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Chat Show hosts are characters played by the actor who shares the same name. They do it because they are good at it on camera, and because it pays extremely well. Not because they are highly moral, generous, and considerate. They might be, but with similar limits to their social gifts and obligations as we have. Artistic Temprament, it’s called. Johnny Carson had his favorite guests, but in person he was rarely the smiley sorta goofy Midwest boy making it in the big City, and was often grumpy, short tempered and potty-mouthed with staff. Letterman was known to have a few anger issues as well. Oprah, who seems to be intensely engaged with her guests, retreats to seclusion at every break, and has been known for being dismissive of guests that she doesn’t know. Fallon is not nearly the carefree upbeat funny man he plays during his show. How could he, or anyone, maintain that? Beware confusing the public personna with the human being who plays him/her. They are the same only in our minds. (Lucy Ricardo is not Lucille Ball. Both go by Lucy, however...) But, as the face of The Program they are always going to have to answer for trouble and gossip about backstage life and their staff, in order to protect the Brand. The sort of insensitive or mean behaviors in these work environments are not new nor exclusive to show biz. But somehow we react with shock as though it were a relative or close friend, “oh no, Not Ellen!! I know her! She’s too nice!!” Well, you don’t and she isn’t. She’s a fiercely driven business woman who is also a real estate shark. With great comic timing. I can’t see how this revelation affects anyone who’s not currently in the show’s employ. Just like the Tonight Show, The Late Show, and Oprah, “The Ellen Degeneris Show” is a performance. Period. Try not to elevate the artists above the work they share with you.

Ive never hired an overnight service. I doubt that I ever would, unless we had met successfully several times, had some mutual interests outside of sex with men, and a great personal chemistry close to friendship. If I feel like my desired outcome with a provider require more time, I may ask for up to 2 hrs at full hourly rate. The provider may offer something of a deal for multi hours, but before I even send the first text I assume that I will pay per hour as advertised. I will often book a 90m massage because that’s how it benefits me the most - a lot of masseurs and even spas advertise a rate for that duration. If massage is not part of our time together I never start with more than an hour. If we’ve both had a good time with that, I may ask for more next time.

I am reading unspeakable fIlth Too Much and Never Enough by Mary Trump I love twisted psychological suspense. but in this one, we already know it ends badly with tens of thousands of body bags, and a population of potential victims awaiting salvation. Hope the movie will add some humor.

Isolation during quarantine has allowed me to grow a “pfuckit” beard. It’s coming in quite lush, and now that I’m older since my last effort which remained trim, this more dramatic contrast of dark and white looks better, and the texture is lot too wiry so I’m letting grow into something I can sculpt into an angular shape like this guy (who is not me sad to say: https://images.app.goo.gl/JJeKrBjPK6KEVkZt8 Keeping sides of hair tight and faded. Top still finding its way. Have not met up with anyone since January to get feedback about how beard feels between their cheeks...if it was scragglier I would have turned back. I’m pleased how it hides some chins. Cooler than a turtleneck, and less work than a jabot...

While watching the news, who DOESN’T dream of having a magic bullet?

JimJim looks attractive enough in the photos he displays. Odds are these short hops all over the civilized world (and Indiana) are paid for by clients. Or perhaps his day job requires irregular travel. I’d chalk it all up privacy concerns either way (if he’s not even disclosing his natural origin, he may be throwing people off any scent that can be traced to his family.) I’d move on if I were you... his type is not unique, right?

Closure of venues and more time at home has given us access to streamed concerts, recitals, and full operas. I’m loving it, even for one-off enjoyment. But the range of literature stays mostly within standard repertoire. Who’s digging into their neglected trove of collected recordings, and what is recapturing your imagination all over again? (My collection including vinyl goes back half a century...but is mostly CD) For me, Nicolae Bretan’s 1-acts, Golem and Arald. Along with Goldmark’s Königin von Saba. Late romantic schmaltz that was the forebear of cinematic scoring. How about you?

>>Insert last lines of DINNER AT EIGHT here<<< Sometimes a task can be accomplished more efficiently and cheaper with applied technology. Sometimes it requires hand work tho, and the customer pays more for the quality, and the flow of cash to the deserving merchant makes it to other local businesses as well. We’re not in a buyer’s market nowadays. Spend wisely and generously when you can.

