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No, I mean, that as a client, getting over all the hurdles one might have to jump to fit into your schedule and put your convenience ahead of mine is nearing the level of irritation I reserve for my doctors.

His extensive Deified Knowledge of human anatomy derives from ...receiving massages.

I'm no good with geography. Somewhere in Pennsyltucky, I think. Or was it Iowabama? 😏

I haven't asked for any kind of a "birthday request" since I was 15, and the party clown was more than happy to receive an enthusiastic, if not nuanced, BJ behind the garage.

I'm one of those clients who has spent a lifetime of work operating with union contract work schedules, meeting hard deadlines, and massaging massive egos. I'm retired now, so why subject myself to this level of torture just to have some fun?

The Crash Sharing the IMDB link. True crime doc - unfortunately a genre I go out of my way to never waste a second on.

Enough to get this reaction

Chemistry. Any and all of the referrals given for a great BFE are from clients who were fortunate enough to have it with their provider. It's never a given, and you're going to bring your own sincere sexual charm to the meeting.

I once dated an identical twin, decades ago, and both he and his brother went out to same bars, though not with each other. When I hooked up with Steve, and we had a couple more dates, he said I was not like most other guys he dated who wanted 3-ways with him and Scott. Not into it then, not into it now.

I've encountered men from Paraguay and Uruguay who speak Portuguese, and prefer to claim Brazil as their country of origin (when passports are not being checked.) The above discussion of Brazilian animal magnetism validates their marketing choice.

I like swallowing, but as I never expect a provider to guarantee his climax, it's a rare treat.

Netflix: Miss You, Love You Allison Janney and Andrew Rannells. Lovely portrayals of an unusual situation forcing two people (one, a 40something gay man from LA) to open up to each other in unexpected ways. Bittersweet, and Janney's work is especially fine.

My fave would have to be my very first. Picture it... Nob Hill Theatre, 1978, me 22, midwestern and very closeted, visiting family in the East Bay, on a solo day trip to the city. Hopped off a cable car, mid afternoon, as the Bush St marquee was visible from Powell. Too shy and broke for serious engagement with dancers, but it was not just my first motion-picture porn, but more urgently, the first in-person sighting of an erection that was not my own. 🫪Devastatingly huge secret to hold for another two years til I moved west and got my hands on one. Never had that particular sort of adrenaline rush since.

With technology available today, any and all activity taking place in an environment over which you do not possess complete control can become online entertainment for someone else without your consent. If this provider was upfront, and would still offer a regular private fee-per-hr session in lieu of the two-way mirror thing, great! In my 30's, I might have been confident enough (though still shy) to go along. For exhibitionists, if the free massage is decent, why not??

Worth looking into!!! Most of us don't think of what we'll be leaving behind as An Estate, but if we've reached the age of awareness of the elders in our extended family dying, or facing end-of-life care, it is time to establish on paper our intentions for our own progress into that stage of life. Of course, in addition to POA, DNA, and real property designation, a proper workbook would include specific bequests of silicone toys, cast albums, and leather gear... 😜

Does the provider include massage among his skills? From there, it's easy to go in to extensive mutual touch, and... Why this provider? He obviously has something that's drawn you to him, in spite of unfamiliar terms of engagement. Face? Spend a lot of time kissing, talking, eye contact Body? Explore slowly, using every part of your body to make contact with every part of his, with a lot of teasing touch and kissing on parts you find most beautiful. Derrière? Tell him you plan to worship and devour it and he should prepare accordingly. Penis? If that's the star of his show, you probably already know how to slow-roll the enjoyment of that.

I find weed an enhancer of sex, in general - especially the more sensual aspects, but I am certainly clear that it's not going to compensate for a lack of attraction. Perhaps the provider was hoping differently.

tbh I didn't read through the entire profile only because he's a type I would never spend money on.

I'm glad he's honest about age limits before booking.

in suburban LA, I filled up today for $60 - 5.20/gal, which is lowest I've paid in months.

A few questions: When you pressed pause on Providing, what was the reason? Has it been resolved? In the time since, did your income derive from somewhere in the service industry - hospitality, restaurant, retail, maybe? Or did you deliberately avoid service jobs? What have you missed about Providing Service, enough to consider returning? If you've really missed the human MM connection unique to providing SW service, and focus on that, you'll probably reignite a good reputation - which is the hardest part. If the reason you paused is resolved, you've kept in touch with customer service somehow, and you are ready to offer the kind of connection you've missed, you'll be able to capitalize on your maturity and do as well as you can in the market as it exists now. Can the work you've been doing overlap with re-entry into the biz? A presence on OF/JFF or other SM will likely be an important tool, and for some, it can feel a little too exposed in real life. Good luck! 🍀

Per this test, I am a 5 But I've seen all the films of Al Parker (most of them in a theater) and know, by heart, every word of Elaine Stritch: At Liberty, which upgrades me to a 6.3

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