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I used to see him regularly many years ago. He had stopped doing massage to focus on other pursuits, but glad to see he's back in the game. He's very skilled at massage, and very friendly. When I saw him it was strictly therapeutic, and he stayed dressed as he shows himself in his photos. If you're looking for a great therapeutic massage by an impressive muscle hunk, I'd recommend him!

Their upcharge could also be to account for travel time, if it's anything more than a few minutes. Or they just prefer to get set up in their room with all their stuff available.

It was a while ago, but when I was doing more porn I encountered this on shoots. There was almost a taboo with admitting doing escort work. I remember when it came up in one shoot a guy said something like "but that would be prostitution, and that's illegal!" And I thought "wtf?" I imagine things have relaxed a bit given all the increases in social media and visibility, but there are probably a number of guys who still draw a bright line between porn and escorting (er, "collaborations" 😆).

Oh man, I feel so naive! I'd always thought "open to collaboration" was only directed at other OF models wanting to find others to do content with. Good to know it's got broader implications, I had no idea.

Don't use OnlyFans to arrange a meeting. It's a violation of their terms of service: "OnlyFans is an online community. Creators and Fans cannot use OnlyFans to discuss or arrange in real life meetings." The conversation will get flagged by their AI and they'll block you from communicating with each other. Plus all the big names use chatters, so you're not talking to the real person anyways. IG is probably the best bet, and those guys get hit up all the time. "DM for inquiries" is another code I've seen there a lot.

I do not rate or review my clients anywhere. If a client behaves badly, I just won’t rebook him.

When I met my partner many years ago, he was a masseur living in a large flat with roommates. They had an agreement that when the doorbell rang, everybody would go into their rooms, close the door, and go quiet. Once the client was in the massage room with the door closed, roommates could leave their rooms but still needed to be relatively quiet. The client was never supposed to see any of the roommates. Given the cost of living in SF, this seemed acceptable to me. I never met any of the roommates until I started dating the masseur, and that's when I learned about how they had it all managed. More recently I had a late-night massage with a masseur in London. After we were finished, he offered me to use the shower but asked for me to speak quietly, as he had a roommate who was sleeping. Whether it was a roommate or partner, I didn't really care, and it didn't bother me knowing there was someone else there since he was behind a closed door and I didn't see him. But I'd agree it would be weird to come out of a massage and have a roommate hanging about.

Yep, I can provide that too 😈

Happy Birthday buddy!

With new clients I always ask if there is anything in particular they want me to wear. If they have a request, it's usually pretty vanilla, with tighty-whities probably being the most common request, followed by jocks. A couple of months ago I posted some photos on my RM showing me in a suit and tie. This generated a lot of new interest in my listing, as well as specific clothing requests to show up in particular suits, starched shirts, etc. I'd recommend to every escort to show at least one photo of yourself in a suit, as a lot of guys find it appealing. So back to the OP, yes by all means make a request. Fishnets might be a bit out there for some guys, but I for one would agree to it. My legs are very hairy and decently built, so the contrast with masculine/feminine would be interesting. Like @DamizzonNYC mentions, it's becoming more common, particularly among younger guys.

Here in SF there will be some guys who will refuse to leave the city limits or the gayborhood, no matter what. That might also be the case in other places, even those that are more auto-oriented. I'd agree with @Keenan, 45 minutes would be the top end. For me, an hour would be pushing it. Around here that would equate to 20-30 miles. It also depends on the length of the appointment. I'll be willing to drive 45 minutes for a 2-hour or longer appointment without an extra travel fee, but not so with a one-hour appointment.

I'd suggest telling him "this isn't working for me" and tell him he needs to leave. At that point, he'll either ask what he can do to correct things, or he'll pick up his stuff to leave. In order to avoid a confrontation you may still want to pay the full fee, just to get him to leave with minimal drama. That's the old adage with escorts, you're not paying them to show up, you're paying them to leave. But no tip, and you could also leave a less-than-stellar review. Some other options could include not having porn playing (so he's focused on you, not the porn), and/or communicating to him what you would like to do together or had hoped to do together. Particularly if he's a younger provider, he may need to be given some direction. You're right, a true professional should not be dissuaded by your age or body type. For a lot of us, those things are not an issue, and instead we're more interested in the chemistry and good energy. Some guys will put in their ad descriptions that they're open to all ages and body types... pick one of those guys!

