NickInAtlanta

Had a session with Trey a few years ago. He’s legit. I’d guess he’s about 7.5”, which is still well above average. He used to live in Paducah, KY of all places. Haven’t seen his ad for a while.

Super hot twink in Atlanta, cuter in person than in his pics, wanted to share if anyone is looking:
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Chatted with him on SA 
like his vibe a lot 
 

I’ve been in contact, and he’s prompt and very sweet. He was sick when he visited Seattle, unfortunately. I’ll have to make a trip to ATL.

I've provided a face pic before, I knew they were new to the industry and figured they were just trying to be safe. Drew the line at a dick pic, felt scammy. They ended up flaking on me anyway, glad I went with my gut.

Super hot twink in Atlanta, cuter in person than in his pics, wanted to share if anyone is looking:
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You never need to provide a photo. A provider asking for one is indicative that they are new to the business, possibly unprofessional, or straight up want to monetize their sex life by picking and choosing whoever they would otherwise be willing to sleep with and charging.
When a client offers a photo unsolicited, I get a little wary because it becomes an invitation to comment on it, like the client is expecting me to affirm how attractive they are (even when they are very unattractive). Attractive clients are particularly problematic because they expect me to fall all over myself trying to make them happy, or expect me to offer them discounts or free services. It puts me in an awkward position because I either have to say nothing or lie to them, whether they be attractive or unattractive. I prefer to avoid the whole asking for validation component. I’m going to see the client regardless of how they look, so it’s really unnecessary.

Definitely no drugs. Definitely be clean (as in showered). These things aren’t unusual or especially controversial. 

It has a lot to do with the SESTA/FOSTA laws that were passed in the US back in 2018.  RM decided their best defense against US law enforcement was restricting US visitors from seeing rates and reviews.  It's also why the advertisers are "pornstars" and not "escorts".

People of Color have to work harder and for less money than their White brothers and sisters in most professions, not only in escorting. 

While it’s not the only thing that comes into play for rates, I feel like you are correct. 
 
sometimes I look at the way some providers of certain races are talked about here, and compare it to their rates and services, and I’m floored that they’re able to charge what they do.
 
And It can feel like I have to do more for less (for lack of better wording). 
 
granted I can’t speak for minorities of other races, but speaking as a black man you’re correct. 

Yes.
Don’t get wound up over this. You’ll waste time and energy if you overthink why a provider has reacted this way to you.
If, in the future, there's a point when you’d like to meet the guy again, send him a short message with your date/time. If he responds, you’ll know you’re no longer ghosted; you will become a client. If he doesn’t respond, move on.

Imagine if someone suggested that providers  charge extra for ugly clients.... The whinging would go on for pages and pages.
 

Work is work.
Somedays at work are easy. Somedays at work are hard.
It’s still work. 

No. 

Be on time

Look like your pics.

Tried booking two different guys two Fridays in a row, both canceled. The first one, texted 30 min before to say his stomach hurt and he couldn't bottom. Second, texted 45 min after we were scheduled to meet, said he was dealing with family drama. Both were booked a week in advance. Out the cost of a hotel room for both nights, and wasn't able to get anyone else last minute.
Any idea what I'm doing wrong? Just trying to not be alone, can't keep wasting money on hotels for nothing... 

Your intentions may be good but, it sounds stalkerish to me.
There was once an escort whom I had seen many times and felt very close to. I happened to find out that he and his boyfriend had a bad break up. I reached out and offered a friendly shoulder to cry on. It wasn’t well received. I learned my lesson, and now I never attempt to look behind the curtain.

Yes.
That's creepy.
First inquire with a simple what's up message
Don't make assumptions that something is wrong and don't act like you're his best friend when you just met. That's totally overstepping boundaries of privacy for anyone and definitely weird when you're talking about a hire.

I never understood how the gays measure their dick.
Everyone on Grindr says they're in the 8 to 10 category when most men actually come in somewhere around 6
Are these guys measuring from their asshole forward or just padding up an inch as some gay standard of measure, like a "bakers dozen" ? 🤔

I'm a cash guy, pay in cash and tip in cash.  Today I had a provider refuse cash at tie of service and demand payment via PayPal in advance.  I was to take a screenshot of the payment as my receipt, and do this through the "family and friend" option on PayPal which would invalidate any claim against the transaction in the future.  I followed my instinct and walked away.  Any insight if this was a scam or if I should be good with a PayPal transaction in advance of service?

From having visited recently, Denver is quite rough around the edges. However, it’s nothing really new: it’s been going the same direction since I left in 2016. Lot of druggie amateur types getting into the biz, costs of hotels have gone up unnecessarily. Clients are likely just as flaky as the providers. 
 
However, that’s also why having boundaries and structure is important when dealing with cities like that. I used to freely post in Denver with no deposits. If I did that now, I’d be a sitting duck. Even when I attempted to have 1 guy meet without a deposit, he kept flaking, 2 times a row. 
 
it’s like I have to be reminded a million times why I collect deposits now, despite the forum telling me no, no, no. 

Now, that’s just something totally different and disorganized. That’s NOT the time windows I refer to, at all. Especially since you went to his place. 
 
In my case, I was informing the guy ahead of time, and just having a reasonable conversation about coordinating time with him, before he even stepped foot out of his place to come to me.
 
Who is the you, that you refer to? 
 
I relate to your concerns, however what “should be” versus what it actually is are 2 different things. A provider should be able to accommodate client’s schedules. However, at what cost? At what level? 
 
I had a client earlier today, asking if I could meet in the next hour…and he also added that he has too many people at his place so he needs to come to me. All understandable, it happens. But, who says I don’t also have a bunch of people at my place? Who said that? And since when did I need to be ready to accommodate “within the next hour” to host?
I told him: I’m glad you reached out, but I’m not available within the next hour today, because (insert real life stuff). However, I can see you (insert time I can meet). He was like cool, got the basics and he sent the deposit…and we’re all good: to meet 2 days from now. 
 
So I understand accommodating someone’s schedule: IF the provider is given the appropriate time to do so. Which should not mean, unannounced. 

It seems to me like a lot of EDIT new and young ENDEDIT escorts don't understand how important it is to be punctual.
If you're a businessman at, say, a convention or staying at a hotel, you have precise hours when you can discreetly receive escorts.
If you sell your time but can't accommodate someone's schedule, you may be in the wrong business.

I feel like Denver is kind of rough lately. A lot of former reliable regulars have stopped escorting for the time being and a lot of the new guys are either flakey or expensive or both. 
Personally I think you might weirdly have better long contacting people the day before or even the day off. And also multiple guys. This weekend, I contacted 5, only two messaged me back in time and one of them wanted a very high amount for his time. 
I'm trying to find another great Denver regular, but no luck. I'll definitely let you know if I do though.