unhappy women to relieve “dryness”, the success comes from frequent applications with at least 30min of vigorous massaging motion. I liked it.

If leaving KC area market why not head to Chicago rather than Arkansas? I would think a fresh uncut face might gather more traction. Or does opposite hold true? Maybe the higher % of closeted men in rural areas result in more men who are into hiring over hookup app dates?

Chemistry is equally valuable to client and provider. No substitute available.

I don’t see it as that much of a mystery how Disney arch villains read as gay. Lack of trashy women in attendance to the character, as they would be in other stories of arch villains. The Disney villains use correct grammar and punctuation when speaking …with clear diction, even. Ugh. So gay. Extreme designs of facial hair, and effective inclusion of unique accessories, not excluding exotic pets. Even Ursula from Little Mermaid is a gay man: Divine.

AirH&B (Head and Breakfast)

@Drod1474 Do you have another masseur you like better? You said this current guy gives a great massage. And great sex. So chemistry is not an issue, nor is his talent. Great sex is easier to find than a great massage. If he accepts the amount you pay for his greatness in both, it’s difficult to understand what the benefit is for you in skipping the massage. Not sure what market you’re in, but regardless, you have the sort of arrangement most of us here would consider gold.

Choose a couple of charities and include links on the invitation. To your Birthday Party. ”This chance to gather is all the present I want this year, so no gifts please. But I will instead recommend making donations of your choosing to one of these organizations I support. And if you are not vaccinated against Covid keep your sorry ass home”

A perfect concept for a gay Breaking Glass Pictures rom-com: The Orgy Planner A smart 40 yr old gay man, fried from brides and being single too long, uses his charm and planning skills to manage logistics and facilities for private elaborate sex parties attended by handsome wealthy horn-dogs and their hot boytoys. Can he finally mix work and pleasure…? 😁

I was gifted a copy of Pillars, it took a while to get into, but by p50 I was hooked. Dove directly into the 2nd, World Without End. I was so attuned his prose at that point I was flying through it - save a pause when a printing goof resulted in 100+ missing pages. (I was working backstage on a tour of Dirty Dancing Live, and having Follett between cues saved my brain from atrophy…

The most successful procedures are the ones that provide for a complete, yet credible, change in identity. I’ve been told. Couldn’t possibly say by whom.

These damn dirty-ass bears

Located in Van Nuys Worth traveling to him IMO https://rentmasseur.com/ParkerMatson

Hammer Time! He’s Midwest… they’re midwest could they be related?

You protect YOURSELF. That is all you can do. Take PreP, as prescribed, no missed doses, ever. Condoms every time for penetration. Then, whether he’s lying or non-compliant on his Rx regimen, you can get banged til your eyes roll back. Oh, and get tested for every STI every three months. No Prep available for the Clap.

I enjoyed it, but couldn’t help but felt there’s enough story there for a movie, but not really a series. Mae herself is engaging, if unlikable, and I always love post-friends Kudrow. Not enough for another season …sorry Lisa.

Sounds like an inverse reaction to the vanished American Dream. “If I can’t have all the money I know I deserve, then I will prove myself the most selfish of all the Have-Nots!”

Undetectable for… what? Remember, PreP is only effective for exposure to HIV. Many other transmissible bugs are out there, as you should have heard by now. But, good news! There’s a lot of free STI testing available in NYC area!!! Find their social media links and ask them about your risks, and if you should get tested now. Please be careful. One might get the impression you don’t know as much as a sexually active adult should know before doing anything with a partner.

A story of one small family helping out another, larger family. One wank at a time. (A business model that demands patience.)