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Yes! Do cross checking to see how they present themselves between escort ad and masseur ad. It will give focus to your questions once you narrow it down.

In my entire life I’ve been in 3-ways twice, neither at my suggestion- one time I was the “prey” of two friends, and the other was a boozy mishap. Echo the “too many parts” idea. I probably would never actually hire two, unless I had a windfall of cash and just wanted to watch...

I would want a prior I truly liked to select a third he knows already, especially if they’ve worked together in this way. if you tell the prior what you want out of it, and he already has read your vibe on a meeting or two, maybe he has a couple of buddies to recommend as a good fit. If they already have broken their own ice it’s one less responsibility for you during the session. You can pre-discuss the goals and how attention is best divided for your taste. Obviously this takes more planning than U up?

A friend from the Midwest had a rather colorful extended family, including his grandmother who was jailed for a series of bad checks and his crazy uncle Dave who traveled with Ringling Brothers. The uncle would return for a week every 6-8 months, and tell the family about life on the road with the circus. Mostly he was very dissatisfied about how grueling and hard it was to do the work, which was looking after the large animals. Apparently, for all the years he’d been working, he spent most of his day mucking - cleaning up after horses and elephants - all day, every day, shoveling shit. Lots of it, and he went on for more than an hour this one time, describing in detail about the all of the shit. My friend said to him “Uncle Dave, why don’t you stay here and get a better job?” And Uncle Dave replied, “... and give up show business?”

Jarrod, pretty much every reply to your initial actual question has been “No” Take that advice to heart.

The discussion here shows 2 things about Covid: that public opinion about it, and understanding the scientific aspects of it, are in different places. Business operations will resume in full, including massage, at some point in the future. Businesses that can do so, have found a way to take into account the public health boundaries, and there are some service businesses that cannot, as the degree of social distance is incompatible with the service they provide. The virus does not change its behavior (finding any host it can) to accommodate human needs, let alone wants. The need for financial normalcy (and physical intimacy) has the power to negate, in public discourse, the scientific fact that the world is still struggling to stop spread, treat the illness, and save lives. As you think about hiring, act responsibly afterwards -plan to isolate yourself as much as possible and mask up always in the 14 days after - this is the way that the impact of your decision to take personal risk stops with you. Tell people you had contact with someone who tested positive afterwards and you are acting with an abundance of caution. (Or tell them that you really just broke down and had to have a rub-n-tug...) Get the massage. But be a decent person, and make the sacrifice after to not spread what might have spread to you in spite of best efforts. if you live alone and work from home it’s really easy. If there are others in your home from whom you don’t distance, change that for 14 days. The spread thrives on the notion of “it was just the one time” I have to abstain, so I do.

It’s an iPhone App called Contacts. You can make your own more concise list, by grouping client contacts into FLAKES, NEVER AGAINS or STINKY GREAT TIPPERS. ?

The American “it’s my right” attitude needs a big dollop of “it’s my responsibility” The chance of dying, or causing another to die, is greater when you don’t wear a mask in the proximity of other people. Has a single death been caused by wearing a mask?

Possibly from HooBoy definitely via Daddy’s reviews

If I won the lotto, I would have a masseur who could be on retainer at bedtime. I could fall asleep on the table (which would be mine) as he lets himself out. Then transfer to bed after I get up to pee... But I haven’t bought a lotto ticket in ages, so for now I like mid afternoons - before happy hour rush for providers

You make me blush, Sir Ben. ?

If you are near LA, Chi Chi LaRue’s new store, at the location where Circus of Books was for years, carries new brands from Austria. I can vouch for the brands called Venom and Blackout - closest to original amyl I’ve found in the states.

As a client, I accept the posted rate as the rate I would pay. Once we come to an agreement about expectations (mine, specifically...) I don’t try to negotiate that, period. If posted rate is well above average and it doesn’t line up with favorable reviews and comments here, I may ask some clarification questions. I live close to LA, and there are a number of higher prices among providers. I tend to avoid the big stars, so my options for moving on to another provider are better. Mostly, I find that sessions run long, service is great, and that providers have a nice experience with me. I tip well when it has exceeded what I wanted, and reboook soon after if I can. I’m simply not a haggler by nature - I’d rather do the research ahead, and choose to buy or not to buy, and the one exception is garage sales. You can pay a lot or a little - either way what you’re getting is as ephemeral as any memory. Why and how it clings, will be as much your responsibility as theirs.

True, and further, to qualify for insurance through Putana Health, you have to submit to an exam where you must prove your ass can take minimum 10” of cucumber. ?

If this is a hillside like others in the HH, do not fuck around. Not all of that area is on bedrock. Repairs that are up to seismic code run higher than first estimates, I’ve found. Some friends had to pay nearly double because of difficult access issues for equipment, had to hire a crane, etc. Do your homework and remember it’s a business transaction - falling in love with a house can be an expensive one-sided affair.

I don’t think it’s constructive overall to equate the preferences one has for a romantic or sexual partner with the way we categorize unacceptable racist/phobic speech and behavior that destroys the fabric of society in every other context. It’s personal. In the most non-public kind of way Personal. Calling out romantic rejection as racism can only confuse the importance of the real work at hand. We must focus on promotion of equality everywhere. But not in matters of the heart (or other sympathetic organs) The right to love and be loved comes with the right to break hearts and to have yours broken. Responsible application of the rights of love includes not being a dick about it, regardless of whether you have one, want one, want a certain one or none at all. Back in the day of meeting face to face, it was perhaps easier to engage and use conversation to steer a pursuer towards friendship or a friendly no thanks. The swiping action to “dismiss” a suitor has maybe made some people feel more casual about letting the suitor FEEL the swipe of rejection.

I’ve slept every way from fully dressed to starkers. I’ve slept in a cockring and even a ball stretcher, but having tried a buttplug and a thong, both of interest when I can participate, I find ALL my lips gotta breathe while asleep

Perhaps the OP refers to toys, clothing, or other gear when he said “etc” none of which are available for free (not new, anyway...) I would imagine any online store that takes Visa would accept the reloadable gift card as well - its not for an instant-access or ongoing subscription- it’s for merchandise that won’t be shipped without the transaction complete.

The art in acting is never letting them see your technique...

I don’t think @Unicorn was impugning your hygiene. (Dermatology moment- unless you are doing a full body scrub just before bed, the gentle abrasion of sheets overnight is enough to loosen and collect lots of dead skin cells ...clean dead skin cells...) the layer pj’s provide is easier to wash more often. But if it’s only yours in the bed you can go a week or so if most of your skin is exposed. Listen to your nose.

Some may want to limit new clients - fewer hurt feelings if they just eliminate some with price range

Patrica Nell Warren in THE FRONT RUNNER described male desire and gay sex several years before I’d allowed myself to experience it. I was rapt. Maybe worth a re-visit?

“Cut the cable!! Everything is streaming-watch WHAT you want WHEN you want!” Means “We aren’t going to make it easy AND affordable”

So, it’s been ruled out that a reality contestant might have just acquired some sense and left?

It’s in my queue Not really a spoiler, but it starts with “background” of theatrical released hetero flicks. (Well it spoiled my mood, maybe, so I will try again later...)