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If only I hadn’t taken my crystal ball to the shop for a tuneup in January... Without its consultation, I have had to rely on my gut. It said no in March, and will probably continue to say no through early fall at least. Please stay safe, brothers

It’s hard to find a really good masseur. Good tops less so - they’re operating on instinct rather than training. Cross-check Rmasseur with Rmen in your area and use that to find your perfect tabletop...

If you are interested in having bodywork done, you’re going to want a guy who has a table. Unless he has a bed with a face cradle. You indicate that you are looking mostly to get fucked. If that’s the case, either bed or table can work. If both of you together would add up to 500 lb, then bed. Ask the provider how he usually works. I have had a number of great massage-plus meetings that were table only, and the segues from work to play were very easy.

For many, this is a hobby, likely one of several for each of us has. There are hobbies that require money, and those that don’t, and being wealthy provides less hesitation in that consideration. Look thru any craft supplier in store or online and you’ll find a hundred hobbies that can demand lots of supplies and equipment (and lessons...) that can add up to a couple hundred dollars monthly. I used to spend lots lots on CD music (classical mostly- lots of multi-disc items) and now I can get most of my appetite sated using platforms I’m paying for already. I’m not a good traveler, I love to cook, I’m not a fashion fiend - so airlines, hotels, and restaurants and clothing retailers get less of my money than they do of other people’s. Since I don’t travel my provider is likely to spend money I pay him locally. “Money is like manure - not worth a thing unless it’s spread around, encouraging young things to grow” Now, I’m not personally into ‘young things’ but my hobby money always results in ‘growth’ ??

It seems the need for personal anonymity for both client and provider (not including the guy whose parents actually named him Hot9inRocket..) can naturally breed mistrust. Emergency issues come up, but blowing off either way is not right. For providers: what can a first time client say that makes you comfortable enough to put the appointment in the calendar on the phone (just like going to a new barber) and then arrange subsequent offers around your need to keep that appointment?

Wow if you can’t find one in NY then it may just be timing - record numbers of young people are leaving the Big Apple for health AND finical risks. I bet you’d do better with an individual search for each locale that’s on your travel list. It’s a popular type in every city I would think, but not at all mine, so I haven’t noticed a decline in the frat type ads in LA that isn’t proportional to an overall reduction in active providers right now.

I think Murphy’s approach to this is very much his usual - strong style, good dialogue, and some great work from significant (if miscast) actors as well as fresh...faces. But the overall arc of the story is what I lose track of. It seems as though the larger point of the story gets divided and tidied into the social victories he’s romanticising. I do always love how he always gets Jessica Lange to walk a tightrope over the River Schmacting and never fall in. I think that young Mr Platt has a certain appeal, but I will probably never buy him as a character who is NOT rich and precocious. (Titular casting in this one therefore perfect.)

Are you offering a finder’s fee? I know there are threads in the forum that address this, but usually with specific locales in the titles. Do a couple of searches here or head to rentmasseur and search by city. Hint: cross check a masseur to see if he also has an ad on rentmen. You’ll be able to negotiate what you’ve spelled out with no problem I bet. We’re all sympathetic to the build up of ...frustration. Please don’t jeopardize your health. Do your research on the local situation re COVID-19 before you book!

