Thelatin

2 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

'Hey escorts, what makes you work for free'

Hey provider, what can you do to get repeat business if you would rather see client A instead of client B?

I get repeat customers everyday in my business as I’m easy to work with.  My repeat customers get more attention and better pricing.  

That’s how I look at this process as well.  I try to make myself a valued client.  It has typically worked out well for me. 
 

You will probably have more luck in that area if you are a regular client.  On top of that be clean, be in decent shape, be kind, stay in a nice hotel, maybe offer food and drink, bring a gift.  I guess treat it like a date.  I understand that it's not a date, and yes it's all "fake" and transactional.  But everyone likes to be treated kindly. 

Most of my overnights happen when the provider just decides not to leave.  To be honest I think it’s just that I’m boring - they fall asleep lol. 

1 minute ago, pubic_assistance said:

 

I don't know any kids who don't claim their gay uncle(s) their favorite?

I was absentee uncle, too busy partying.  Now that we are all older I frequently spend time at their homes.   We all like the same nice things in life. 

I have two extremely homophobic brothers, both married with kids.  They are so homophobic I can only assume they struggle with the desire.   Also, I always catch them staring at attractive men. 

Personally I would appreciate the heads up.  I've had several experiences with providers and drug issues.  Yes yes yes, of course this person could be an entire new person, I'm sure he's wonderful.  But let me decide if I want to possibly expose myself to that type of situation.   I'm so tired of people with drug and alcohol problems that I have zero tolerance. 

Between inflation and the taxes I just doled out I've been on a little break.  I've been looking - but in order for me to open up my wallet they'd really have to be my cup of tea.  I notice one of my regular providers is having to travel to a new city every 2-3 days.

I also noticed the "extra" costs of this hobby when I checked my credit card balance....hotels, dinners, uber etc.  I like to do the whole boyfriend experience.  So just paid off that bill.  Slow down buddy....

His slogan should be “you’ll need therapy”.

My last vacation I brought Astroglide X Premium, thought it worked well.  I did transfer it into one of my carry on containers....which was made of silicone.  Hah, that container ended up looking funky and the lid no longer fits.  Oops.

If I’m on my back and they are on top of me I don’t like a necklace in my face.  However I do respect that some people never remove their religious items, so I manage. 

Oh my.  I always use my shower douche before meeting for a massage.  I have a couple of regular providers who know I'm always clean, so they don't have to worry about adding some prostate massage etc.  Well worth the extra effort.

Just now, MikeBiDude said:

Easy there with the judgement.

So you would also bang a corpse who is not interested.  Congrats. 

12 hours ago, Mydavid said:

He was lying there like a corpse. He didn't touch me with his hands, and when I tried to kiss him, he said he didn't like it

This is called rape buddy.  

I would assume he’s on meth, not safe, and get tested.  Not participating quite honestly sounds like rape…

5 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

But 5 days is a long time though, and it sounds like maybe it was a couple who knew each other? In that case I could see it being a vacation definitely.

Exactly.  I noticed he had a boyfriend on social media.  I’m like I can’t pay more, but he’s welcome to come too.  I’ll pay for his food, booze etc too.

Yes they had fun.  No it wasn’t an act. 

1 hour ago, Pensant said:

$3,000 total? For 2 x 5 nights? That’s dirt cheap!

I offered - they accepted.  I don’t know, they seemed to enjoy vacation home, the pool, food, gambling, drag show etc.  They want to do it again.  I don’t make the rules….

I just spent 5 nights at an airbnb with 2 providers.  I spent 3000 on them, plus paid for the dinners, booze etc. 

It’s all about what each party wants.  It was a “vacation” for them.  Plus they made a bit of bank. 

We are planning our next trip. 

This “community” thing always annoys me.  Who makes the rules?  How many of them do I have to disagree with before I’m given the boot?  My guess is simply by asking I’m ostracized:) 

On 12/19/2022 at 6:37 AM, Italiano said:

I was a teenager in the 70s and sometimes I had longish hair,

I had this going on in the 80’s - time has taken care of this issue with no help from me  

15 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

To say one "got fuckable" is to imply you were not previously fuckable and it was - what? - gross or a chore?

He’s always been very direct, which is one reason I never saw him more frequently.  But yeah - it honestly was more of a chore banging a fat drunk, compared to a sober, tan, toned person.  It’s just facts. 

After getting into much better shape I can tell you I receive much better treatment.  I have a guy I see about once a year as he drives through my town.  Last time he walked in, grabbed me, and smashed me in my kitchen saying “you got fuckable”.

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Hopefully you don't have any preexisting conditions (by choice of lifestyle or birth) like so many Americans: obesity, asthma, age, smoking, etc. 

I had all the blood work done.  Checked for stds etc.  I’m very healthy - was able to reduce my high blood pressure med, my only pill.  I’m not fat, exercise, eat healthy etc. 

It is sad how so many people don’t care for their bodies.  I was at the grocery store this weekend, finding the few things to buy that won’t kill me.   It’s truly sad what I see there…

On 12/30/2023 at 7:36 AM, marylander1940 said:

On 12/12/2023 at 7:00 PM, Thelatin said:

 

Do you still trust PrEP or you only disagree with your Dr. when it comes to Covid-19?

I had my physical last week and was offered 5 different injections.  I asked the doctor what he recommended.  After him just looking at me blankly for a bit, I said I’ll pass on everything.