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@Drod1474 Do you have another masseur you like better? You said this current guy gives a great massage. And great sex. So chemistry is not an issue, nor is his talent. Great sex is easier to find than a great massage. If he accepts the amount you pay for his greatness in both, it’s difficult to understand what the benefit is for you in skipping the massage. Not sure what market you’re in, but regardless, you have the sort of arrangement most of us here would consider gold.

Choose a couple of charities and include links on the invitation. To your Birthday Party. ”This chance to gather is all the present I want this year, so no gifts please. But I will instead recommend making donations of your choosing to one of these organizations I support. And if you are not vaccinated against Covid keep your sorry ass home”

A perfect concept for a gay Breaking Glass Pictures rom-com: The Orgy Planner A smart 40 yr old gay man, fried from brides and being single too long, uses his charm and planning skills to manage logistics and facilities for private elaborate sex parties attended by handsome wealthy horn-dogs and their hot boytoys. Can he finally mix work and pleasure…? 😁

I was gifted a copy of Pillars, it took a while to get into, but by p50 I was hooked. Dove directly into the 2nd, World Without End. I was so attuned his prose at that point I was flying through it - save a pause when a printing goof resulted in 100+ missing pages. (I was working backstage on a tour of Dirty Dancing Live, and having Follett between cues saved my brain from atrophy…

The most successful procedures are the ones that provide for a complete, yet credible, change in identity. I’ve been told. Couldn’t possibly say by whom.

These damn dirty-ass bears

Located in Van Nuys Worth traveling to him IMO https://rentmasseur.com/ParkerMatson

Hammer Time! He’s Midwest… they’re midwest could they be related?

You protect YOURSELF. That is all you can do. Take PreP, as prescribed, no missed doses, ever. Condoms every time for penetration. Then, whether he’s lying or non-compliant on his Rx regimen, you can get banged til your eyes roll back. Oh, and get tested for every STI every three months. No Prep available for the Clap.

I enjoyed it, but couldn’t help but felt there’s enough story there for a movie, but not really a series. Mae herself is engaging, if unlikable, and I always love post-friends Kudrow. Not enough for another season …sorry Lisa.

Sounds like an inverse reaction to the vanished American Dream. “If I can’t have all the money I know I deserve, then I will prove myself the most selfish of all the Have-Nots!”

Undetectable for… what? Remember, PreP is only effective for exposure to HIV. Many other transmissible bugs are out there, as you should have heard by now. But, good news! There’s a lot of free STI testing available in NYC area!!! Find their social media links and ask them about your risks, and if you should get tested now. Please be careful. One might get the impression you don’t know as much as a sexually active adult should know before doing anything with a partner.

A story of one small family helping out another, larger family. One wank at a time. (A business model that demands patience.)

If he’s like all other plumbers, be prepared to shell out big bucks if your drain needs snaking on a weekend, holiday, or evenings after 7.

A friend recently pointed me to Zi /Zir /Zez (Zee Zear Zezz phonetically) Zi walked the dog already. The dog was so full of energy, he pulled zir down half a flight of stairs. Zez elbows were banged up bad. Written or spoken, it won’t be confused for another pronoun already in use. Easy on the palate, like the H and soft TH beginnings we have now for gendered pronouns and soft vowels to end. I don’t know. I’m in favor of something, but dislike re-use of an existing pronoun referring to multiple nouns. Yay to non-gendered! Not a fan of “they them their”

Uh oh. There goes the Gay-bor-hood Gayborhoods sprang up in major cities starting in the ‘70’s when young people needed to get out of mom’s house and couldn’t afford anything nice. So they/we moved in to funky/dangerous districts, made it work, dressed it up, recommended it friends, and Voila! Gayborhood! A couple blocks at a time: tended houses. Good food. Great bars. Cute and sassy retail - only in the gayhoods. We move in and make it better and drive up the prices ,,,sadly beyond the reach of the young gays who then have to find another. Social media has reduced the direct need of safety in numbers. And invariably these enclaves become de rigeur tourist stops, so the great corn-fed masses can see how clever we all are… So creative!! We have indeed fought long and hard for the right to be mediocre like the Breeders were the whole time I was growing into gay adulthood. We are now safer, with more financial and civic influence in whatever community we live in, which are ALL gayer than they were 20 years ago. Nostalgia can become malignant, so I look back with gratitude (thx Silverlake!) and give the gay nod to MM couples out on the streets in my sleepier hood. (The gay nod? It’s 50% RockHudson to Tony Randall and 50% Donna McKechnie in Turkey Lurkey. If you have to search either of those, you’re welcome! -For all the social fabric inroads made on your behalf, by those who already know.)

