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25 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

I’ve currently got a client booked in for end of June…and it was booked a month ago. He plans ahead! 

Out of sheer curiosity, what percentage of bookings made months in advance typically experience alterations or cancellations?

To be honest, as long as they are clean and well kept, I couldn’t care less.

17 hours ago, glutes said:

Rentmasseur is no better.

Masseurfinder is even worse since negative reviews never even get published.

3 hours ago, BonVivant said:

Has anyone else experienced the removal of a negative review that you leave on RM?  

Yes, it happened to me which is why I no longer have a paid account.

For me, "Online Now" indicates that they're actively logged in and engaging with the platform. However, "Available Now" can be ambiguous. I've encountered providers listed as "Available Now" around the clock, every day. It's puzzling why both terms appear together in search results.

1 hour ago, BaronArtz said:

What is a good website for Latin America, specifically for Colombia?  I am planning a trip.  My straight friends tell me that there are ample very hot women available there at reasonable rates.  I am hoping the same is true for male providers ...

In Colombia I’ve used RM with good results and https://co.skokka.com/ once. https://www.escortsbuk.com/  was recommended to me but I have not used it yet.

12 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

To avoid meeting new folks knowing you can't trust reviews, etc. 

I think there's a misunderstanding. The original poster mentioned that RM reviews can't be trusted, and I happen to agree with that sentiment based on my own reasons, some of which I've outlined. However, your suggestion of sticking solely with my regular providers isn't realistic or practical because providers do retire, change careers, or relocate. So, it's necessary and even desirable to welcome new providers into the mix. After all, who wants to eat the same meal every week?

I have my own set of rules and criteria for selecting new hires, which are based on my experiences. You may or may not agree with them, and that's perfectly okay. While I'd love to try every provider available, I simply don't have the time, energy, or budget to do so. My method isn't flawless, but it suits me, and I continually adjust it as I learn from new experiences. Participating in groups and forums like this one allows me to exchange information and ideas with others, helping me refine my approach. This forum, in particular, facilitates valuable exchanges since it allows both clients and providers, enriching perspectives on both sides.

I hope this clarifies my stance on the matter.

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

Have you thought about sticking to your proven regulars and avoiding taking chances hiring others with or without reviews? 

Why would I?

You can always ask the provider, in a polite manner, how old his picks are. The usual response is sending an updated pic.

59 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

From someone who's gotten multiple reviews from one client, I'd suggest you read between the lines on that one.

While I'm the first to acknowledge that no hiring method is flawless, you're aware that it's uncommon for one provider to receive 4, 5, or more reviews from the same client. So, while it may not be a perfect solution, I prefer having the law of averages in my favor.

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

seems a bit paranoid. 

What about contacting a reviewer by PM who has also reviewed other escorts? 

Do you trust reviews in the old daddy site? Were escorts able to post fake reviews of themselves or others?

Sorry but many threads lately have turn into a way to find excuses NOT to hire. 

I don't believe  I’m being paranoid. It's important to acknowledge that relying solely on RM reviews isn't advisable. Beyond the example I mentioned earlier, there are other factors at play that can impact reviews. Personally, I tend to refrain from leaving negative reviews unless there's a significant issue, like a scam or something that went really wrong.  I'm certain I'm not alone in this approach. So, the absence of negative reviews for a provider doesn't necessarily indicate their quality, does it?

I do read reviews and reach out to reviewers directly. I'm wary when I see multiple reviews from the same person for a single provider; it raises a red flag for me.

As far as I know hiring is entirely voluntary, so I don’t see why anyone would need an excuse not to hire. I hired regularly myself, perhaps even more than I should, but that's a discussion for another thread. I still recall the days of hiring from newspaper ads, without any photos or reviews. However, that doesn't mean I now advocate solely relying on ad content for hiring decisions.

I’m not familiar with the Surface Pro but you may want to check in settings that “Dark Mode” or “Dark Theme” is not selected.

