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A situation where the words “mind fucking” take on a whole new meaning 

It dawned on me last night that I've probably been affected by supply chain issues in another way.  I usually buy cheap, low-end pot. For the last couple of weeks my dealer has told me she just can't find any.  I had to buy some of her cheaper high-end yesterday.  The cheap stuff is probably being smuggled in in some shipping containers that are on a cargo ship off the coast of somewhere.  I know there's a backlog at the port in Bayonne, NJ.

I found https://rent.men/Atlasxci/#platinum to be a good bottom and he should be able to play the role you look for.

I’m well over 50. Still as horny as a 20 yr old. Sex is still good yet evolving as my tastes and body changes. It’s all good 

can't say that I like the new look that much

Sex is certainly different in my 50's, but I'm still as horny as I was in my 20's.  I've also noticed that it's changed somewhat as I've now advanced into my late 50's.  I have a partner, a couple of fuck buddies, hire on a regular basis, and still try my luck on Grindr from time to time, so the interest is definitely still there.  Sex is different in that like the previous poster I'm only good for one shot per session so I've developed strategies for prolonging the experience and have found that I'm paying more attention to my partners and their enjoyment.  I've also broadened the pool, whereas I used to be only interested in younger, fit men (the Belami look as an earlier poster referenced), I've had great experiences with older, chubbier, and alternative (trans, CD) individuals.  Perhaps I'm mellowing a bit, or maybe just becoming less of an asshole as I age...  but the sex is still good.

Sailor hustling while on leave? 

One thing I can assure you is that sex in your 50s can be great but it is likely to be different than sex in your sixties.  In my fifties I was still able to orgasm 3 times in a 2 hour session and usually 5 times in an overnight providing the provider was willing to keep going.   While I now am able to enjoy a full two hour session, it is usually a one shot deal for me.  Knowing that ahead of time, I can take my time and fully enjoy the non-orgasmic aspects of sex rather than rushing to get orgasm number 2 and number three done before my guest is ready to leave.  I have grown to appreciate watching and controlling my partner orgasm for a second or even a third time during our session.  I encourage him to come rather than having him holding out to please me and while watching my partner orgasm is not as physically satisfying as having an orgasm myself, it is usually emotionally more satisfying. It plays into my sense of power and control.  Knowing that I am able to get my sexual partner aroused a second time, feeling his erection grow and then watching as his muscles tense and then watching him convulse in pleasure a second or third time has made my one orgasm as memorable as most sessions when I came two or three times. And in the end, once my partner has come two or three times, I have the ultimate pleasure of having a younger man lying tired and sexually spent while I come to completion over his sweaty prone body.
With overnights, which I tend to have less often these days, the nighttime session is usually a prolonged session with multiple orgasms for him and a final orgasm for me.  The morning session is all about getting me off a second time, which was once an easy task, but which now requires my partner to work diligently to get the job done.
Fair warning here, you need to find a partner that is willing to make the commitment to have multiple orgasms and who is able to change the focus from getting you off to one in which he allows himself to be the focus of the quest for orgasm and who still has energy enough to insure your orgasm at the end.   Having a regular partner who knows this is the goal makes it easier.  Finding such a regular does take effort as many escorts are not so interested in allowing you to enjoy their orgasm as they are in getting the client off.  
As a result, I usually hire mid week during the early afternoon and I am able to send my partner off to the rest of their day, while I am able to lie in the warm sweaty sheets inhaling the thick musky scents of the remnants of my sexual encounter.  

Dogs need structure more than people do, in order to be trained and happy. They need to know what they are going to be fed, and when. They need to know how often they will be given an opportunity to empty their bowels and bladders, and where and when. They need regular exercise and playtime. In other words, you start to structure your life around their needs, or both of you will be dissatisfied.

FWIW: The poster above just joined this site yesterday to make this recommendation, in his only post.

In some aspects yes, in some aspects no. For example in my personal life I tend to wear clothes more often and when I’ve finished fucking them I don’t ask how they’d like to pay 😂. 

