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    behavior when seeing a porn star or print model

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    I have met many porn actors/stars and most of them are very normal easy going people. Only a few have talked about their porn careers and none in “I’m a star!” type of way. At least not the ones I’ve met.

    So, for me, it’s easy for me to not fawn over them. Many (some Ive met for business and some socially), beyond their good looks and incredible bodies just wanted to be treated normally or as friendly as one can in the transactional nature of their business.

    You’ll definitely go further in experience with them or whatever relationship if you don’t treat them as an object… well unless that’s their kink in the bedroom. 😛 :D

    Like anyone, they like to told they’re sexy, beautiful/handsome or what have you but definitely not in a profusely gushing manner continuously.

    T_ravisyouth

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    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    4 hours ago, Jostar said:

    Seems he back 

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    With a new profile. I forgot what was his name on original profile 

    He went by Travis Youth.

    I know he's been through some things in the last number of years. However, he was always sweet and very affectionate with me. He was an amazing kisser and we had many great encounters. I'd see him again.

    ADDENDUM

    I forgot, when he first started working through planetjockboys he went by Greg Jock. He eventually changes to Travis Youth.

    Los Angeles providers that cater to overweight clients

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    Posted

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    Latino circumcised bottoms - the near impossible find

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    16 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

    Not off-putting at all. Verse is too much of a risk, whereas indicating just one position exclusively lets me know exactly what they're (near) definitely up to. I prefer verse, but know that regardless of whether someone lists top / verse or bottom / verse, there's that out to entirely refuse what I might like.

    In my experience any i saw who listed as verse or verse bottom has absolutely been willing to bottom. You shouldn't exlude verse if what you're looking for is difficult to find.

    As an aside.. I don't hire as many verse/tops or tops only as i used to. However, even some of those who list top only have been willing to bottom. It comes down to chemistry and the comfortability between the client and provider.

    Pornstar escorts I have hired

    in The Deli

    Posted

    43 minutes ago, MikeThomas said:

    I was looking around boyfriendtv and stumbled on a hot video of Donnie Dean... former pornstar and escort.  I used to visit him in Waco where he was going to school.

    He disappeared from porn and escorting.  He was always a lot of hot, sexy fun.  Hope he is doing well wherever he is.

    He started to escort again, beginning Nov of last year.

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    "Chit Chat" Regarding Provider/ Client Action

    in The Lounge

    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    To the OP, I think you're doing the right thing by keeping the conversation professional and not engaging in some ot the talk amongst your clients in common.

    In my experience, I have had long term providers tell me a lot of stuff. Things like deeply personal stuff; their dealings with potential and current clients; and their dealings with other escorts. I don't repeat what they tell me to anyone. Inturn, I usually don't go into great detail about my encounters with other providers. Even after specific providers shared all this info about whatever, I resisted doing so for a long time.

    The one time I decided to share info, it lead to one provider recounting information inaccurately to another. I believer that ultimately caused a riff between me and one of my long term providers. I mean it wasn't the only thing, but this provider kept bring back up this info even after I told him it was inaccurate. He just never seemed to want to let it go. I think from that point on our working relationship went down hill.

    Since then I have gone back into not sharing my encounters with other providers. If I do share any info it's extremely vague and I never share the escorts name. I truly believe, although some providers are genuinely interested in hearing the exploits of their clients, there are also those who get offended or maybe even jealous hearing the info. So it's best to keep that info very surface.

     

    switching from being bottom to top with no in-between

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    20 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

    An observation, sure, but it's also an escort's personal preference.  

    I went through this myself.  At some point, I was no longer really interested in bottoming. 

    I built my body up to what it is now and my clients no longer saw/see me as fuckable, but the guy who doles out the fuck.

    Embrace the change.  Lean into the curve.

    Well I for was sad about the switch. :D I think when I first noticed you early in my hiring career you listed as verse or verse/top. At that time I never hired anyone from another state.
    You will always be fuckable to me... although, I'm sure you're a great doler. 😛

    Do providers cum out of obligation, or desire?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    To answer your question I think it's a little bit of column "A" and a little from column "B". It really depends on the escort... his physical limitations, how horny he is, whether he's in it to have fun too, etc.. 😛 

    I would say out of all the providers I met most of them orgasmed/came. I have never asked/told an provider before the fun began, "I want to see you cum."  For me personally, it kind of takes away the experience, to say that in the beginning. Although I do understand it's a very import outcome for some clients. No pun intended. So i get why people ask upfront.

