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I'm with @DznNYC and @Rod Hagen on this one, I don't charge extra for couples. My fee is for my time, whether it's one, two, or more guys. In fairness, navigating a couple takes some special attention, as you don't want one to feel left out. But that's also part of the fun, making sure everyone is having a good time.

@RadioRob your efforts are heroic! Many thanks for all you do.

Gays usually call it a three-way, whereas straights call it a threesome. 😛

Welcome back to the game, and to Company of Men! I'm not aware of any escorting sites that specialize in kinky providers. There's sites and apps like Fetlife and Recon, but those are more for networking and hookups. Not sure how escorting would work there. At least in the US, Rentmen is the only real show in town. But it's totally fine to present yourself as a kinky provider. I see listings all the time where both the photos and description indicate interest and specialization in kink.

This place looks awesome. I don’t know anything about it but I want to plan a trip to check it out!

My hubby and I are wanting to go to Mexico City for the first time. Any recommendations for where to stay, as well as bars and restaurants? I read this thread from 2022 which had some good suggestions, particularly from @BenjaminNicholas. Anything new to add in 2025? And is October an OK time to visit, or would a different time of year be better?

Along with @italianboyph I'll confirm from the provider side that asking for foot play is not unusual at all. Yes it's fun! I really enjoy it and am happy whenever a guy proposes it.

The article implies that one of the intentions (or at least outcomes) of the Nordic model has been to stigmatize the purchasing of sex, so that an opinion develops that prostitution is never justifiable. So the graph is interesting because it indicates Swedish opinion becoming more critical of prostitution (consistent with the Nordic model), while other places have been going in the opposite direction. The article is skeptical of the Nordic model, however… among its observations is that the vast majority of Swedish men who do pay for sex, do it abroad.

I found the graph indicating percentage of survey respondents agreeing with the statement “prostitution is never justifiable” interesting: Though the US percentage is higher than others, it’s declined 20 points between 1998 and 2022.

Yeah, I felt dirty just looking at the pics!

Thanks for sharing. Really interesting. And the “Danny Dutch” site looks like it’s got all kinds of good stuff, especially for history buffs.

Damn, that’s some skillful copywriting! You could offer it as a side hustle of your own… 😀

Yep it’s $48 per day for either east or west USA. $12 for Canada, $10 for Mexico and Central America. The part that’s weird is the slots are almost never available. Right now west coast is booked up for the next two months, and east coast only has one slot available in July. So I’m not sure how or why the same guys keep cycling through. Maybe they know when the new slots become available and jump in. I’ve done it a few times, and the page views rise significantly during that 24-hour period. Also even though I buy the west coast slots, I get a lot of views from all over the US as well as abroad. I think this can be useful in particular for guys who travel, as it builds awareness of their profile, so that when they travel people will remember them from before. Or they may get invites to travel to a particular city. At least that’s how the thinking goes!

I found it to be an odd article, and I too found myself asking if there is an equivalent in the gay community. I don't think there is. Do guys try to present themselves as having escorted, when they haven't? Doesn't seem like it. Maybe it's different for guys who've done stripping. The only example I can think of is Channing Tatum, who has made an identity for himself based on his past experience as a stripper. But I can't think of any others.

I’m with you on this. What kind of asshole provider asks a client for a picture in the first place? I guess it’s more common than I’d thought, but seems really unprofessional. @viewing ownly I’m sorry this happened to you. I’ve met you socially and you’re a nice looking guy. The ghosting says more about the provider than it does anything about you.

This is me too. I have a separate number and phone for sex work (which, in an homage to days of yore, is red). I have my various communication apps installed on the escort phone. There used to be a stigma to walking around with two phones, but now I see lots of conventional-looking people with two phones. Work phone and personal phone as the story goes. I installed Signal on my escort phone after first reading this thread. However nobody has contacted me on it or requested to communicate on it.

Rob Stewart is on the cover of this month’s AARP mag. He’s 80 now …!

$75 per session is decent. The Equinoxes here in SF charge $140 for a regular "coach" or $150 for a "coach +" (with modest discounts for packages). Working out with a trainer should be a good move. They'll help you with form and presumably not let yourself get hurt. Integrating light weight training into your routine makes a lot of sense. For swimming, if your gym doesn't have a pool, maybe look for a lap pool on its own. Some of the community colleges here have hours designated for lap swimming, or maybe a swim and tennis club. I have a separate gym membership for a club that has a great pool... maybe a bit indulgent but each serves its purpose.

Though there is a lot to like about this site, these kinds of threads are awful. Someone finds a guy on RM that they have an issue with, post some snarky comments, and then the mean girls pile on. All from the safe anonymity behind their screens. As @BenjaminNicholas observes, it's so wonder so few escorts participate here. I find the dude really sexy, and like @whatdoidowiththisagain noted, to me he looks like a guy in his 20s. Not a twink, but a young man with a killer bod and a sweet smile. And who speaks three languages! I couldn't understand all the age-shaving comments, they just didn't make sense to me. There was another escort who used to post here regularly, who actually padded his age because people kept telling him he carried himself older and he liked the idea of being considered a bit older and more mature. I believe he was in his early 20s but listed his age as late 20s.

I'd say go for it, but be prepared to recognize each other. You mentioned you saw him 15 years ago and you caught up with each other, so I'm guessing if it is him he'll recognize you. When you meet, you could say you saw his ad and he's your type for a masseur, but tell him that if it's too weird, he can call it off. One advantage to being older is people seem to care less about these things as they might have when they were younger. And you're correct, neither of you needs to disclose this to anyone. He himself may have concerns about people knowing he works as a masseur. But you were not asking for advice, you were asking have you ever met up with a provider whom you actually knew before? I'll answer it in reverse, in that I had a client who I had previously met a few years earlier through my conventional day job. When he hired me as an escort, I recognized him immediately, but did not say anything. Neither did he. He became a regular, but during all the time we saw each other neither of us brought up that we had met years earlier under different circumstances. I figured if he wanted to address it, he would, but otherwise I'd let it be.

The "Coverboy of the Day" was a big deal. As @BenjaminNicholas mentions, it could really raise the profile of an escort in a big way. Also don't forget Daddy's "Seal of Approval." That was highly coveted. It did not necessarily mean Daddy had sampled the goods. Rather, it was awarded to escorts who had done something that Daddy thought was exceptional. Daddy himself was elusive in revealing what criteria he had for awarding the seal. By one estimate, guys who were veterans of the armed forces were rumored to be automatic candidates, but not sure that was ever confirmed.

Welcome Skyler! Great to have you joining us.

I’m planning on going. What to wear, what to wear? 🤔

Don’t forget underwear night is at Toolshed on Thursday night. You don’t need to strip down to your underwear, but might enjoy eyeing those who do 😋 Plus our boy Ace emcees the underwear contest, and it’s a hoot!

It looks like they haven’t added anything to their Instagram since 2022. Maybe listing that show as “sold out” was another way of saying “ain’t happening.”