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@Jamie21 you'll have to come visit Canada, but likely no outcalls in the following towns... Balzac, Alberta Climax, Saskatchewan Nut Mountain, Saskatchewan Smuts, Saskatchewan Finger, Manitoba Crotch Lake, Ontario Old Cummer, Ontario Anse a Mouille-Cul (Wet Ass Cove), Quebec Brise-Culotte (Crotchless Underpants), Quebec Sackville, New Brunswick Balls Creek, Nova Scotia Ecum Secum, Nova Scotia Blow Me Down, Newfoundland Come by Chance, Newfoundland Dildo, Newfoundland Granny's Hole, Newfoundland Spread Eagle, Newfoundland Yeah, it seems that the founders of many Canadian towns were a bunch of pervs. LOL. But just to be clear, the capital of Saskatchewan is Regina, not Vagina.

Yes I agree. I can’t do outcalls to Essex or Sussex. Visits to clients in Scunthorpe (think about it) and Cockfosters are challenging, and I definitely can’t see anyone in Penistone (South Yorkshire).

Not in RM, but I was watching video a couple of days ago where the subtitles said that someone had graduated summa *** laude.

That’s Latin for “we don’t do happy endings.“

I do have a legal right to study in the US. I am a US citizen. I was born in the US when my parents were a grad students in the US and moved back to my asian country when I was 2. I do have 2 passports. I said I was an international student in the post because I didnt grow up in the US and I do have a stronger identity as a citizen of the other country... Sorry for the confusion. I just said international not to mean local.

One of the best experiences I have had! It felt so good, so fulfilled that I felt like I could live without s*x for a week. His moan when he cum inside me was masculine & f**king s*xy (only my crush’s moan could compare). Pros: - masculine - he looks much better than pics, great muscle, the body is beautiful as a whole - clean shaven - kissing was so good - smooth skin - very nice 🍑 - polite, nice, sweet Cons: - there are a few hairs on his chest, would be perfect if those are gone - 🍆 is a bit small, but its size & length are perfect for my tiny 🍑 — it fits mine so well 🔐 Verdict: Worth repeating. My TOP 3 favorites. TOP 2 tops. I will be his best client from now on.

I only pay escorts to talk about things like NY vs Chicago pizza, conspiracy theories and geology. They insist on having sex with me afterwards for free. Who am I to turn them down? 🤷‍♂️

Yes I pay Gay escort for sex! Its not an issue for me! I have spent enough spoiled time in seedy gay bars! That's enough! I choose a guy! we agree on the price! and then Everyone is happy! Some people might find it pathetic! I do not think so! I am 56 now still in good shape but let's face the truth: I am not the guy I used to be and so are my ex-boyfriends! Its always to see them back ageing badly! They probably think the same about me! Lol! That's life! Life is a slayer! Never mind! I like my boys! I have the impression to be reborn when I see them so young so fresh! Yes I like GAY ESCORTS!

I appreciate you sharing this. There’s definitely a correlation between the two you described. A friend of mine who no longer escorts actually started for the money. He needed it, and work was hard to come by. He never considered it before, and had no idea if he’d be “good at it” until he tried. What he discovered over 20 plus years was that his real strength was a caregiving impulse. He had a strong pleaser streak and genuinely enjoyed helping others feel good, less lonely, and more confident. In the end, those deeper motivations, along with the sense of control and autonomy, were what kept him going.

It’s simple, if you’re doing it for any reason other than you are good at it and you enjoy it (those things are always connected)…then you’ll fail. If your motive is money, more sex, notoriety, to avoid boredom or just because you think you’re attractive to certain clients then you’ll fail at being an escort. It’s simply not the kind of job you can do and ‘put up with’. It’s much more difficult than you think it is. Aside from all the warnings about visas etc there’s real risks to doing it. Things like health risks, reputation risks, personal safety, mental health….you need to be really motivated to overcome those if you want to be a successful escort.

...the disillusionment of the American Dream, the dangers of materialism, the power of social class, the corrupting influence of wealth, and the unattainability of the past The above are themes assigned to The Great Gatsby, written in 1925. If that book suggested the dream was dead, 100 years ago, can one blame anyone for suggesting the same thing now? My Dad's parents arrived from the old country and found honest work, a maid and a blacksmith. Grandpa barely survived a deadly coal train accident, with a severe head injury. He went on to marry Grandma. Back then infant mortality was significant. Dad was their fourth and final try. Dad served in the Pacific at the very end, Tinian and Okinawa. After the war, Mom and Dad had 5 boys, me, the last. When I think about it, I'm lucky to be here. Nowadays, when I hear coworkers worry about housing affordability and skyrocketing tuition costs, I wonder. But yes, I'd say I have achieved the American dream. I had an excellent public school education and got an engineering degree from a very competitive state school. The tuition was affordable. I saved and invested well, so I have more than enough. I own my home near the beach. Good enough for me.

Nerdy & Geeky guys can be so hot in their own way! 😜

You are a guest in this country, and as such, you are expected to follow the rules, much like when you are a guest at someone's home. If you don't follow the rules, expect to get booted out. If your student visa doesn't allow you to work in this country, there is nothing to think about or discuss - YOU SHOULD NOT WORK. PERIOD. If you do, and get caught, be prepared to face the consequences. That could include spending time at Alligator Alcatraz or similar detention center, deportation, and the possibility of never being allowed back into this country. Bozo noticed your reference to future job opportunities. Is that employment in the USA? Do you really expect to be here on a student visa, violate the conditions of the visa, and still be allowed to remain here AND be allowed to seek employment legally? Remember, you are a guest in this country. BTC 🤡

My spouse never hired providers, because for him, sex was only satisfying if it was the result of mutual attraction. My reason for hiring providers was much more mechanical: for me, sex was satisfying if it was the result of the person having the right tools, and using them with proficiency.

