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The past has become infinitely closer for all of us thanks to FB, Insta, etc. Online, as well, you have the option to delete, unfriend and unfollow, and block if you have to. Move forward, you’ll be fine.

i think I can relate to this, @caramelsub I was targeted by sissy-haters from 4th grade through high school. (This was shortly after the Louisiana Purchase, for those who need a social context ? ) I was never beaten up, but a couple of guys wanted to take it there and I didn’t let it get out of control. I was not a “screamer”, but, being the all the hot girls’ best friend who was in plays, the Honor Society, and the speech club and always last-to-be-chosen in all sports, I’m sure everyone around me knew before I did. I do not look back on those days fondly. When in school, though, you did not have an easy option to truly separate yourself from other students who simply enjoyed making your life difficult. (These people go on to write and produce Realty TV shows) But ya know what? Now you do At work, aggressive or hostile behavior is prohibited by Labor Law. You are never required to socialize with co-workers, so pick and choose work friends carefully, and open up to those whose vibe feels right. Do be aware that sometimes coming out to one can be coming out to all. In public settings, you’ll unlikely be a targeted by anyone harboring anti-gay feelings, but just to be sure, don’t grab a random guy’s dick or ass. (You shouldn’t be crotch-brush close to anyone right now, right?) Seriously, most people (straight men) in most situations do not care. Homophobia is a form of ignorance and, like the other forms of it, will never go away. Avoid the high ignorance-saturated gathering areas, like NASCAR rallies, gun shows, Evangelical pancake suppers and Lynyrd Skynyrd Concerts. Live your life. Share it with people who appreciate You. When you encounter the odd situation that makes to feel threatened, just leave. But don’t go into a room assuming that everyone sees the big neon sign over your head that flashes HOMO, or the trail of pink glitter you leave behind. Because they don’t. Be polite, kind and funny, and see how many people won’t really care who you make out with.

An old favorite saying regarding fabulously over-the-top display of talent in service to celebration : Omg,.. this is Gayer than Christmas!!!

@guru68 has a theory... and if he’s correct, you may get one hell of a test drive. If Cody’s facing a slump in work (likely) and knows that clients may be curbing their disposable spending (likely)...his counter-offer may just be a path to win/win.

Austrian brands may be available at local book / sex shops in larger cities that sell them. The closest in every way to the original. Venom, 420, and Blackout are the 3 I’ve tried over the past year. Thumbs up to all. In LA,Chi Chi LaRue stores they carry only the larger size bottle, $50/ea. I dunk strips of coffee filter paper into the larger bottle, reseal, and put paper into small glass vial with tight seal. Refresh from original when needed, storing that bottle in cold. I make it last for quite a few months, as a 1-2 hit user.

I am now past a year since my last hire which was a massage. When the vaccine is is safely in wide use (my doc is on top of this) I will get mine. Until I am inoculated, I window shop, and have reacquainted myself with some old silicone friends and a half-decent back scratcher.

@TruthBTold I had wondered about that same set-up, and if it was meant to imply that, they were wise to leave it being an open question. Was the same young man part of their later meeting by chance?

Really good - a sort of magical quality to the relationship,

Paris 05:59 Interesting Canadian French-language Film, sort of a real-time late-night romance that begins with a pretty intense orgy scene. The actor playing Theo is very much like a young, curly-topped Mayor Pete. Lots of full frontal everything, great chemistry between the leads.

Maybe the client had very specific columnists face up on the pages open to receive the provider’s ...comments.

BEWARE!!!!! Asparagus.

The NYT has more easily accessible online content, imo, especially relating to arts, style food. WaPo has some political reporting and commentary I like and trust, but if I needed to eliminate one, I’d keep the Times.

Among my first pornstars were Casey Donovan, Al Parker, Leo Ford, Richard Locke - before I ever even hooked up with a man - on the big screen in Hollywood in the ‘80’s. I would have paid good money for Parker... There used to be much more variety among men acting in porn - the 90’s brought back the shaved body thing along with way more muscle mass, and everyone having tatts. I find all the (admittedly handsome) SeanCody/CorbinFisher type models to lack distinction from one another.

Please reply here if your recollection of actual porn stars goes further back than rentable VHS tapes ?

Why does going anywhere beyond my driveway seem so ...2019? I fear my next flight will be obligatory, under duress, for a family funeral. I need some aloha sooooo bad, but not for a while. Mainlanders bring disease. I sincerely hope Boeing has in fact resolved programming and operational issues. I’d expect, should one of their craft have so much as a squiffy landing, they may be through.

Ventura and Orange Counties in SoCal have been moved into the most at risk tier which may be a first since mid summer. The density in LA Co has kept it there for a while, and if numbers don’t shift into a positive direction pretty quick we will probably regress to full lockdown again. Selfish and Ignorant myfreedom-obsessed assholes have dropped another turd into the Holiday Punchbowl. Thanks, Murrica.

Well, the good news for those with an easily triggered gag reflex, rest easy - you are far more likely to encounter real fecal material in the course of regular old vanilla buttsex, than you are to accidentally see a clean rosebud after vigorous play.

An unparalleled mess. National rejection of science, in favor of capitulation to one sick ego. This is the new American Exceptionalism.

It is not unheard of, jizz is made to swim through mucosal liquids in the vagina and they’re different from those in your digestive track. If you have an empty stomach it may make it worse. VICE on swallowing

“Male Massage” = “The Good Part”

Thumbs up Ryan Philippe No really, that’s exactly where I would start... But my Hollywood bate bait was Alec Baldwin

Well, now we know Zac has a penis. It looked to me there’s a chill in the air. I am really Into his latest cubby stroller-meat daddy thing he has going on.

I almost agree - love the new conflicts being set up, but disappointing that Gillian is not hiding her work...

I’m sorry, I have trouble seeing the business sense in this. I get the whole fantasy that a client, or any gay man, might have that he’s the one person with a penis who can change this guy’s pussy obsession to include new love for the D I’d need an a-list HBO performance from a heterosexual to make that worth the gamble at their rates. Which, if they were capable of delivering that on command, would already be in HBO movies...

Akhnaten from the Met! fabulously theatrica!! Stayed up too late but I couldn’t stop. Made me check out Glass’s THE PERFECT AMERICAN on AllArts - really interesting and strong performances, (Teatro Real in 2012) and in hindsight of American branding in general, it’s pretty brilliant. Surprise of the show: The impossibly sexy Zachary James as the original animatronic Mr Lincoln (which I actually saw in Flushing Meadow in ‘64) was a striking dramatic scene,