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Yep it’s $48 per day for either east or west USA. $12 for Canada, $10 for Mexico and Central America. The part that’s weird is the slots are almost never available. Right now west coast is booked up for the next two months, and east coast only has one slot available in July. So I’m not sure how or why the same guys keep cycling through. Maybe they know when the new slots become available and jump in. I’ve done it a few times, and the page views rise significantly during that 24-hour period. Also even though I buy the west coast slots, I get a lot of views from all over the US as well as abroad. I think this can be useful in particular for guys who travel, as it builds awareness of their profile, so that when they travel people will remember them from before. Or they may get invites to travel to a particular city. At least that’s how the thinking goes!

I found it to be an odd article, and I too found myself asking if there is an equivalent in the gay community. I don't think there is. Do guys try to present themselves as having escorted, when they haven't? Doesn't seem like it. Maybe it's different for guys who've done stripping. The only example I can think of is Channing Tatum, who has made an identity for himself based on his past experience as a stripper. But I can't think of any others.

I’m with you on this. What kind of asshole provider asks a client for a picture in the first place? I guess it’s more common than I’d thought, but seems really unprofessional. @viewing ownly I’m sorry this happened to you. I’ve met you socially and you’re a nice looking guy. The ghosting says more about the provider than it does anything about you.

This is me too. I have a separate number and phone for sex work (which, in an homage to days of yore, is red). I have my various communication apps installed on the escort phone. There used to be a stigma to walking around with two phones, but now I see lots of conventional-looking people with two phones. Work phone and personal phone as the story goes. I installed Signal on my escort phone after first reading this thread. However nobody has contacted me on it or requested to communicate on it.

Rob Stewart is on the cover of this month’s AARP mag. He’s 80 now …!

$75 per session is decent. The Equinoxes here in SF charge $140 for a regular "coach" or $150 for a "coach +" (with modest discounts for packages). Working out with a trainer should be a good move. They'll help you with form and presumably not let yourself get hurt. Integrating light weight training into your routine makes a lot of sense. For swimming, if your gym doesn't have a pool, maybe look for a lap pool on its own. Some of the community colleges here have hours designated for lap swimming, or maybe a swim and tennis club. I have a separate gym membership for a club that has a great pool... maybe a bit indulgent but each serves its purpose.

Though there is a lot to like about this site, these kinds of threads are awful. Someone finds a guy on RM that they have an issue with, post some snarky comments, and then the mean girls pile on. All from the safe anonymity behind their screens. As @BenjaminNicholas observes, it's so wonder so few escorts participate here. I find the dude really sexy, and like @whatdoidowiththisagain noted, to me he looks like a guy in his 20s. Not a twink, but a young man with a killer bod and a sweet smile. And who speaks three languages! I couldn't understand all the age-shaving comments, they just didn't make sense to me. There was another escort who used to post here regularly, who actually padded his age because people kept telling him he carried himself older and he liked the idea of being considered a bit older and more mature. I believe he was in his early 20s but listed his age as late 20s.

I'd say go for it, but be prepared to recognize each other. You mentioned you saw him 15 years ago and you caught up with each other, so I'm guessing if it is him he'll recognize you. When you meet, you could say you saw his ad and he's your type for a masseur, but tell him that if it's too weird, he can call it off. One advantage to being older is people seem to care less about these things as they might have when they were younger. And you're correct, neither of you needs to disclose this to anyone. He himself may have concerns about people knowing he works as a masseur. But you were not asking for advice, you were asking have you ever met up with a provider whom you actually knew before? I'll answer it in reverse, in that I had a client who I had previously met a few years earlier through my conventional day job. When he hired me as an escort, I recognized him immediately, but did not say anything. Neither did he. He became a regular, but during all the time we saw each other neither of us brought up that we had met years earlier under different circumstances. I figured if he wanted to address it, he would, but otherwise I'd let it be.

