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Maybe just maybe he had not had the chance to meet with his buddy for dinner beforehand, so had not eaten dinner after all. If that were the case, he might have felt embarrassed to bring it up, at least initially. That would at least explain the first disappearance if he truly had not had dinner, but two disappearances is odd. Wanting to dive right in and do an overnight is not unusual for a newbie, so don't feel bad. The idea sounds great, but it comes with the issues others have brought up here. My favorite appointment is the long 4-5 hour evening. It provides enough time to grab drinks and dinner, have play time, and some down time. If you're really hitting it off you can extend it to an overnight, but otherwise you can just end things on a high note and get some good rest afterwards.

Mmmmmm…. I’d sure like to check out his briefs!

I use Tunnel Bear for my VPN, works well. I use VPN if I need to modify my rates, and if I want to read the text of the reviews. In order to modify my rates I have to also set my location on RM to somewhere outside of the US, so I pick somewhere in Europe. So if all else fails, try changing your base RM location to somewhere outside of the US and see if that does the trick.

Great work all around… love the paintings, illustrations and photography. Impressive!

I love them. And a man who can draw and write, I’m impressed.

Yes good point. Definitely noticing a lot of that too. So back to the nudists, maybe the younger folks just think it’s too uncool. I know when I was younger we’d roll our eyes at anything that seemed too “hippy.” Of course now I like hippy stuff but with age comes wisdom lol.

I agree. Being naked outdoors is one of life's pleasures, and I think anyone should be able to enjoy it without shame or feeling like they need to conform to some sort of standard. I love being naked outdoors and don't care what everyone else looks like since I know how great it feels. A subset of being naked outdoors is having an outdoor shower. I don't know why it's so exhilarating but it is! Also I'm thinking Gen Z may be a bit less uptight about being naked than the Millennials. At least that's what I've been noticing at the gyms. They aren't spending tons of time naked but aren't all doing the towel dance either.

You can still write a review, but first click on the button to contact the masseur. Be sure you’re logged in so they’ll have record of that. They won’t know whether or not you actually called the masseur, but that’s enough for them to accept a review. You may need to fib on the date of the session so it’s at least the same day or later from when you initially contacted.

I've stayed at Descanso, as well as its sister resorts Santiago and Twin Palms. They're all owned by the same people, and they're all really good. Each has a bit of a different vibe. All very good quality and excellent service. All are clothing-optional. My favorite would be Santiago, followed by Twin Palms and then Descanso, but you can't go wrong with any of them. Sometimes it comes down to which has availability. Hacienda is the gold standard for sure. I haven't stayed as a regular guest, but I've stayed as a guest of a guest and it's a really nice place. It's quieter, and I'm guessing less social than the other resorts. That may be to your liking, or not, depending on what you're looking for. Others who have spent more time there may be able to provide more insight.

I think everything you've outlined is fine, just to have on hand. The only thing you need to mention when he arrives is the offer of beverages. Everything else can just be there in the background. If either of you get hungry, the food can be out on the counter as though it was gonna be there anyway. I like @Vegas_Millennial's suggestion of having the condoms and lube in sight, which is the same thing I do when hosting in a hotel. No need to say anything about it, he'll understand what they're there for. My only concern is you mention the house will be well scented. I'm not sure what that would involve, but I'd suggest against any artificial "room fresheners" like Febreze, Carpet Fresh, etc. since they can be disagreeable to some people (like me - they give me a headache). Scented candles should be OK though, particularly if they're subtle. Lastly, a gift is nice but not necessary. Depends on what it is, but as others have suggested, it might be a bit over the top in trying to impress. Just be freshly showered, welcoming, and respectful of boundaries... that's really all a provider is looking for (and of course to get paid).

Thanks for the link, and glad you had a good time!

By all means do the favor of providing a link to the guy's listing if he has one. Providers need business in order to stay in business, and referrals from this site are especially valuable. If the phone stops ringing (or nowadays, if the texts stop coming), the provider will eventually hang it up for retirement, and that will be the end of that!