No! No hairpiece unless you’re an actor, and only on a shoot or a stage! Covering your current real hairline with a piece or “system” is kinda like lying about your dick size: You can only get away with it for so long before the Truth Will Out. Now, being better at sex can forgive a number of exaggerations made online including hair color, D size and age. Isn’t it harder to be a great partner when you’re more focused on keeping your profile pic from coming off in his hand as he screams your name? Poor Sagat- that scalp motif is one of many tatts he has, which, along with his coloring, that...body, and other style choices, made it work...at first. The shape of the hairline was ill-advised from the get-go and can only do less to enhance his appearance going forward. I bet it did follow his own youthful (but probably very thin) hairline, the elimination of softness at the edge is not designed for the longevity he enjoys, and he’ll eventually have to relent to the imprint of his real hairline as it whitens, reducing his impressive Catalog down to the image of the one LEGO on the shelf that the maid missed when dusting.). Ditch the piece! Cut your hair as short as possible!! Buzzed, faded, shaved, whatever. it can be managed on your own (for life even...) for WAY less $$ than any artificial illusions. Instead: Think about using distraction to move the viewers eyes somewhere else. Like, try new facial hair options with your newly nude dome, especially if you are concerned about your head scale/shape in relation to your features or overall body. You’re not the bald guy, you’re the guy with the beard... Got shitty looking facial hair? Eyewear, corrective or not, can be anyone’s friend as you get used to the new balance of light and shadow looking back at you. You know where to go... take a brutally honest friend. Odds are you’ve already been some sort of “hat guy.” Be more of one. According to Randy Newman, You Can Leave Your Hat On. Or be less of one. According to Stephen Sondheim, it’s unclear whether Anyone...still wears...a hat. Bald is sexy and beautiful!! When will we disavow, once and for all, the obsessive human mythologies of Virility and Eternal Youth that make people volunteer to have surgery?? Whatever you’re genetically dealt, regardless of age, wear it as proud as you can. Keep it simple to manage. Cover/protect it with headgear and sunscreen, and for God’s sake, try not to make rash youth-grasping decisions that could deplete your savings and demand a full face of makeup and/or a turban to go out of doors when you’re 70... “Imperfections”... how sad that we’ve let them become such a threat to our value.

Good point. I guess I was thinking that regardless of the veracity of the posted reviews there are too many variables within the interaction to know how much weight to give them, so in a way they are only as true as you want them to be. A theatre critic will have a ticket stub to prove they were in attendance at least, so comparing opinions of a few who saw the same show is a real thing. They can have different views about the writing, the direction, the acting, the design, the lack of air conditioning- whatever leads them to their conclusions about the experience. To carry this example to our interests here, I think the nature of the encounter with a sex worker is so personal, that the evaluation of the meeting’s worth often dismisses the common understanding that “writing” is in fact different from “room temperature”. Both can be described as cold, or inconsistent, but ticket stub or not, most critics agree going in that those are different things.

Reviews by nature are subjective. You can read and categorize all the different comments, both good and bad, from all the available sources, and, if you hire, may have an actual experience that proves/disproves none or all of it. Between the “product” being reviewed and the “consumer” of said product, each can have the margin of error as high as 99%, which is standard issue for mortals, don’t you think? I think of the reviews as useful for refining the questions I’ll ask before we meet (never with “reviews have said...” but rather “I’m particularly interested in having A, B, and C being a part of our encounter” or “I’m happy to pay your advertised fee, but I would uncomfortable if you want to include X, Y or Z as a condition” In the end, your experience will be yours alone. This entire forum is KISS n TELL. No one is sworn to tell the truth, and anyone who has any sort of sexual encounter with anyone (of legal age and with their consent) still has the right to keep their mouth shut about it...

I can’t say that I’ve consciously sorted by favorites the recollections I have about them... the memories are often triggered by a specific visual cue, like watching porn or ...men in general, really, So I guess my memories of these lovely men are never the full scene - but a series of “trailers”. There is one guy who sometimes shows up in other peoples trailers out of nowhere... maybe that’s the guy you’re talking about...? ?

if you live in a community that can offer accurate testing, both clients and providers can be armed with current info on their own status which will hopefully simplify the negotiation process. Those of us who remember the days of a crucial moment interrupted by”oh shit I don’t have a condom, do you?” are now old enough that we don’t even go to Trader Joe’s without some planning. Do your research and stay as safe as you can.

I’ve only had that happen once, and came prepared with an insertable toy w/a handle. (We had discussed it as a possibility, but it worked out good- he had great upper body strength and terrific eye contact...) when hiring again I’ll make sure to have one in my handbag... along with my compact and comb

James Franciscus of “Mr. Novak!

