I generally want a great therapeutic massage with some sensuality and mutual touch, but don’t expect sex unless the chemistry is there. I’m finding more masseurs these days are initiating sex with a blowjob or trying to slip their cock in me during some nuru-like moves, which I politely turn down if I’m not interested (most the time). That said, there’s a guy who I used to see in LA, started with an in-home massage through Zeel. The first massage was strictly therapeutic but I got a sense that he might do more so I booked a follow up the next day through his direct cell number and asked for his latest appointment. He came over and started the massage at 9pm. The massage was similar to the previous day, except at the end, he took the draping sheet and said he would wipe some of the massage oil off. He started with my legs and wiped up to my thighs, then my chest and down to my stomach until the sheet was bunched at my mid section and crotch. Of course I was rock hard at this point with all of the rubbing and he leaned down to kiss me. We then moved to the bed and had full on sex for hours. He almost spent the night. Afterwards, I saw him a few times and the routine was similar—strictly therapeutic until the very end. One time at his place, he ended the massage and when I got up off the table he shook my hand to say thanks, and then ended up giving me a hug while I was still naked. I felt him hard and we started to kiss and then it turned into another sex fest with a shower, bath, and fucking time on his bed. I thought it was interesting that he drew very distinct lines between the massage and sex.