MikePDNA51

KneadingM on RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Recommending myself.  Available for massage at my place or clients. 
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Istanbul does have a scene.  I would use standard website: RentMasseur, HUNQZ, and Jock2Go.  There are gay bath houses but I have not been in a few years.  

My closet already open and not much happening  

Has anyone actually given money to another guy so they can test masseur before we all do?

I would not take video or photo without consent from client. I’ve had clients want to FaceTime me but none go through with massage. All providers photos are accurate or should be 

Ah, me! This commentaries brings back a memory of my distant youth at which time I attained my first employment as a trust officer in a prominent banking firm at NYC. On my first day at work I was handed the probate file on an old Russian emigre, the "Caviar King", who had recouped his fortunes after the Revolution in marrying, in succession, two American heiresses. The gentlemen's second wife, the widow of the president of one of NYC's largest banks who, herself, had done well in the marriage market, her first husband, who she haddivorced, having been the heir to one of America's Great Fortunes, had predeceased him, and, his will, drafted by a prestigious "white shoe" firm, called for the distribution of his estate, some $3,000,000. to his sister and her son, his nephew, residents of France. The probate of the estate had proceeded nicely when "Sweetie Pie" showed up at the court house door. Yes, the aged Caviar King had taken up a relationship with a woman who claimed that he had married her, and, thereby, she was entitled to one-half of his estate. Depositions, hearings, continuances, etc went on for three years, the only proof of the marriage being dubious witnesses and a note penned in the man's handwriting which read: "At last we are together Sweetie Pie". At long last, the matter settled; Sweetie Pie walked with a $50.000 pay off; the estate, however, incurred $250,000+ in legal fees and court costs, and with taxes owing, was reduced to a fraction of its original worth.

I couldn’t care less if they are using Viagra, Cialis, Trimix, or any other drug for  ED. If that is what they need to perform, it is none of my business. 

I have experienced both them removing their clothing when starting, and removing their clothing later. I also had an experience that didn't look (at least to me) like anything involving the provider removing his clothing, but we ended up almost breaking the massage table (not exactly massaging each other).
Of course, the purely therapeutic massages I've received have been delivered with the guy dressed and he had stayed dressed. Some didn't even see my private parts during the massage or when turning. In those settings there is neither a discussion nor an expectation of nudity from the provider.
I've never been asked about my preferences regarding nudity by the provider.

I think I’ve had only one masseur ask me if I preferred them clothed or naked.  I have never asked any of my masseurs either, most have been naked from the start.  I do find it more exciting if they start clothed…makes you guess as to if/when the fun would start.  

So he still wants to see you before booking, for "safety". Interesting. He seems smart.

I know this subject has been covered ad nauseum, but I wanted to share my response to a hottie who’s now asked twice for a pic.
”I’m a potential client who doesn’t send pics to strangers. This isn’t Grindr; it’s Rentmen.”

Right 
That sucks…
Hmm, I’m finding this even with Diamond membership has gotten harder to come by. Lot of times, that 4 pm checkout tends to be reserved by availability only. I honestly can’t remember when the last time I was able to stay at a hotel past 1 pm, maybe 2 without having to book a 2nd night. It’s definitely a limitation having to checkout at noon though, and some chains have even been pushing it to 11.
 
One lady really pushed my buttons last week: I had a bad bout of hiccups and was trying to quell it. She was knocking on the door 15 minutes past 12, telling me I need to pack up my stuff and get going as it was past checkout and the housekeeper was apparently waiting outside of my room for me to leave. And I’m a Diamond member with this chain, and had booked the most expensive room in the hotel (living room/jacuzzi). As I was leaving, I checked her in a major way (normally I would complain to the 1-800 number, but this chick deserved a personal message from me lol). That was so unprofessional, hotel staff shouldn’t talk to an elite member that way. Normally we get 1 p.m. checkout automatically and usually the front desk calls, not show up and knock on the door arguing with guests.
Many places seem to always have the excuse of having 50 rooms to clean and only 4 housekeepers. Partly why I carry extra disinfectant when I travel lol.
 
Yeah generally if the last day is on the 9th: it could mean the person is checking out and can only meet until noon. But like @Simon Suraci said, sometimes it’s better to let that last day be your last FULL day, not the day you’re driving/flying out. However…I’ve been open to catch morning bookings before checking out, on many occasions. 
This is candid, but true.
I’ll admit: the “travel feature” is a complicated thing to navigate. The way it works: a provider can only advertise a city with NO DATES if it’s within 250 miles of whatever they set their current GPS/home location to (and home does not always mean my “home” as RentM often defaults). Home usually means my current location. So, if I’m in Kansas City: I can advertise in a number of cities within 250 miles away without dates. But I can’t advertise in San Diego unless I put travel dates, even if I’m just wanting to pre-advertise before I go and haven’t confirmed when I’m going.
 
