Nightowl

I’m bi and do both. They each have their appeal. Fortunately I’ve found a couple of guys who have been willing to do both with me.

Sure, meetups of forum members do happen. I recently had a great session with a provider who is also on the forum and lives in my area. I reached out to him on CoM via DM, then arranged details via text. I think a lot of forum members also meet during Palm Springs weekend.

A new target for South Park.

I think his tool is in front of his sack.

I use my regular phone. I have no illusions that it is secure so I try to avoid putting anything compromising in my texts. I vet possible providers very carefully and only hire for incall, which ensures that both of us are discreet. If I were hiring for meetups at a hotel, I would use some kind of anonymizer.

I hire because I no longer have any intimacy in my home and I still crave physical touch. It’s easier to hire to get it than it is to find it elsewhere.

Welcome! A lot of us started the same way. Glad you took the leap.

I like to wear a huge gold medallion on a heavy chain. When I wear it with my sea-green polyester leisure suit with the top 3 or 4 buttons undone, it looks particularly hot nestled in my dense chest hair.

We also need the “why” of who hates whom. That’s the juicy stuff.

I wonder if the zoo has a dispenser by the lion enclosure where little Johnny can buy a hamster to throw to the lions…

You’re right, we can only control our own behavior. Unfortunately , it’s sad to have to accept that this forum can be the same cesspool as the rest of the internet.

Several people have mentioned ignoring the offending posters but on a forum like this—small and geared toward people with common interests—is it unreasonable to ask for some level of tolerance and civility from all members? Yes, there are a lot of assholes on fora throughout the internet who revel in the anonymity and freedom to post whatever vitriol they want, but we don’t have to be like them. Scrolling and ignoring are good options but what’s wrong with expecting ourselves to meet a higher standard when posting and commenting?

While we’re discussing adding characteristics to Rentmen, perhaps the penis size should include elaboration on how it was measured.

Excellent points. I suspect there are community members who refrain from making original posts or even commenting because they know the mean girls are just going to make them regret it.

Glad you’re back. Thanks for your hard work in keeping this valuable forum alive!

My feeling is that, if most of what is currently happening in the world and being reporting in the news is not affecting your outlook for the future, peace of mind, and mental health, you are either enjoying your privilege or happy with what is going on.

I think I need a trip to London!

It can get you going from zero to sixty really fast! I got it from someone who is nowhere near Detroit and I no longer recommend him anyway….

I’ll be interested in the providers’ views on whether this is a hint. The clearer signal might be when you raise your hips when his hands start exploring your upper, inner thighs.

It depends. If the masseur has me immediately undress and lie on the table, I’ll point it down between my legs for easy access when he gets to that area. If the masseur has an erotic undressing ritual—and some do—I’ll be too aroused to bend my dick and will have to lie on it until it softens. Then I adjust it downward.

I’ve been surprised at the number of younger guys who are into daddies too. Maybe there’s hope for me in the profession after all. Perhaps I can sign on as an apprentice to one of my local providers…

That’s it ! You’ve cracked the code!

This captures my feeling exactly. Once trust and rapport with a provider is established it becomes easy to let my guard down and be my true self. That openness and intimacy, and the associated memories, can keeps me energized and smiling long after the session is over. If I were younger I would have seriously considered giving other men that same feeling by becoming a provider. Unfortunately, when I was younger I didn’t even know there were men who did this kind of thing as a profession.

The use of superlatives to describe oneself drives me crazy. If I hire you, I’ll be the judge of just how wonderful you are. If you describe yourself as “high class” I’ll automatically assume you aren’t.

Woodford Reserve Double Oaked is one of my favorites.