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The preparation time for a top is the time it takes to swallow a pill. The preparation time for a bottom (especially the Helden-Bottom...) is longer, so Bottom line...billable hours etc. His milage may vary...HMMV

First time I was ever a client (presenting tips for personal entertainment) was at The Gaiety in NY, in a side room stand up with a dancer whose nom-de-porn was Fred Slinger http://www.smutjunkies.com/profiles/s/i_stars/Slinger_Fred/index.html I thought, ‘this is pretty cool” So it was, So it is, So it shall be.

Been stumbling across some good Australian TV lately Not fully binging yet but have been enjoying RAKE on Netflix. Telecast 2010-17 I think. Contemporary courtroom drama, centered around a defense attorney who lives the low life, tries to be a good divorced dad, gambles with dangerous people, is hot and raggedy-handsome, even in the barrister wig. Lots of sex and nudity. Funny. Good twists.

Licensing agreements expire at different times, for different media distribution platforms. It’s happening on Netflix as well with no particular regard to content. Save the protest signs this time around... maybe be repainted for better use in the fall.

I think of Stripping as a skill that’s an ‘and’, not an ’or’ in terms of looking at rent.men PD lists all the normal BFE bodywork etc His services probably do include some stripping if requested. He’s the one who named himself dancer. Personally I find a trained dancer or gymnast (like some old chippendales) to be a beautiful thing to watch, especially up close, even more when the VIP room for a Private goes by my rules... and if as some claim here, the caboose IS the living end, he’ll know exactly how to pace for the big reveal. lol

His ‘Available for” includes everything BUT stripping. Perhaps his dancing is so private that it’s for his eyes only... Maybe for his cat? I bet THAT’s the upgrade he’s selling - to see him naked, you have to tip per item removed. Nothing less than a Jackson undoes so much as a shoelace... “Just walk around the stage in time in time to the music, and drop a shoulder strap at the end! You’re a Lady, Louise...”. Lol

About 8-9 years ago I realized that no one in my life but me was using a landline, and though I must keep it for connection to security service, I now use mobile for everything else. I had resisted, but missing out on things made me accept the inevitable. For some people “ringing” includes “texting”. Maybe it’s time to embrace the new. Just learn how to use settings to manage your privacy. I hope you can meet up with him.

It’s possible that the high shine is actually just buffed in as part of a standard gentleman’s manicure. It usually clouds over with a few days exposure Suggest he go and do some gardening or detail his car. Or if it’s an important detail that he needs to keep, you might come up with activities during the meet up that can keep his hands busy and out of your sight line. (Detailing Your car?)

Some providers really love to, but I doubt many would just dive in. They will sensually perform their due diligence and, along with testimony from you (you should be ? regarding your hygiene) then zero in on target

Oops.. had text window open Pork was delicious, thx

Car wash took twice - machine fritzed our 1st time. No HABIT store CLOSED ...? I’m ok w pork, we have a SW salad and fries in kitchen frzr

Good marketing pairs words and Imagery that create the need to have: “Suggested Preparation” for a packaged food “Multiple Ways to Use!” For any item from Lillian Vernon catalog “Take just one before bedtime, and wake up feeling Happy!! for All sorts of Rx medication

I’ve been compliant with isolation since Mar 1 Days and dates no longer have relative meaning... it’s either today, or it’s not

Jarrod, have you seen “Moonstruck”? Rose (Olympia Dukakis) converses w/ a man her age (John Mahoney) a professor who likes to fuck his female students, after he just got rudely and publicly dumped by his latest young thing. He asks Rose for advice. She warns him about mixing business with pleasure, relaying an old saying from her mother: “Don’t shit where you eat” Now, as a versatile ass-eater, I can see that the quote is ...clumsy, here. Your work is all about mixing business and pleasure. But understand, in this mixing, YOU are the one responsible for how much of your pro time overlaps personal time. It’s one thing to not be a clock watcher. From your post I take that you allowed him to spend time with you “dating” without compensation. Unfortunately, that’s what opened the door for misinterpretation on his part - he was being treated like a boyfriend for a minute, and because you also enjoyed spending time with him, you missed the opportunity to clarify your professional view of “relationship goals” with him. It’s the the messiest part in this sport isn’t it? - sex brings feelings and feelings blur the boundaries, which are the Provider’s to set and maintain, rather than the Client’s. You haven’t spent the money on a flight, right? You haven’t rejected local bookings, right? Lesson learned, move on. Accept it as a compliment to your skills at providing a BFE and hey, now you’re better equipped to tell the diff between crap and chocolate soufflé... Let the client know up front how your time on the clock works, and then stick to it. Date only guys who have never been a client, so as to not give the clients you have (and want to keep) from misunderstanding your attention and generosity with your time. Sorry it all blew up for you. You’ll be okay. Not all clients are pigs. ps In Moonstruck, Loretta (Cher) in reply to a confession of love, face-slaps Johnny (Nick Cage) not once, but twice... “Snap out of it!!”

