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That actually sounds ideal. Looking for a therapist that can make me feel comfortable and taken care of and ease me into experiencing pleasure without the pressure of reciprocating. 

Natan in Oakland will give you a HE if you like but he won't remove his clothes completely. He no longer provides Erotic style massage.

Would also be a good choice in SF
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Does anyone have a provider they would recommend for a guy who is new to sensual/erotic massage? Open to any location really. If it’s near an airport, I could probably find a “reason” to visit 😂
Some context…I’ve hired 3 sensual and/or erotic (what exactly is the difference?) massages now. Each of them were pretty awkward and uncomfortable though.
The first time, the provider had me draped, but slowly removed the sheet while I was laying on my stomach (awesome!) At some point he stepped away for a few seconds and I tilted my head to the side and opened my eyes for a second (he was fully clothed). He blurted “what are you looking at?” and I just said I was adjusting my position while he had stepped away. I remained undraped but nothing more than therapeutic happened.
The second provider, I started undraped and the masseur (fully clothed) had spent a ton of time on my glutes. He had started massaging my prostate and I’m pretty sure his tongue was in my ass when there was a knock on the door…he jumped up and answered the door with my ass in the air! I was so uncomfortable after that I don’t even recall what happened after that.
The most recent provider also started fully clothed and spent a ton of time on my glutes. While I was laying on my stomach he took my hand and started having me stroke him (no longer clothed). He stepped away, but didn’t come back for at least 10 minutes! I didn’t dare open my eyes though for fear of being reprimanded again so not even sure what he was doing.
Am I doing something wrong? SOS 😉

And from the US, @Jamie21 is only a short flight away!

My advice to you: next time walk into the room with the confidence of a 5year old wearing a Superman t-shirt. Dont let them push you around - you  are a paying customer and should demand better.
 
Here are some nice guys in the USA:
https://rentmasseur.com/SimonSuraci
https://rentmasseur.com/DannyJay
https://rentmasseur.com/Arjun
https://rentmasseur.com/Blessings
https://rentmasseur.com/LAs_Finest
 
 
 

If you tell us where you are or the largest city nearest to you I’m sure we can recommend someone for you to try. Nothing what you described is “normal” and you did nothing wrong. 

Yes and then 30 mins on the Elizabeth line from LHR to my studio 😃

Sounds like you’ve been very unlucky! None of what they did is very professional. You should be made to feel welcome, safe and comfortable, then aroused! Maybe you’re picking the wrong guys to hire? 
If they have a list of things they won’t do, their pics look too good to be true, they’re difficult to make the booking with, they don’t ask you any questions about what you’re looking for, they don’t have a website or other signs of a professional approach (such as their prices are ‘ask me’), or they use baby oil to massage you 😱….then it’s likely they will be like those you already saw. The guys who do this unprofessionally are just out to make a quick buck off you. They tend to disappear after a while.
Go for guys who’ve been doing it a good few years who take a professional approach to it. They’ll give you a proper massage and include sensuality and intimacy. They’ll listen to you about what you’re looking for and be intuitive to provide it.
I don’t know where you are so I can’t make any suggestions as to who to book, I’ll leave that to others.. (I think some of the US based guys who regularly post on here sound great though - try them!). But if you ever visit London come to me for a massage. I see lots of clients who are new to sensual / erotic massage. I won’t answer the door mid massage, tell you off for looking at me, or keep any clothes on 😉. 
 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38637/

Just saw his ad for the first time. Looks like he has photos of himself and reviews are positive for him and his partner. Curious if anyone has any info? 

Another session with Miles. Great and I’ll be repeating when I can again. 

Shane seems to be a favorite. Wish he wasn’t in Huntington Beach ! 😕 But it seems he’d be worth the drive next time I am in LA (for me: 50 miles).

I would add RD - amazing massage and a great guy! 
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I vote for Shane

Shane - pretty hot time recently

I’ve met Ben, Caleb, and Miles. 
 
Miles has the best technique. Ben is the hottest. Caleb is the most interactive. That being said, I always have a great massage and time with Miles. Ben is hard to pin down. Hard to schedule unless your schedules align miraculously. Caleb usually cuts massage short and goes to extras quicker than the others. Intrigued by Shane but haven’t met just yet.

These are some of my favorite guys. 
in my experience, Caleb has a menu of levels so I’m surprised to hear extras are off limits, but I haven’t seen him in nearly a year. 
david and Ben can both be hard to reach but do persist as they are both skilled and fun, especially David for me. 
I did not have a good experience with Miles but I have been curious about Shane - guess I oughta try him. 
I also enthusiastically recommend another David: 
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just curious how was his criminal history easily discoverable? no last name and phone number doesn't pop up anything on google ?

I've been unable to reconnect with David; I saw him several times years ago; incredibly strong and I am a wimp but it didn't hurt. 
he's a man of few words.
Interesting comments; this is like watching an episode of The Bachelor.
"Do you accept this HE?" 
 

I’ve seen Caleb, Miles and Shane and for me it’s also Shane

From this list, Caleb, a couple others were slow to respond, if it all for me. Caleb was professional, kind, provided parking, engaging, and seemed to care about maintaining business (checked in regularly, eager to cater to your needs).

I had a great experience w Caleb.   Definitely would repeat.   

Shane.