Donmasters Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 Does anyone have a provider they would recommend for a guy who is new to sensual/erotic massage? Open to any location really. If it’s near an airport, I could probably find a “reason” to visit 😂 Some context…I’ve hired 3 sensual and/or erotic (what exactly is the difference?) massages now. Each of them were pretty awkward and uncomfortable though. The first time, the provider had me draped, but slowly removed the sheet while I was laying on my stomach (awesome!) At some point he stepped away for a few seconds and I tilted my head to the side and opened my eyes for a second (he was fully clothed). He blurted “what are you looking at?” and I just said I was adjusting my position while he had stepped away. I remained undraped but nothing more than therapeutic happened. The second provider, I started undraped and the masseur (fully clothed) had spent a ton of time on my glutes. He had started massaging my prostate and I’m pretty sure his tongue was in my ass when there was a knock on the door…he jumped up and answered the door with my ass in the air! I was so uncomfortable after that I don’t even recall what happened after that. The most recent provider also started fully clothed and spent a ton of time on my glutes. While I was laying on my stomach he took my hand and started having me stroke him (no longer clothed). He stepped away, but didn’t come back for at least 10 minutes! I didn’t dare open my eyes though for fear of being reprimanded again so not even sure what he was doing. Am I doing something wrong? SOS 😉 pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 Sounds like you’ve been very unlucky! None of what they did is very professional. You should be made to feel welcome, safe and comfortable, then aroused! Maybe you’re picking the wrong guys to hire? If they have a list of things they won’t do, their pics look too good to be true, they’re difficult to make the booking with, they don’t ask you any questions about what you’re looking for, they don’t have a website or other signs of a professional approach (such as their prices are ‘ask me’), or they use baby oil to massage you 😱….then it’s likely they will be like those you already saw. The guys who do this unprofessionally are just out to make a quick buck off you. They tend to disappear after a while. Go for guys who’ve been doing it a good few years who take a professional approach to it. They’ll give you a proper massage and include sensuality and intimacy. They’ll listen to you about what you’re looking for and be intuitive to provide it. I don’t know where you are so I can’t make any suggestions as to who to book, I’ll leave that to others.. (I think some of the US based guys who regularly post on here sound great though - try them!). But if you ever visit London come to me for a massage. I see lots of clients who are new to sensual / erotic massage. I won’t answer the door mid massage, tell you off for looking at me, or keep any clothes on 😉. Simon Suraci, halogenerate, Redwine56 and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ FrankR Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 3 hours ago, Donmasters said: Does anyone have a provider they would recommend for a guy who is new to sensual/erotic massage? Open to any location really. If it’s near an airport, I could probably find a “reason” to visit 😂 Some context…I’ve hired 3 sensual and/or erotic (what exactly is the difference?) massages now. Each of them were pretty awkward and uncomfortable though. The first time, the provider had me draped, but slowly removed the sheet while I was laying on my stomach (awesome!) At some point he stepped away for a few seconds and I tilted my head to the side and opened my eyes for a second (he was fully clothed). He blurted “what are you looking at?” and I just said I was adjusting my position while he had stepped away. I remained undraped but nothing more than therapeutic happened. The second provider, I started undraped and the masseur (fully clothed) had spent a ton of time on my glutes. He had started massaging my prostate and I’m pretty sure his tongue was in my ass when there was a knock on the door…he jumped up and answered the door with my ass in the air! I was so uncomfortable after that I don’t even recall what happened after that. The most recent provider also started fully clothed and spent a ton of time on my glutes. While I was laying on my stomach he took my hand and started having me stroke him (no longer clothed). He stepped away, but didn’t come back for at least 10 minutes! I didn’t dare open my eyes though for fear of being reprimanded again so not even sure what he was doing. Am I doing something wrong? SOS 😉 My advice to you: next time walk into the room with the confidence of a 5year old wearing a Superman t-shirt. Dont let them push you around - you are a paying customer and should demand better. Here are some nice guys in the USA: https://rentmasseur.com/SimonSuraci https://rentmasseur.com/DannyJay https://rentmasseur.com/Arjun https://rentmasseur.com/Blessings https://rentmasseur.com/LAs_Finest TennisPro35, Donmasters, EastbayMike and 1 other 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 And from the US, @Jamie21 is only a short flight away! Donmasters, Simon Suraci, + FrankR and 1 other 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluefin Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 If you tell us where you are or the largest city nearest to you I’m sure we can recommend someone for you to try. Nothing what you described is “normal” and you did nothing wrong. + LS299B, Donmasters and JamesB 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 57 minutes ago, mike carey said: And from the US, @Jamie21 is only a short flight away! Yes and then 30 mins on the Elizabeth line from LHR to my studio 😃 Donmasters and mike carey 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donmasters Posted February 26 Author Share Posted February 26 4 hours ago, Bluefin said: If you tell us where you are or the largest city nearest to you I’m sure we can recommend someone for you to try. Nothing what you described is “normal” and you did nothing wrong. The closest city is San Jose or San Francisco, Ca. Although the providers I’ve seen have been in Austin, Seattle, and NYC 🤪 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donmasters Posted February 26 Author Share Posted February 26 5 hours ago, FrankR said: My advice to you: next time walk into the room with the confidence of a 5year old wearing a Superman t-shirt. Dont