Questioned by hotel security

[+ WilliamM]

Also I notice the higher-end the hotel, the more understanding they are..

 

I stayed at the then high-end Hotel Adlon in Berlin for ten days in 2000. My sixth floor hotel room had views of the Reichstag and Brandenburg Gate. My hires were mostly Russian. They had no trouble with hotel management.

[+ purplekow]

Thanks for sharing guys, it makes me feel a little better to know I'm not the only one out there who has run into this problem.

 

Is there a checklist of experiences that tells you you are now a veteran at hiring escorts? there has to be a better name for it than that. I only hire a few times a year, but after 15 years i've checked off quite a few.

 

Been hassled by hotel security ... check

Escort wasn't the guy in the pics ... check

Escort demanded payment up front, then took off after 15 minutes ... check

Escorts online photos were obviously from 20 years ago ... check

Escort stood you up ... check

Escort was too high or drunk to preform ... check

Escort gave a little foreplay, then informed you that any actual sex would cost more than the discussed price... check

Halfway through an appointment, there was a knock on the door, it was the escorts next client booked 30 minutes after yours ... check

Escort gives you an STI even though he swears he was clean and a condom was used ... check

Hired through a high end agency, paid up front, and the escort never showed. money was never refunded ... check

Escort claims to love kink, or be a top, or kiss, etc. but when you get there they just want to bottom or handjob... check check check

 

 

I would be interested in seeing what other common things could be added to the checklist, just so I know what to look forward to.

 

After thinking about it, I feel pretty certain his threat to call the cops was just a bluff to get me out of the building. I had already disturbed one of their guests, and there was a lot of obvious judgment going on. He knew I was there for a random hookup. I don't know if he considered weather or not I was paying, just the fact that I didn't know who I was meeting. I'm pretty sure he only brought up the cops to get me to leave. After all, what could they have charged me with? Loitering? Still, it worked. I got the hell out of there even before I knew I was in the wrong hotel. It could have been the right one with the most amazing escort ever and I still would have left.

It was very disappointing and it was a bit humiliating.

 

On this list, only one I have had happen is to be stood up. That has happened twice. On both occasions I was stood up by an escort I had previously hired. One time, I arrived to find that the escort not only still had a client, but he had made a mistake with the scheduling and had me scheduled for the next day. So that would be a total of three stand ups.

[down_to_business]

Thanks for sharing guys, it makes me feel a little better to know I'm not the only one out there who has run into this problem.

 

Is there a checklist of experiences that tells you you are now a veteran at hiring escorts? there has to be a better name for it than that. I only hire a few times a year, but after 15 years i've checked off quite a few.

 

Been hassled by hotel security ... check

Escort wasn't the guy in the pics ... check

Escort demanded payment up front, then took off after 15 minutes ... check

Escorts online photos were obviously from 20 years ago ... check

Escort stood you up ... check

Escort was too high or drunk to preform ... check

Escort gave a little foreplay, then informed you that any actual sex would cost more than the discussed price... check

Halfway through an appointment, there was a knock on the door, it was the escorts next client booked 30 minutes after yours ... check

Escort gives you an STI even though he swears he was clean and a condom was used ... check

Hired through a high end agency, paid up front, and the escort never showed. money was never refunded ... check

Escort claims to love kink, or be a top, or kiss, etc. but when you get there they just want to bottom or handjob... check check check

 

 

I would be interested in seeing what other common things could be added to the checklist, just so I know what to look forward to.

....

 

My kindred spirit!

 

And while I only at the worse was given strep throat from an escort on the disease and illness front

 

Escort attempts to blackmail and extort you... check

Escort makes you so uncomfortable and frightened that you have to gather your belongings and sneak out of your own hotel room while he is sleeping (involving hotel management).... check

Escort creates suspicion of theft so you have to set trap to know for sure.... check

Escort cancels after change deadline on your European cruise and vacation causing you to lose all your deposits, hotels, pre-booked tours, airfares and the vacation you spent months planning... check

Escort decides while on a vacation with you that his fee does not include anything "extra" other than being on vacation and you spend the entire vacation apart but you prepaid his fee.... check

Escort decides to do an overnight with another client while on the clock with you for a weekend... check

Escort is sorry but he has a headache, somehow this doesn't seem to affect his ability to text all day or night.... check

Escort doesn't want to go to bed and proceeds to watch cartoon network the entire overnight... check

Escort never puts his phone down, even when having a meal or play time... check

Escort "borrows" something. Item is never returned... check

 

I am sure there is more... but that is all that I can think of right now.

[FilmGeek]

It was a bumpy start to hiring escorts. I started hiring when I was 23. I lived in LA, just out of college, and wanted to keep the male experiences going now that I didn't have my college buddy, but I also worked 80 hours a week and definitely wasn't up for going to gay clubs to meet guys. Things have gotten better since finding this website, I hope it keeps going, but a lot of that only works for when I'm traveling. A lot of my work is out of utah, and when I'm in the mood most of the escorts that come through here haven't been reviewed. Generally that's why I don't hire more often, I usually wait till I'm on a business trip and there are more options.

