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No matter the troubles- a little schmaltz can’t hurt Thx!

I can’t imagine how difficult it is for any parent who realizes their true sexual identity AFTER their commitments to spouse and/or child. I almost took that path before the right opportunity extracted me geographically. Sadly others do not get that chance, and are left to come out, without allies, to endure the ostracism, or put on the act to please their family and church/community, seeking surreptitious sexual exchanges that feel more true, and hating themselves for it. Their children often bear undue burdens - anyone see “Fun Home”?

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I think this is yet another fashion worn best by the young

I added AllArts channel to my Hulu Channels They have a collection “Never in NY” with really wonderful/trashy Euro productions of symphonic music, Dance Opera, and Theatre, in addition to a lot of the Great Performances archive that is now behind PBS paywall. Nudity may be present, fair warning... Unlike Met on Demand...?

Parker https://rentmasseur.com/ParkerMatson

I would probably not hire someone who claims to be straight. I already know that providers have to feign attraction to some degree, why add to that burden? Nevertheless, I would jump at the chance to convince MSNBC’s Ari Melber that he does like having his ass eaten ?

One thing I’m considering as Tinseltown still grapples with its “curve”, is booking someone who can really put on a great show... from a few feet away. Does anyone have rec’s for a guy in LA (age, race less important than cocky confidence) who has a smile, a nice ass, great moves, and would love to show off and tease? I’ve never been to Adonis parties but would guess someone who has a following in that world, with a RM profile, would be the right direction! If I have an open cup of urine sitting somewhere in the room I could pretend I’m at the Gaiety or Nob Hill...? Thx!

Ozark. Gives me someone new to fantasize while I ‘bate, man.

As a friend said when he heard this report, “...okay then. Now I literally have NO reason to go the mall.” Stay alert, kids

Grazie I’ll give that a go

Not so long ago, I could copy the provider’s page url and paste it into the search bar in the related forum or thread. No good now. Search by name still has the too few letters thing. Using iPhone safari. Do I need to edit the link somehow before pasting here? Thx

Your first shouldn’t break the bank - don’t INVEST in toy play until you know you like it (which could be 10 min after you unwrap the toy) Water based lubes work with all materials - use plenty of it. Avoid toys that are made of TPR - a hybrid rubber silicone known for realistic feel. (Some brands call this silicone - unless it says 100% platinum cure silicone, that’s not true, and many guys find the TPR material irritating to sensitive tissues.) That leaves rubber, vinyl and silicone. In order of price range. Do you want a realistic dick or something that is function-designed to hit certain areas? Or stretch you a bit beyond the cocks of partners you’ve had? Before shopping have a numerical value on mind for insertable length and girth (circumference) As a reference, Average Penis size of guy considered “hung” will closely resemble 7”L x 5.5“C. Adjust those values based on interest in more or less. Ignore any product description of width. It’s irrelevant That said, I’m a convert to silicone only for me. We may be in lockdown for a while (or again). Start here: https://www.mrhankeystoys.com/online-store/XTRA-SMALL-DILDO-SERIES-VARIOUS-SIZES-p131113034 To answer directly your Q’s My favorite (gets most use) is Mr Hanky’s Lampwick Lg. My usual session starter is Mr Hankey’s Topher Michaels M My largest is Mr Hankey’s ElRey XL Search around from above link. Mr S Leather also a good selection of the line, and carry other great brands in silicone, vinyl and latex rubber. Lube up, start small, and prepare to have the most fun you can have alone! (When new hobbies come up over cocktails on Zoom, just say “quilting”.)

When it’s seamlessly worked into a sensual massage, prostate stimulation can be magic!! Your hygiene is essential for this, plan accordingly. In whatever locale you want this to happen, do cross-platform research. Start with masseurs, find some you like who do sensual and erotic massage. Check on escort sites to see if they also advertise on one of those. Between Daddy and the reviews on each site, along the 411’s here, you might rule out one or two. If a sensual/erotic masseur has good reviews, AND is available for more directly sexual services, he‘s the (first) one to ask. Tell him what you’re looking for and what you’re not. If he doesn’t get it, thank him and move on to the next. Odds are you’ll find the right table to be on sooner than you think. Keep in mind there may be providers who are not available for their usual services right now. A post-hunkering search might be required... If the only thing that has ever been up your bum is a doctor’s finger, get a small dildo and acquaint yourself with sensations that it brings - perfect instructional new hobby while in self isolation. Even if it’s not the hobby you’ll chat about on zoom with Mother...but then, I don’t know your mother. Good luck!

