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    mike carey reacted to Asterisk in Handsome newbie in NYC: SweetnFitNYC   
    His ad also shows him on a nude hike (but he doesn't offer "public), and other providers have gym workout sessions (etc) that show off their bodies (but don't offer "weight training").  Some show both black hair and summer platinum -- it's not misleading if, at the moment, he has one or the other.

    The bareback photo merely indicates that he has participated in bareback sex (perhaps with an intimate partner, but titillating the viewer), but if he marked "safe," presume that is his default with clients. 

    It is not misleading -- just requires an inquiry if that is your interest. 
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    mike carey reacted to + sniper in Will it ever fly?   
    At some point, some businesses need to realize that a perpetual increase on investment is unsustainable and eventually a steady profit should be the expectation. 
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    mike carey got a reaction from + nycman in The Ups and Downs of Airlines and Air Travel   
    Well, that didn't happen, IRROPS intervened!
    My flight home was scheduled to be from LAX to Melbourne but unexpected headwinds resulted in it diverting to Sydney. Easy, refuel and go on, right? Well no. Given the circumstances Qantas handled it reasonably well.
    Whether the result of crew duty and an inordinate delay that would have occasioned or the requirements of Australian immigration and customs we had to collect our bags and clear arrival formalities in Sydney. Whether they chose the best solution is a separate question, but their execution of the arrangements were a case study in how to recover well and at the same time a text book example of how to fuck up the communications.
    On the aeroplane on arrival the flight crew told us that the flight would terminate in Sydney but they didn't know whether the aircraft would continue to Melbourne with a different flight number (and they didn't address what passengers whose destination was Sydney would do) or we'd clear customs and be rebooked on domestic flights (SYD-MEL is one of the five busiest airport pairs in the world, so onward flights wouldn't be too hard). Fairly quickly the 'clear customs' option was confirmed and we were told an extra SYD-MEL flight had been scheduled (and that SYD pax were free to collect their bags and leave). So far so good.
    Quickly the 'shit happens' fairy intervened. The queues for the passport checking machines were slow, but eventually I had cleared it and had my entry ticket in my hand. Then, a problem! The automatic final entry gates hadn't been programmed to expect QF94 pax in Sydney so they didn't work and we had to queue again to be cleared by an immigration officer. Sigh, beyond Qantas' control but not a good look, nor a good first impression for visitors.
    Once through that baggage collection and customs took moments (comparatively), and at the Qantas domestic bag drop/check-in area they had reconfigured it to handle our flight separately from other pax, that was smooth and the line kept moving, albeit not at an express pace.
    While what we were told by the crew and ground handling staff was accurate (and importantly told us if they didn't yet know something), the overall communications were appalling, as the digital comms were invariably at odds with what actual people were telling us (I have no idea whether the digital part had any human input or if it was all system-generated, but I don't care, it was wrong, incorrect texts, incorrect e-mails that didn't actually matter as I didn't see them till I was home, and incorrect information on their app, but hey, the digital comms all said the same [wrong] thing!).
    Surprisingly, not everyone was as sanguine about what was happening as I was and there were plenty of 'worst airline ever', 'totally incompetent' and 'I'll never fly Qantas again' comments being thrown about. There was also a fair amount of unfortunate near-abusive commentary directed at the ground staff member there to answer questions.
    I had to laugh, in the five hours after we landed in Sydney, I received 10 (ten) text messages telling me the supposed timing for the new QF94 from Sydney International Terminal to Melbourne, the last when I was in baggage claim in Canberra!
    Inconvenient for many, I'm sure, distressing for some who travel rarely, no doubt, but if you could step back for a moment it was interesting to observe the responses, both corporate and individual, and not for the first time I saw a sort of camaraderie among the people going through the 'ordeal'. Okay, so I didn't get my first A220 flight, but I was booked onto a Sydney-Canberra flight, and was home before I would have been on my original schedule. Oh, and I didn't lose the points upgrade I'd scored on the MEL-CBR flight, they put me in J to Canberra.
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    mike carey reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in The Ups and Downs of Airlines and Air Travel   
    And this, in a nutshell, is what separates the wheat from the chaff in the frequent flier world:  People either know enough to be proactive, get themselves protected and sit patiently, or they go fully batshit crazy, letting their anger get the best of them and making all sorts of wacky comments.
    I'd love to see most of them never do business with QF again.  Doubt they could make that happen.
    You're a trooper Mike 👍
    I tip my hat to you knowing full-well that you almost universally have long haul flights if you want to get anywhere.  When the shit hits your fan, it's a gigantic dump and a very powerful fan.
