JamesB

How many more red flags do you need?. Abort and run the other way like you're in a cartoon and the ground's about to disappear beneath your feet!

1 hour ago, DrownedBoy said:

Has anyone ever tried to pay, or been paid with, Travelers' Checks? Those are as good as cash too.

Are traveler’s checks still a thing?.

29 minutes ago, FrankR said:

That is a dick move. If he has a thread here on the forum, please add the comment to his thread to make others aware. 

Maybe we should start a thread with a list of providers that do this. I have had that happen to me as well.

I typically hire once a week, mainly for massages. While there are occasional dry spells, my booking frequency tends to increase significantly when I travel, which happens about every other month.

There's something in his eyes that makes me feel uneasy.

I'm sorry you had to go through this. Falling victim to a scam is unfortunate, but it's a common experience. Learn from it and move forward, avoiding the same mistake in the future. I've lost count of how many times providers have shared tales of financial hardship or family illness with me. When you choose to assist someone, you must accept that the money may not be returned. Additionally, be aware that offering help once often leads to future expectations of assistance.

On 4/29/2024 at 7:54 AM, Starlight77 said:

Any recommendations for Los Angeles providers that do not care (or at least pretend not to care) about a client's weight?   I chatted with two L.A. escorts the past couple of days and volunteered I was 60-70lbs overweight and despite lengthy chats with both before the confession...they both stopped responding to me.     So I figured I would just ask here.  🤷‍♂️ 

All I care that he's into passionate kissing/BFE.   Other details of wants and needs I can talk about with the provider but kissing is a must.    I do not care about race, age, height.   I'm like them all.    

Thanks.   

Being ghosted by a provider due to your weight is actually a blessing in disguise. They're saving you time, money, and potentially a negative experience. While I don't have weight concerns myself, I always disclose my age in the first contact. This habit developed after a peculiar experience a few years ago, which surprisingly turned out to be great in the end. But that's a story for another time. If you're mindful about your weight, it's wise to disclose your height/weight upfront. Most providers will appreciate the heads-up and respond positively, while those who don't, it's a clear indicator that they might not be the right fit, saving you valuable time.

4 hours ago, BigNoiseDallas said:

Unfortunately, I can't post the link to their Rentmasseur page; I looked at their profile multiple times several years ago without booking or contacting them, so they blocked me.

Just so you know, if you log out from Rmass, you'll be able to view all profiles, even those that have blocked you.

When choosing an incall, the provider's location is crucial for me. Typically, I inquire about their approximate area in our initial contact. It's surprising that many of them readily provide the exact address (excluding the unit/apartment number). If Rmass had a location feature, I'm uncertain whether I'd fully trust it. Numerous providers set up their profiles and rarely update them.

I'd define a regular as someone you meet about once a month on average. For instance, if I consistently see a traveling provider every time they're in town, I'd consider them a regular. Likewise, if they consistently see me whenever I'm in their area, it works both ways.

From my experience, around 75-80% of providers typically reply within a few hours. The remaining either don't respond at all or do so days later. My initial message is pretty standard, usually along the lines of: "Hi xxxx, I came across your ad at xxxxx. I'm interested in xxxxx. Could you please share your rates and availability for [day and time].

11 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I would say so. I look at guys who are versatile as they bottom or top pretty equally or enjoy both equally. But a vers/top or vers/btm  they usually prefer and enjoy one over the other but will do the other with the right guy or for pay or when the mood strikes.

Honestly, I find enjoyment in both roles, and my ideal scenario is when I can switch during an encounter. However, I'm not a fan of the preparation required for bottoming, so I'm selective about who I engage in that role with.

Not an escort but https://rentmasseur.com/AlexStar is fairly good at edging. Just let him know what you would like.

I have always considered myself as vers but, yes there is always a but, I will not bottom for just anyone. On the other hand, I will Top just about anything that moves. Does that make me vers Top?

I typically allow 15 to 30 minutes, depending on the location and time of day. The duration also depends on the quality of their communication regarding the situation. I had a regular who always sent a screenshot of Google Maps showing the estimated time of arrival when he was en route. I valued this approach greatly, prompting me to adopt the same practice for in-call appointments.

1 hour ago, DWnyc said:

I’ve met self-defined straight, bi and gay providers who act like they’re doing humanity a favor by allowing a modicum of interaction to those who they see as bottom of the league - the orientation is less important than how they see themselves vs the client in this case 

This is especially true from providers that view themselves as models.

Honestly, I'm not particularly keen on overnight arrangements. I've only engaged in them with two providers with whom I had long-standing relationships. One used to accompany me on travels often, while the other would stay over if he didn't have any more clients for the night. The idea of an overnight with someone I don't know well or have only met a few times doesn't appeal to me. I suppose everyone has their preferences.

If you are willing to go the masseur route, Jorge might be an option. He is more of a rub and tug type deal. He does have a great body but not massage skills to speak of. He is open to extras for the right fee and he is a bottom.

https://rentmasseur.com/JorgeSB

Posts like this do more harm than good for a provider. Instead of helping, they act as a red flag. Anyone reading them is more likely to seek out a different provider.

With my regular providers, I don't confirm rates each time I engage their services. However, every six months to a year, I inquire whether they have updated or revised their rates. To date, none of my regulars have altered their rates on me.

I haven't had the chance to meet him in person, but I really miss his contributions on the forum. He consistently displayed kindness and positivity in his interactions here.

Weight: 360 lbs???

Outcalls £1000!!!. 😲

He's been around for quite some time and travels often. He ought to be in his early 40s by now. It's been about two years since I last laid eyes on him. Although the pictures in his ad are outdated, he's still stunning and maintains a great body. My experience with him was excellent. MN, MT, HE, with the added bonus of crossing into Deli territory at no extra charge. If our paths cross again, I'd certainly hire him without hesitation.

Everyone deserves a degree of privacy. If someone chooses not to disclose their occupation, it's important to respect their decision.