I’m sure facial recognition played a role in this. In recent years, law enforcement agencies have been relying more heavily on technologies like Clearview AI to identify and locate individuals. These tools give law enforcement the ability to scan massive databases of images pulled from across the internet and quickly generate potential matches. While the practice has raised significant debates around privacy and accuracy, there’s no denying that facial recognition has become an increasingly common part of modern policing.

I would like to caution you to keep this vivid language in private and in person. @Jamie21 is an experienced and intelligent provider BUT he is working in a country where escorting is LEGAL. When hiring in the United States you are always AT RISK of law enforcement if you get too direct in written form which can be used as evidence against you. Some of the gentleman here are very cavalier and will tell you "that rarely happens". Well...that may be RARE but do YOU want to be the guy that takes the bullet in a game of Russian Roulette ? You never know when a sting operation is following a lead or cleaning up a district with a local election coming up. Keep your conversation discreet until you meet and are assured you are not engaging law enforcement FIRST.

Back in NYC...

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Personally, I think you’re going about this line of work for the wrong reasons. Monetizing your sex life, for one. This phrase neatly summarizes the sentiment discussed in so many other threads on these forums. It just doesn’t work. A much larger number of men would do it if that’s all it took. For another, your primary interest is in the income, not meeting needs you personally are well suited to fulfill. Nothing wrong taking a fair income for delivering high value services to a willing clientele; however, it takes a lot to provide m4m services effectively and be successful. More than looks, and certainly you need experience and talent either on the massage table, in the bedroom, or both. Plus marketing and business savvy, patience, emotional maturity, boundaries, people skills, and many other soft skills. You’re going about it quite casually. This is serious work. To do it well IMHO, you need to do it for the right reasons (beyond a quick buck). This is about meeting very real human needs, not Grindr with the slight caveat of money changing hands. It takes empathy, compassion, and a selfless, service oriented mindset to do a good job. Missing these big picture items, you will likely burn out, and not succeed. Then you’re just another mediocre provider of many, the likes of which the men here pick apart mercilessly and publicly for both shallow and legitimate reasons. Then you inevitably fade into the background and quit 6-24 months after starting. Don’t be that guy. To succeed and sustain, you need to keep on your best game and continue to grow and get better. A short sighted, half ass effort in this biz is immediately apparent to everyone, from the ads you post to the first impression you impart to every new client in person. Lastly, I personally feel you are already in a much too vulnerable position being in the US on any visa, student or otherwise. It’s one thing being a US citizen and kicked out of your apartment lease because your landlord knows or suspects you are a masseur or sex worker. That sucks, but it’s quite another scale of consequence to be kicked out of the country for the same. I wouldn’t jeopardize your life. I need to refrain from saying anything further to expand this point, because it wouldn’t conform to the forum guidelines. Be careful, is all. You already have an excellent opportunity studying here doing something you presumably have a long term goal to fulfill. I would hate to see something bad happen to you or to miss out on your dreams over a quick buck side hustle your heart was never truly into in the first place. Just my take. Do what you will. If you want to do it anyway, some of the others here have already made some good points about not showing your face, not using your real name, taking steps for plausible deniability, shifting some risk onto others by tagging along on 4-hand gigs, etc. There’s more to it than all that, for instance how to properly declare your income and pay taxes, and how to set up a business entity to do so legally. In the end, it’s not always about what you are actually doing, but what Uncle Sam discovers about his missing slice of your pie that catches up to you and ruins you, but that’s a whole other subject. My advice is don’t go there. Be safe. Enjoy the incredible opportunities you already have. I too was a dirt poor college student many moons ago. I was disciplined. I budgeted. I made it work. Money won’t always be so tight.

I do whatever makes me happy. No time to care about what people think. It’s a waste of my time and energy. I also feel bad for them; their lives must be sad or boring. I’m also lovely, so my guys love seeing me as well. also, my top favorites are much nicer than many other people I also had to pay for their services. Even when it’s not my top favorites, I have met many nice guys here in NYC. I’m grateful for their services. Hope every client treat them with respect and care.

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Many years ago when I worked in law enforcement , we were going on vacation and I typed up an email with instructions to the person who was going to house sit for us, and look after our cat, who I referred to as the pampered pussy. I could not send the email because it contained profanity or obscene language. I was perplexed. Finally thought maybe pussy was the offending word - replaced it with cat and the email went along its joyful way Weird , when I was paid to do thing like take a 911 call that went like this Get the F***king C**t coppers down here ......

I edited my rentmen profile today, and somehow managed to get “thick tool” past the censors. I hope I don’t jinx it by mentioning it here…

One of my good friends, an escort that is very popular on RM with 60+ 5.0 reviews, just went through the entire citizen process and got his citizenship in the past two weeks. It was definitely a concern that they would have discovered and found out in the process. Luckily, it worked out for him but your points are quite valid and it doesn't always work out the way it did for him. He also declared the income as personal brand/mentorship/business consulting and paid taxes on it with the IRS so tax returns/filings were all in order which helped.

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Thaniks for the felicitations. Now if you are offering fellatiations that would be even better.