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I truly like big guys, and older guys, and big older guys. Grandpa bears have their fans!

I was with a client yesterday and he said he can no longer see dick pics, even when logged in and viewing his favorites. He has a basic membership, not premium, so as @ShortCutie7 suggests, I think this is a move to get more people to pony up for premium.

Welcome to the forum. As for Gold level, yes you must. The basic subscription listings get lost in the back pages. Best of luck to you!

This has been my experience. For years I listed as vers but I’m rarely if ever asked to bottom, do I switched to listing as vers/top. The other day I was thinking of switching to listing as just top since that’s where the demand is, and I gotta admit I love topping guys.

I’m not familiar with the Masseurfinder interface, but I’m guessing under “amenities” there’s a series of check boxes, including ones that address parking. Just a guess though.

When I lived in London, one day I took the tube out to Cockfosters just to see what it was like. What’s in a name? If I recall, it was perfectly pleasant but otherwise unremarkable. Nothing cocky about the place as far as I could tell!

I edited my rentmen profile today, and somehow managed to get “thick tool” past the censors. I hope I don’t jinx it by mentioning it here…

I had a new masseur reach out to me through rentmen and suggest exactly this. He invited me over for a free introductory massage, and then we talked shop. He didn't ask for me to write a review afterwards, but I did so to support his business. He had also priced himself a bit below market to encourage new business. However, not every guy will accept this kind of trade, and might think it's a ploy for free sex. When I first started escorting, I saved up my $ and hired an escort to see how it was done (plus I wanted to meet him... the hot and hunky Peter Raeg). I had a great time and learned from him too on how to conduct business. But as others have said, I think the biggest danger is your student visa. You do not want to mess that up. If you're deported for working without authorization, you may be blocked from re-entering the US for many years. When I was in London last year I met a masseur who had flown to LA, was determined to be an escort/masseur likely to try to work in the US, and was sent back on a return flight without ever leaving the airport. He's now blocked from visiting the US for five years.

I think it's probably this, and perhaps he doesn't ask clients for reviews. Others who have seen him could maybe confirm this. I don't ask clients for reviews, and as a result don't have a ton. Occasionally a guy will tell me he'd like to leave a review, but because he doesn't have a premium membership he says it won't be happening.

I'd agree... it's majorly fucked up, and I don't know how you can salvage things from there. Escorting is not necessarily incompatible with being married or being in a relationship. It might be surprising how many working guys are in long-term relationships while carrying on with their escort work. In my instance, I run everything past my husband... is it OK for me to go to Palm Springs? Do you mind if I take an appointment tonight? No secrets, I tell him everything. Of course, once upon a time he was also an escort, so he gets it. We've also been together a very long time, so there's trust that's built up over time. The fact that your guy hides everything from you (friends, Facebook) is bad enough, and doesn't make good prospects for a relationship. But hiding his escort work is a real whopper.

This has happened to me. I received a text “hey guess what, I’m right across the street!” And when I looked out the window there he was waving. I chalked it up less to stalking, and more to just not respecting boundaries.

From what I can tell, he will be an “honorary” agent. Unclear what that means exactly, but it’s part of a publicity campaign by ICE to increase recruitment.

Ah yeah, that's the quote! And I'd modify it to read "leave you alone afterwards." A lot of the guys I see have home lives with significant others, and don't want that disrupted. They want an outlet and some discreet fun, but don't want someone following after them, threatening their relationship.

I'm with @DznNYC and @Rod Hagen on this one, I don't charge extra for couples. My fee is for my time, whether it's one, two, or more guys. In fairness, navigating a couple takes some special attention, as you don't want one to feel left out. But that's also part of the fun, making sure everyone is having a good time.

@RadioRob your efforts are heroic! Many thanks for all you do.

Gays usually call it a three-way, whereas straights call it a threesome. 😛

Welcome back to the game, and to Company of Men! I'm not aware of any escorting sites that specialize in kinky providers. There's sites and apps like Fetlife and Recon, but those are more for networking and hookups. Not sure how escorting would work there. At least in the US, Rentmen is the only real show in town. But it's totally fine to present yourself as a kinky provider. I see listings all the time where both the photos and description indicate interest and specialization in kink.

This place looks awesome. I don’t know anything about it but I want to plan a trip to check it out!

My hubby and I are wanting to go to Mexico City for the first time. Any recommendations for where to stay, as well as bars and restaurants? I read this thread from 2022 which had some good suggestions, particularly from @BenjaminNicholas. Anything new to add in 2025? And is October an OK time to visit, or would a different time of year be better?

Along with @italianboyph I'll confirm from the provider side that asking for foot play is not unusual at all. Yes it's fun! I really enjoy it and am happy whenever a guy proposes it.

The article implies that one of the intentions (or at least outcomes) of the Nordic model has been to stigmatize the purchasing of sex, so that an opinion develops that prostitution is never justifiable. So the graph is interesting because it indicates Swedish opinion becoming more critical of prostitution (consistent with the Nordic model), while other places have been going in the opposite direction. The article is skeptical of the Nordic model, however… among its observations is that the vast majority of Swedish men who do pay for sex, do it abroad.

I found the graph indicating percentage of survey respondents agreeing with the statement “prostitution is never justifiable” interesting: Though the US percentage is higher than others, it’s declined 20 points between 1998 and 2022.

Yeah, I felt dirty just looking at the pics!

Thanks for sharing. Really interesting. And the “Danny Dutch” site looks like it’s got all kinds of good stuff, especially for history buffs.

Damn, that’s some skillful copywriting! You could offer it as a side hustle of your own… 😀