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Providers: Has a client ever really influenced you in your thoughts or tastes? For this question I’d like to take sex off the table (even if he introduced you to sex on a table) I mean the normally more mundane parts of spending time or simply conversing while getting acquainted during a meetup. Like, introduced you a new cuisine, art or music that you still enjoy? Recommended a book, movie or TV show that you wound up loving? How about his visual sensibility? - his clothing, accessories (I would count ink/body mods) or his living environment? Use a bit of slang or terminology that was new to you? Did he share a great story that you still relay to people (without any specific references to source, of course) “This one guy at the party told me about the time…” So, Tell us about it.

Nordic hands w/ Ozzy ass. Great combo, it seems. 😋

Living in SoCal for 40 yrs, and still never been to any of the gay nude resorts. I don’t have the balls.

I’m changing all my Twenties into fives He was certainly looking grown up the last 3 seasons. of MF. Peachy profile 🍑 Mr. Gould

Love JG-L and haven’t read great things… Anybody?

Into S02, seeing more parallels between Annaliese Keating and Olivia Pope. Both brilliant, intense, drink way too much, have messy lives. Both can turn on a dime from honey to battery acid, both have a history of hugely bad choices in bed partners. And impeccable outerwear and shoes. Will Annaliese get kidnapped and held in phony prison? Such …things!

Onto a different culture, with a rare look at a dance not associated with men

The new format of long arc story telling is A+ for me when the writing and performances deliver. I need to restart Succession for that reason. Best to temper it with an occasional dip into BritBox panel channel - too much anti-hero makes this Jack a depressed boy. Just now getting into Morning Show, love it so far.

A very h a r d six days…?

The only friendly response is, “yes I’m fully vaxxed”.

Well, that’s a relief. We can always depend on honesty from politicians about personal finances and conflicts of interest! Do their big donors have to be as forthcoming? Nothing in recent history would suggest that politicians will look the other way as people suffer and/or die, right? I’m sure it’s all good… Moderator’s Note: Lets keep politics out of the Lounge.

Providers and clients alike disclose HIV and STI status. Having a degree of assurance about risk level regarding this virus is no more invasive than seeking the same assurance about those other risks.

Passion comes from chemistry, doesn’t it? One can perform as “passionate,” but acting skills have to be top-notch. It’s real when it arises out of physical, intellectual or emotional attraction. It sure can accelerate quickly for some, as that’s part of their nature. But as a useful description in our world here, it’s definitely a YMMV one. Also a quick item for those who are “dominate”: Dominate is the verb. Dominant is the adjective. Sorry, when it comes to grammar, I’m rather passionant.

Another profile https://rent.men/HungGuyNextDoor He’s been advertising for a few years and has been discussed a while back. Not sure if whatever was mentioned referred to massage or escort… Look under the handle above. There’s probably also a RentMasseur ad, but I couldn’t locate it

The Cliffs Notes of this forum would still fill a library. If one goes in search of drama, odds are it can be found. If one would rather get some Hiring 101 tips, it’s a treasure trove. For those who need a chuckle, omg yes. That’s here too. You can enjoy various hilarious points of view about transactions, attractions, infractions and factions. It’s been here long enough to have said goodbye to some, to welcome noobs, and provide a little place where providers can offer some sage advice, while not spilling tea that endangers their professional discretion. If there are members whose posts are of interest to you, search the handle to see wherever they may have weighed in on various topics. Or search by topic - several are broken into many threads with different bits of insight as the topic pops back into the view of 2021. Before a thread begins, the OP will (or should have) first done a brief search to see if a prior thread exists, and whether its posts shed light still relevant now. If so, a bump can bring it to the top where one can ask or opine about the issue. Beware, some topics bear the scars of a beaten horse… but it’s still almost always entertaining. Right now we’re still in process of societal re-engagement, with different circumstances by location. In general, though, right now it’s safer to cruise this forum than it is to cruise anywhere else!

If providers are compensated for their time - then cutting short a session by the provider, (say he arrived 30min late and left after 35m with the client) the spirit of the law probably says pro-rata reduction in compensation is a fair deal. But as I’ve heard said in some social circles, “It. Simply. Is. Not. Done.”

In fairness to this potential date, @Jarrod_Uncut you have posted many times about the blurry line that exists for you between a private date and a professional one (on the clock) and that you get frustrated when it’s blurry for clients as well. Maybe when he found out that your social time is often paid for, he just didn’t want to create confusion about his interest in you, not judge you for your work. Take it as a win.

If you have put in your profile that you are available for stripping, what do you mean when you say that? That if a club wants to employ you for wages and tips, you’ll audition? That you get undressed in the same way you do every day while the client watches from across the room? That you engage with the client while taking off your clothes, perhaps letting him help here and there? That you like to use music, and move with it as you engage and tease the client, removing each piece provocatively, showing your best feature last? That for incalls, you have a stage with lights and a pole, with custom music, dry ice fog and at least one article of clothing with sparkles on it? Do you think of yourself as a good dancer, either in a club on the dance floor, or as someone with training or professional dance experience? Would love to hear from all you Gypsy Rose Providers about whether it’s included in your profile, and whether it’s something you enjoy in a 1:1 meet up. p.s. I can bring a Mylar curtain

Paging Dr LongJohn

Obesity doesn’t relate to penis size. It will only relate to length at the root end that may be hidden by the padding of fat at the top of the pubic area. If that soft tissue is pushed in and up (esp when laying down) more of the root of the shaft may become visible especially when it’s hard. But when standing, with or without erection, the penis will appear shorter because of the type of body tissue surrounding it that is subject to gravity. A house with three levels may have all three floors visible above ground. Or it may have one floor that’s got a basement, with 2 floors visible from the street. The house still has 3 floors.

One more source https://forums.newart.com/phpbb/viewforum.php?f=9

Oh yeah almost forgot. I would love to have a couple of porn scenes shot at my house, for free, so I get to serve as location manager, AD, and fluffier.

Summer 2021… just past the 7th Anniversary of RW’s death. His range was a once in a lifetime sort of talent. I found his later subtle work very compelling in general. One Hour Photo, so dark. Boulevard recently showed up in a recommended list. I had read about it briefly when it was released after his death, but didn’t retain details. The unrequited love of a hooker with a heart has been with us since the talkies, but I had hopes that casting a truly complex actor as the “John” would bring something special. The script was unhelpful. I wish that Robin Williams could have been better. Better direction, or a few years earlier would have made a big difference. I loved the way he played the hesitant discomfort of the first moments alone with Leo. But I didn’t sense much of the companionship that would have been the glue for his marriage. It may have been a director overeager to reign in the zany taking all charm with it. Perhaps Robin’s dementia was at work in how he chose to play scenes, I don’t know. Nolan seemed flatly humorless even in slightly lighter moments, one-dimensional in a way that I would not have expected from him. Almost as if the character’s isolation was too parallel to his own. It’s also not impossible that inhabiting this role, a man over 60 who’s been masked his entire life and is forced to suddenly live without the safety of the mask (in Robin’s case his rapid fire brain) hit too close. Maybe the resonance of this last role may have been on his mind at the end.

I’ve seen several masseur ads that block out one day a week, sometimes with shortened hours on other days. Massage is more physically grueling than escorting, maybe that’s why masseurs will spell it out within the profile. I imagine if they are more in need of money than rest they can book one of the clients who cannot read. I support taking a free day every week next matter what type of work one does. Sex work is work.