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This is similar to my situation. I have a hybrid 9-5 that allows me some WFH days. If I need to meet someone during the day, I coordinate it with my WFH schedule and then block off the time on my calendar as a long lunch. I'm obligated to bill 40 hours per week so have to make up the time elsewhere. But most of my clients are wanting to meet evenings. That works out well with the 9-5, but as others have mentioned, can make for some long and tiring days. If I'm meeting a client at 9 pm and need to get up the next morning at 6 am, that takes a toll (and just becomes worse with age, lol). I only take a few clients a week though, so like @DznNYC mentions, it becomes a highlight of the day that I look forward to.

I had a great massage this weekend with Noah (Holistic Healing by Noah). https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/51077/ Very skilled, very intuitive, and really warm and personable. Great communication. Nice clean apartment with knockout views. He kept his clothes on, but that consisted of a tight tanktop and short running shorts (like the last pic in his listing). I recommend him, and will see him again.

I saw him a while back and really liked him. I was looking for a spur-of-the-moment massage and saw Carlos's listing as Available Now. He responded quickly to my inquiry and we set up an appointment easily. The massage was great, with real deep pressure just like I like it. Carlos is charming, very handsome, and a great communicator. I don't remember what I paid, but it was nothing out of the ordinary.

I’m not able to host either, and it’s definitely a challenge. Most clients want incalls. As @SecretProvider suggests, I also use Dayuse for incalls when needed. An advantage of Dayuse is I can choose a hotel that’s convenient for the client. This works really well for meeting clients in the South Bay.

Yes, if I want to change the rates in my profile, not only do I need to use a VPN set to somewhere outside the US, I also need to change my location on Rentmen to somewhere outside the US.

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Don't be embarrassed... lots of guys like spanking.

Agreed having a trainer is the best bet if you can afford it and be able to keep to a schedule. I've had some really great trainers over the years, and the results are noticeable compared to when I'm working out on my own. But when I've been working on my own, I've had good results from the Muscle After 40 program from Men's Health. You don't need to be over 40, since these are just good basic exercises but are more forgiving for us older guys in terms of stress on joints. It starts off basic, and builds up more intensity over time. There is a digital package available, but I prefer the old-school spiral-bound hard copy version: Amazon.com WWW.AMAZON.COM There's also an at-home program, but I haven't ordered that one as I prefer going to the gym for my workouts.

For me, the client having a track record of having reviewed other guys is a great indicator that they’re legit. I don’t go as far as contacting the escorts who have been reviewed, but I’ll look at their profiles to see what they’re like and what kinds of guys the client likes. I’d say most clients don’t leave reviews though, unless asked. But if a client is wanting to show that he’s legit, a history of reviews really helps.

It makes me wonder if the pimp and the escort were one and the same. In any case, super sketchy. I think they’re about 30 years too late with their fantasies of running an agency.

Any excuse to visit Palm Springs! Yes I’d attend.

Yes, tickling scenarios can be really fun. I would enjoy it, but the limit would be that if I’d had enough and said stop, it would need to stop. But in my experiences I’ve never had to say stop.

Fully support advertising “over 29” 😊 There’s definitely a market for older guys in the profession. For me, I never thought I’d be doing this in my 50s but have found clients who specifically want someone older. All the best to you!

I love that photo. The book was on the coffee table in the lobby of the hotel I was staying at in Palm Springs last month and grabbed a pic…

I truly like big guys, and older guys, and big older guys. Grandpa bears have their fans!

I was with a client yesterday and he said he can no longer see dick pics, even when logged in and viewing his favorites. He has a basic membership, not premium, so as @ShortCutie7 suggests, I think this is a move to get more people to pony up for premium.

Welcome to the forum. As for Gold level, yes you must. The basic subscription listings get lost in the back pages. Best of luck to you!

This has been my experience. For years I listed as vers but I’m rarely if ever asked to bottom, do I switched to listing as vers/top. The other day I was thinking of switching to listing as just top since that’s where the demand is, and I gotta admit I love topping guys.

I’m not familiar with the Masseurfinder interface, but I’m guessing under “amenities” there’s a series of check boxes, including ones that address parking. Just a guess though.

When I lived in London, one day I took the tube out to Cockfosters just to see what it was like. What’s in a name? If I recall, it was perfectly pleasant but otherwise unremarkable. Nothing cocky about the place as far as I could tell!

I edited my rentmen profile today, and somehow managed to get “thick tool” past the censors. I hope I don’t jinx it by mentioning it here…

I had a new masseur reach out to me through rentmen and suggest exactly this. He invited me over for a free introductory massage, and then we talked shop. He didn't ask for me to write a review afterwards, but I did so to support his business. He had also priced himself a bit below market to encourage new business. However, not every guy will accept this kind of trade, and might think it's a ploy for free sex. When I first started escorting, I saved up my $ and hired an escort to see how it was done (plus I wanted to meet him... the hot and hunky Peter Raeg). I had a great time and learned from him too on how to conduct business. But as others have said, I think the biggest danger is your student visa. You do not want to mess that up. If you're deported for working without authorization, you may be blocked from re-entering the US for many years. When I was in London last year I met a masseur who had flown to LA, was determined to be an escort/masseur likely to try to work in the US, and was sent back on a return flight without ever leaving the airport. He's now blocked from visiting the US for five years.

I think it's probably this, and perhaps he doesn't ask clients for reviews. Others who have seen him could maybe confirm this. I don't ask clients for reviews, and as a result don't have a ton. Occasionally a guy will tell me he'd like to leave a review, but because he doesn't have a premium membership he says it won't be happening.

I'd agree... it's majorly fucked up, and I don't know how you can salvage things from there. Escorting is not necessarily incompatible with being married or being in a relationship. It might be surprising how many working guys are in long-term relationships while carrying on with their escort work. In my instance, I run everything past my husband... is it OK for me to go to Palm Springs? Do you mind if I take an appointment tonight? No secrets, I tell him everything. Of course, once upon a time he was also an escort, so he gets it. We've also been together a very long time, so there's trust that's built up over time. The fact that your guy hides everything from you (friends, Facebook) is bad enough, and doesn't make good prospects for a relationship. But hiding his escort work is a real whopper.