Hmmm. I’m applying your setup a little differently. Picture it: (No, not “Sicily, 1947…”)I book an appt with a new-to-me, well reviewed ticks-the-boxes provider at his place. Contact easy and genuine. He loves older guys, any shape, and I am both of those things. I’m arriving sober, on time, cash in pocket, and sparklingly clean all over, with a gift bottle of Veuve. Warm greeting, ice cold bottled water. Great volley of easy conversation. Once he takes me to through to the room where we will play, I see a couple of fixed angle cameras , a mic, a monitor and lighting equipment. “What’s this?” He gives me a great kiss …or 5 and says “I’d love to be able to watch our encounter later - you don’t mind do you? No one else will see it, I promise. It’s just a memento for me… I rarely post things these days, anyway!” he chuckles. And… his gorgeous and truthfully advertised unit is now in my face as he manages to undress us both… He knows I must have a taste of his talent, and he arches forward and says “c’mon, it’ll be fun! it’s really just for me,” (my mouth is now full and my hands pulled to grasp his beautiful hairy bum.) “I mix in some old GEsoft white incandescent bulbs” he purrs. “It’s nicer.” It’s like he’d read my mind watching every homemade porn ever. Another deeper kiss and I’m being guided up off my knees. I have never once had sex in front of a camera, and only once in front of a watcher, at an old dim lit sex space in Hollywood. Years and pounds ago. Now, though…? What an adventure, just this one time maybe? I admit I fantasize about being an exhibitionist. IRL I do not see someone my age, build and type as “exhibitionist” in any successful way - the image of my exhibition in my mind pairs with Local news, added bands of pixels across the bits and the Chiron “pervert held pending bail” I can be nude at doctor, in changing rooms, spas, etc - humbly and briefly. With a masseur or provider, I’m not so horrid as to cause them losing lunch, and the right ones make it comfortable immediately. But I have no nude selfies on my phone, and have given permission to very few to see the 3 I do have on one app. My provider’s warm hand finds the right spot on my backside where I really feel desired, yet not like a bowling ball. With the other hand he’s reaching for an in-line switch. I dread the imminent flash of light, like Nosferatu at sunrise, eyes clamped shut! A click, a hum of a fan, and my eyes open to a beautiful soft amber space. It is …nicer. The mirrors don’t reveal my worst. As he flips me on the bed, I can see the monitor- it’s me on there, and he’s gently on top now stroking my chest and belly, mmmm. With a quick twist to his tits, I roll him over. “I’m about to call Camera and Action!” he laughs. An iPad on the bedside table is apparently the gateway for all the equipment operations. Now, a brief digression, I have friends who look at sites of amateur vids, trying to spot particular people, and my face with my body showing up on such a site could lead to problems, potentially impacting work and home. The odds are extremely slim. Wow… he grips with one hand the back of my head, and draws me close, as his fully charged member finds its way between my closed thighs as he reaches for the iPad. Another even more convincing kiss. and connective embrace. I pull back and say, “…………… “ ••••••••••••• what do you think I should say?

Which Foreign Qualities, I wonder? •Still quotes “Friends” •Dines at table, with hands visible, never shoveling with the fork •Uncircumcised •Never has a drink with ice. •Always wants to take the most scenic route •Smokes Dunhills… INdoors. •Uses “please” and “thank you” all the time.

Time to volunteer! I know you’ve expressed interest in helping other, in prior posts, Jarrod, so I found a link to check out. https://www.inclusivekc.org/ Meet real 3-D people! One night a week?

Sorry, do not. But hey, you know… You will be in Palm Springs! Nice day spas as ubiquitous as Starbucks! Hot well reviewed male masseurs there all year round! Why not go for a great pampering treatment at a high-end (not-just-gay) day spa? And then hire a well-reviewed gay masseur to do a follow up with goodies at your hotel the next day. Off-season - better prices for both! I know we all have the Burke Williams fantasy that first class amenities and properly skilled hands morph into surprise bubble butts over our faces and hands that roam everywhere and welcome ours for same… Fantasy! 🤩 Gay spas meant for all-day cruising (including the one my friend recommended) are not focused on therapeutic treatment, so if you want a sauna and rub-n-tug massage, your day there may be very well spent!! Personally, I love good massage too much, and choose that portion first. Go to Spa forum here and search Palm Springs. 411’s will point you to some options, likely without cucumber water… 😎

https://www.mensspaps.com/ Only one personal Rex from a friend, but it was glowing

Back in the gay-rags-in-print days you would have access to ads and articles steering you correctly. You’re right that justifications, as part of disclosures of personal medical information, disadvantage gay people all over. Search through locally based online LGBTQ sources for recommendations. Start looking now and I bet you’ll have made an appt in a week! There’s more and more out there to help you in the areas you’d want

Next time my first text will include: My lead time for meeting never less than 24hrs What’s yours?

Hire provider(s)who would agree to act as mannequins, and be photographed (no face?) Take your time styling them in your gear, and find a way to get good light on them. Whenever you do part with the gear, this record will show it off in the best possible way, and provide you with memories of a great ….shoot.