LOVED that show but I did fancy the older brothers more (David “Hutch” Soul and Robert Brown..). Didn’t Bobby become n EMT or firefighter?

There were a number of Sports and TV stars who bared (most of) themselves for Playgirl, from the early days (‘70s) when occasionally women bought it...George Maharis, Peter Lupus, Lyle Waggoner, Richard Roundtree, Gary Conway, Fred Williamson... always went well outside my neighborhood to peruse or buy the latest issue - better than People Magazine!!

Well before puberty I knew what I liked VINCE EDWARDS , famous as TV’s Ben Casey https://www.google.com/search?q=vince+edwards+actor&client=safari&hl=en-us&prmd=niv&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiQ2p-3nbzqAhVBo54KHXgPD9wQ_AUoAnoECBgQAg&biw=375&bih=630

California no bueno - esp LA County. It’s hugely devastating to LatinX families who thru this whole episode have had to continue to work. Numbers still going up beyond increased testing. I’m thinking that the odds of coming into contact are as high or higher than April-May.

California no bueno - esp LA County. It’s hugely devastating to LatinX families who thru this whole episode have had to continue to work. Numbers still going up beyond increased testing. I’m thinking that the odds of coming into contact are as high or higher than April-May.

There are bigger out there. But ooooh, can that boy...........foxtrot

On a trip to SF a few yrs ago I stopped in at the NobHill theatre - it was naked nite for patrons and Ray was not on stage, but STOLE the entire show just walking around... I booked him later back in LA. - Fun relaxed session and would consider a repeat but his schedule has had him away from LA more often than not...

I think ‘Legendary’ must go beyond the personal infatuation of “the first” or “my favorite” I think a legend must have some longevity. I think their work on camera should display consistently what it is that the camera loves, not relying specific angles and lighting. I think a legend must have somehow made a difference in the art form. Only a couple of people above called out my choice: AL PARKER Longevity: He started by doing silent loops in the 1970’s, ushered in the full-length 35mm theatrical features with story, good pairings, and interesting locations. Started his own production company Surge Studios, and did writing and directing in addition to performing. All of his work made it to DVD format, and much of it remains available to buy or rent online. Assets: Parker was neither tall nor a muscle god, but had a well proportioned body that looked athletic, was not shaved, and was naturally tanned. He was versatile in almost everything and had a fun voracious streak. He had a bigger-than-avg cock that looked huge, veiny and great both soft and hard, and could deliver a serious pounding well before viagra arrived. But, he truly had one thing the camera loved most - his skin. it sort of glowed with health, from head to toe, and having seen him once in person it took my breath away. He had classically handsome facial features, and looked great in all iterations of haircuts and facial hair. Made a Difference: He used a lot of foggy dreamlike sequences that could give an odd star (Scott Taylor e.g.) a showcase, or and endless bounty of anonymous cocks, sometimes having the main action be part of a show for a live audience, etc. He used narratives around relationships, around anonymous hookups, and at a time when 80’s surfer twinks were everywhere else he was casting average looking hot men with natural body hair who were always engaged during the scenes. Surge may have been the first to use vacuum pumping in a scene, and his last video even featured his own cock after surgical restoration of his foreskin. He was also liked and well regarded by peers, and was so comfortable with all aspects of his sexuality that he made it all a joy to continue watching even after I came (twice!!) Make a effort to find his stuff - maybe you’ll see what was special.

How quickly legends are made there days.. Tempus Kardashiatus

Regarding the finger salute and the tongue thing in photos - it can be a capture of a moment, a funny response in ongoing private joke w/conversation between the subject and the photographer, or, it can be an affected (wink) pose overplaying the bad-boy image, or it can be a caught-off-guard moment of sincere disdain for...the camera?...the photo taker?...the business of escorting?...clients? Since I can’t know the context I must assume the worst is possible - that this provider has given me warning he’ll have no interest in engaging with me, that disinterest translating into a lousy session for both of us, and now he’s got money that could have bought me and a friend a nice dinner.