JamesB

Always ask the provider if they accept US dollars as payment and what their rate would be in that currency.

56 minutes ago, Joe Soflo said:

This one looks suspicious.   Just joined May 8, first review the next day May 9 and already traveling to DC and Chicago.    Proceed with caution

Additionally, the reviewer's account was created on the same day as the review. No to mention Number of appointments: 10+.  🚩

You can actually get a face cradle that attaches to the bed for like $100 on Amazon.

I've never met them, but the mere fact that they disclose a client's phone number in response to a review tells me everything I need to know about them.

I must admit that I don't particularly care or pay much attention if a provider describes themselves as Bi or gay. However, if they label themselves as straight, then I'm not interested. I can't recall having had a genuinely good encounter with someone who identified as straight.

While I understand that providers want to present themselves in the best light and may use filters and some editing, this guy has clearly gone to extremes. He doesn't even look real.

It seems more like a date than a professional hire. Of course, I'm not entirely sure about the nature of your relationship with your provider, but you might want to tone it down a bit.

7 hours ago, allyouknow said:

I met him in nyc last month - it is him - it was a good massage and extras- really nice guy 

Are you talking about https://rentmasseur.com/TommySky ?

One thing that got my attention is that the initial reviewer created their account the day before posting the review. The subsequent two reviews are from the same individual.

I've always believed that the rate paid and the tip given are distinct matters. In my reviews, I'll only mention the rate paid.

https://rentmasseur.com/CarameloBello

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If you're seeking a boyfriend experience or any other experience for that matter, it's advisable to inquire directly with the provider regarding their offerings. Confirm if their services align with your preferences, and don't hesitate to ask questions if unsure. Should you find that something important to you isn't mentioned,  request it to gauge the provider's willingness to accommodate your needs. While some advocate for directness in asking for exactly what you want upfront, in my experience, there are two reasons why this approach may not always be ideal. Firstly, certain providers might agree just to secure the booking, but fail to deliver as promised. Secondly, there's a possibility that the provider may suggest something you hadn't considered, which you might find appealing to explore.

As recommended by everyone, a simple note should suffice if provided with 24 hours or more notice. In cases of less than 24 hours, I would consider negotiating a cancellation fee to be fair.

It appears to be rude and serves as a clear indication of the type of person you're dealing with.

How many more red flags do you need?. Abort and run the other way like you're in a cartoon and the ground's about to disappear beneath your feet!

1 hour ago, DrownedBoy said:

Has anyone ever tried to pay, or been paid with, Travelers' Checks? Those are as good as cash too.

Are traveler’s checks still a thing?.

29 minutes ago, FrankR said:

That is a dick move. If he has a thread here on the forum, please add the comment to his thread to make others aware. 

Maybe we should start a thread with a list of providers that do this. I have had that happen to me as well.

I typically hire once a week, mainly for massages. While there are occasional dry spells, my booking frequency tends to increase significantly when I travel, which happens about every other month.

There's something in his eyes that makes me feel uneasy.

I'm sorry you had to go through this. Falling victim to a scam is unfortunate, but it's a common experience. Learn from it and move forward, avoiding the same mistake in the future. I've lost count of how many times providers have shared tales of financial hardship or family illness with me. When you choose to assist someone, you must accept that the money may not be returned. Additionally, be aware that offering help once often leads to future expectations of assistance.

On 4/29/2024 at 7:54 AM, Starlight77 said:

Any recommendations for Los Angeles providers that do not care (or at least pretend not to care) about a client's weight?   I chatted with two L.A. escorts the past couple of days and volunteered I was 60-70lbs overweight and despite lengthy chats with both before the confession...they both stopped responding to me.     So I figured I would just ask here.  🤷‍♂️ 

All I care that he's into passionate kissing/BFE.   Other details of wants and needs I can talk about with the provider but kissing is a must.    I do not care about race, age, height.   I'm like them all.    

Thanks.   

Being ghosted by a provider due to your weight is actually a blessing in disguise. They're saving you time, money, and potentially a negative experience. While I don't have weight concerns myself, I always disclose my age in the first contact. This habit developed after a peculiar experience a few years ago, which surprisingly turned out to be great in the end. But that's a story for another time. If you're mindful about your weight, it's wise to disclose your height/weight upfront. Most providers will appreciate the heads-up and respond positively, while those who don't, it's a clear indicator that they might not be the right fit, saving you valuable time.

4 hours ago, BigNoiseDallas said:

Unfortunately, I can't post the link to their Rentmasseur page; I looked at their profile multiple times several years ago without booking or contacting them, so they blocked me.

Just so you know, if you log out from Rmass, you'll be able to view all profiles, even those that have blocked you.

When choosing an incall, the provider's location is crucial for me. Typically, I inquire about their approximate area in our initial contact. It's surprising that many of them readily provide the exact address (excluding the unit/apartment number). If Rmass had a location feature, I'm uncertain whether I'd fully trust it. Numerous providers set up their profiles and rarely update them.

I'd define a regular as someone you meet about once a month on average. For instance, if I consistently see a traveling provider every time they're in town, I'd consider them a regular. Likewise, if they consistently see me whenever I'm in their area, it works both ways.