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I've been told, in previous posts about this, that the reticence of the questioner to hire a self-employed sensual masseur, is because it's about the thrill of maybe yes or maybe no. (Dear Penthouse Forum...) If the thrill of getting •surprised• with handy action at a legit spa is the point (as opposed to hiring a provider who specializes in private personal services of the same caliber) why do clients even ask for rec's here? By getting confirmation, doesn't that spoil the surprise? And what if the actual surprise (after booking and pre-paying, based on a reply here) is disappointment because release is only offered to clients the masseur finds hot enough to make it worth the risk of not getting adequately tipped or even losing his job? I wish you luck, and a great story to submit to the (Penthouse) Forum.

Why 2 locales and 2 names? Possibilities: 1) Full time job takes him between the two, and having the moniker unique to each makes it easier to match client with calendar. 2) Same as above, but rather than job, has family needing help in one, away from primary city. 3) Has multiple personality disorder combined with intense love of Hudson News shops and Starbucks addiction. 4) Planning on running for Congress from a third state where he's a pastor with a wife and kids, and will definitely need different names coming up in photo search. See? It's simple.

Once you accept them as a FBFriend, then RL friends, family and coworkers might see your interactions. And wouldn't you be surprised if some mutuals popped up?

I hope he's got the circle of support he needs as he continues recovery. A reminder that client types and provider types are, all of us, equally vulnerable humans.

At the risk of returning to the topic... Quite an ordeal you had. Your trauma is real. And your body, finances, identity, and home are intact - so, now you have some time to heal, which ideally won't include any sexual partners until you feel you've addressed the trauma. If you can't host, and the provider can't host, consider the inquiry closed. Small market? Once every couple months, get yourself a hotel room in a big city to give you better options for hiring your type, in or out. Only you can know what lessons to take away - both from the evening, and disclosure here. Best of luck.

True artistry in massage is a rare commodity. The physiological science of it can be taught, but how the masseur senses body feedback in realtime in addition to tapping into sustained human connection on that other level that makes chemistry, is partly innate to the individual (aka talent) and partly accumulated and refined through his experience. Which is why it's almost always a crapshoot. Personally, I would rather have the plain-looking education/talent/experience guy working on me with no sensual elements, than the gorgeous big-dicked escort wannabe who's eager to get to the HE and collect his tip.

I think all the awkward sex is perfect within the context, that even with all of the power held in elected and diplomatic hands, they still can't give a fuck.

The downside of having a foreskin is that there are always partners (potential or realized) who are mildly to adamantly repelled. It's a difference-from-the-boomer-norm that I didn't ask for, but I never once looked into alterations.

Not in my jungle, it ain't...

"I'm 5'11, 217 - sorry, I don't have a photo. But I can send you a couple links to courtroom artist's sketches. One's more recent than the other. Would that work?"

After the final episode of SLOW HORSES, we were directed by the app to this new series. Good actors, less-than-stunning script for ep1, IMO. But, I do love a knighted dame in black leather, and generally a fan of PI drama, so I shall give it a few episodes. Anybody else have it on the radar? (I would climb C like a tree...😏)

Greek yogurt and a few fiber caps every day are as effective. But ya gotta have a gimmick.

On video, he's had great chemistry with every partner, in every configuration of ...joinery. Wears zaddidom well, I think.

The US is welcoming to low-melanin visitors only. Further restrictions may apply. Randomly.

I doubt there's a licensed spa catering to male clientele that's going to give you a "Willy-Wontey" experience. There are a couple gay resorts that may have some sort of room for massage, but whether it resembles a day spa package experience with steam/sauna/whirlpool plus male attendants on staff is the question. The same way that male strip joints are nonexistent in CA, income from the sq footage devoted to it comes up short. Myriad providers there, maybe hire a role-play escort who also does outcall massage to visit your hotel. You’re not inventing a new scenario for him, I'm sure. Good luck!

Liked S1&2 very much. Stumbled thru 3. Basta.

I'm very tactile, and know enough to where I can do some massage on a provider that I'm mad to get my hands on, but never when I've booked massage, only escort service.

It reads as though his ad is aimed at an Escort clientele, no? But his moniker probably will crop up here again, in the Men's Health Forum at some point.

Commando is entirely a personal choice. The reason it's rude in the fitting room, is that tailors/fitters involved are forced into contact/sights they don't want or need in order to do their jobs. Same goes in live theatre, in a quickchange where a dresser may be on their knees in front of the actor to quickly change shoes or pull aside the discarded trousers, or having to tuck the shirt in while the actor holds his arms back for a vest or jacket from behind. Don Ameche. At 72.

No, not wrong. Advantage = HMO in most cases. But each carrier tweaks it to the advantage of their bottom line.

Like many, I was reluctant to test thru the 80's, when nothing could be done - just always assumed I was, and practiced "safe sex" Then I met The One. We tested together, his negative. I've been poz for 40+yrs. Perhaps genetic resistance, perhaps luck, but the timing of testing and hit'n'miss treatments available thru clinical trials, got me thru til I was eventually prescribed a protease cocktail that has worked for years. I have never had worrying labs, nor any infections, nor wasting. The fukkin' lucky club. Had I not met my fella when I did, I probably would have been less motivated to act like I had a long life ahead. Still, all thru early treatment, I worked a job requiring forecasting budgets 1-2 yrs in advance, and the cloud over my head was "will I even be here then?" Now I know: I was, I am, and truly appreciate the post acknowledging all the others in my generation who struggled with meds, infections, work, finances, family, and love, and did not get to see the pleasurable part of growing old.

My husband and I used an insurance broker to help navigate meeting our needs when we went on Medicare, and the results of coverage we chose have been great. I got PPO, husband opted for Advantage. Do what you can to avoid the "Advantage" plans that operate like HMO - primary referrals are required for everything. Once you get into the Advantage Plan, you can upgrade only within a year, then you're stuck. He switched just in time, much better care. Options: Raise your deductibles and co-pays on PPO type, and if you have no reason to think Rx will play a major role, also higher deductibles on Part D. We're all in good health until we're not. Seek guidance from a pro. A decent broker will know how to best distribute the type of coverage combo that suits your medical needs and budget, and know the laws and rules that apply. They get paid by the companies that sign you up, not by you.

Well, as Incel includes the term "involuntary" I don't think self-partnered overlaps. Unless every time you make a move on yourself, you're rejected.

More farewell tours than Cher?

Online interaction has reduced demand for gay bars for socializing. I think the same holds true for gay bars intended for business introductions. (The rent is too damn high, part 276)