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http://www.northhollywoodspa.com/index.html Vague memories of a couple visits decades ago. (The Compound at the time) I fell in love… …with the intricate and clever layout of spaces. First visit to a bathhouse, and at a slow time. 2nd time there was better. They have evidently reopened post Covid and I didn’t even know they were in even still in business. Grindrcide, I figured. But no! Does anyone have any personal experience in the last few -erm…years? That would have be a lot of skanky industrial carpet to replace 😈

This is eye-safe Face wash with no fragrance at all - your local TJ’s might have it. No irritation. Absolutely neutral-clean hole result - it’s all I use. Nourish All in One

Late bloomers often save the world by directing their “prime” energy into pursuits outside of themselves. If everyone “bloomed” at the same age there would be scores of human achievements that were lost to thinking with the wrong head. That may or may not be how you reflect on your past, but if a life-long instinct is validated, it throws new vistas into the horizon of your future. Now as to your present, you refer to marriage and religion as very important to you in how you’re living today. Some acceptance of cognitive dissonance may be required, and techniques to do that are on display everywhere these days. It’s also possible to be hetero-mantic and homo-physical at the same time. I think hiring is a good way to explore the physical. NSA is the default setting for expectations, which means you can explore and discover gay sex without immediately having to have emotional commitments outside your marriage. It’s also a conscious choice to be a student instructed by an experienced teacher. Some attachments may develop, however, and at some point you will have to reconcile this new part of your psyche with the older parts that have valued the simplicity and security of falling in line with community, church and marriage. If still sexually active with your wife be CAREFUL about protecting yourself (and her) from disease. PREP is great, even though it does nothing to resist STI’s other than HIV. “If I’d only known” is the verse to every chorus of The Blues. Just try to love yourself where you are now, and be kind to those around you who might be impacted by your new realizations. You will be fine

A few years ago I looked at the small remaining collection I had, saw that some images were ones I hadn’t seen since I first had the gay mags “on hand”. I scanned the ones I really liked and tossed everything. Now, about the VHS and DVDs….

It is all about keeping that part of the brain in shape. I worked with an actor doing Waiting For Godot - one of the two larger roles filled with repetition and non sequitur, and he had previously played two of the other parts, and had directed it twice. He worked day and night to get the words and all the stage business into his head. He was 74, and by the time we were in previews, he never dropped a word nor missed a show, and the performance just got better and better. He’d been doing 1-3 plays every year of his life. He was not a name. He was a brilliant craftsman who still knew how to access all his tools. Faye Dunaway’s tool kit is smaller, by nature. 90% of her work is on camera, created with 1-3 pages of words a day or week, and given retakes and editing to cover any slips. She may have never had a hard time learning what she needed in order to do her job well. She’s still a good (if slightly over-taut) actor, and should continue to play strong women on screen. When it comes to doing Broadway, or a National Tour - even 6/wk, she ought to avoid the inevitable scandal of failure, never ask nor say yes - just be happy with comps and opening night party invitation. Bless her cotton socks.

I had a colleague who did a play with Miss Faye 20+ years ago. She got through the run without a single member of the company who would talk to her by the final weekend. My friend said it was clear that Faye did not have memory capacity for long speeches and would regularly improvise text and stage action as she forgot. Muscles unexercised since her last time on stage failed the test. Being 80 is not an excuse for doing a shitty job and blaming others for it. Producers who don’t know how an actor prepares and paces themselves for a consistent performance, will hire a name not up to the task so long as it sells tickets. She does not need the money. If you’re 80, and sign a contract for a starring role 8/wk you better be Angela Lansbury. Miss Dunaway is not.

Yes to hole massage - big dicked tops should know how to do this before they use their size as an advertising feature!!!!There is no hole, male nor female, that will not benefit from a good bit of non-penetrating stimulation around and just inside. It makes the hole hungry, which is what allows it open more readily. And bottoms who like the idea of big ones need to douche well - not to have deep penetration but to give you confidence that you won’t pass anything when pushing out, which is another essential part to take something larger.

My first inclination is to play the audio from that portion, without sharing the screen, then rewind and show the action the second time. I will have heard it thrice, and my friend(s) twice. So I think it’s to make the replay important- when info is heard twice or more, it’s more likely to stick. Genius!!!! 🧐

Faye’s insecurity about her ability to do the work 8x/wk is at the root of her awfulness. These film stars who think “oh, I think I’ll go do a play on Broadway for a bit, that would be fun” are quickly in over their heads with the normal process of creating a play. Collaboration isn’t for everyone. She doesn’t need to retire, but will have more success on the screen, perhaps as a vicious in-law, or a bipolar CEO, or a faded actress that has no friends. Something closer to home.

Picture it… Spring of 1983, my studio apartment on a hillside overlooking Los Angeles Harbor. A tall, tan, strong-jawed/V-shaped man rolling around on the floor with me, him with the best body I had been with, and Me: too closeted, too skinny, inexperienced overall…but I must have looked okay, I was approached that night by him at Forced Heat in Long Beach (later home to Hamburger Mary’s) We clicked, we danced and drank, and made out a little. My place was closer than his, and so to the bed …and later the floor, where he wasn’t the first, but the first top with a technique to take me new places, and just that one night. A few years later, a friend and I spotted him on a gay magazine cover as “Brad Phillips” We laughed about the coincidence of both having had him for one night before he went pro - months apart, with different name, And then we laughed harder at the coincidence that he gifted each of us our first case of 🦀 crabs. https://thegay.com/videos/128148/butch-taylor-brad-phillips-casey-jordon/ In the video he’s the brunette ah, Liaisons…

I was driving all over today, so I celebrated only from below the seatbelt.

Poor Paul - unhappy genius Many warned to steer clear once the Smirnov got low “The meanest thing on four legs since Cujo.”

Bad form to neglect the nuts…

Do you need a butler? 🤔

Try to find if the local providers have OF or JFF pages. JFF in particular has no problems with videos showing more extreme activities. See what they do on camera for fans. It will provide at least some indication of their level of interest, if not skill.

Everybody has to have their piece of the action - no good deed etc. Shame. Why not pick a deserving student or two from the sites we use to search for the qualified people we discuss here… sponsor one at a time, and enjoy the… interview process. You want tax breaks? Buy bonds.

Ok by me. But then I simply must insist on Sampras and Gronk.

Is there another? I refuse to deadname. But seriously, wouldn’t a decathlon winner have the most stamina?

Caitlyn. To see the house.

100 miles? I love to drive, but 10mi is my max before coffee… I think it’s evident that people with that much free time should maybe try some decaf. 🥱

The second “moment” he finds important to communicate is PnP. Get him while he’s still got his teeth.

As my good friends, Chumba and Wamba said to me years ago… https://genius.com/amp/Chumbawamba-tubthumping-lyrics

Probably not. But I would totally support an organized effort to get more captains of finance and industry transported out of our atmosphere. They’re geniuses - they will find a way back.

Or worse…smuggling grapes