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I don’t - I’ve got a dad bod and a hairy chest/belly.  So I’m self conscious when meeting someone new.  I’ve been amazed at how many people find it attractive…

I don’t ever ask a rate.  I give some details about myself, where I will be, and what I’m willing to donate.  I set the terms, they can choose to accept or decline.  I do it this way because I’m a grown ass man.

I think they should have a little card like subway used to offer, you put the stamps on it per purchase.  Fill up the card and get a free 12 incher.

I’m just average so I use the Gladiator technique.  

“I’ll give them something they’ve never seen before”.

If you ain’t sexy, at least get creative.

 

1 hour ago, Xavitv said:

Refugees apply for asylum and they are searched by border patrol. They don’t carry the drugs with them. 

Since the beginning of this year there have been an estimated 530,000 “got aways” who came across the border.  So no, they aren’t searched.

That is the number provided our gov’t.  So I’d guess it’s much higher.

I had some friends who became chronic drunks during covid (it’s over).   I guess their though process was if I can’t do exactly what I want - I’ll drink myself to death.   

There is nothing high class about selling your body. 

This why I save the contact info and photo of folks I’m potentially interested in.

I’ve only ever had one provider come back with a higher than normal rate, I think he is fairly popular on line.  I simply replied with a thank you, that’s out of my range. 

I’m being sued by someone who is clearly using gpt.  It’s not a good look, nor is it winning.

It’s an interesting business.  I’ve seen people “make it big” and then have issues. What happens if you get banned from the site you use to generate your income?

I’m a foodie and used to constantly post about restaurants, hotels etc.  Eventually I did start to wonder why.  How desperate am I to show that I’m “living my best life”.  Gross.  I ended up deleting everything.

If you like a lot of pressure I would recommend Kenno.

I use my Amex Platinum for business, so it wracks up a shit ton of points.  I typically transfer them to my Marriott or Hilton accounts.  

On 3/31/2023 at 9:26 PM, DWnyc said:

The penny pinchers as you refer to them finance the providers lives. They get tired of it? Let them Flfind people who can fund their expectations, unrealistic and grossly offensive as they may be.

I actually look at it completely in the reverse. 

From my experience it sounds like many providers deal with penny pinchers, and get tired of it.  For whatever reason I tend to get away with not discussing rates when I hire.

They show up, there is a generous amount of money on the table.  They tend to stick around for 4-5 hours.  So they end up at a rate of 225-250 an hour.

Never had a complaint.

17 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

I have purpose built shower attachment equipment for anyone who needs it. No excuses. I walk you through everything you need

I use this as well prior to receiving a massage.  However - it’s gotta be tricky for a first timer?  I still have an oops, get carried away and end up cleaning out way too much….which can result in quite a bit of shower time.

When I’m getting a massage - I just mention that “I’m clean down there”.

I see Captain is in Minneapolis currently.

Used him a few weeks back and asked for a firm massage.  He worked me over hard for 2 hours.  Very strong fella, nice guy.

Are you folks spending the last dollars you’ll ever earn?   I spend less time buying a car. 

I pay a grand per visit.  The provider can choose how long to stay and what to offer.  I choose if I contact them again.  Pretty easy system.

I think we are sometimes under the impression providers are jumping from job to job, generally not true.  
 

They are probably open to a lower hourly rate if it’s for more hours, and you aren’t a complete horn dog the entire time.

Sorry to hear this.  If it helps, I’ve been trolled by a disgruntled x more than you could ever imagine.  Every obscene accusation under the sun.  He’s created fake accounts trolling me on honestly every digital platform you can imagine.  Guess what…..nobody cares.   People are busy with their own lives and problems.