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Anyone have firsthand knowledge of his actual massage skills?

You have to join as a member (free is available) for the list to be saved. Providers can see which members have added them. Which means that occasionally you might see a DM in your site mailbox.

When meeting via the apps, the connection is mutually beneficial for scratching the itch. Perhaps your friend enjoys extended emotional pain play outside the bedroom and you don't know about it.

In my rarer hiring pattern right now, it tends to be for massage on their (height-adjusted table) so I have no reason to consider height relative to mine (6') I have never been with someone who is more than 3" over/under my height, so I don't associate height difference with any increased eroticism. Have worked alongside both short kings and giants, and been attracted to both, but when hiring full service, specific height is low on the wishlist. Unless we're going to take dance lessons at Kellerman's.

A high-ranking non-profit arts administrator once shared with me a bit of box-office wisdom she'd been given by a major Broadway producer: "If they really want to not see the show you're presenting, you can't stop them."

I never host, and only once have I met with a provider at a hotel which was because I was traveling. I'm way more likely to hire hosting locals in my home city. It always involves massage, so table, etc.

This is a very clever idea, provided you already know how to clean well - having tools, products, organizational sequence, and the everyday hacks. Repeats will be scarce if clients have to hire an experienced cleaner after you leave. The Naked Maid

As a home cook for at least 6 nights/wk it's easy enough to choose veggies in the store that can be cooked. If I were still working and eating out more often, I would have problems in choosing what to eat.

I'm so glad that I live in a market where hundreds of professionals work in their home city, so that the annoyance of trying to catch some fragile moonbeam as it passes through is never part of the process for me.

Lorne can shuffle cast members in and out, but keeping a 90m format puts way too much unfunny material on the air every week. Good comedy writers have more options now, and SNL is no longer the zenith it was. A fan since its first broadcast in '75, I can now be relied upon to not watch it every week.

You may not need to hire if it will be your first. There are certainly swingers in those markets who might love the idea of being your intro, for the price of a bottle of Veuve.

Are we really still using "silly"?

Move this to Spa, include city in title, and insert link 🔗 to his profile in body.

Parking.

There are perhaps some scenarios in hiring (activity-focused, for example) where the facial handsomeness is irrelevant. "But, ooooooohhhh, can that boy fffoxtrot"

"I'm paid solely for my time" The transaction revolves around a service of a vague nature where "satisfactory conclusion" is open to a lot of interpretation. The provider wants to know what you expect of the compensated time spent in his presence. (Always anticipate the dollar amount will be more than you'd hoped.)

Mark, you have inadvertently spoken for a number of us who have been here for years...

Try it. You'll like it.

Truth is, you can have fantastic chemistry with someone who asks $25, and zero chemistry with a guy who gets $500.

A woman knocked up at age 35 will be designated a Geriatric Pregnancy. We men need to simmer down.

Is non-reciprocal, skilled, sensual masturbation performed on me, while I am already nude and completely relaxed from treatment, actually considered sex?

In a saturated market like NYC, you will likely find a few who absolutely will. Will they also tick your other boxes for stats, rate and looks - maybe not. More will list it as into, with no specificity of give/receive. Much the same as kissing, rimming really going to be a matter of chemistry in the moment, rather than something he'll guarantee before meeting, and it may be that he's eaten one client's ass, but not another's. It sure is a glorious gift when it happens.

Fee for a shower? May their guilt haunt them down every alley and into every confessional.

Be comfortable with the notion that details of your anatomy and intimate yucks and yums may be shared with mutuals. So long as it's nowhere near a connection to worklife, it's harmless for these folks to have certain pictures in their heads you may not know about...

Aloha! The number of visits I've made to the Valley Isle - and only once was there a provider actively working, in Kihei, and this was several years ago, and we were unable to connect. Maui is very gay friendly, but the tourist trade to this island is overall not in search of MM massage, I guess. If great fish tacos, whales and trade winds aren't enough of a treat, you may have to book a commuter hop to Honolulu, which can be done from Kapalua (up north) or the main airport in Kahului. Cheers!