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I work(ed) within an industry that has always had lots of gay men, including several coworkers who cruise every hookup and hooker page - two of my (former) work comrades had shown up on an old rent-boy conglomerate page (m4m4rent??) and one of them I’d have hired if I had the money... But word ALWAYS got out if someone had nudes, or kinks in profile or on display. Or if someone had admitted they hired. Gossip gossip!!! Pick a little, talk a little, pick a little, talk a little... God I miss ‘em...

When pressed, and after a wee drinkie, I may have mentioned ...something... about the occasional engagement of a private therapeutic bodywork provider. My words of praise were more clinical than I might use in proper reviews and private thoughts...and basta. I, for one, must save something for a scandalous memoir

When asked where I’d like to vacation, I often replied “I’m booking a week on Eric Heiden’s thighs” lol

Seconding JEFFREY - the play was even better Don’t think I saw listed here LOST LANGUAGE OF CRANES with Brian Cox and Eileen Atkins. Heartbreaking.

If bottoming for hand or small toy, heed the guys above- fiber supps amazing! Once you see how well they work. Find your natural rhythm of elimination. A brief shallow flush 1 bulbx2 is all that need to follow if you’ve already moved bowels in solid condition. For deep play, I plan ahead, lower food intake day and a half before. Lots of liquid, an egg, a small salad, some fruit, Greek yogurt. no meat. No alcohol Same fiber. 4hr ahead of meeting: 1 round of 2-bulb clean out. Use shower shot only if needed: Med flow, warm, to a count of five, hold for 20 sec then expel. Repeat a couple times more until clear - use your body to help, isolating core muscles, leaning to one side than another as you expel. Breathe as you push out. Adjust quantity and hold time as needed. There is a learning curve. Having a long skinny 12-16” toy to do a final reconnaissance mission is a good idea. Done by 2hr lead time Lie down for 15m, followed by getting up and moving, stretching, breathing. Check in over toilet. Bulb rinse as needed. Then proceed with grooming routine. Try to allow your body its natural elimination process Douching above is NOT for daily routine. Only when a hand or silicone buddy might be in the vicinity of the ...holding bin Hint: day before use an emollient on your hole and taint (Vaseline, coconut oil, etc) so the imminent water-use doesn’t chap your ...lips. Reapply after wiping, etc and before sleep. Long Live the Home Bidet!!

It’s a joke for opera queens I guess... The voice category of a the big romantic male roles Wagner wrote is Heldentenor or, heroic tenor, characterized by big sound that can go all night. Make correlation as you will.

There was a guy I dated long ago who wore layered pastels with no shame, often quoted Bette Davis. Tallulah, Judy and Liberace and knew every Musical Ever When he had finished with me I felt as if had been turned turned inside out, without fail. Straight -ish or not, I had never come harder or laughed more. Packaging may not always guarantee a better result. For me, the only attraction in a straight man is if A) I know it for a fact, and B) I get to do something for/to him that his “girl” would Never Do. Ever.

Self reporting is cloudy... It’s akin to “” I’ve been absolutely faithful in our marriage “ Which lead to the notion that VD could spread via toilet seat... “I’m strictly a top” may be something never followed up through on when the client has thick 8””

The preparation time for a top is the time it takes to swallow a pill. The preparation time for a bottom (especially the Helden-Bottom...) is longer, so Bottom line...billable hours etc. His milage may vary...HMMV

First time I was ever a client (presenting tips for personal entertainment) was at The Gaiety in NY, in a side room stand up with a dancer whose nom-de-porn was Fred Slinger http://www.smutjunkies.com/profiles/s/i_stars/Slinger_Fred/index.html I thought, ‘this is pretty cool” So it was, So it is, So it shall be.

Been stumbling across some good Australian TV lately Not fully binging yet but have been enjoying RAKE on Netflix. Telecast 2010-17 I think. Contemporary courtroom drama, centered around a defense attorney who lives the low life, tries to be a good divorced dad, gambles with dangerous people, is hot and raggedy-handsome, even in the barrister wig. Lots of sex and nudity. Funny. Good twists.

Licensing agreements expire at different times, for different media distribution platforms. It’s happening on Netflix as well with no particular regard to content. Save the protest signs this time around... maybe be repainted for better use in the fall.

I think of Stripping as a skill that’s an ‘and’, not an ’or’ in terms of looking at rent.men PD lists all the normal BFE bodywork etc His services probably do include some stripping if requested. He’s the one who named himself dancer. Personally I find a trained dancer or gymnast (like some old chippendales) to be a beautiful thing to watch, especially up close, even more when the VIP room for a Private goes by my rules... and if as some claim here, the caboose IS the living end, he’ll know exactly how to pace for the big reveal. lol

His ‘Available for” includes everything BUT stripping. Perhaps his dancing is so private that it’s for his eyes only... Maybe for his cat? I bet THAT’s the upgrade he’s selling - to see him naked, you have to tip per item removed. Nothing less than a Jackson undoes so much as a shoelace... “Just walk around the stage in time in time to the music, and drop a shoulder strap at the end! You’re a Lady, Louise...”. Lol

About 8-9 years ago I realized that no one in my life but me was using a landline, and though I must keep it for connection to security service, I now use mobile for everything else. I had resisted, but missing out on things made me accept the inevitable. For some people “ringing” includes “texting”. Maybe it’s time to embrace the new. Just learn how to use settings to manage your privacy. I hope you can meet up with him.

