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If this is a hillside like others in the HH, do not fuck around. Not all of that area is on bedrock. Repairs that are up to seismic code run higher than first estimates, I’ve found. Some friends had to pay nearly double because of difficult access issues for equipment, had to hire a crane, etc. Do your homework and remember it’s a business transaction - falling in love with a house can be an expensive one-sided affair.

I don’t think it’s constructive overall to equate the preferences one has for a romantic or sexual partner with the way we categorize unacceptable racist/phobic speech and behavior that destroys the fabric of society in every other context. It’s personal. In the most non-public kind of way Personal. Calling out romantic rejection as racism can only confuse the importance of the real work at hand. We must focus on promotion of equality everywhere. But not in matters of the heart (or other sympathetic organs) The right to love and be loved comes with the right to break hearts and to have yours broken. Responsible application of the rights of love includes not being a dick about it, regardless of whether you have one, want one, want a certain one or none at all. Back in the day of meeting face to face, it was perhaps easier to engage and use conversation to steer a pursuer towards friendship or a friendly no thanks. The swiping action to “dismiss” a suitor has maybe made some people feel more casual about letting the suitor FEEL the swipe of rejection.

I’ve slept every way from fully dressed to starkers. I’ve slept in a cockring and even a ball stretcher, but having tried a buttplug and a thong, both of interest when I can participate, I find ALL my lips gotta breathe while asleep

Perhaps the OP refers to toys, clothing, or other gear when he said “etc” none of which are available for free (not new, anyway...) I would imagine any online store that takes Visa would accept the reloadable gift card as well - its not for an instant-access or ongoing subscription- it’s for merchandise that won’t be shipped without the transaction complete.

The art in acting is never letting them see your technique...

I don’t think @Unicorn was impugning your hygiene. (Dermatology moment- unless you are doing a full body scrub just before bed, the gentle abrasion of sheets overnight is enough to loosen and collect lots of dead skin cells ...clean dead skin cells...) the layer pj’s provide is easier to wash more often. But if it’s only yours in the bed you can go a week or so if most of your skin is exposed. Listen to your nose.

Some may want to limit new clients - fewer hurt feelings if they just eliminate some with price range

Patrica Nell Warren in THE FRONT RUNNER described male desire and gay sex several years before I’d allowed myself to experience it. I was rapt. Maybe worth a re-visit?

“Cut the cable!! Everything is streaming-watch WHAT you want WHEN you want!” Means “We aren’t going to make it easy AND affordable”

So, it’s been ruled out that a reality contestant might have just acquired some sense and left?

It’s in my queue Not really a spoiler, but it starts with “background” of theatrical released hetero flicks. (Well it spoiled my mood, maybe, so I will try again later...)

Bendy-flexy is classic - it never goes out fashion, season to season, year to year. A guy who likes to show off by bending in half ALWAYS grabs my attention!!

It is a bit like the woman going on and on to her friends about a restaurant she didn’t like - “the chef needs to learn how to cook, I mean really, it tasted not just bland, but awful. I’ll never go again - the food is absolute poison!! And the portions are so small...”

PRETTY WOMAN

COUNTESS DeLAVE: “I bet you married YOURS for character, didn’t you, dear... and where did it get you? On the train to Reno!!”

I won’t insult you by saying “no, but you were the first...” But your cred providing both is well-known Rod ?

I think you might benefit from a little volunteer time. A local food bank, gay and lesbian center, senior center. Find one. Go there. Then turn off your phone. Spend some time to do simple things as you think about others. Your help will be welcomed and you might even make a new friend or two, ones who don’t want to use you for anything other than reaching something on a top shelf. See you back here in two weeks!

I believe in general the Toto models run more $. I love my USpa and can’t think of additional features I would want. Maybe a footman to bring tea, but that comes with even more safety issues and shipping delays.

https://www.amazon.com/BioBidet-USPA-Adjustable-Wireless-Elongated/dp/B007HIKR7O Increase your psyllium intake and get one of these. Less need for enemas.. unless you have a guest coming who requires extra room.

There are more than a few pro’s out there who do massage. It’s often limited to 60m, and it may not be fully interactive, but it’s a smart way of auditioning - you get a general sense of how you click, see most, if not all, of the Body in person. Feel for any talent in the touch. See the space. If he ticks enough boxes, tip VERY generously and promise to call again next week. Then do it, asking for escort time. You’ll both have more confidence, which may result in a better session. Just one idea from the peanut gallery...

50’s as in middle age, or as in the decade in “Happy Days”? Everyone’s equally exposed to mischief online if they have any device. If you are spotted on CCTV, it’s no big deal. In a bank, passing a store, crossing through the park - all easy to explain should images require your attention as a potential witness to criminal activity. Inside a specifically M4M space, ID on file, the questions asked might be a bit...difficult... Can I get you some tea, Pet? (That’s it! I’m taking a break from VERA...)

Fruit if with company. On my own, its peanut butter and dark chocolate. I will always lie about the quantity

In their heyday the anonymity of “the tubs” was the draw. They would be uninsurable without CCTV now, I bet There’s no hiding anywhere these days, so why not go out in a Blaze of Chlorine?

You have the right to refuse any client’s request to meet, for any reason or no reason. Whether they do/don’t give a duck about you as a person, or do/don’t take you seriously is part of the personal button-pushing I mentioned above - they sound more like the sort of complaint one hears from friends about a spouse or boyfriend. (“If he/she doesn’t quit it with the games, and start treating me like he/she cares about me and us, then... I’m going to break it off...”) If someone flakes, move on. Or fly me to your city and I’ll do my best to make you feel cared about. (I might even be persuaded to split the cost of a decent hotel room ?)

Jarrod, I have seen your advertising and you are an unbelievably sexy man. Shame on me, I never get back to the Heartland, because I would never flake on you after setting up. But from your posts here, there seems to be a lot about the business that pushes buttons for you in a personal way. The transaction is for the exchange of a pre-determined degree of personal intimacy for the agreed-upon duration. It’s a transaction, nevertheless. Some transactions go well, some don’t. They do not have the power to diminish any of your attractive traits, unless you grant it.