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Step on the scale every morning.  If the number goes up - don’t eat. 

Apparently living in my basement for extended periods is an option.  Arg. 

On 2/14/2024 at 9:03 AM, Brad in NYC said:

prostate massage just happened organically?

Those have been the best kind as it seems they have to be into that.  Any time I’ve asked it just seems like meh.  I see one guy that really enjoys it. 

15 hours ago, José Soplanucas said:

and we are the sad sluts always looking for something we cannot find. 

I resemble that comment.

I’d probably try to bang the roommate.  

Perhaps the provider could offer a “spin the wheel” type of scenario.  Each spin is $50.00 for extras.  Land on HJ or BJ or JS (jack squat) etc. 

My last long term provider has a strict routine of getting up early, meditation, gym, diet etc.   Anytime he left that routine I could tell he was “off”.

I missed the gym a lot this week working on a project.  Now I’m feeling it. 

On 2/1/2024 at 1:53 AM, LookingAround said:

I’d be like “OK get the f&$k out” and they’d be like “I’m in prison” lol

Hah - I’m about to find out which of these is true, or both.  

I only hire for overnights, and I’m finding that’s too much effort for not enough time.  I’m starting to plan more 4-5 day trips, or having them stay at my place if I’ve known them for a while.  I like time to just relax with wine, music, food etc.

On 1/28/2024 at 4:38 PM, marylander1940 said:

To me it also means a backdoor to the American dream! 

Quite literally.

On 1/7/2024 at 8:01 PM, ShortCutie7 said:

doctors thinking I am or asking questions about my (barely existent) sex life.

I gave up on this and am very honest with my doctor, it’s freeing.   I was in the e.r last year with some sort of creeping crud, they start asking sex questions.  The poor young male nurse.  I was like yes, yes, yes - he sticks his head back in the door.  Yes.  And honestly came back again. Yes.

I didn’t realize spanking was a fetish.  It just doesn’t come standard?  🤪

I have a guy I see on occasion, he’s always late so I plan accordingly.  Last time was 2 and a half hours late, and I can’t find my expensive cologne that he complimented me on.  I won’t be seeing him again. 

Our schedules didn’t line up but I had a nice conversation with him.  Hoping to connect in the future.

1 hour ago, Coolwave35 said:

How do you say no to this? 

Hah - I’ve bought my fair share of those items.

3 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

An escort who negotiates his rate down just to do a little shopping with a client has questionable business sense.

Not sure I agree, to me it’s part of the package.  If the provider has to eat anyways, they need clothing anyways.  The client enjoys providing these things as part of the experience.  Seems reasonable.  I’ve certainly had more than a few providers drag me to the shoe store.  Shoes aren’t cheap…

1 hour ago, KensingtonHomo said:

. And, yes, many of them would instead create content with other 20-somethings than see middle-aged men. 

Been there.  Helped them shoot the content - and then enjoyed the provider and his friend.   Gotta be helpful lol. 
 

14 hours ago, rvwnsd said:

Let's see:

• Partying: Income: $0.00.
• Seeing a client for a few hours: $250 - $300/hour for three hours: Income: $750 - $900

If a guy wants to party with other content creators, he shouldn't advertise on Rentmen.

It has been my experience that humans don't always make the best decisions  

If you were the provider, given the time, the place, what is going on that weekend, would you show up?

Good Luck.

I’d be terrified to fall asleep next to that.  

Usually I a negotiate a better snow day rate.  I kid, I kid!  I did miss a date last weekend because of poor road conditions.

1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Again, some escorts are enamoured with the location versus the money they can make.

Exactly - I’ve got a place rented in Palm Springs.   Now my provider is bringing his boyfriend with, why not? Fun for me, free stay for him.  Not every decision is financial in the end.

5 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Perhaps true, but bottom line, nice hotels and dinner don't pay the rent.

True - but realistically most providers aren’t having multiple dates 7 days a week.  And why have 2-3 short dates with perhaps a no show, or a jerk, when I’m a repeat customer and easy to deal with?  1000 bucks is 1/2 the months rent or more if they have roommates.  Seems like good money.

This site is littered with threads of people complaining about how difficult the process can be.  I booked a room and he didn’t show up.  I went to a city and got stood up x amount of times.  Provider got lost.  Client was with family.  Someone insisted on face pics.  Provider was in seedy hotel.  Dog ate my homework.

So they can take a for sure thing.  Or spend the night sorting through all of the messages they complain about.  Maybe they can have lunch with someone for a predate interview.  

When someone sends me money via PayPal, and asks me to return it, what are they doing?   I’ve had a regular for years that does this on occasion, they pay the fees.   Where is this money coming from? 
 

They aren’t scamming me.  Are they scamming someone?

3 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

That's 1999 rates you're paying, what's your secret? 🙂

I think it has to do with just being decent, I don’t demand, always offer to buy dinner, stay in nice places etc.