Does anyone have a provider they would recommend for a guy who is new to sensual/erotic massage? Open to any location really. If it’s near an airport, I could probably find a “reason” to visit 😂
Some context…I’ve hired 3 sensual and/or erotic (what exactly is the difference?) massages now. Each of them were pretty awkward and uncomfortable though.
The first time, the provider had me draped, but slowly removed the sheet while I was laying on my stomach (awesome!) At some point he stepped away for a few seconds and I tilted my head to the side and opened my eyes for a second (he was fully clothed). He blurted “what are you looking at?” and I just said I was adjusting my position while he had stepped away. I remained undraped but nothing more than therapeutic happened.
The second provider, I started undraped and the masseur (fully clothed) had spent a ton of time on my glutes. He had started massaging my prostate and I’m pretty sure his tongue was in my ass when there was a knock on the door…he jumped up and answered the door with my ass in the air! I was so uncomfortable after that I don’t even recall what happened after that.
The most recent provider also started fully clothed and spent a ton of time on my glutes. While I was laying on my stomach he took my hand and started having me stroke him (no longer clothed). He stepped away, but didn’t come back for at least 10 minutes! I didn’t dare open my eyes though for fear of being reprimanded again so not even sure what he was doing.
Am I doing something wrong? SOS 😉