 

Now as an opposite o that list, I've had amazing experiences as well. I just had one of the best hires of all back in the fall when I was working in Oklahoma, he wasn't reviewed either, but Oklahoma has even less options than Utah.

[FilmGeek]

My kindred spirit!

 

And while I only at the worse was given strep throat from an escort on the disease and illness front

 

Escort attempts to blackmail and extort you... check

Escort makes you so uncomfortable and frightened that you have to gather your belongings and sneak out of your own hotel room while he is sleeping (involving hotel management).... check

Escort creates suspicion of theft so you have to set trap to know for sure.... check

Escort cancels after change deadline on your European cruise and vacation causing you to lose all your deposits, hotels, pre-booked tours, airfares and the vacation you spent months planning... check

Escort decides while on a vacation with you that his fee does not include anything "extra" other than being on vacation and you spend the entire vacation apart but you prepaid his fee.... check

Escort decides to do an overnight with another client while on the clock with you for a weekend... check

Escort is sorry but he has a headache, somehow this doesn't seem to affect his ability to text all day or night.... check

Escort doesn't want to go to bed and proceeds to watch cartoon network the entire overnight... check

Escort never puts his phone down, even when having a meal or play time... check

Escort "borrows" something. Item is never returned... check

 

I am sure there is more... but that is all that I can think of right now.

 

Wow, some of those are pretty terrible. I've had the one too where he is on his phone all night. I had another where I had booked the escort for an overnight. We started off by going to dinner, and the escort spent the whole dinner convincing me to bring on his friend for a 3some. The other "hot buddy" met us back at the hotel, and the guy was not at all what he had described or what I was into. They were both offended that I would judge someone on their age and looks, and they both took off, leaving me alone with a suite in Vegas.

[+ Keith30309]

My kindred spirit!

 

And while I only at the worse was given strep throat from an escort on the disease and illness front

 

Escort attempts to blackmail and extort you... check

Escort makes you so uncomfortable and frightened that you have to gather your belongings and sneak out of your own hotel room while he is sleeping (involving hotel management).... check

Escort creates suspicion of theft so you have to set trap to know for sure.... check

Escort cancels after change deadline on your European cruise and vacation causing you to lose all your deposits, hotels, pre-booked tours, airfares and the vacation you spent months planning... check

Escort decides while on a vacation with you that his fee does not include anything "extra" other than being on vacation and you spend the entire vacation apart but you prepaid his fee.... check

Escort decides to do an overnight with another client while on the clock with you for a weekend... check

Escort is sorry but he has a headache, somehow this doesn't seem to affect his ability to text all day or night.... check

Escort doesn't want to go to bed and proceeds to watch cartoon network the entire overnight... check

Escort never puts his phone down, even when having a meal or play time... check

Escort "borrows" something. Item is never returned... check

 

I am sure there is more... but that is all that I can think of right now.

Dayum

 

I'll never complain about someone being emotionally distant again.

[down_to_business]

Yes there were good experiences too, but those bad ones (lol...now). Needless to say, after those particular incidents, none of them were rehired. I remember getting berated by at least two of them for not tipping them. One texted me a few weeks after and told me his car broke down and would I wire him the funds to fix it (I didn't respond). At least 2 threatened me for posting an honest review after which did contribute greatly to my personal decision to stop reviewing escorts.

 

Oh and there was the one who told me how the hell he expected him to fuck me when I didn't have any Viagra. Or the one that told me that the only thing I have going for me was my wallet.

[+ sync]

I have to admire the moxie of you victims. If I were to have the OP's experience of being grilled by hotel security, I would meltdown and leave in an ambulance.

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[Mo Mason]

Oh my God, I would be mortified. It definitely seems like an honest mistake on the escort's part, but that whole situation would have humiliated and terrified me to the point that I'd probably never hire again.

[+ Funguy]

WHERE DO YOU GUYS DIG UP THESE PROVIDERS?

 

Ok...I've only "leased" for about 5 years BUT FREQUENTLY!!

 

I have enjoyed all of my time with, if you've seen my posts on other threads, what can be considered (and I do) among the best of what is offered out there.

 

The worst I have experienced is a lack of chemistry, a poor experience, 2 cancellations, and 1 no show. Otherwise, I am thoroughly thrilled with who I play with and continue to add - and with no trepidation.

[Chuckball]

I always go through RM and I have never been disappointed. Before I came upon the RM website I replied on pick ups at bars. One guy was great looking but ended up stealing my watch. Another guy agreed to spend the night for a reasonable sum. I brought him to my house and while having a drink he said there was a guy on Grindr that would agree to a 3some. I drove out of town. The Grindr guy was a method addict. My Escort decided to partake. I saw no action and returned home. The escort called me in the morning and asked me to pick him up since he couldn't afford a taxi and there is no bus service. Now I find it less disappointing to go through RM and now have no problems.

[AdamSmith]

I have to admire the moxie of you victims. If I were to have the OP's experience of being grilled by hotel security, I would meltdown and leave in an ambulance.

http://www.sherv.net/cm/emoticons/nervous/scared-and-sweating-smiley-emoticon.gif

All they want is for you to be a little discreet ('discrete' ) and not accidentally disturb other guests.