I can’t say that there are any “pornstars” that I would jump through hoops to meet, though I get it for those who do. My exposure to many video husbands over the years has made me more or less aware of who’s out there, and sometimes I will spot on rentmen a name or face or... that sparks a recollection. I’ve read interviews with actors who are into the sex on camera, but would not escort. I assume most don’t. In scenes, they get paired with another insanely hot guy, which is the exception rather than rule with service work. Men 30++ for me, no smooth frat boy types. Both on screen and for-hire, there are simply fewer I’d ever call. I do enjoy focusing on a scene or two AFTER, though, and that extends the life of our visit.

Money can’t buy happiness... But it sure can upgrade despair.

It is a compilation of many recent annual performances - you would likely get only group lists per annum. Dont forget to donate with the link provided!!! These Brilliant and sexy kids are looking at a year (at least)of no work, based on where we are today.

Divining Rods and carrier pigeons

I enjoy the pre-procedure fast. I do it for 48 hrs and by the time I take the flusher liquid there’s a lot fewer solids. Have never found prostate exams to be painful. I also remain awake for colonoscopy - would not for endo. Pain in colonscopy is really no worse than a temporary gas cramp, because of the small amount of air pumped ahead of lens to allow it to get clear images. If my 85yr old mother could do it, I figured I could too. Boy they really pushed hard on the twilight sleep, and I had to sign extra documents to waive it. I love it for longer dental procedures though...

Happily donating. It’s an event that has never played as well for me on camera as it does onstage. Given they never full monty, the eroticism exists in eye2eye contact with the audience, which they don’t do often when performing book musicals. They’re always beautiful men and women and are crazy talented every one. Maybe next year will return to in-person...

Greetings from beyond... I never succeed pasting YouTube links here. But the clip is called ‘Foreskin Restoration” with Al Parker being interviewed on a local news telecast in the late 80’s. No “before n after” shots, sadly, but interesting to hear his voice on the subject. Just as some object to having been born tall, or short, some regret not inheriting an eggplant sized dick like their cousin did, and thus we manage to play the cards we’ve been dealt, Foreskin included. But parents make that first critical discard before you even know there’s a ...poker...game, and too often to avoid being shamed by some of the other adults in their community. I have to ask “why is an infant’s pisher that often on display?” A society in which circumcised is the prevalent trend will create outcast status for intact guys, and vice versa. Foreskin demands some additional and intimate “how-to” instruction from parenting persons, which some are good at, and others not so much. One learns over time. There are only 10% of men who will ultimately obsess over this relative to a partner. I would guess the percentage of straight and gay men who would go through surgery as an adult to solve a non-medical problem (e.g. phimosis) is pretty low. We imagine the pain will be bad, the recovery too long, and don’t want the risk that a simple miscalculation could create a frankenphallus. Such procedures will only get more advanced, as there is never a shortage of vain dickheads with money.

I’m usually satisfied with the same and what goes in comes out right away. Perhaps some people who need to clean deeper use a method where more fluid is used and held in while lying down. Perhaps the longer contact requires a more saline balanced solution. I also use plenty of coconut oil or Vaseline around and just inside the hole before beginning to prevent irritation there, which can really put a damper on playing.

personally complemented by this sentiment! But it’s not quite the witty catchphrase In response to “Okay, Boomer”

I haven’t seen live pussy in 40 years. I would really only want to study it and I’d tell her I’m a gay man who’s in need of 60min of respectful edification - smart funny potty-mouthed show-off...like Annie Sprinkle and her Public Cervix Announcement Oops - per Wikipedia Annies fanny now older than that one from 40 years ago... But other women would be out there. It would be a brief expensive one time hoot, like the Magic Castle, but without a dress code Good luck with your friend’s pursuit

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/sensuous-vs-erotic-massage.159134/ Up your Odds of having the Erotic Massage move further toward BFE Escort service: A: Be better-looking, hotter, younger, and more hung than the masseur.and show proof when booking. B: Pick the right man at the perfect moment. Be lucky. C: When contacting, booking, negotiating, confirming, preparing, and meeting don’t do ANYTHING that’s remotely dickish or stupid: follow directions in profile, be generous, warm, flexible, truthful, considerate, hygienic, a terrific Host or Considerate guest, and then be prepared to pay his Upgrade if the erotic massage he’s providing if is insufficiently erotic. (You might be surprised at how far his erotic massage actually goes beyond a Rub’n’tug!) Now, if you don’t think Upgrade is the right move in the moment be honest, polite, expressively grateful (tipping) and remember this is your first encounter, kind of like a mutual audition, and if the erotic connection seems real, you can book his Escort session later. You will have gotten 1st time over and now you know his skill level, and he will have high regard for your behavior as an excellent client. Worst case is that you got a good-to-great massage and some nice access to his assets, and your climax was way above average. D: See A

Recommended (7/30/20) for South Florida: GET OUT. I feel for you, a flukey time to be stuck indoors avoiding storm in a COVID hotbed! It’s likely too late to leave...Please be careful, do not get stuck in a place forcing you to hunker down with strangers...or worse yet, family.