It’s possible that the high shine is actually just buffed in as part of a standard gentleman’s manicure. It usually clouds over with a few days exposure Suggest he go and do some gardening or detail his car. Or if it’s an important detail that he needs to keep, you might come up with activities during the meet up that can keep his hands busy and out of your sight line. (Detailing Your car?)

Some providers really love to, but I doubt many would just dive in. They will sensually perform their due diligence and, along with testimony from you (you should be ? regarding your hygiene) then zero in on target

Oops.. had text window open Pork was delicious, thx

Car wash took twice - machine fritzed our 1st time. No HABIT store CLOSED ...? I’m ok w pork, we have a SW salad and fries in kitchen frzr

Good marketing pairs words and Imagery that create the need to have: “Suggested Preparation” for a packaged food “Multiple Ways to Use!” For any item from Lillian Vernon catalog “Take just one before bedtime, and wake up feeling Happy!! for All sorts of Rx medication

I’ve been compliant with isolation since Mar 1 Days and dates no longer have relative meaning... it’s either today, or it’s not

Jarrod, have you seen “Moonstruck”? Rose (Olympia Dukakis) converses w/ a man her age (John Mahoney) a professor who likes to fuck his female students, after he just got rudely and publicly dumped by his latest young thing. He asks Rose for advice. She warns him about mixing business with pleasure, relaying an old saying from her mother: “Don’t shit where you eat” Now, as a versatile ass-eater, I can see that the quote is ...clumsy, here. Your work is all about mixing business and pleasure. But understand, in this mixing, YOU are the one responsible for how much of your pro time overlaps personal time. It’s one thing to not be a clock watcher. From your post I take that you allowed him to spend time with you “dating” without compensation. Unfortunately, that’s what opened the door for misinterpretation on his part - he was being treated like a boyfriend for a minute, and because you also enjoyed spending time with him, you missed the opportunity to clarify your professional view of “relationship goals” with him. It’s the the messiest part in this sport isn’t it? - sex brings feelings and feelings blur the boundaries, which are the Provider’s to set and maintain, rather than the Client’s. You haven’t spent the money on a flight, right? You haven’t rejected local bookings, right? Lesson learned, move on. Accept it as a compliment to your skills at providing a BFE and hey, now you’re better equipped to tell the diff between crap and chocolate soufflé... Let the client know up front how your time on the clock works, and then stick to it. Date only guys who have never been a client, so as to not give the clients you have (and want to keep) from misunderstanding your attention and generosity with your time. Sorry it all blew up for you. You’ll be okay. Not all clients are pigs. ps In Moonstruck, Loretta (Cher) in reply to a confession of love, face-slaps Johnny (Nick Cage) not once, but twice... “Snap out of it!!”

I would also be interested to hear Admin weigh in here. I’ve submitted a number of reviews via Daddy’s that never posted, nor even gotten acknowledgement of receipt. No worries, I get he’s got more battles to fight at this moment than most of us, maybe others have better luck? M4M here, which used to be linked there, is completely separate from DR, I know. Is there another formal review submission process I don’t know about? Most of the info in the reviews I see at DR is basically just a cut n paste of the provider’s profile stats, or even less it seems, with little detail of the experience. Like a restaurant review “I dined at Maxim’s de Paris, in the Rue Royale, last Thursday evening at 9. They had food Items listed on the menu. There was decor around the interior, and chairs were provided along with the table. I asked for food, people brought said food to the table, and most was eaten”. Makes me want to...go? Or not? RentMen requires a VPN for US members to see their review details, so I neither read nor post there. Admin: Why would a non-specific narrative here maybe titled “a nice evening” recalling, in some detail, what transpired in a meeting with a non-named “_______” provider in a non-named “______” location on a non-named “_______” date be considered a review, compared to info within unblinded 411 posts here that name names and a lot more? It’s your sandbox, so I will accept your answer, hoping you don’t have to resort to quoting EveryMomEverywhere,“...because I SAID SO!!” I realize we ALL walk a thin line within this hobby/job of common interest, and perhaps you can expand on that re your policy? We can always DM the subject’s OP for the blind details if the read warrants, right? Palidod, above, is new, had his first hire, and is all but bursting to share his experience with kindred spirits he may not have IRL.

We are ensnared by the Convenience of devices that do SO MUCH SO FAST. It’s really engaging and interesting, helpful, efficient and fun! Social Media are brilliant, each in their own way, with promises of even more means of connection in the future... I axed home Alexa right after she responded to dialogue on a TV show with character ‘Alexis’ Siri on my phone is enabled only in Maps. The development of the whole convenience/speed/brilliance/connection is moving apace faster than we can consider the ethics and law around personal privacy. Which is a feature, not a bug, as far as manufacturers developers and ad-buyers go. I left FB in ‘13, for reasons which have been validated since, in every investigation and hearing with the Zuck in his booster seat. I must use email calls and texting to stay in touch, and then ask people about mutual contacts. Im not on any other social media that uses my name, or has any contacts, nor followers. That’s MY trade off. Sacrificing some connection and convenience for a little more privacy... I don’t get the amount of junk that others do, nor worry about the whole eavesdropping thing. Based on the business models, privacy is the pin to their balloons...

Two of my favorite guys (both combo massage/escort) have been present on sites as Available Now on and off, as well as traveling, throughout the quarantine period in SoCal. I may hit one up if the numbers keep improving in our area, starting with masked massage- one even works outside on his patio. It will take every bit of restraint I have to keep it to massage, but I really need the bodywork!!!