It was probably easier to enjoy this if you have no knowledge or connection whatsoever to the pictures, the stars, the fashions and the real life issues at stake during the 1940’s. A documentary it wasn’t. Murphy always gets good performances out of people, and knows good eye candy. Especially fun to watch Jim Parsons play someone so toxic. p.s. Not enough hats used on the ladies. I recall that I never went to luncheons without one...?

It was probably easier to enjoy this if you have no knowledge or connection whatsoever to the pictures, the stars, the fashions and the real life issues at stake during the 1940’s. A documentary it wasn’t. Murphy always gets good performances out of people, and knows good eye candy. Especially fun to watch Jim Parsons play someone so toxic. p.s. Not enough hats used on the ladies. I recall that I never went to luncheons without one...?

Aw, gee whiz, Wally... a guy can’t catch a break! I was hoping maybe Aug-Sept, but the latest news on the mighty-morphin -power- virus pushes that further away for me now.

Short documentary series ABSTRACT: The Art of Design. Fascinating look at well designed projects and artworks around the world and the people who create them.

Per the OP, it was info FROM DudeWipes PR shop that raised the question about showering. Very effective, don’t you think?

Per the OP, it was info FROM DudeWipes PR shop that raised the question about showering. Very effective, don’t you think?

Wklukas has it right - U-spa is one brand of toilet seat bidet. It’s brilliant. Dude Wipes are much easier to carry, tho? Love that single wipe pkg over cottonelle travel pack. They need a new slogan - Stay clean whether coming or going.

I love DudeWipes when not home with my U-Spa Perhaps the DUDES were hoping LOTS of guys of every age who ejaculate into clothing or sheets (dreaming or awake) might feel that showering is too much effort and that grabbing a soothing wipe to collect what will later be crusty and uncomfortable would be soooo easy... DudeWipes: not just for brown stuff! I think I had one wet dream as a kid but once I figured out wanking, wipes would have been so much better than socks!

Anyone recall LA’s Century Theatre near Normandie on Hollywood Blvd? That was where the 1st runs of 70’s-80’s gay porn played, before we had VCRs at home! Extremely cruisy and as it was a full sized auditorium there were enough dark spots to engage. I always sat in back at first, to let my eyes adjust to the dark. I would enjoy the novelty of seeing these images, but more intriguing was the shadow puppet show between me and the screen as guys cruised and pursued one another. They’d either stay seated together or one got up to move- sometimes to get away, sometimes to take it to the dark. There was a thumping whenever the seat lifted up, and if it was busy it became a kind of rhythmic music of its own for this absurd ballet. After getting an idea of who was checking me, I would join in. But only rarely did I go beyond a pinch and a nibble - too shy, and there was an usher with flashlight that would occasionally patrol up and down the aisles, jingling some keys as if to warn. A thrilling and seedy-ish way to be educated about sex, all in all

Sounds really hot, but not as safe as if you were to blow each other... ...kisses from across the room. ?? Comes back to Risk/benefit ! ! And don’t forget to factor risk to family or roommates you live with, if they assume you are abiding by guidelines. Please stay well!

Adam/Max has always ticked all the boxes for me in his profile but I was never sure of his where and when’s. One phone call clarified how he’s simply abusing the system he’s paying for. I’m cool with the multi-locale thing, even with a different name for each. But not when they come up as ‘AVAILABLE NOW’ In each locale. Surely a little bit of code would fix it. Even if just for members. Providers can’t be held to forensic standards of accuracy in how their photos and words portray them. But the single location of the single human being who is the provider is simply a data point. Why couldn’t providers be required to have to ping the app from a location within X, (max time or milage) from a locale they offer “NOW” or the green light doesn’t go on... C’mon, RentMen. You can do it.