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I wish the Rent Men providers would indicate their rate as most Rent Masseur providers do.
Another wish would be the Rent Men providers indicate if they can host or not. Some do but the majority do not.
Both these wishes would save a lot of time and effort before having to inquire directly with the interested provider.

These guys live a certain lifestyle and they are providing services to some really high end clientele who easily pay those kind of funds no questions asked. He and his partner travels a lot and most of the content they film seem to be in expensive hotels and resorts. So, depending on how well their content is doing, they might be running up credit card bills for those travels. Also, that 12K is probably footing the bill for two or three more content creators they are looking to film with or even pay air fares to travel to them. 
OnlyFans has really made it difficult to meet a lot of hot guys these days. 

At least for me an overnight is typically a set number of hours, like 10-12 hours.  Each provider is different and has different requirements but look at an overnight more like a date and have it planned out.  It typically works better that way, do something like this, meet some play, dinner either in the room or at a restaurant, come back some more play, at a certain point sleep, maybe morning play, breakfast and depart.  Just make sure expectations are known before setting the appointment in stone then its a lot better.

I try to mix up my hiring life whenever I can, hiring both tops and bottoms.  But when it comes right down to it, no service is deeper or more personal than when you hire an escort who lets you take that most intimate of liberties?
 
Who are the best currently working bottom providers in New York City? 
Taking into consideration aesthetics, anatomy, skill, personality, connectivity, reliability, attitude, breadth of menu. 
 
Also....
 
Any bottoms that you'd avoid going forward?
Usually for me, this one is based on providers who are guarded or reluctant to let you fully take over and enjoy their bodies fully as a top.  

I remember being with an escort last year who was a really hot, sexy Latino guy. Great body, nice personality. He told me he was 24, but I suspected he was older than that.  When we were lying in bed, I noticed the tattoo on his chest in Roman numerals said 1993, which made him 31. I ran my hand over his beautiful chest, and  said, 'Ahhh - your tattoo says 1993...so you were born in 1993, which makes you 31, not 24.'  (I mean why else would you have 1993 tattooed on your chest ?)
He got nervous (I guess not many people ever noticed or pointed it out before) and he stuttered, "No - that's the year my father was born."  I answered, "Really ? So your dad is 31 and you're 24, which means he was 7 when he had you ?"  He fumbled again, and said, "I mean that's the year my father died."  I responded, "Hmmmmm - so you're father impregnated your mother while he was 7 years dead ? She had sex with a ghost ?" Then he said nothing - he was at a dead end. I told him he looked great for 31 (he did), and there's no reason to lie about his age - he's a great guy, and not every client wants a 24 year old. He then laughed, and said "I should never had gotten the tattoo." 

Well.....??
(The queens are waiting for your response.)   😆

Yes and yes 

You almost couldn't be more gay than I am, and while I have a need for new relationships, I think in general I prefer more longterm relationships. While not monogamous by any means, my main escort friend for years was Mike Gaite. I realize my feelings for him were mostly if not all mine, but I even spent two holidays with him. They were possibly the best holidays of my entire adult life. It really saddened me when I could no longer hire anyone but especially him. 

I agree with what's been previously said - it seems likely that he's looking for lower volume and better fit. 
I think he's going to have takers, and a lot of fun - more power to him!

You're completely right. I think where I went screwy was in seeing his WhatsApp avatar face photo where he was beardless, necklaceless, and several years younger. It was the most appealing facial photo I had seen of him and that's the image I wanted to hold on to but it was not what I was presented with. As I said before, that rhinestone necklace to me looked like a chain in his ad photos. I'd say the main thing that turned me off was that he didn't impress me as masculine, and that plays an important role in my hiring practice. 
Anyway, if anyone else tries him perhaps they can report back here. 

It sucks but they're also doing you a favor because you're not going to end up booking a session that would have been bad

More and more people to be hired are REQUIRING to send a face pic to be seen. Describing what we look like doesn't cut it like it used to.
If we looked as good as the people we're hiring, we wouldn't be hiring, so what sense does it make? I'm batting zero with the few I've had ask to send a pic of myself, and had communication go any further on their end. But, I'm seeing it so often now I feel like I'm having to stick with those that haven't tired of me quite yet whom I've already seen.

Please make this a T-shirt. 

Ding-ding-ding! We have a winner!

This year I've been hiring almost exclusively non-English speaking Latinos, and I insist they speak only Spanish and correct mine.
It's a great addition to Rosetta Stone, real (but very simple and basic) conversation. And I file the Zelle payments as "Spanish instruction".
They seemed more flattered to end up as a language tutor than finding it weird. And glad this hobby can lead to personal improvement.

Escorting is an on-and-off job for many guys on Rent Men. They leave their expired ads up when they're not escorting, and reactivate them on return.
If a profile's been inactive for years, he abandoned Rent Men or escorting entirely. They're not diligent and don't take down their ads.

