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For real? There are ads stating that?

Great information. Thank you for your efforts and for sharing it.

I have no interest in shaming or attacking you, though I do understand that some might be pissed (for lack of a better word) to find out that the reason is not happening is money, especially after so much support and advice was provided. When this thread started, I remember suggesting to plan for the worst case scenario. This might not be the "worst" scenario, but it's most certainly not the one expected. If it's not going to happen for you, what do you plan to do to move on from this, if at all? What's next, start trying to save money to make it happen in the future or forget about the whole thing? I'm not judging you or attacking you. Financial reasons are legitimate reasons to not proceed (though finances change). What's next for you? Hopefully you don't obsess and get creepy when you see him, nor it becomes too awkward, and hopefully you can come up with the money in the future. But how you handle this from this point on is important.

Seen him in porn and he seems to be the real deal. Versatile and willing to do a lot.

There are certain words, but to me is mostly about the overall tone of the ad. I find some ads written in a way that I find off-putting. As for specific words: I'm a top Repeating that they are a top millions of times in a paragraph (looks like they are trying to convince themselves of it) straight Worship Don't waste my time

I hope they weren't gardening gloves. I agree that he might not be in the right line of work. There's no way I'll allow it. I don't pay to feel like I am a Petri dish full of germs. That's not going to fly with me.

I was teaching a computer class at a Tech School in Perth Amboy, New Jersey. One of my students saw it in MSN News and told us in class. Later we could see the smoke from the Raritan Bay. We all saw online when the second tower collapsed. I felt guilty later because the first thing that came to mind was noting the physics of it, how "beautifully" the structure collapsed as it is expected from its structural design, without thinking about the people in the building. I used to hang out at the one an only little corner of the towers that stood, where the Borders bookstore was.

I'd be very curious myself if I was in that situation. Sounds interesting. I think the reason(s) for the change can only be given by him. Without much knowledge about him it's difficult to establish or even guess a reason. A good following step [in terms of actions] is to just let him be in control of the situation as it seems he has been. As a masseur, there are no rules regarding what else can happen. He calls the shots. In terms of communication, I wonder how comfortable are you with simply asking. I think it's a fair question to ask, after years of sessions suddenly there's a change. Asking the right way and the right time, not coming across as greedy or creepy, can give you a clear idea of what's in his mind(set).

Annoying influencers running out of ideas for attention. As other mentioned, I'd check the rules for photography and cameras in the locker room. Not all the gyms I've been to have a warning in the locker room, but there are policies around photography in most private establishments.

Most massages I've had cover my eyes when turned over. I've never have a problem engaging or being intimate with my eyes covered. I always manage, I guess. When I'm interested in the massage portion, having my eyes closed or covered keeps me in my happy place. When I want/expect extras, having my eyes covered has never been an issue. My body speaks for itself, I guess.

Happy Ending. I have not been to Mexico City, but if you are on Facebook, there are several groups of massages for men there. Seems like there are plenty to choose from, and many look like good quality.

Pool Boy Gardnener Construction Worker Priest, Elder, Pastor, Minister, all kinds of religious authority figures. Pilot Flight attendant Fireman Policeman Mechanic

We don't know what you know. It's hard to suggest without some basic details (don't need to be explicit).

I agree that not all of the inexpensive providers result in a less than ideal experience. Personally I haven't experienced "toothless", "much, much older", or a picture of the guy in the profile that shows him in much better shape than he is now. There have been differences, but not to the point where I feel that I should sue for false advertising. I mostly stay away from very inexpensive providers. My thought is that my willingness to pay comes with an expectation of a level of quality. For poor quality I rather use some hookup app or website. The less expensive ones that I have ventured hiring have resulted in good experiences, have gone beyond the basics. The opposite is true too, some of the ones at the regular price or above have not been worthy of the expense. This is a high-risk setting for both sides of the business, so as clients there's always going to be a risk of being deceived, regardless of the price. Just my experiences, not law.

From the people who claim that Jesus walked on water. Sure, "I'm delussional". https://youtu.be/pCg-SNOteQQ?si=4KgMk-9eLaEgxHIQ

According to their website, they are "Prebiotic fiber gummies for bottoms. Designed to eliminate long prep routines and increase confidence." You eat a gummy and you become a confident bottom or something.

We are living in real strange times. People want attention, people use coming out as a PR strategy, we now have the concept of "elitism by victimhood" claiming that they are entitled to do and have whatever because they are victims, and many people seem to think that they don't exist if they don't post and advertise everything about their lives in social media. "Struggling" with something has become a way of people obtaining attention and special treatment. I find it disgusting, especially since people who are really struggling and real victims are still suffering and now they have to compete with the attention seekers.

I don't see a problem with inquiring about it. Body hair (and lack thereof) is a common preference. Of course, when I ask I try not to come across as creepy.

Too many people trying to get pictures for pleasure and not for business reasons. Just my guess.

I wish that's the kind of issue I had with my neighbors. Anyway, think about what could be the implications in case things don't work out. In past posts you have shared negative experiences with providers cancelling at the last minute, blocking you (if I remember correctly) and other similar things. How will you feel/react/handle if any of those things happen with that gentleman? Will you be OK seeing him if he stays living there? Only you can know if you could properly handle and feel OK experiencing the worst case scenario. Best

Take it seriously, and try to document the incidents in case it might need to escalate into involving the police. This might sound obvious, but be consistent with your answers to any attempts at contact, say no all the time to anything that he offers, firmly, don't accept anything, including invitations to meeting him "to talk". I'm sorry that's happening to you. Best

I've said that in the past. A provider that preaches to his clients to me are signs that they are too indoctrinated with the christian shit. Sometimes that can backfire.

Online is not too pervasive, in my experience, I don't mind. Streets hustlers in certain cities are more annoying when they do that, especially when they persist more than the Jehovah's Witnesses. I've had some in RM reach out and I also had a few pleasant exchanges. They ended with me telling them that I am far from where they are but if they visit my city I'll reach out. One of the men who reached out who was visiting my city did business with me. It doesn't bother me, but I did notice that they were not aggressive when they did, and they kept the messages short. I believe that done right, it could be a good marketing strategy. However, I am not one of those who are nasty right away. I do know that some people are not too polite in their first response. In the other thread I mentioned that I find it more annoying when companies do that.

This is not about having the last word. There's a history here. I am right, end of the story. Live with it.

Great if it enhances your self image. Enjoy.