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Always has been, my dear

Camarillo is very right-leaning politically, but my SIL who lives there has never mentioned over-eager police. Sounds like he approached the wrong individual.

Let's say you're a trained provider of massage, and it's not something you tell your regular job co-workers, family or friends. Although you know exactly how much intimate massage+ activity you're comfortable with, being accidentally seen on MF by people who know you IRL on a site w/no erotic specifics (words or photos) allows a bit more discretion by association. On RM, with most profiles being explicitly linked with sexual attraction and services, there's significantly less plausible deniability about the full nature of your work, which is not problematic for most. But for a small number, MF is a way to advertise with fewer assumptions made by the casual viewer, like Brianna in Accounts Payable whose roommate saw your face in an ad and told her you're a hooker, and you know what a big mouth Brianna has...

You don't indicate your own record duration for comparison. Have you worked up to long play incrementally over time? If you’re personally maxed out at 3-4hrs, anything can happen. Viva Metamucil!

What's with all the beards? Moustaches

All clothing, including underwear, is designed with the purpose of creating illusion. The underwear in question is fulfilling that purpose. The parts of the body inside of the underwear may be neither full, nor filling.

It's called the wardrobe preset knot. 😂 A half-windsor result, made to get into quickly, often while one dresser ties shoes, and another is behind holding jacket (w or w/o vest) for arms to slip into. I'd say "do not attempt this at home" but there's no reason not to.

I'd say my attraction to mature, hairy, beefier guys has always limited the menu for me - most providers skew younger, smoother, and leaner, because that sort of beauty has a broader field of customers, and aligns with pre-careered men who look to escorting for income. In the LA market which is pretty large, I couldn't say an exact percentage. Body hair has made a bit of a comeback, but even now, within my traveling radius, it's probably 8% max.

Would I enjoy watching a magic show as much if I knew how every illusion and trick worked? Probably not. I assume that pretense of desire from the provider is part of the show. Some are better at playing the scenes, some dazzle with movement and technical prowess. Chemistry relies on participation of both, and as a client, I offer an older handsome face, promptness, cleanliness, kindness, non-obsequious compliments, a sense of humor, and verbal responsiveness when I like what he's doing. My disappointments are few and far-between.

It's role-play, in a way, isn't it? The provider has agreed to treat the beginning of the massage as a spa-like service, then gradually removing the fabric boundaries between the two of you -the sheet first, then his shorts? I'm fully aware of the concentration it takes to do real bodywork, so I think I would only ask for this scene as part of escort sesh, where the massage is only a part of the path to full engagement as the main goal.

General: I find it interesting that in the Fetish Forum, most posts are pics. ?? Undressing, even in its most benign form, is something considered rude to watch someone else doing, and gets drilled into us as kids. Perhaps it explains why many of us will pay money to watch, especially if there's a soundtrack accompanying it. But, like peeling something, or even unwrapping a birthday gift or opening a pkg from Amazon, the anticipation of seeing the entirety, and touching it without its protective layer, creates a spectacular rush. That said, you haven't lived on the edge of containment of the rush until you've worked backstage in wardrobe with ballet boys or Broadway dancers. Not shy and really good movers - it's like a car wreck. You can't look at 'em and you can't look away...

For any man new to MM sex and penetration, I recommend time on your own to get to know your body. Pay attention to your natural elimination routine and whether it's mostly complete at the time or not. Always use a fiber supplement to maximize your effort. Clean out for just yourself, and use insertable toys to confirm complete expulsion of the water. A little repetition and better knowing your digestive system's natural operation will build your confidence to doing minimal douching before play. If your system is just not going to allow penetration on a play date, you'll find other ways to have fun.

I'm in the minority here, but the eye-candy appeal for the kind of massage service I expect is not a consideration. If I'm paying for erotic massage or massage/play combo when offered, then yes. Therapeutic-sensual, my eyes are closed. I think, as attractive as Omar appears, I'd pass.

Cheers!

Demand comes first in pricing. I think the lower rates align with entry-level. Newbies with few reviews and minimal available vid content must ask less $$ because their market wants proof before hiring at peak rate. Once several clients book a second/third appt and word gets out, beginners rates will climb. Hiring is something that takes a hit in a downturn economy. Fixed incomers will be hit by higher expenses, and the luxuries of self-care get put aside for a windfall.

Yes. If the provider travels mostly without a permanent home base, just add "Traveler" in front of the name rather than a city locale after. For clients who never host, this detail of location is crucial for consideration. The ad sites allow the provider great leeway as to where they actually are vs words in the profile, and clarification here really makes a diff.

Kitchen gizmos come and go. As a better than average cook, some are not for me, others earn a place in the already full drawer. The nylon "ground beef masher" is one I avoided for years - but, dishwasher safe and works like a charm. Wood padels and spoons? still got'em, don't use 'em with raw meat anymore. Change is a part of the learning curve that makes cooking fun.

90m when provider is known, or recommended here. 60m first time if I'm unsure of skills, or want to test for chemistry before hiring him for full service when both are offered.

I can't imagine how a food product that has a specific need for frozen transport/storage (and documentation thereof) is a good fit for bootleggers. Reputable commercial food serving ops are unlikely to take the risk with unknown sources and chain of custody. I'd avoid limitless seafood buffets for the next couple months... When properly cooked, I love lobster, but crab more. I'm still avoiding radioactive shrimp. 🍤

Oh no! Jarrod wounded - again?

Fact: both client and provider had/have any number of past, present, and/or future sex partners. If the performance of the BFE is specifically what you're hiring, the performer fails at his job when talking about other partners, or spends time checking his phone. If you want the BFE, discuss your parameters for what happens in that context. And never forget the Fact.

To eliminate treatable physiological issues, consult your doc. You don't mention your age, but I presume you feel that lowered interest is happening too soon. Prescribed meds, blood sugar, cardiovascular issues, weight, low T, or other chemical imbalances can all contribute. Once you know that none of those are at issue, then turn to the laymen. Effort–benefit ratio is a personal evaluation, and maybe a small tweak to your routine of diet, supplements, hydration, meds, or activity can help. But first, rule out that this shift of interest might be a sign of other issues going on in your system apart from age.

If chemistry, appearance, and all other aspects of attraction and interaction work, but you know that the time spent with a provider must include you being penetrated, bring a toy and have him use it on you in whatever positions you like for intercourse after all the other interactive pleasures get explored and you gotta have it. Otherwise, there's plenty of other hard fish in the sea.

Search the provider's name in the Deli here. You’re liable to find a sentence or two not written by the provider himself. By nature, the experience is unique to each client (chemistry!) and reviews reflect chemistry and absence of it - very subjective- so you may find yourself a real gem who has no reviews at all!

The Academy Awards are solely for product marketing purposes, not indicating excellence of craft. DVD's used to be sent, possibly never watched. Now that every possible MPAA voter can be tracked for what they watched (scanned codes at screenings and entered codes on home viewing app) it's possible to sort exactly who's voting for what, but not why. Contracts between producers and the actors/creatives include very specific terms on additional post-release income adjustments (bonuses) for a)nomination and b)winning - all before a single frame is shot. Actors, directors, etc. campaign to voting members (some at their own cost) for "consideration" in the hope it adds to their payday - from both the nominated project and future offers. And the producers always benefit from the "Academy Award Nominated / / Winning" label thereafter. We watch because we're told it's a guide to what's good. When awards and truly excellent work overlap, it's mostly coincidence, and popularity of the nominee within the eligible voters for each category. Reality: It's mostly about the red carpet dresses on TV.