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    mike carey got a reaction from MikeBiDude in The Ups and Downs of Airlines and Air Travel   
    Well, that didn't happen, IRROPS intervened!
    My flight home was scheduled to be from LAX to Melbourne but unexpected headwinds resulted in it diverting to Sydney. Easy, refuel and go on, right? Well no. Given the circumstances Qantas handled it reasonably well.
    Whether the result of crew duty and an inordinate delay that would have occasioned or the requirements of Australian immigration and customs we had to collect our bags and clear arrival formalities in Sydney. Whether they chose the best solution is a separate question, but their execution of the arrangements were a case study in how to recover well and at the same time a text book example of how to fuck up the communications.
    On the aeroplane on arrival the flight crew told us that the flight would terminate in Sydney but they didn't know whether the aircraft would continue to Melbourne with a different flight number (and they didn't address what passengers whose destination was Sydney would do) or we'd clear customs and be rebooked on domestic flights (SYD-MEL is one of the five busiest airport pairs in the world, so onward flights wouldn't be too hard). Fairly quickly the 'clear customs' option was confirmed and we were told an extra SYD-MEL flight had been scheduled (and that SYD pax were free to collect their bags and leave). So far so good.
    Quickly the 'shit happens' fairy intervened. The queues for the passport checking machines were slow, but eventually I had cleared it and had my entry ticket in my hand. Then, a problem! The automatic final entry gates hadn't been programmed to expect QF94 pax in Sydney so they didn't work and we had to queue again to be cleared by an immigration officer. Sigh, beyond Qantas' control but not a good look, nor a good first impression for visitors.
    Once through that baggage collection and customs took moments (comparatively), and at the Qantas domestic bag drop/check-in area they had reconfigured it to handle our flight separately from other pax, that was smooth and the line kept moving, albeit not at an express pace.
    While what we were told by the crew and ground handling staff was accurate (and importantly told us if they didn't yet know something), the overall communications were appalling, as the digital comms were invariably at odds with what actual people were telling us (I have no idea whether the digital part had any human input or if it was all system-generated, but I don't care, it was wrong, incorrect texts, incorrect e-mails that didn't actually matter as I didn't see them till I was home, and incorrect information on their app, but hey, the digital comms all said the same [wrong] thing!).
    Surprisingly, not everyone was as sanguine about what was happening as I was and there were plenty of 'worst airline ever', 'totally incompetent' and 'I'll never fly Qantas again' comments being thrown about. There was also a fair amount of unfortunate near-abusive commentary directed at the ground staff member there to answer questions.
    I had to laugh, in the five hours after we landed in Sydney, I received 10 (ten) text messages telling me the supposed timing for the new QF94 from Sydney International Terminal to Melbourne, the last when I was in baggage claim in Canberra!
    Inconvenient for many, I'm sure, distressing for some who travel rarely, no doubt, but if you could step back for a moment it was interesting to observe the responses, both corporate and individual, and not for the first time I saw a sort of camaraderie among the people going through the 'ordeal'. Okay, so I didn't get my first A220 flight, but I was booked onto a Sydney-Canberra flight, and was home before I would have been on my original schedule. Oh, and I didn't lose the points upgrade I'd scored on the MEL-CBR flight, they put me in J to Canberra.
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    mike carey reacted to DWnyc in What's the standard price in New York for two hours right now?   
    Among those that consider it a city … 😉
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    mike carey got a reaction from + sync in HPV transmissability - celibacy awaits?!   
    It may not be as clear-cut as that. A consultation for a specific condition is different to one for sexual health advice, although ideally they would be with the same primary care provider. In Canberra, there is a sexual health clinic that offers advice, testing, vaccinations and related prescriptions. It's run by the territory department of health and is free at the point of service delivery. My last appointment they offered advice on mpox and HPV vaccination (the latter would be at a cost to me) and PrEP on demand.
    Now, back to the topic of the thread.
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    mike carey reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Best city for XXXL tops   
    I wasn't aware that XXXL was either imperial standard or metric 😉
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    mike carey got a reaction from + robear in HPV transmissability - celibacy awaits?!   
    It may not be as clear-cut as that. A consultation for a specific condition is different to one for sexual health advice, although ideally they would be with the same primary care provider. In Canberra, there is a sexual health clinic that offers advice, testing, vaccinations and related prescriptions. It's run by the territory department of health and is free at the point of service delivery. My last appointment they offered advice on mpox and HPV vaccination (the latter would be at a cost to me) and PrEP on demand.
    Now, back to the topic of the thread.
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    mike carey got a reaction from + Tygerscent in HPV transmissability - celibacy awaits?!   
