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It’s ok to ask directly in advance. I’ve had guys contact me to ask about BB and if it’s ok to breed or cum inside (however you want to characterize it). So no need to be shy, if it’s important to you just ask.

I’ve found paying to be a Sponsor gives good visibility and is worth the money. Same with RM of the Day, if you can find an available slot. I haven’t tried Platinum boost so can’t speak to that.

In my experience this kind of manipulation is part of what to expect in an appointment where PNP is involved. I don't indulge, but have from time to time agreed to an appointment where the client indulges. In these instances I've found the issue is sense of time gets lost for the client, and it's hard to end these sessions within a reasonable timeframe (let alone get paid).

Last time I was in Palm Springs I went with a buddy to the Bear Wear store: Bear Wear Unique Clothing for men of all sizes. Fun gifts and sexual accessories - Bear Wear BEAR-WEAR-ETC.SHOPLIGHTSPEED.COM Bear Wear Boutique, in the heart of Arenas District in downtown Palm Sprints, is for the community. Featuring Men's Apparel, Swim, Shirts, Shorts and accessori They had a lot of fun, stylish things for big guys. I think the swim shorts look especially good on a big guy. However unfortunately their website shows most of their offerings being modeled on slim, chiseled bodies, which seems counterproductive. I'm guessing these are the stock images that are provided by the manufacturers. In any case, the swim shorts and the short/shirt sets are fun and look good.

Lots of great suggestions here. Ultimately the only way to see what it's like is to give it a try. I still remember my first client, back when I was just a young(er) thing. I had a severe case of imposter syndrome, and wondered whether I could really carry this off. Would someone actually pay me for this? Not only did he say he had a good time, but also said I was not charging enough. That seemed like a good confirmation. Initially I was advertising erotic massage, but after the first few massages I realized I really liked the sex part better. I know masseurs who say the exact opposite, so some of this is figuring out what you really enjoy. For me, I decided I wanted to offer escort services, and I really enjoy it. It can take a while to get traction as well. New and fresh will have appeal, but others will wait around until they've seen your listing for a while. So it's important to keep the listing going for a while so that potential clients will be thinking of you over time. Don't be alarmed if things take a bit of time to get going, and as the saying goes, don't quit your day job just yet. On Rentmen you need to get at least the Gold subscription, as nobody will see you in a crowded market if you have a Basic listing. Signing onto a sponsor listing can also really broaden your visibility. On the other hand, you may be a wild success right out the gate, and then you'd have the issue of how to manage your time and not get burned out. I've known some really busy guys, and being able to manage the volume has been an issue for them. Or if you're keeping your day job and trying to accommodate a busy hiring schedule, that can be stressful too so put some thought into how to balance things so you're in a good space for your clients and for yourself. This site is a great sounding board so don't be a stranger!

Happy Birthday PK! May all your wildest dreams cum true… 😛

Lol I’ve rented pickup trucks on more than one occasion so I’d fit in with the local context. The prices are usually really good, and it feels so butch!

It's always possible to cherry-pick news stories to suit one's narrative. This can also be done to present a more positive narrative. Here are headlines from this past week that present a more optimistic narrative: From the San Francisco Business Times: "San Francisco Sees Siginficant Jump in Return-To-Office Study" "IKEA on Market Street Set to Open This Month." The story mentions that "San Francisco is the first pioneering U.S. site for the company's new urban-centric format..." From the San Francisco Standard: "Out-of-Town Zillow Users Are Lusting After San Francisco Property" "Downtown San Francisco’s Return to Office Highest Since Covid" Interestingly, the San Francisco Chronicle is really, really negative. I had a hard time "cherry-picking" any positive stories from that source. My earlier observation that vast majority of the city looks great also implicitly acknowledges that some areas do not look great. And yes, the Federal Building on 7th Street is an awful blighted mess. 6th Street had traditionally been the City's "Hamsterdam," but it has become marginally better in recent years. Meanwhile, 7th Street has declined. Seems like the trouble has migrated towards 7th. The design of the Federal Building doesn't do any favors. Generally I like modern architecture, but that building is just butt-ugly. It's built like a fortress, and was further fortified after 9-11, so its perimeter is a no-man's land that is conducive to nefarious acts. I didn't know that policing of the building is handled by Federal Protective Services. We all know that there are legal limitations to prohibiting people from camping on the streets, despite the blight it brings, thanks to that frustrating court decision. So I suppose the Fed's hands are tied on that one. But it seems like the drug dealing could be cleaned up.