I know him socially, though haven't been sexual with him. Very sexy South Asian/Indian guy, super nice. His dick is something to behold. I met him to take photos of him... here is one from the shoot:

That might have been me saying that! I’ve subscribed to PlaygirlPlus. The guys don’t necessarily have hairy chests, but they have body hair otherwise. Here’s this month’s guy, who is 21 years old:

This exactly. For any appointment a provider needs to be ready to give it his best, and not get the client sick. If he can’t do one or the other, he should postpone until he’s back on his feet.

While it's currently fashionable to bash California, the irrationality of rebuilding applies to pretty much any neighborhood that's been in the path of a disaster. Yes, California leads the nation in wildfires, but it's followed closely by... Georgia. Who would have guessed? And after Georgia, it's Texas, followed by North Carolina, Florida, Arizona, Oklahoma, and South Carolina, in that order. Yet none of those other states attract the scorn that's directed at California. And the damage from wildfires is dwarfed by the damage caused by hurricanes and flooding. The problem is that whenever a community is ravaged by a disaster (whether hurricane, flood, or wildfire), everyone's first impulse is to rebuild as quickly as possible. Hardly anybody is going to accept that their home needs to be returned to mother nature, whether they be in California, Georgia, or the Carolinas... as rational as that should be!

This shows how far things have evolved since these older communities in LA were developed. Pacific Palisades was first developed nearly a century ago, and Altadena in the late 1800s. They have not been built to current engineering standards in terms of water systems, road widths, land grading, etc. Compare these neighborhoods to more recently built hillside neighborhoods in places like Santa Clarita - they look very different. The challenge is the need to retrofit and upgrade these older communities. Rationally, it would make sense not to rebuild at all, but that's not realistic.

Maybe this is a business decision to drive more business to their Rentmen site? Could even encourage guys to advertise on both platforms if they're wanting to offer truly erotic services, which further supports the bottom line. We know RM is not shy about finding ways to generate revenues!

Moderator Note: Friendly reminder that while it’s easy to veer into politics here, let’s not. We don't know why Rentmasseur is making this change, or why the change is effective next Monday. Please stay on topic - thank you!

Photos look great. Very sexy.

I’ve had this kind of thing happen to me a couple of times, but nothing so quite “close to home.” In the more recent instance, the guy told me we’d met before under different circumstances, and that I’d recognize him when he sent me the address. It wasn’t until I’d pulled up to the place that I put two and two together, and then I just laughed. Under those particular circumstances it was ok, and fun. If you’re going to contact him, I’d suggest being up front that you know him from high school, that you respect his privacy, and in return you ask that he respects yours. I wouldn’t mention anything about having had a crush on him, as that could come off a bit creepy. But you could say something like he’s looking good and you’d like to meet if he was up for it. How he receives this depends a lot on what he’s like as an individual, and where he’s at in this stage of life. And I’d suggest signing your name (just first name would be ok). Since you know who he is, it’s only fair he knows who you are.

Your massage buddies moved to SF you say? Do tell! 😛 In all seriousness, maybe you pitch the idea to one of the guys you get a massage from now. It doesn’t hurt to ask. And maybe get some training if you’re not confident in your skills, but it sounds like your buddies liked your skills just fine.

LOL I didn't get that at first... someone in the art department has a sense of humour!

I was at a bar today and they had Athletic on tap. We didn't try it, but will have to give it a try next time. It was the first time I'd seen a NA beer on tap.

I'm cautiously optimistic the trend will extend to men as well. Looking at the new models each month in PlaygirlPlus, the majority of them have full or moderately-trimmed bushes. However this could also be an editorial choice, as the creator of the site has said she said she wanted to bring back the masculinity of the models of the 70s through 90s.