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If everything in this quote is 100% sincere on his part, is it what you want? Is he in your area, and if not, how do you feel about distance? Active military - would that potentially throw a wrench into your life if his orders include deployment overseas?

"years ago, even decades" should sufficiently answer the main question. 😂 I think all the hookup apps available now are still doing what they set out to do. Things change, but hours spent from search to climax, the freebies are shorter and more regular. In a real life chance meeting, at a party, at a bar, a job, etc we got to sum each other up, maybe speak, have a laugh. A spark. Everything online is antithetical to that. I was paired and past cruising before everything went on line. Bulletin boards were it. The hobby is more recent for me, and very limited because I understand what I want. No strings. Many of us who successfully cruised for hookups in person, (decades ago) are far less appealing decades later, when represented by the harshness of ones and zeros now. When a treat is needed, hiring automatically runs everything I have through a flattering filter for me. Always adds a touch of green.

A person can develop... Support your smaller local theatres!

No different than the first date in high school, college, or anytime - no matter the gender - the sum total of the human you're going to spend time with won't begin to be revealed until you first spend time together, and likely not even then. The fit is best judged in context. Here, we are talking about financial exchange - money for time - and the context for most clients is a goal of a gratifying climax within an agreed duration of time. Parameters of "fit" are largely about sexual chemistry and casual companionship - language, sense of humor, kindness. Since neither of parties is shopping for a relationship, it seems reasonable that the lack of that potential allows us all to say, "yeah, I'd like another" or simply move on with no hurt feelings.

Good for you for taking matters into your own ... hands! So few providers out there with 11" insertable length, you might be better served in your solo exercises (it's what they are) adding girth rather than length. You don't have to spend a dime. Work a finger or two in alongside the toy if the goal is really enjoying what's attached to a circulatory system. Enjoy the sensation of your hole on your fingertips - always lubed, fingernails against the toy. This will help you have confidence that your muscles truly can accommodate larger-than-average without pain, which helps with the relaxation necessary to love it every time. No, go fuck yourself 😘😘

If paying for bodywork at a nice day spa, part of your fee goes toward all the spa-menities you may or may not use, operational overhead, mgmt, and a legal department. Casual nudity in wet areas may occur, but modesty is the rule, and your assigned masseur will absolutely be fully dressed, and you'll absolutely remain draped on the table and your groin area will not be engaged with in any way. At the spa I've used (Burke Williams), a 90m Swedish/DT combo is $345+tip. The worker gets the tip plus their hourly wage, and possibly access to health insurance. All workers have been educated, licensed by the state, and certified to the facility's standards for health and safety (and liability) But the actual level of talent and the tableside manner are individual. As a client, if you don't care about steam/sauna/jacuzzi🦠and definitely want a gay man attending, and are agnostic about draping, you can put more of your dollars directly into his pocket, and get (if you do research) a trained, skilled 90m massage of similar caliber. And it might even take place in your home, or at least closer to it. If you love the mystery of will he/won't he, there is a chance. And you might even save a few bucks.

As I hire massage/playtime combo (pay higher rate) my no-go's are few. •Can't host. •No table. •Deposit •Sketchy Parking/Neighborhood •PNP •Lack of massage training and experience. (I've been looking at RMsr/MF for years, so I have an idea how new they are)

Paperback novels - my Hudson News treat at every airport when traveling for work or pleasure over the past 40 yrs. Goodwill and other thrift stores still have some. Never guilty about page corners bent for place holding, or stains from splashing or spilling a bit of whatever.

I can appreciate the idea of this as a sensory device - maybe deprivation, maybe enhancement, maybe purely psych, depending on how it's used, I guess. As depicted in porn, it's never been what I focus on. A couple questions I have Do caged guys do a trial period in full control, for proper fit before locking and handing the key to somebody? The idea of open construction for full time wear allows the wearer to urinate, obviously. Even a good rinse in the shower. But I'm thinking being uncut (from which I know) in one of these would pose challenges to being as clean as most mature intact men keep ourselves. Or is the accumulated funk a feature rather than a bug?

With AI's acceleration being 95% motivated by young men seeking "hands-free", out of hand is a given.

Body hair is the must for me. Clean shaven or bearded face is kinda like smooth vs hairy hole. I'm gonna eat it either way, so long as it's clean.

Also, within the walls of COM, it encompasses the full range of personal services that might be availed by paying Clients when we discuss the generalities of conducting business.

I only share information about my (most interesting) past lives.

Perhaps loaded potato skins are the best of American culture at the moment.

Rule number one in selling sports: Athletic prowess = sexual power. They won't be separated as long as straight men run the marketing.

It seems like you need a combo of escort/massage service, rather than just massage. Several options out there, just know you're going to be paying the escort rate. Cross-reference on Rentmen and Rentmasseur.

You had to be there. I doubt that anyone under 60 can immediately recognize the name and recall the talent. He was everywhere on TV in the 70's - and because he really did deliver the characters, far less OTT than, say, Charles Pierce, he was not perceived as a threatening gay. (Although according to a friend who did PA work for him, you kept your distance before he had his coffee)

When a misunderstood deliberately marginalized community serves as backdrop for a relationship movie, I think a good portion of the script has to be spent in (educational) exposition, in order for audiences to see the common humanity thru the fog of "ew, what?" All films are one layer of fog, consensual DomSub another...

When the means of payment is crypto, that means it can't be traced. So the comms (via TMZ really?) and extending the deadlines and changing the the crypto account is really odd, and sure is taking up a lot of space in the news cycle. 🤔

If I had a nickel for every time I asked...

If you're 'curious to try bottom' I read that to mean that you've never had either a penis or a toy inserted before. For your first time: no poppers. You need to learn your body's feedback without a "rush" to confuse you, in order to avoid doing something that might harm you. And if you're with a really well-endowed partner, he should know how to use tongue and fingers first to make you hungry for it, rather than spit-n-shove. (And use lube)

Strictly from what's in the ad, I would expect, at most, a pleasant and relaxing experience with no sensual elements.

Even if there's as few as one paying client, a professional Provider can carry on as long as that market exists, no?

Young ones are great when all I want is a show. If I want any conversation at all, I skip everyone under 40.

It's not going to be an online connection - strictly recs through your new friends in the high-income social circle in your region where such companions are talked about discreetly, or are perhaps even in attendance themselves. Start by attending the biggest Mega-Church in your city, then...