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    Apollo Phoenix

    in The Deli

    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    19 hours ago, Anthony said:

    I commend you so much for trying to help us out who would love to meet this provider! 🙏 

    @azdr0710 @big-n-tall It's called good decency to respond to potential new clients instead of ignoring them which is pretty impolite. Never said he owed anyone anything. I've been with a provider in the past who didn't initially answer my requests and eventually responded with an apology. That creates a good friendship and makes me want to see the provider again. I would totally move on from someone who clearly doesn't want anything from new clients including $$$ but I've repeatedly mentioned there's not that many providers in my area with no other options around and I tried for over a year hoping things would change. 

     

    If he’s not looking for new clients, as multiple people have stated to you, why should he have to respond to you or anyone he doesn’t want to? He hasn’t advertised for more than 10 years. He hasn’t actively given out his contract info in that same amount of time. He has no control over people finding his contact info or people giving it out (for or against his wishes).

    You may not have stated directly that he owes you anything but you sure do act like you think he owes you a response. Again he doesn’t. It would be one thing if he was advertising and didn’t respond but he isn’t advertising. Questioning someone’s decency because they don’t respond to you is ridiculous. Do you respond to telemarketers who call you? Because according to what you’ve stated you have too out of decency.

     I understand you are desperate to meet him but he clearly isn’t interested in meeting new people. He has told people he’s in contact with this.., which they have relayed to you.

    I understand your area is lacking what you desire but you can’t worm your way into someone’s life who doesn’t want it. You’ve tried more than a year and no response. That non-response should tell you exactly what others have said… he’s not interested. You refuse to accept the obvious

    Your only choice right now is to bring someone in or go somewhere that has people who fit what you desire. If you can’t then maybe Grindr is an option.

    I won’t respond to you anymore because you seem to think what you want is more important than what he wants… to be left alone and not see new people. Clearly, what people have told you repeatedly, you just won’t believe or accept.

    Apollo Phoenix

    in The Deli

    Posted

    52 minutes ago, Anthony said:

    No I was never able to even communicate with him. Even if he chooses not to meet new clients, he could at least respond and message me directly. It blows my mind how quickly he responded to @Caddy11

    Why should he? He doesn’t know you. He doesn’t owe you anything. He doesn’t have to respond to anyone he doesn’t want to. 

    If he had to respond to every random person who found his contact information, he’d probably be texting all night and day.

    Everyone who talks about seeing him recently is someone he met and knows. As has been mentioned, he’s happy with his current situation and is not looking for new clients.

    Texting/contacting him constantly when he hasn’t met you previously will get you absolutely nowhere.

    Photos do not match physical appearance

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    I haven't noticed that, but then again we may be looking for different physical types.

    If the guy has a bodybuilder type build, they often shave. Maybe he uses hairless pics in his ad because that's when he's probably most defined and looks his best in his eyes. So if he's off-season he may be hairy.

    So being hairy vs not hairy stated or not in the ad is not a red flag in my book.

    However, if it's something more permanent... i.e. saying they are circumcised and showing uncut dick in a ad... then.. red flag. Of course that particular thing isn't usually stated on a rentmasseur ad. LOL!

    masseurs that travel together - but don't work together

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Many people have offered very good possible explanations to your query. I'll offer another.

    Maybe they are trying to avoid possible jealousy issues. If they travel together and are a couple, this may be especially the case. I knew a traveling escort boyfriend couple. I saw one of the boyfriends and not the other. At first, they were willing to work together, but (over time) the one I hired told me they had to stop doing that. He said his boyfriend became extremely jealous of this joint encounters. He perceived he was being left out. He felt the client paid more attention to the other. After the sessions it lead to arguments between the boyfriends. So, they stopped working together. I think ultimately it lead to their break up.

    Best Retired Scorts

    in The Deli

    Posted

    4 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

    I came up with a good one.  Dario of Washington DC.

    I can't find any photos, but here are his fantastic reviews.  A friend/client of mine hired him when visiting DC and had a GREAT TIME!

    Escort Dario in DC

     

    Is this the Dario you speak of 

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    …if so he’s not retired. Just a name change.

    411 on Onyxforu ?

    in The Deli

    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    1 hour ago, Ali Gator said:

    Interesting he says 'no penetration'. So what's the difference between hiring him as an escort or an erotic massage ? 

    I think he's just using Rentmen as an additional way to reach the masses to his massage services. If you read that contents of his ad, it's definitely for massage services over escorting. He's advertising just a erotic massage on both sites.

    I wish he were a full service escort because his body is beautiful from head to toe. He's genuinely a sweet guy, with me anyway.

    411 on Onyxforu ?

    in The Deli

    Posted · Edited by big-n-tall

    I have met him a good number of times. Great guy. However, unless he changed his mind since the last time I saw him, he doesn't top or bottom. He's mainly available for massage. At one point he even had in his RM ad that he doesn't provide penetration of any kind.

    He is now offering 4 hand massage with his boyfriend. That's new. He offered a meet up with him and his boyfriend, but I won't be in town when he's in my area.

    ADDENDUM
    He still has the "no penetration" statement in his Rentmen ad. I swear it wasn't there earlier, but it's back.

    Best Retired Scorts

    in The Deli

    Posted

    18 minutes ago, TruHart1 said:

    Alec Andrews

    Andrew Justice

    Victor Powers

    Ricky Decker (now retired and living his best straight life, to whom I wish only the best, always.)

    Mike Gaite (who appears to exclusively do ‘only fans’ collabs these days!)

    Armand from Mexico (who unfortunately was stopped at the border back during the pandemic and banned from the U.S. for not having a work permit.)

    And finally, very sadly, two wonderful guys who have passed:
    Jake Morgan, and

    Bryan Knight

    TruHart1 😎

    Mike Gaite isn't retired and still has an ad up. Mind you he travels a lot but he doesn't appear to be retiring any time soon judging by his schedule.

    411 on Former Porn Star Rowan (of Corbin Fisher), now available in MD

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I met him a few times years ago and had a good time each time. He's not the deepest kisser but he seemed to be enjoying himself during the sessions. So, I was kind of excited at the possibility of seeing him again.

    About a month ago, I reached out to set something up. The day we were supposed to meet crickets. Shortly after, his ad expired. So when his ad re-appeared recently, I asked him what happened. He claimed his phone was stolen and apologized for not getting back to me. The number he has associated with ad currently is different then the one he gave me in October. So maybe he's telling the truth.

    I don't know if I'll try to meet up with him again.

    Hermess in LA

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    18 hours ago, Yoyohey said:

    I’d give it another shot.  It’s not my place to say give him a pass, but he was refreshingly good.

    Thanks for the encouragement, but nah! :D

    I've been burned giving someone a second chance who stood me up after ghosting me. He didn't even bother to come up with a lame excuse. So, I'll just admire him from afar and leave it at that. There are plenty of masseurs and providers who stick to their word/commitment.

    I am glad you had a good time with him. In my hiring career, I realized some people just aren't for everybody.

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