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I'm highly allergic to cats and dogs so I always ask if someone has a pet on the rare occasion I'm not hosting or going to a hotel to meet a provider. If someone ever shows up either as a client or provider to your place and you have a pet it's nice to mention it but it should be on them to ask if they are that allergic like I am. Never let them make it seem like your fault for not mentioning it.

I hired him about seven Patricks, er, years ago from his RM ad. Not a bad session, but not amazing, either. He told me about his limitations a few times and mentioned being vegan several times. IIRC I sucked his dick and ate his ass, which made him shoot a huge load. He was pretty nice with me, but again this was in the 2017 timeframe when he had just moved to San Diego. Although he was fine with me, he did have a superior attitude about himself when talking about other people. It was more amusing than anything.
Note that I have opted NOT to hire him on subsequent trips.

When my first contact is via text it reads something like this:
"Hi [insert escort name here if they listed it in their ad]. I saw your RM profile and am interested in a potential meeting. LMK when is a good time to text."
When he replies that he can text I tell him what I get into and ask his thoughts.
If he replies affirmatively, I ask if he would share his rate. And then I book or not book.

@BigTom This little corner of the internet may not be for you then. Other sections of the site may appeal to you should discussions of men for hire and related topics not be to your liking. Talk sports, finance, literature, health, travel… whatever. The core site user base is men interested in hiring men, and this is by design.
Also, using the word “prostitute” in 2024 reflects more poorly on the person using it than the person to whom they are referring. “sex worker” is the appropriate term for this century.

I would not mention anything sexual in the first text massage, in case you have the wrong number.  You can mention that you are Okay with telephone calls.
Example:
You (1st message):  "Hello.  I'm John.  I saw your ad in XXX City.   Are you available for a 1 hour session this Friday evening?  I can travel or host in XXX neighborhood.  If available, what is the rate you charge?   I am willing to discuss more by phone call if you prefer"
Him:  "Yes, I am available on Friday.  I charge XXX for outcalls. Etc..."
You (2nd message):  "Great!  That rate works for me.  How's 8pm?  I see you are into kissing and water sports, which is what I'm looking for.  Your ad says "Ask Me" about safe sex; so are you okay if I use a condom when I top?  Feel free to call if you prefer to discuss in person"
 
In summary, keep it short and sweet.  Don't specifically mention paying for a sex act when hiring in the United States.  Mention dates and city in the first message (in case he's traveling), but be careful about any more information in case you have the wrong number.  Try to ask your important questions in the 2nd text messages, and keep them simple so he can respond with "Yes, I'm fine with those activities" .  Don't waste his time with open ended questions such as "What do you enjoy to do in bed?" that require too much of his time to answer and may not answer what you really wanted to know.
Happy hiring!

I hired him about seven Patricks, er, years ago from his RM ad. Not a bad session, but not amazing, either. He told me about his limitations a few times and mentioned being vegan several times. IIRC I sucked his dick and ate his ass, which made him shoot a huge load. He was pretty nice with me, but again this was in the 2017 timeframe when he had just moved to San Diego. Although he was fine with me, he did have a superior attitude about himself when talking about other people. It was more amusing than anything.
Note that I have opted NOT to hire him on subsequent trips.

I usually give 15 to 30 minutes, depending on how far he is coming from. 

I don't really care. If I find the guy attractive and he is an active participant/seems to be enjoying himself (even if it's only acting)... I'm good.

When my first contact is via text it reads something like this:
"Hi [insert escort name here if they listed it in their ad]. I saw your RM profile and am interested in a potential meeting. LMK when is a good time to text."
When he replies that he can text I tell him what I get into and ask his thoughts.
If he replies affirmatively, I ask if he would share his rate. And then I book or not book.

Well he got hard for me, big time.  That thing was like a missle -- very straight and rock solid, and very, very enjoyable!!  The man is a stud in every sense of the word.

For those just tuning in, here's the link to his RM profile and to the rentmen.eu version.

I'm sorry you had a not-so-great experience but do thank you for taking one for the team and reporting back. 

I'm sorry you had a not-so-great experience but do thank you for taking one for the team and reporting back. 

Alright, I am going to go against my general rule and reply: 
I've hired him fairly recently. My advice would be to find someone else. He is hot, yes. Great body, handsome face, all of the above. 
But he's not a great escort. He's only concerned about himself and what he wants. He just doesn't give off the "comfortable" vibe and not for nothing, I can get comfortable with almost anyone in the world.  
Pass and move on.... 

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I haven't done any planning, sent out invitations, or decorated!  I feel so behind!
I need to clear my calendar for Thursday!

Only thing that comes to mind is he doesn't want to fall victim to being banned from the U.S. like a few of his fellow U.K. performers. Which on the surface, would be a smart move. 
Big fan of Danny for a while now, love his content. Didn't know he was also a provider so personally that's good to know. 

Cloudy is usually a term referencing smoking crystal meth.
Next.  

Sounds like he must have been a little cloudy when he made that ad because it makes no sense.

A lot of people speculate this. But ironically my mother was very distant growing up, at least to me. My father was the more nurturing parent. 

I presume he still sees trusted longtime clients and the occasional new referral from same. He'll be 54 later this year, for those wondering. 

Depends on how bad the pain is…..
Can’t move?….cancel.
Can walk and wipe yer own ass?….I’d suck it up.
Most guys on here would kill for the opportunity. 

I’m ok with it, and will often purchase a one month non-renewing subscription to get a better look/feel of a provider I’m considering spending time with.

Although I'm not a fan of being required to subscribe to a provider's OF, when a provider has one, I usually subscribe first to get an idea of the provider's current look.

Although I'm not a fan of being required to subscribe to a provider's OF, when a provider has one, I usually subscribe first to get an idea of the provider's current look.