I would also be interested to hear Admin weigh in here. I’ve submitted a number of reviews via Daddy’s that never posted, nor even gotten acknowledgement of receipt. No worries, I get he’s got more battles to fight at this moment than most of us, maybe others have better luck? M4M here, which used to be linked there, is completely separate from DR, I know. Is there another formal review submission process I don’t know about? Most of the info in the reviews I see at DR is basically just a cut n paste of the provider’s profile stats, or even less it seems, with little detail of the experience. Like a restaurant review “I dined at Maxim’s de Paris, in the Rue Royale, last Thursday evening at 9. They had food Items listed on the menu. There was decor around the interior, and chairs were provided along with the table. I asked for food, people brought said food to the table, and most was eaten”. Makes me want to...go? Or not? RentMen requires a VPN for US members to see their review details, so I neither read nor post there. Admin: Why would a non-specific narrative here maybe titled “a nice evening” recalling, in some detail, what transpired in a meeting with a non-named “_______” provider in a non-named “______” location on a non-named “_______” date be considered a review, compared to info within unblinded 411 posts here that name names and a lot more? It’s your sandbox, so I will accept your answer, hoping you don’t have to resort to quoting EveryMomEverywhere,“...because I SAID SO!!” I realize we ALL walk a thin line within this hobby/job of common interest, and perhaps you can expand on that re your policy? We can always DM the subject’s OP for the blind details if the read warrants, right? Palidod, above, is new, had his first hire, and is all but bursting to share his experience with kindred spirits he may not have IRL.

We are ensnared by the Convenience of devices that do SO MUCH SO FAST. It’s really engaging and interesting, helpful, efficient and fun! Social Media are brilliant, each in their own way, with promises of even more means of connection in the future... I axed home Alexa right after she responded to dialogue on a TV show with character ‘Alexis’ Siri on my phone is enabled only in Maps. The development of the whole convenience/speed/brilliance/connection is moving apace faster than we can consider the ethics and law around personal privacy. Which is a feature, not a bug, as far as manufacturers developers and ad-buyers go. I left FB in ‘13, for reasons which have been validated since, in every investigation and hearing with the Zuck in his booster seat. I must use email calls and texting to stay in touch, and then ask people about mutual contacts. Im not on any other social media that uses my name, or has any contacts, nor followers. That’s MY trade off. Sacrificing some connection and convenience for a little more privacy... I don’t get the amount of junk that others do, nor worry about the whole eavesdropping thing. Based on the business models, privacy is the pin to their balloons...

Two of my favorite guys (both combo massage/escort) have been present on sites as Available Now on and off, as well as traveling, throughout the quarantine period in SoCal. I may hit one up if the numbers keep improving in our area, starting with masked massage- one even works outside on his patio. It will take every bit of restraint I have to keep it to massage, but I really need the bodywork!!!

As they used to say on “Spartacus” GRATITUDE I’ve had several meh-ssages. Only one that left me feeling screwed over was from a guy who had JUST moved. Like that morning. I think I booked 4 hrs ahead. (Thought me to book no less than 24...) He should have said no and offered an appointment a few days later, and NOT booked anything. I tipped nada and explained why. Massage itself was among the mehs, but he had to use my time to hunt for everything, and hadn’t even unpacked a towel for the shower. But he did have a pretty penis, bless his little cotton socks.

Congratulations! Can you share where you posted your classified? Were you specifically looking for straight and/or married and then chose where to place the ad to target more purposefully? I have no doubt of your honesty but if I read this anywhere else but THIS forum, it might seem like something from the old Penthouse Forum (for the kids: it was an adult paper publication from the last century...)

Sorry xyz, you’re right. I think the nature of the responses here led me astray as to your ask. Aside from Rod Hagen who gave an answer about proportion, majority of the replies (from clients...) seemed to address quality not quantity. And I should ask Mr Hagen directly about the QUALITY of his fingers... ?

Perhaps the framing of this original question looking for negative info opened a bigger can of woes than can be helpful If I might seek input from providers, as I am Asking an Escort: What are the behaviors that I, as a client, can exhibit before/during session that would make me more desirable as a return client? (Let’s assume that respectful contact, punctuality, and good hygiene will be on every provider’s list, as well as being a generous tipper after...?) Thx

He’s really just a late 70’s version of “the Nance” - a stock male character from 19-20th Century plays and Vaudeville meant to be a comic, intelligent, non-threatening version of the Greek Chorus to comment on ensuing action. Stephen Stucker never had the success of his forebears like Edward Everett Horton, Franklin Pangborn, Paul Lynde and Billy DeWolfe. He was perfect in Airplane.

DO NOT REPLY. Block the number. Anyone who is a friend or relative with a changed number will find another way. Once you respond, the bot will circulate your valid number. it will open a floodgate.

I made a bucket (pronounced ‘bouquet’) list when I first tested positive, long before A Bucket List was a thing. As HIV treatment was still in it’s infancy, I was only one test or clinical trial away from the decline that could be fatal. On the list: mostly things I wanted for me; Living to see big birthdays... finding the One, making a nice home together, exploring some extreme sexual boundaries. Looking waaay back as it was literally half a lifetime ago I can say all those boxes have been ticked, and then some. Now...As I am slowly drifting into retirement thanks to Covid Closings, I see my next list as mainly things I must do for others to help bring about the social change mandated by BLM, MeToo, Marriage Equality and other advocacy groups for civil rights.

My two favorite moments: Elaine recounting her early relationship with (Hayes) on a mission in Africa where she’s teaching poor village women how to use Tupperware to keep hot dog buns fresh to “stretch your food dollars” And of course Ethel Merman...