It’s reasons like that: sometimes I’ll just post in a city I plan to travel to: and just take my number down. People who book in advance are usually willing to email or go to my site. But the texts round the clock from people 1,500 miles away…makes you feel like you’re missing out.
I had to contend with this earlier this month, when I was planning to visit New York. I was advertising ahead of time, but mainly to chat and get a feel for the area before arriving. However, I had to place travel dates up before I really knew what was going on. Then some things came up and I got detoured. So I had to post pone.
However I’m starting to think the best way to avoid the riff raff: only advertise in the city I am in, nearby and the very NEXT city I’m going to. That way I avoid advertising dates prematurely and having to make changes along the way (I don’t do air travel so my schedule is much more flexible when driving).
I had that issue last year, when I was trying to plan a drive from Kansas City to Seattle. People were contacting me a lot in the 2nd city, before I had even gotten to the first city. But then when I finally got to 2nd, a few people had to drop out or weren’t available, so all that advanced advertising wasn’t as effective, because most of the guys I met were same day visits.
I wish there was a way to come up with a new method of advertising travels, without relying on travel dates. Of course, I’ve followed some guys ads: I would see one guy move his ad along a route I was familiar with: but absolutely no travel dates or “nearby cities”. It’s almost like using the Grindr/hookup app method of traveling: only posting your ad wherever you are. Which works for hookup apps because it’s free, but I just don’t find it works as well for business. I rarely ever have success just showing up in a city without any advertising in advance. I’m more with @Vin_Marco on advertising like two weeks in advance…though I actually find sometimes just 2-3 days or a week in advance is all it really takes. It seems anything longer, people just are just never available. 
 
It used to be I could advertise cities weeks in advance, take down a bunch of names and contact them when I arrive. But lately it’s best to advertise that same week, and plan to meet. 

Was just there for business. For first-timers, I'd recommend the male-only spas over private providers, as the spas operate daily from around noon till 1-2am, and the receptionists are on standby to answer whatsapp or phone. There are roughly 30 of these spas currently in operation, about half on Hong Kong island, and half in Kowloon; mostly around Causeway Bay for Hong Kong, and TST and YMT for Kowloon. A 90 min massage is 400-500 hkd with at least a 500 hkd mandatory "tip" paid directly to the masseur. This tipping system is meant to keep the spa legal, as individual sexwork is allowed but profiting off the sexwork of others is a crime. So for around 1000hkd, you get a shower, massage room, and erotic massage with happy ending. If you want oral or anal, the masseur will quote you an additional tip if they're willing. For the masseur to bottom, it'll be around a total of 1700-2000 hkd all costs included.
The system works relatively well if you have a body type that the receptionist can recommend. They may even show you body pics and height/weight of their masseurs. They will never show face pics. Any spa you see with face pics is in China. If you want a more private experience, most of the spas also do outcalls, which are more expensive. A majority of the spas advertise on new.gayhk.com 

I have never been to Hong Kong but I’m now considering it for next year. Some of the advertisements on new.gayhk.com are enough to make you want to catch the next flight out.

Considering the place is in a virtual state of civil war combined with COVID I’m not surprised.

Got my tickets! VIP weekend and mare

Is there a lube and wet wipe concession at Hustlaball? A person could clean up, as they say.

I sent Christmas Cards to clients who booked multiple sessions and would be comfortable receiving a card.  
Giving high end clothing to regular masseurs?  Was the item on the masseurs list?  I do not care who you are no one wants an item they do not want.  Anyone, including provider or client, will appreciate a gift in person but are thinking, "why did someone give me this"?  Gift cards and cash work because most people will use these items.  Sexy underwear to someone might be a disappointment to others.  We are all guilty of giving and receiving gifts we did not want.  
 
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This is really silly but recently  I have been thinking about as I go to other people’s homes all day long and I find myself never walking across their lawn. Since I park on the street I walk on the road or sidewalk to get to the driveway and then on the sidewalk to the door.  I was just thinking ‘where does that come from’. 

I feel like I remember that I was taught to never walk on some else’s lawn…was anyone else taught that?  
 
I did grow up in the Midwest and do half the time lawns were covered in snow and then in the spring it would be muddy…so it wouldn’t make sense to walk on it.
 

Respect everyone’s time. Some masseurs are more diminate because their clients want them to be? Assume client wants a dominate guy who can take complete control then masseur would need to balance dominate, force, and kindness. 
 
In BDSM it is possible to understand sub while being kind

I sent Christmas Cards to clients who booked multiple sessions and would be comfortable receiving a card.  
Giving high end clothing to regular masseurs?  Was the item on the masseurs list?  I do not care who you are no one wants an item they do not want.  Anyone, including provider or client, will appreciate a gift in person but are thinking, "why did someone give me this"?  Gift cards and cash work because most people will use these items.  Sexy underwear to someone might be a disappointment to others.  We are all guilty of giving and receiving gifts we did not want.  
 
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My closet already open and not much happening  

Don’t do what I did many years ago, before the Internet. I ordered a massage in my 5 star hotel, the New Otani, in Tokyo. I wasn’t expecting an erotic massage but at least hoped for an attractive male masseur to kneed my muscles. 
What I got was an old wrinkled hag who draped my body and only worked specific areas after drawing back a few inches of towel. Ugh.

Hi guys.  I'm heading to Tokyo. Any suggestion on massage or RM? I hear there are 'brothel' type places. Are the places that advertise on the internet safe?  As an American who has never been, I want to see options? Please DM with suggestions, thoughts, ideas?  
Thanks!!