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It’s a question of trade-offs. I don’t hire on a regular basis. I allow myself the treat if I’ve been eating at home, avoiding online “boredom shopping”, etc. I have worked for non-profits my entire career. I’m better situated than coming generations who do the same work will be at my age. I was able to buy some rental prop in a good market, and income from that and the 401k is it. And right now, I only wear my summer diamonds. Some’re diamonds and some aren’t...

Seems so. But like they say, ‘if you push long enough and hard enough on a door that says “pull” you’ll eventually get in...’ ?

He offers massage, period, per those who’ve booked him and gotten a good massage. He offers massage, period, per those who asked what session includes, and got a disappointing reply. I’m guessing that he offers massage. Period. He probably could work at a high-end spa, but would give up control of schedule and fee-setting. Lots more providers out there, Jazboy

I used to bring my own bags, which is not permitted right now without having to step outside to bag your order. I don’t mind bagging - I always help with bagging (did help, anyway...) but the table for doing so outside the store is in full sun. I have been experiencing more pkg crushing, tearing and damaged produce and eggs since allowing store workers to do it all. Ah well. Grateful for ability to cook well, and for easy access to ingredients - right now too many in our world have neither.

I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s a legit AMW (Actor, Model, Whatever...) career that he’s after...offering legit massage and taking off clothes on basic cable does not mean anything about his sexuality, nor damage his career... which is on hold like everything else right now. Gorgeous indeed.

MikeBiDude and RodHagen understand the OP. Everyone else seems to think the OP was in a quandary about how to raise the children that will result from a single encounter...

Please don’t let us bond over common hates and dislikes... not right now...?

Please don’t let us bond over common hates and dislikes... not right now...?

Happened upon a podcast clip of two African American guys talking sex and a caller asked about this - one of the hosts said that he was uncut, and used a cotton pad or two with hydrogen peroxide swabbed all over the head and foreskin if anything seemed funky. I tried it and there’s no stinging or anything, so after a good wash if there’s an aroma give that a go

Happened upon a podcast clip of two African American guys talking sex and a caller asked about this - one of the hosts said that he was uncut, and used a cotton pad or two with hydrogen peroxide swabbed all over the head and foreskin if anything seemed funky. I tried it and there’s no stinging or anything, so after a good wash if there’s an aroma give that a go

I speak only for myself, but I consider even lame compliments part of the transaction. If the attributes being fictionalized in the moment were all true, I wouldn’t be paying to get laid, now would I? ?

You’re correct about the marketing! But most medical interpretations around prolapse are the result of accidental trauma - the notion here, of gradual and deliberate measures taken toward the control of the prolapse, is not factored in. When internal forcesapply pressure (google weightlifter + prolapse) the rectum pushes suddenly through the anus a lot of damage is done. ( Hark! Listen to your body!)

Chicago Symphony playing Mahler 2nd.

It’s a niche thing. Even guys who are real experienced with bottoming still would have to put more time and effort into isolation and control of the muscles involved, along with sheer will in the moment. It’s not “caused” by anything, it’s the result of physical effort and fun play with a partner who like seeing it. Don’t forget - the factory setting of the aperture is ‘closed’. A perma-gape would require regular extreme dilation (say, daily routine of sitting on a big cone- shaped toy and letting your weight help you down slowly and holding that stretch for a while. Thrusting action not a real factor - but slow and girthy toy play will allow both sphincter groups to be relaxed enough. Then when you “bear down” with lower abs, usually right after withdrawal of toy or hand, a small portion of the rectum will be visible, getting larger and as it passes through the anus, and will retreat once you relax. If you are not already into extreme penetration as a top, it won’t appeal. I have gotten mine to just peak out for a moment, and I haven’t been with a top who is a good coach for it- but some guys who worship hole are way into it, and know how to use play to make it more likely. Aging universally reveals new limits to your body’s elasticity, so using Kegels can help retain the factory setting of closed...

Personally I do not look for a mirrored experience, time-warped or not. When I was first out, my doppelgänger worked in a retail store I shopped. I would also see him out dancing, and my clubbing friends thought we should go out- or hook up. We never did, and I don’t regret it. My taste for older, ethnic and hairy men was there at that age, tempered by the youthful freshly-out need to say yes to everything once - or twice. If he’s decent looking, uses his writing skill well in his profile, I’ll investigate further. If he can make me laugh, he can make me come.

If only I hadn’t taken my crystal ball to the shop for a tuneup in January... Without its consultation, I have had to rely on my gut. It said no in March, and will probably continue to say no through early fall at least. Please stay safe, brothers

It’s hard to find a really good masseur. Good tops less so - they’re operating on instinct rather than training. Cross-check Rmasseur with Rmen in your area and use that to find your perfect tabletop...

If you are interested in having bodywork done, you’re going to want a guy who has a table. Unless he has a bed with a face cradle. You indicate that you are looking mostly to get fucked. If that’s the case, either bed or table can work. If both of you together would add up to 500 lb, then bed. Ask the provider how he usually works. I have had a number of great massage-plus meetings that were table only, and the segues from work to play were very easy.