I do webcam shows from time to time. For me, it's more for kicks than money. The money doesn't compare to escort income, at least for me. But I like the interaction, and a little extra cash doesn't hurt. I'm not a muscle stud, so someone with a real solid physique might do better. Interaction with the viewers seems to be important, as does being fully naked. People will drop off pretty quickly if the model is not engaging. I don't know how well or not it would work if you're not showing your face, but you could give it a try. Each show can go in a different direction. In one show the viewers will all be about cock, the next one they're all about ass. Recently I tried my first show with a Lovense toy, and that brought in a lot of tips and was really fun. I'm mostly on Stripchat now. Tips on Chaturbate just weren't coming in as much as they used to, but Stripchat does pretty well. I also like the user interface of Stripchat better, and there are a lot of features. They have an option where you can be in "Flirting Mode" which means no nudity, but it can lead to private shows which is where the money can be made. Apparently there are also ways to broadcast on multiple platforms simultaneously, but I haven't figured that one out. There's a forum for webcam models at https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/. It's mostly oriented towards women performers, though there are a few guys there too. Lots of good information there and it can be pretty amusing. But those gals don't suffer fools, that's for sure! They'll give you straight answers. Seems like to make good money, you have to be broadcasting for a long time in each show, and on a regular basis. Check some of the guys who are doing well with tips, then see how long they have been online to get a sense of what it would take. With all that said, I'd say just give it a go and see if you like it.

Rude!

Interesting that the guys organizing the petition are dancers themselves.

Those are pretty cool @JoeWinkoReturns!

A lot of guys on onlyfans offer custom videos. I don’t know what they charge though, or if you can download them.

I think you've both got a point in different respects. In my escorting career, when I first started I was more of a twink, and more often than not clients wanted me to bottom. Now that I'm older, most clients want me to top. So some of it comes down to what an individual might want, versus what his partner is looking for or expecting. I'm truly versatile, so honestly happy either way.

The question from the OP is straightforward enough, other than not being specific to a particular regional preference. But any chance this can be answered without resorting to racist stereotypes? Jeesh... Magic Mike Hung is indeed quite hung. One of the most impressive dicks I've ever seen.

Wonderful weekend as always! I've lost track of how many of these I've attended, but it's become the highlight of the year for me. Really sorry to have missed @David-SF's pool party and the dinner, but it was great to see everyone. Thank you @Oliver and his Hot Helpers for keeping it going. Always so much fun!

I’m late this year but on my way. Happy to leave rainy SF for a couple days. See you soon!

I love this! Someone find a scriptwriter and we can all be executive producers 🥳

I've only been stiffed once. It was a forum member, during one of the DC meetups. Both clients and providers warned me ahead of time that he was known to pull stunts, so I wasn't surprised when at the end of the session he claimed to have lost his wallet. He put on quite the act, trying to look panicked and all. "Where is my wallet? OMG, I've lost my wallet!!!" I just sat and watched his performance for a couple of minutes, then showed him the door. (For what it's worth, I don't believe he posts on this forum anymore, let alone attend any of the events)

If the guy is charging $200 for a massage on a bed, I'm thinking this is less therapeutic/skilled massage, and more likely something more erotic. There's some more of that wiggle room! 😛 If there's a charge for parking, presumably it's a good hotel and that comes with some expense for the provider as well. I know that when I travel, I think about the setting, and also how it will be perceived by the client. I don't want to invite a client to meet me at the Red Roof Inn, even if the parking is free. @Simon Suraci had a good suggestion, that the provider find a rental that's well-located with street parking. That can work really well, though the last time I did that on a trip, a client came in and said it was too bad there wasn't a hotel bar to have a drink at first. (Note to self: next time find an Airbnb down the street from a bar...)

As a provider, I never ask for or solicit reviews, and my numbers are in that same range. My RM profile has been active since December 2015 and I've received a total of 15 reviews, which works out to about 1.8 reviews per year. I greatly value these reviews, but they've come on their own, and I appreciate it when clients want to share their experience with others. However my business model does not rely on them. That begs the question, would I have more business if I solicited reviews? I can't answer that. But at least from the perspective of a provider who does not solicit or rely on reviews, the changes to RM's policies don't appear to have had any impacts on my business. My sense for new guys would be that their newness would overcome any issues with having few if any reviews. Presumably they'll attract clients who don't care about reviews. But I'm just guessing.