Seriously though…we all play roles in our work. Whatever work that is. 

I think this is fairly common especially with maybe escorts that are still kinda getting their careers together or maybe are just in a bit of a slump. We have to remember, we are their income and if they're not making what they need, of course they are going to reach out to us if we've been a regular source of income before.
I think it does warrant a bit of tact especially if you are wanting to meet with him again. I've often said that I am saving up to hire again in the future and I'll reach out when I'm able to meet. Or that I've just gotten back from a big trip and don't have anything currently left to hire. Gives the impression that you're still interested but also that there really isn't any reason to be pushy since you honestly cannot afford to hire. 
Obviously  if he is being aggressively pushy it can come to the point where you don't want to hire him again and then I would just say so. But if it's just in the slightly annoying range, being tactful is the best bet in my opinion. 

Just gently telling him to stop texting you and you’ll reach out when you’re ready lmao. 
 
But seriously you’re running into a problem a lot of us have had at least once. I had one guy that hit me up all the time and it got annoying. Honestly I think I was the one being used for sex but I was the one paying. I had to just tell him I wasn’t interested anymore. Try just telling him you’d rather be the one reaching out. Some providers I’ve seen may send me a text every now and then just to say hello or tell me their travel plans just so they’re on my radar which is ok with me.  Remember this is a business for them and It’s another way they advertise and keep you interested. However you have to do what’s comfortable for you. If you prefer to do the contacting let him know.

Client reviews aren't really a thing (not here at least).
Private group blacklists still exist.  If someone is a problem, it will quietly be known.
I prefer to keep this place as a 'gentleman's club' of sorts: If we put people here on edge, it won't lend itself to productive, open conversation.

I just had another successful 4some this weekend. I picked a great top. A great bottom. A great straight gay for pay that focused on me. The top and bottom gave a great show and we all hit it off really well. Chemistry is sooo important, whether you’re participating or directing. Good luck and have fun.  I also suggest guys that aren’t camera shy so you can enjoy the experience longgggg after it ends with pics and video  

If you want to watch good action then hire an escort and ask him to recommend the other escort he’d work with. You’ll get a couple who are genuinely into each other. 
If I’m hired to work with another guy then I much prefer to choose the guy I work with (as long as the client is also happy with who I choose, after all they are the customer). That way our client gets a pair who are really into each other and it’s a better show. 

I have hired Jake and all my experience with him were outstanding. What sets him apart and what I enjoyed is his personality-“aura” just a really nice guy to be around.  
From what I read about Leo from others and his review comments, his personality best matched Jake’s name on the list you were provided.  
PM and I may be able to answer any questions. 

Yes. And the down side would be…?  👅

He is a whole lot of trouble. He is also way beyond 22 at this point. 

based in Miami, he runs a business that helps people start businesses on Amazon.....or something......
from his website: We build and scale Managed Amazon businesses with our expert team, utilizing 15 years of Amazon experience to scale your store so you can make passive income with no work. No experience necessary.
I hope he's being honest and all that.....but "passive income with no work"??......is that what we all should be aspiring to??......nobody gets up for free!
his onlyfans page ("iamryansteel") seems to be closed down.....
 

I don’t know yet. So far I only have the list of the three people I don’t want there lol

It's shocking that so many would be uptight about getting paid for it when they keep whoring themselves out for free.
 
 

The vast majority of my hires are when I travel. Providers should not discount this . I typically start contacting potential hires 1-2 weeks prior. They will then ask me to contact them day before , or something along those lines. I may be in LA but looking to hire in London, similarly when I am in London I may be looking at guys in New York.   
 

2,372 miles

Go ahead. It’s your cash, do as you please.
But being stuck on a small Caribbean island with someone I don’t
wan’t be there with sounds like a special level of Hell to me.
Kind of like the ultimate blind overnight hire mistake. 
Deadly? Perhaps not. You’ll just wish you were.