For many, this is a hobby, likely one of several for each of us has. There are hobbies that require money, and those that don’t, and being wealthy provides less hesitation in that consideration. Look thru any craft supplier in store or online and you’ll find a hundred hobbies that can demand lots of supplies and equipment (and lessons...) that can add up to a couple hundred dollars monthly. I used to spend lots lots on CD music (classical mostly- lots of multi-disc items) and now I can get most of my appetite sated using platforms I’m paying for already. I’m not a good traveler, I love to cook, I’m not a fashion fiend - so airlines, hotels, and restaurants and clothing retailers get less of my money than they do of other people’s. Since I don’t travel my provider is likely to spend money I pay him locally. “Money is like manure - not worth a thing unless it’s spread around, encouraging young things to grow” Now, I’m not personally into ‘young things’ but my hobby money always results in ‘growth’ ??

It seems the need for personal anonymity for both client and provider (not including the guy whose parents actually named him Hot9inRocket..) can naturally breed mistrust. Emergency issues come up, but blowing off either way is not right. For providers: what can a first time client say that makes you comfortable enough to put the appointment in the calendar on the phone (just like going to a new barber) and then arrange subsequent offers around your need to keep that appointment?

Wow if you can’t find one in NY then it may just be timing - record numbers of young people are leaving the Big Apple for health AND finical risks. I bet you’d do better with an individual search for each locale that’s on your travel list. It’s a popular type in every city I would think, but not at all mine, so I haven’t noticed a decline in the frat type ads in LA that isn’t proportional to an overall reduction in active providers right now.

I think Murphy’s approach to this is very much his usual - strong style, good dialogue, and some great work from significant (if miscast) actors as well as fresh...faces. But the overall arc of the story is what I lose track of. It seems as though the larger point of the story gets divided and tidied into the social victories he’s romanticising. I do always love how he always gets Jessica Lange to walk a tightrope over the River Schmacting and never fall in. I think that young Mr Platt has a certain appeal, but I will probably never buy him as a character who is NOT rich and precocious. (Titular casting in this one therefore perfect.)

Are you offering a finder’s fee? I know there are threads in the forum that address this, but usually with specific locales in the titles. Do a couple of searches here or head to rentmasseur and search by city. Hint: cross check a masseur to see if he also has an ad on rentmen. You’ll be able to negotiate what you’ve spelled out with no problem I bet. We’re all sympathetic to the build up of ...frustration. Please don’t jeopardize your health. Do your research on the local situation re COVID-19 before you book!

No! No hairpiece unless you’re an actor, and only on a shoot or a stage! Covering your current real hairline with a piece or “system” is kinda like lying about your dick size: You can only get away with it for so long before the Truth Will Out. Now, being better at sex can forgive a number of exaggerations made online including hair color, D size and age. Isn’t it harder to be a great partner when you’re more focused on keeping your profile pic from coming off in his hand as he screams your name? Poor Sagat- that scalp motif is one of many tatts he has, which, along with his coloring, that...body, and other style choices, made it work...at first. The shape of the hairline was ill-advised from the get-go and can only do less to enhance his appearance going forward. I bet it did follow his own youthful (but probably very thin) hairline, the elimination of softness at the edge is not designed for the longevity he enjoys, and he’ll eventually have to relent to the imprint of his real hairline as it whitens, reducing his impressive Catalog down to the image of the one LEGO on the shelf that the maid missed when dusting.). Ditch the piece! Cut your hair as short as possible!! Buzzed, faded, shaved, whatever. it can be managed on your own (for life even...) for WAY less $$ than any artificial illusions. Instead: Think about using distraction to move the viewers eyes somewhere else. Like, try new facial hair options with your newly nude dome, especially if you are concerned about your head scale/shape in relation to your features or overall body. You’re not the bald guy, you’re the guy with the beard... Got shitty looking facial hair? Eyewear, corrective or not, can be anyone’s friend as you get used to the new balance of light and shadow looking back at you. You know where to go... take a brutally honest friend. Odds are you’ve already been some sort of “hat guy.” Be more of one. According to Randy Newman, You Can Leave Your Hat On. Or be less of one. According to Stephen Sondheim, it’s unclear whether Anyone...still wears...a hat. Bald is sexy and beautiful!! When will we disavow, once and for all, the obsessive human mythologies of Virility and Eternal Youth that make people volunteer to have surgery?? Whatever you’re genetically dealt, regardless of age, wear it as proud as you can. Keep it simple to manage. Cover/protect it with headgear and sunscreen, and for God’s sake, try not to make rash youth-grasping decisions that could deplete your savings and demand a full face of makeup and/or a turban to go out of doors when you’re 70... “Imperfections”... how sad that we’ve let them become such a threat to our value.

Good point. I guess I was thinking that regardless of the veracity of the posted reviews there are too many variables within the interaction to know how much weight to give them, so in a way they are only as true as you want them to be. A theatre critic will have a ticket stub to prove they were in attendance at least, so comparing opinions of a few who saw the same show is a real thing. They can have different views about the writing, the direction, the acting, the design, the lack of air conditioning- whatever leads them to their conclusions about the experience. To carry this example to our interests here, I think the nature of the encounter with a sex worker is so personal, that the evaluation of the meeting’s worth often dismisses the common understanding that “writing” is in fact different from “room temperature”. Both can be described as cold, or inconsistent, but ticket stub or not, most critics agree going in that those are different things.