From The San Francisco Standard: People Are Having Sex in Robotaxis, and Nobody Is Talking About It SFSTANDARD.COM A 2018 study said the spread of self-driving cars was likely to mean more sex on the road. San Franciscans are making it happen. My favorite line: As for our adventurous couple, Alex and Megan, they said they’d do it all over again. “I was just along for the ride,” Megan said. “Literally.”

I had something similar happen with a client about 10 years ago. He picked me up after work from my office job, and was horrified with what I was wearing. I was surprised, I thought it was a nice shirt but he said that the fit did not do me any favors. When we got back to his place he had me try on a really well-fitting blazer and I saw what he meant. As others have mentioned, you want clothes that fit well and are flattering, but you don't want them to be crazy tight.

Me too! I don't follow the Friday Funnies thread regularly, but turn to it when I need to lighten my mood. And I think of @jackhammer91406 every time 😘

So back to the original post asking about Doxy PEP. Yes, it's been around for a while, but I think awareness has been increasing lately. A friend of mine mentioned it to me a few months ago, and the last time I saw my doc he suggested it before I asked about it. This was when I was doing my quarterly bloodwork and STI check, so it made sense that he'd suggest it in that context. I also had the concern about the potential for mass long term use of various antibiotics may accelerate the development and spread of antibiotic resistant strains of STIs. Doc said he is not too concerned given the relatively low dosages of the antibiotic, and provided they are taken as advised (just after sex). Take that for what you will... maybe the doc is a shill for the pharmaceuticals, but I know he also keeps up with the medical journals so I trust his judgement. I'm not obsessing over or wanting to argue over statistics; instead my thoughts are if Doxy PEP can prevent or lessen the transmission of STIs, that's something I'm interested in.

Though the question is directed at clients, I'll echo the request from clients to not wear antiperspirant. This is probably the most common request I get from clients, so nowadays before an appointment I'll shower so I'm clean, but don't apply antiperspirant or cologne. Some clients request smelling stinky, but most just want clean but not scented.

I guess this would depend on what the shirt and tie look like. Are they standard office wear, or something sexier? A shirt and tie can look hot and sexy, but can also look boring depending on the specifics. I work in an office during the day, and there are days where my attire would be in the realm of "boring." It's an office job after all, and in some instances it's appropriate to just fly under the radar. On those days, I would not want to show up to see a client wearing my respectable but unexciting work attire so I'll at least have a change of shirt in the car. But there is some leeway at my office, so on some days I'll wear a tighter shirt, or tighter pants, that can go from office to client appointment with just unbuttoning an extra button on the shirt. Here on the west coast, guys aren't wearing ties very much anymore, so I wouldn't wear one to meet a client unless requested. But wearing a blazer over an unbuttoned dress shirt or t-shirt is a common "dress casual" look and can work in most circumstances like a hotel lobby. I'll wear a blazer or wear a nice dress shirt if we're going to dinner, but otherwise I'll usually just wear a hoodie over a tank top with a good pair of jeans.

I'll agree with the others, the one way to find out is to give it a go. And as others have mentioned, this shouldn't be "I love sex so much, I should get paid for it." (i.e., monetizing your sex life). You would be providing a service, so you want to think of what value you are offering for the money. Some guys will get off on the idea of fucking a straight bud, so that could be your angle. Also how well this works will depend on where you are and what the market demand is... I'm a bit bearish myself, and while I do really well in some locations I get no luck in others. So how about those nasty fetishes? Care to share? Maybe some of that can be part of your pitch too.

Thanks for the report. It sounds like fun!

btw, for those of you interested in the Buff Daddy and Adonis events, don't forget to check out the Male Strip Clubs forum! @Buff Daddy does a great job with updates there, and there's lots of fun discussion.

I'll ditto the ditto! I follow his OF and am really impressed by how diligent and professional he is in how he manages it. He seems really friendly and genuine, and of course hot as fuck.

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Great to hear back from you. As others have mentioned we enjoyed your posts back then, and it would be great to have you participating here again.

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I tried Hunqz for a while, hoping to find an alternative or supplement to RM. But nothing but crickets… not much activity there in the US. Too bad since it looks like a decent site overall.

RM has an option in the privacy settings that can be toggled so that a profile does not come up in searches. I'm just guessing that that's what he might be doing. It's useful for providers who want to keep an active profile but are not looking for lots of new clients, and/or work on more of a referral basis.

Lol he is indeed sexy, even if he is misinformed.