    It may not be as clear-cut as that. A consultation for a specific condition is different to one for sexual health advice, although ideally they would be with the same primary care provider. In Canberra, there is a sexual health clinic that offers advice, testing, vaccinations and related prescriptions. It's run by the territory department of health and is free at the point of service delivery. My last appointment they offered advice on mpox and HPV vaccination (the latter would be at a cost to me) and PrEP on demand.
    Now, back to the topic of the thread.
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    mike carey got a reaction from + BenjaminNicholas in Favorite no-fail recipe   
    Whatever you do, don't tell @nycman you prefer a bagel from Queens!
    Grin!
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    mike carey reacted to + nycman in Favorite no-fail recipe   
    Queens?….Bagels?
    And here I was…..being all excited about fucking my first ginger……
    grin
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    mike carey got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in Do we walk faster?   
    OMG!! So, sneakers are straight-people shoes??
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    mike carey reacted to Danny-Darko in Size Differences   
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    mike carey reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Gingers   
    How have we not started a master thread yet?

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    mike carey got a reaction from samhexum in Favorite no-fail recipe   
    Whatever you do, don't tell @nycman you prefer a bagel from Queens!
    Grin!
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    mike carey reacted to Simon Suraci in What's your Sexual Position?   
    I think so… 🤔 
    or just…slutty. Which I mean in the most positive way! 
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    mike carey reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Sasquatch Sunset   
    Agree. 
    If you're entertained by shit jokes and animals fucking, this is the movie for you.
    The makeup was incredible, however.
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    mike carey reacted to RadioRob in photos on site stay how long?   
    I don't know the details, but essentially Boytoy was either bought or in some other way merged into GayGuides.  Think of GayGuides as the new home for the content that used to be on Boytoy.  So all of the content under the old domain was moved somewhere under the new one.  Unfortunately the technical team at that site did not leave good redirects to take users from the old address to the new one.  That means older posts/threads that referenced that original boytoy.com domain don't necessarily end up making its way automatically to the new location and can appear as broken.  
    So it's not you doing something wrong.  It's technically not even them doing something wrong.  It's just that they did not leave good "digital breadcrumbs" to point you to where the content has moved over the years.  Think about if you moved from one house to another...  if you did not leave a change of address or your change of address expired, you would have a hard time finding someone who moved without manually trying to figure out where the new place is.   
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    mike carey reacted to + sam.fitzpatrick in Looking for Palm Springs hotel/resort recommendations   
    I think the reason that it is listed this way is the lobby area is largely windows and they do not permit nudity there.  But other than checking in and out of the resort, there is little use of the lobby unless walking through on your way out, in which case you would be clothed anyway.
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    mike carey got a reaction from marylander1940 in A warning about a forum member and his ongoing scam! What/who is next?   
    Since the purpose of this thread was to discuss a case where someone had failed to live up to an agreement, and that issue has now been resolved, and that subsequent discussion has tended towards the exchange of character assessments, the time has probably come to close the conversation. Thank you all for the positive contributions you have made!
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    mike carey got a reaction from Medin in What's the standard price in New York for two hours right now?   
    There will be a variety of opinions about what 'should be' the going price in any city, but 'should be' doesn't make it so. Escorts have the option of setting any price they want, and clients have the option of paying it or not. The going rate in a market is what it is, what someone thinks it should be won't change that. Is hiring an escort a luxury? Maybe, maybe not. Not all escort experiences feel like a luxury, and from reading these forums as long as I have, a luxury price tag is no guarantee of a luxury experience.  Businesses like to portray their products or services as luxurious but reality bites, and they have to offer a product that's truly outstanding or offer a service tailored to a price point they can achieve. Escorts are not exempt from that economic reality. As @BuffaloKyle said $300-400 seems to be where the NYC market has landed. You can wish it were otherwise (higher or lower) but don't hold your breath.
    I'm not altogether sure that this thread will elicit any new insights that threads about prices haven't already offered, but we can hope.
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    mike carey got a reaction from + Charlie in A warning about a forum member and his ongoing scam! What/who is next?   
    Since the purpose of this thread was to discuss a case where someone had failed to live up to an agreement, and that issue has now been resolved, and that subsequent discussion has tended towards the exchange of character assessments, the time has probably come to close the conversation. Thank you all for the positive contributions you have made!
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    mike carey got a reaction from thomas in A warning about a forum member and his ongoing scam! What/who is next?   
    Since the purpose of this thread was to discuss a case where someone had failed to live up to an agreement, and that issue has now been resolved, and that subsequent discussion has tended towards the exchange of character assessments, the time has probably come to close the conversation. Thank you all for the positive contributions you have made!
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    mike carey got a reaction from Simon Suraci in I love a good pun...   
    Simon, I think your number's up.
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