I have one regular who brings a friend or two along sometimes, and they're invariably fantastic, so I get exploration with less risk of disappointment along with the regularity. One of his friends, who's in my city, is now a regular too . . . and now he has a friend he wants to introduce. It's great. 

“Emerson said, ‘A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.’
Maybe so. But an intelligent consistency - and rigorous quality control - in hiring escorts is probably a big part of why I’ve never woken up in a questionable Bogotá hotel bathtub full of ice, conducting an unexpected inventory of my internal organs.
People mock routine & "regularity" until they’re the ones explaining to the local constabulary or consular official how ‘spontaneity’ turned into a missing wallet, a fractured rib, and a mysterious rash.
Yes, I exaggerate but sometimes the so-called hobgoblin of little minds is really just the patron saint of risk management. Especially in situations involving strangers, dim lighting, locked hotel doors, and the kind of decision-making process that begins with, ‘What’s the worst that could happen?’”
I believe in "cautious exploration" in hiring, but my preference is usually for reliable regularity. 

I prefer not to limit myself with "OR" statements. 
I choose Exploration AND Regularity.
I have the small group of guys that I see at least once a month while I'm at home, and also like to see a guy each day when I'm traveling.  When traveling, I like to alternate every other day between a new guy and a regular guy that I see every time I'm in that city.  When in a new city where I haven't seen anyone there yet, my boyfriend at the time will have to suffice as my "regular" in until I establish a small group of regulars in that city.
Ideally, I would like a larger group of regulars to see more often, and then participate in more anonymous gang bangs to satisfy my exploration urges.  But, alas, I'm a pretty shy person.

About 4 years back I was watching some random award wining LGBT movie. While watching I felt it was kind of ok, not too good not too bad either, I was kind of fwd it a bit here and there ... and when it was around 80% done, one of the guy said a line and I had to pause, this is the line I said many many years ago .... and I started to cry with tears, I never cry ... I didn't cry over divorce and a ton of other things but there was a pain I never knew in my heart and I cried  ... there was ton of memories I had never visited buried in a grave yard of years  .... afterwards I cried for days, weeks and kid you not for 3-4 months 
I realized movie had a lot of overlap with my childhood story. I remember seeing my that friend first time I had a huge crush on, even when I hadn't spoken to him by then, we were probably 5-6 years old, I met him in our local neighborhood where he temp moved in .. and after few days he was in my school and in the same class, after 2 years or so we were in the same neighborhood and our houses were close by. Once I moved near his place we were inseparable. We would go to school together, come home together, eat at either one of our homes lunch and dinner, do home work together, play sports together, everyday starting age 8 till we turned 14. Now I feel he had a huge crush on me as well. He will imitate everything I do, would stare at me occasionally and always show huge affection towards me. I was kind of nonchalant back then. 
As we were growing up, things started to change fast,  one fine day he got really mad at me for calling some random girl he was pretending to have a huge crush on some normal nick name. He showed macho moves and that fight surprisingly ended things then and there. During that fight he called me names and said never to talk to him. When I reflect back he was immature in many ways during our growing up time as well.
After school we went to different colleges, never bumped into each other except at one event, our families knew each other very well, college started, he went to a different country, I got his # and called him up one night after many years, we spoke for few min but things were not the same. Ultimately I moved to the same country. A long time ago I was in a subway, and I felt the person in the cart must be him, by that time we were in our early 20s. I was staring at him, called his name in a low tone the person remaind quiet, and ultimately a stop came he disembark but did look back. I did Google afterwards and it seemed he did graduate from the school the subway he stepped out at.
I bumped into his sister after few years, she took my #, according to her he had visited her # of times, and he was planning to visit again, but he never bothered to reach out. He is married with kids and so do I.
I am a totally different person now, the time and life experiences have surely changed me. I am not sure why I cried for those few months either remembering pure friendship for the one who was also close to heart, or it is the loneliness I find myself in these days. I was also sad thinking if we would have remained friends life would have been alot different then what is now for sure. All my childhood friends knew how close we were & if I ever meet anyone they would surely ask if I am in touch with him, as everyone was also surprised we never connected after that stupid fight.
I some times dream of him us talking, I also think what would I do if we bump into each other, if he rings my home bell. I remember his hands, his face so well after so many years.His sister has moved out, he lives on a different coast, our lives might never intersect. Many years back, after meeting his sister one of his parents called me out of blue and we spoke for half an hour or so. We still have some lose common connections, can get our #s with little to no effort. I feel I have tried reaching out a few times, added him to FB, when FB just started hoping to remain intouch but ultimately he removed me from his list or doesn't use FB any more... 
Movie rekindled old memories of around 8 years we were together almost each day ... everything happens due to a reason .... somehow there is a hole in my heart, probably there shouldn't be one.
People can be unbelievable cruel