    I have had a few providers ask me directly if I wanted them to cum after I had already did. I'm easy going... so I usually say, "if they want to." Most have. Some don't. For me the best is when it's obvious the provider wants to cum without me prompting. Even better when I make them cum and they didn't expect it or they're in the moment. I think one of my hottest is after a long session, I orgasmed and sat up to stretch at the edge of the bed. The escort says to me, "where are you going. I want to cum too"... raging boner in hand. I reassured him I wasn't going until he was happy as well. :) 

    Muscle guys in San Francisco?

    in The Deli

    Posted

    1 hour ago, myophile said:

    I’ve set up a 2 hour session next weekend with Chad/ErosFlow. What a hot little fucker he is! 

    I'm jealous. :D I tried to hire him for an overnight but he doesn't travel unless he's met you previously. I don't know if I'll ever get to San Fran to see him.

    Muscle Daddy - Doc Rock/ Ft. Lauderdale

    in The Deli

    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    I was going to cosign what @rvwnsd stated. :)

    I did meet him once in DC at a Motel 6 many years ago. He was not the best kisser or the most responsive lover, but he looked like his pics at the time. We both seemed to enjoy the time together. He was very friendly as I seem to recall and talked about his porn career a little after our bedroom fun. I would have hired him again but he stopped advertising shortly after we met. He advertise a few times after we met, but he never came back to my area.

    battling for escort time with content creators

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    IMHO, it depends on the provider.

    There are guys who will flake on you in a heartbeat. However, there are guys who honor what they set up with you.

    Years ago, I set up an appointment (ahead of time) with a well known porn actor. The day of the meeting, hours before the scheduled time, he let me know we were not going to meet. He flat out told me he set up a porn shoot that morning and needed to fly out. No apology, no remorse. 

    On the flip side, a provider who've I been seeing a few times a year now has been one of the most reliable guys I've met in this hobby. He has done porn and has an onlyfans. We had set up a weekend and by happenstance a guy he wanted to shoot content was going to be in town the same time he was with me. We talked previously about how much he wanted to shoot with this guy. So I offered to let him go shoot content with the guy. I wouldn't count it against our time (since I told him he could). He told me no. He said it was sweet of me to offer but he was there with me and enjoyed being with me. He has been a very stand up guy from the moment we met.

    Both the escorts in my examples were in their mid to early 30s. I would say it's not necessarily an age thing.

    Apollo Phoenix

    in The Deli

    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    19 hours ago, Anthony said:

    I commend you so much for trying to help us out who would love to meet this provider! 🙏 

    @azdr0710 @big-n-tall It's called good decency to respond to potential new clients instead of ignoring them which is pretty impolite. Never said he owed anyone anything. I've been with a provider in the past who didn't initially answer my requests and eventually responded with an apology. That creates a good friendship and makes me want to see the provider again. I would totally move on from someone who clearly doesn't want anything from new clients including $$$ but I've repeatedly mentioned there's not that many providers in my area with no other options around and I tried for over a year hoping things would change. 

     

    If he’s not looking for new clients, as multiple people have stated to you, why should he have to respond to you or anyone he doesn’t want to? He hasn’t advertised for more than 10 years. He hasn’t actively given out his contract info in that same amount of time. He has no control over people finding his contact info or people giving it out (for or against his wishes).

    You may not have stated directly that he owes you anything but you sure do act like you think he owes you a response. Again he doesn’t. It would be one thing if he was advertising and didn’t respond but he isn’t advertising. Questioning someone’s decency because they don’t respond to you is ridiculous. Do you respond to telemarketers who call you? Because according to what you’ve stated you have too out of decency.

     I understand you are desperate to meet him but he clearly isn’t interested in meeting new people. He has told people he’s in contact with this.., which they have relayed to you.

    I understand your area is lacking what you desire but you can’t worm your way into someone’s life who doesn’t want it. You’ve tried more than a year and no response. That non-response should tell you exactly what others have said… he’s not interested. You refuse to accept the obvious

    Your only choice right now is to bring someone in or go somewhere that has people who fit what you desire. If you can’t then maybe Grindr is an option.

    I won’t respond to you anymore because you seem to think what you want is more important than what he wants… to be left alone and not see new people. Clearly, what people have told you repeatedly, you just won’t believe or accept.

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