let them push you around - you are a paying customer and should demand better. Here are some nice guys in the USA: https://rentmasseur.com/SimonSuraci https://rentmasseur.com/DannyJay https://rentmasseur.com/Arjun https://rentmasseur.com/Blessings https://rentmasseur.com/LAs_Finest Thank you! LA isn’t too far. Hopefully Rainier can break my unlucky streak🤞 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluefin Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 18 minutes ago, Donmasters said: The closest city is San Jose or San Francisco, Ca. Although the providers I’ve seen have been in Austin, Seattle, and NYC 🤪 karlkang on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com ErosFlow on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Donmasters 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donmasters Posted February 26 Author Share Posted February 26 1 hour ago, Bluefin said: karlkang on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com ErosFlow on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Thanks! I’ll reach out to Eros. Can anyone endorse either of these masseurs? John - TheHotTouch on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Natan - Sensualist on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesB Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 14 hours ago, Donmasters said: Does anyone have a provider they would recommend for a guy who is new to sensual/erotic massage? Open to any location really. If it’s near an airport, I could probably find a “reason” to visit 😂 Some context…I’ve hired 3 sensual and/or erotic (what exactly is the difference?) massages now. Each of them were pretty awkward and uncomfortable though. The first time, the provider had me draped, but slowly removed the sheet while I was laying on my stomach (awesome!) At some point he stepped away for a few seconds and I tilted my head to the side and opened my eyes for a second (he was fully clothed). He blurted “what are you looking at?” and I just said I was adjusting my position while he had stepped away. I remained undraped but nothing more than therapeutic happened. The second provider, I started undraped and the masseur (fully clothed) had spent a ton of time on my glutes. He had started massaging my prostate and I’m pretty sure his tongue was in my ass when there was a knock on the door…he jumped up and answered the door with my ass in the air! I was so uncomfortable after that I don’t even recall what happened after that. The most recent provider also started fully clothed and spent a ton of time on my glutes. While I was laying on my stomach he took my hand and started having me stroke him (no longer clothed). He stepped away, but didn’t come back for at least 10 minutes! I didn’t dare open my eyes though for fear of being reprimanded again so not even sure what he was doing. Am I doing something wrong? SOS 😉 I'm sorry to hear that your experiences haven't been positive. It's essential to choose providers carefully. Start by searching this site for recommendations on specific individuals. Then, ask questions and clearly communicate your preferences to the provider. If you're not completely satisfied with their responses, don't hesitate to move on to someone else. If you're unsure, feel free to ask here, where you'll find plenty of experienced individuals ready to offer guidance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donmasters Posted February 26 Author Share Posted February 26 3 hours ago, Donmasters said: Thanks! I’ll reach out to Eros. Can anyone endorse either of these masseurs? John - TheHotTouch on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Natan - Sensualist on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Just found a different profile for John. Seems like maybe not the best option for me starting off in the shallow end? JohnRobin - Male Escort, Gay massage - San Jose | Rent.Men RENT.MEN JohnRobin Gay Escort in San Jose, California, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. |... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluefin Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 Would also be a good choice in SF SFFRANK on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Donmasters 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 (edited) On 2/26/2024 at 8:43 AM, Donmasters said: Sensualist on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Natan in Oakland will give you a HE if you like but he won't remove his clothes completely. He no longer provides Erotic style massage. Edited February 27 by Marc in Calif Mark4133 and Donmasters 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donmasters Posted February 27 Author Share Posted February 27 2 hours ago, Marc in Calif said: Natan in Oakland will give you a HE if you like but he won't remove his clothes completely. He no longer provides Erotic style massage. That actually sounds ideal. Looking for a therapist that can make me feel comfortable and taken care of and ease me into experiencing pleasure without the pressure of reciprocating. Marc in Calif 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluefin Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 2 hours ago, Donmasters said: That actually sounds ideal. Looking for a therapist that can make me feel comfortable and taken care of and ease me into experiencing pleasure without the pressure of reciprocating. Keep in mind you’re paying and with any provider there shouldn’t be any pressure for you to do anything but (hopefully) lay there and enjoy the massage. Simon Suraci and JamesB 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 5 hours ago, Donmasters said: That actually sounds ideal. Looking for a therapist that can make me feel comfortable and taken care of and ease me into experiencing pleasure without the pressure of reciprocating. Natan is also very understanding. As a former dancer, he's also a movement-centered therapist (Registered Somatic Movement Therapist: RSMT). His personality is very calming, and his studio at home is very quiet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donmasters Posted April 19 Author Share Posted April 19 (edited) Curious if anyone has advice on these Seattle area providers... Aaron: https://rentmasseur.com/BodybuilderHands Casey: https://rentmasseur.com/CaseyHolidae Joel: https://rentmasseur.com/PowersofMan Jon: https://rentmasseur.com/RanchBaron Tyler: https://rentmasseur.com/TylerJordanRubs Edited April 19 by Donmasters Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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