Some escorts have been offering great service for a few years, from which they have a great rep among a stable of devoted regular clients along with their personal referrals - that can make advertising and reviews non-essential to fulfill the income level they want. Sometimes this explains a 3-yr lag in reviews, along with non-responses. Ads are only discreet reminders to regulars, not for building business. Who wouldn’t like to be able to be a preferred regular client?? $$$ (This is how certain celebrities avoid leaks... lawyers and lovers, keep one of each on retainer.)

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In the broadest of terms, the ‘sensual’ is with client undraped, consists of mostly body-work, on table or mat, with your release, and may or may not include nudity and/or mutual touching of the provider. ‘Erotic’ can be simply an enhanced version of their ‘Sensual’ with less body-work, but more contact with provider, who would more likely also be nude for all or part of service. Or it can include oral stimulation, reciprocal or not, full body contact, digital or penile penetration, or might even move to bed and basically be a full BFE. In short, the difference is whatever the provider says it is... I sometimes really want the bodywork, and other times I want more full contact and access to the masseur’s body. I think it’s best to speak via phone, say “I’m looking for something like a legit spa massage but with release” or “I’d be interested in your most interactive service - can you tell me what might look like?” The nuance in his answers may be more telling if it’s not all via text. YMMV and as 45 often says, EMJOY!!!

All in for being honest. I’m a client and I always disclose. I rarely ask if not evident in the profile. But I’m caucasian, and therefore have not been subjected to rejections and conflict based on race which is 180 degrees from the experience known by too many people of color, here and all over the place, in uncountable ways, every damn day, for centuries. The System is finally under needed scrutiny, making us all hypersensitive about how we reconcile it in ourselves in this time, and how we can act in positive ways. Professional, financial, judicial, educational, and other means of discrimination by race, have to be course-corrected immediately, with the law (remember the law?) behind the implementation of restructuring. At the same time, I believe that when seeking a personal or sexual relationship of any sort, that societal factors that MUST create change should not carry the same mandate into interpersonal arrangements, whether dinner date, spouse, partner, FB, Sugar Daddy, BoyToy, or a just nice back rub- we should all be honest with ourselves and with each other, and be allowed, without answering to outsiders, as to who and what we find attractive and suited to achieving a consensual personal relationship goal. I for one don’t find any race or ethnicity to be an exclusionary factor for any personal or sexual relationship. I think the appeal of race and ethnicity, relative to one’s self, is just one of all the parts that make up one’s “type” and can change over time. Age, height, build, coloring, voice, body hair, personality, sexual versatility, body mods, musical tastes, dick size. We ALL sort by importance of these traits and more, depending on what we’re looking for, and the exclusionary factors will shift, with additional permanence and commitment we may want - ambition, intelligence, values, culture, ethnicity and race all factors to be weighed for personal and sexual relationships. Personal sexual relationships are... personal. Obviously the bulk of personal “relationship goals” we talk about here can be met in the course of a couple hours time and a mutually agreed quid pro quo. For some, the success will absolutely depend on ticking off a few boxes chosen from a very limited menu. For clients, some will not hire unless they are assured a sizable pounding from a verbal top. For providers, some won’t be comfortable maneuvering a client who over a certain age or weight, and others will never (or always) guarantee their own climax. But as personal as the interaction feels in the moment, we need to understand that it is business as well, and it wouldn’t hurt to incorporate some better, more inclusive business practices. Perhaps we can all reflect on our standard sorting methods, and strive consciously to move ethnicity and race lower in the order of priority of exclusion when it comes to arranging the potential relationships we refer to here. Providers and clients can all honor the agreement once made: be clear about limits and expectations, payment, confirm an hour ahead, show up, on time and as represented, don’t renegotiate half way through, and all try to be as generous as possible with our respective quids and quo’s. We can be more respectful of boundaries, less dismissive of what we haven’t experienced for ourselves, be more open to new ideas and people, and we can all be kinder in the way we approach, set up and resolve our transactions, and save the filthy behavior for the bedroom, (or kitchen counter... or dungeon...or choir loft...) where it belongs.

I was there at the time, and indeed they were, (but that’s also before every man in sight had a nine inch dick..)