Please, please tell me someone here has met this handsome man.

https://rentmasseur.com/Thaibodyworks

23 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

He's not the only one!

I'm certain he's not the only one. This particular instance, which I have firsthand knowledge of, clearly demonstrates why those RM reviews can’t be trusted.

2 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

A caveat to what I posted above:

I've been getting a lot of messages on the RM platform from other escorts who are looking to fuck off the clock and then write each other reviews.

Not even sure if this scheme would pan out, but it's something to consider when browsing the site.

 

I don’t know about providers reviewing each other but I do know one provider from Rmass that offers 50% off your next massage in exchange for a 5 star review.

What about using a YubiKey? It works across different platforms.

On 2/25/2024 at 11:20 AM, DWsoccer said:

No experience here, so just commenting, but if he is 33, then he's had a rough life........

There's absolutely no chance he's 33.

2 hours ago, Hot4latin said:

I met him. In fact, one of those RMass reviews is mine. He’s a beautiful, sexy man with decent massage technique. Very reasonable rate that included extras without negotiating.  His english is a little broken but we had no problem communicating. He went deep and I liked it…..a lot. John will be one of my first pings when I visit orlando again. 
Looks like he may be partnered or teamed with DavisTopBrazil. They are both traveling in Philadelphia at the moment. I’ve booked with Davis as well and found he wasn’t as engaging. Given the choice, I’d go with John. 

Thanks for the info. I texted him and he seemed nice. I will keep him on my “must try” list.

14 hours ago, Donmasters said:

Does anyone have a provider they would recommend for a guy who is new to sensual/erotic massage? Open to any location really. If it’s near an airport, I could probably find a “reason” to visit 😂

Some context…I’ve hired 3 sensual and/or erotic (what exactly is the difference?) massages now. Each of them were pretty awkward and uncomfortable though.

The first time, the provider had me draped, but slowly removed the sheet while I was laying on my stomach (awesome!) At some point he stepped away for a few seconds and I tilted my head to the side and opened my eyes for a second (he was fully clothed). He blurted “what are you looking at?” and I just said I was adjusting my position while he had stepped away. I remained undraped but nothing more than therapeutic happened.

The second provider, I started undraped and the masseur (fully clothed) had spent a ton of time on my glutes. He had started massaging my prostate and I’m pretty sure his tongue was in my ass when there was a knock on the door…he jumped up and answered the door with my ass in the air! I was so uncomfortable after that I don’t even recall what happened after that.

The most recent provider also started fully clothed and spent a ton of time on my glutes. While I was laying on my stomach he took my hand and started having me stroke him (no longer clothed). He stepped away, but didn’t come back for at least 10 minutes! I didn’t dare open my eyes though for fear of being reprimanded again so not even sure what he was doing.

Am I doing something wrong? SOS 😉

I'm sorry to hear that your experiences haven't been positive. It's essential to choose providers carefully. Start by searching this site for recommendations on specific individuals. Then, ask questions and clearly communicate your preferences to the provider. If you're not completely satisfied with their responses, don't hesitate to move on to someone else. If you're unsure, feel free to ask here, where you'll find plenty of experienced individuals ready to offer guidance.

On 8/30/2023 at 8:50 AM, Wanderoz said:

1 rule:  Just don't do it.

I do love this simple rule.

I do find myself attracted to Latin (and Asian) men, though I've come to realize they vary greatly. While there are some Venezuelan men who are undeniably attractive, my personal experiences with them haven't been the most positive. Conversely, I've found that men from Colombia and Brazil tend to provide better experiences, in my opinion.

24 hours is the maximum amount of time I’m willing to wait for a response before I move on.

In my overall experience, this hasn't been the case. Typically, I tend to ask multiple questions in a single message. If I receive one word responses or answers to only one question, I generally interpret it as disinterest and proceed to the next provider.

18 minutes ago, Harryinny said:

Deleted!

Link fixed.

I've just realized why his profile didn't seem typical for a newcomer: it's a direct copy from: https://rentmasseur.com/DavisTopBrazil