The "Coverboy of the Day" was a big deal. As @BenjaminNicholas mentions, it could really raise the profile of an escort in a big way. Also don't forget Daddy's "Seal of Approval." That was highly coveted. It did not necessarily mean Daddy had sampled the goods. Rather, it was awarded to escorts who had done something that Daddy thought was exceptional. Daddy himself was elusive in revealing what criteria he had for awarding the seal. By one estimate, guys who were veterans of the armed forces were rumored to be automatic candidates, but not sure that was ever confirmed.

Welcome Skyler! Great to have you joining us.

I’m planning on going. What to wear, what to wear? 🤔

Don’t forget underwear night is at Toolshed on Thursday night. You don’t need to strip down to your underwear, but might enjoy eyeing those who do 😋 Plus our boy Ace emcees the underwear contest, and it’s a hoot!

It looks like they haven’t added anything to their Instagram since 2022. Maybe listing that show as “sold out” was another way of saying “ain’t happening.”

Though I don’t offer massage, I’ve had a couple of clients give me an impromptu massage at the end of an escort session. I thought it was a nice gesture and certainly enjoyed it.

By all means request it! Showering together can be fun and sexy.

I used to see him regularly many years ago. He had stopped doing massage to focus on other pursuits, but glad to see he's back in the game. He's very skilled at massage, and very friendly. When I saw him it was strictly therapeutic, and he stayed dressed as he shows himself in his photos. If you're looking for a great therapeutic massage by an impressive muscle hunk, I'd recommend him!

Their upcharge could also be to account for travel time, if it's anything more than a few minutes. Or they just prefer to get set up in their room with all their stuff available.

It was a while ago, but when I was doing more porn I encountered this on shoots. There was almost a taboo with admitting doing escort work. I remember when it came up in one shoot a guy said something like "but that would be prostitution, and that's illegal!" And I thought "wtf?" I imagine things have relaxed a bit given all the increases in social media and visibility, but there are probably a number of guys who still draw a bright line between porn and escorting (er, "collaborations" 😆).

Oh man, I feel so naive! I'd always thought "open to collaboration" was only directed at other OF models wanting to find others to do content with. Good to know it's got broader implications, I had no idea.

Don't use OnlyFans to arrange a meeting. It's a violation of their terms of service: "OnlyFans is an online community. Creators and Fans cannot use OnlyFans to discuss or arrange in real life meetings." The conversation will get flagged by their AI and they'll block you from communicating with each other. Plus all the big names use chatters, so you're not talking to the real person anyways. IG is probably the best bet, and those guys get hit up all the time. "DM for inquiries" is another code I've seen there a lot.

I do not rate or review my clients anywhere. If a client behaves badly, I just won’t rebook him.

When I met my partner many years ago, he was a masseur living in a large flat with roommates. They had an agreement that when the doorbell rang, everybody would go into their rooms, close the door, and go quiet. Once the client was in the massage room with the door closed, roommates could leave their rooms but still needed to be relatively quiet. The client was never supposed to see any of the roommates. Given the cost of living in SF, this seemed acceptable to me. I never met any of the roommates until I started dating the masseur, and that's when I learned about how they had it all managed. More recently I had a late-night massage with a masseur in London. After we were finished, he offered me to use the shower but asked for me to speak quietly, as he had a roommate who was sleeping. Whether it was a roommate or partner, I didn't really care, and it didn't bother me knowing there was someone else there since he was behind a closed door and I didn't see him. But I'd agree it would be weird to come out of a massage and have a roommate hanging about.

Yep, I can provide that too 😈

Happy Birthday buddy!

With new clients I always ask if there is anything in particular they want me to wear. If they have a request, it's usually pretty vanilla, with tighty-whities probably being the most common request, followed by jocks. A couple of months ago I posted some photos on my RM showing me in a suit and tie. This generated a lot of new interest in my listing, as well as specific clothing requests to show up in particular suits, starched shirts, etc. I'd recommend to every escort to show at least one photo of yourself in a suit, as a lot of guys find it appealing. So back to the OP, yes by all means make a request. Fishnets might be a bit out there for some guys, but I for one would agree to it. My legs are very hairy and decently built, so the contrast with masculine/feminine would be interesting. Like @DamizzonNYC mentions, it's becoming more common, particularly among younger guys.