 

The last thing a hotel would ever do is call the cops and create a public disturbance on their own property.

 

It is not news to any hotel that the world's oldest profession plies its trade under its roof most days if not all.

[+ nycman]

I stayed at the then high-end Hotel Adlon in Berlin .....My hires were mostly Russian. They had no trouble with hotel management.

 

Baby, you can walk through the lobby of the Adlon at High Tea with 6 men in full leather gear....and no one will bat an eye.....trust me on this one!

 

As am sure you know, the Russian embassy is right around the corner from the Adlon.

LOTS of the young Russian men who work at the embassy like to work out there.

Just ask the concierge for a "real gym" nearby.....that's the one.

 

You owe me.....grin

 

God, I love Berlin....and the Adlon!

[+ WilliamM]

As am sure you know, the Russian embassy is right around the corner from the Adlon.

 

Back in early May 2000, many of embassies had not opened in Berlin yet. I met the Russians in gay bars.

 

The new Adlon had opened fairly recently, although it could have been as long as several years.

[JayCeeKy]

I would be interested in seeing what other common things could be added to the checklist, just so I know what to look forward to.

 

Escort beat me up.... check

Escort held me captive with knife at motel (WeHo) until I could come up with more money (he finally decided to just take my camera).... check

Escort showed up, demanded payment ($200) and immediately left.... check

Escort greeted me with a gun as I was coming out of the bathroom... check

Escort did not look like his pictures...... check x 10

Escort on drugs..... check x 5 - 10

Escort grabbed the steering wheel while I was driving (WeHo) and made car drive on the sidewalk.... check

Escort wouldn't get out of the car until I took him on a drug run... check

 

Most of these traumatic adventures were during the late 70s and 80s and I probably shouldn't call them "escorts" as they were mostly street pickups. When people say they miss the "good old days" of street hustlers, a shiver goes up my spine.

[AdamSmith]

Escort beat me up.... check

Escort held me captive with knife at motel (WeHo) until I could come up with more money (he finally decided to just take my camera).... check

Escort showed up, demanded payment ($200) and immediately left.... check

Escort greeted me with a gun as I was coming out of the bathroom... check

Escort did not look like his pictures...... check x 10

Escort on drugs..... check x 5 - 10

Escort grabbed the steering wheel while I was driving (WeHo) and made car drive on the sidewalk.... check

Escort wouldn't get out of the car until I took him on a drug run... check

 

Most of these traumatic adventures were during the late 70s and 80s and I probably shouldn't call them "escorts" as they were mostly street pickups. When people say they miss the "good old days" of street hustlers, a shiver goes up my spine.

Also the street scene today in most any American city is populated by kids who did not grow up under all the shit and hatred. They like what they do.

[+ nycman]

Thanks for sharing guys, it makes me feel a little better to know I'm not the only one out there who has run into this problem.

 

Is there a checklist of experiences that tells you you are now a veteran at hiring escorts? there has to be a better name for it than that. I only hire a few times a year, but after 15 years i've checked off quite a few.

 

Been hassled by hotel security ... check

Escort wasn't the guy in the pics ... check

Escort demanded payment up front, then took off after 15 minutes ... check

Escorts online photos were obviously from 20 years ago ... check

Escort stood you up ... check

Escort was too high or drunk to preform ... check

Escort gave a little foreplay, then informed you that any actual sex would cost more than the discussed price... check

Halfway through an appointment, there was a knock on the door, it was the escorts next client booked 30 minutes after yours ... check

Escort gives you an STI even though he swears he was clean and a condom was used ... check

Hired through a high end agency, paid up front, and the escort never showed. money was never refunded ... check

Escort claims to love kink, or be a top, or kiss, etc. but when you get there they just want to bottom or handjob... check check check

 

 

I would be interested in seeing what other common things could be added to the checklist, just so I know what to look forward to.

 

After thinking about it, I feel pretty certain his threat to call the cops was just a bluff to get me out of the building. I had already disturbed one of their guests, and there was a lot of obvious judgment going on. He knew I was there for a random hookup. I don't know if he considered weather or not I was paying, just the fact that I didn't know who I was meeting. I'm pretty sure he only brought up the cops to get me to leave. After all, what could they have charged me with? Loitering? Still, it worked. I got the hell out of there even before I knew I was in the wrong hotel. It could have been the right one with the most amazing escort ever and I still would have left.

It was very disappointing and it was a bit humiliating.

 

Escort attempts to blackmail and extort you... check

Escort makes you so uncomfortable and frightened that you have to gather your belongings and sneak out of your own hotel room while he is sleeping (involving hotel management).... check

Escort creates suspicion of theft so you have to set trap to know for sure.... check

Escort cancels after change deadline on your European cruise and vacation causing you to lose all your deposits, hotels, pre-booked tours, airfares and the vacation you spent months planning... check

Escort decides while on a vacation with you that his fee does not include anything "extra" other than being on vacation and you spend the entire vacation apart but you prepaid his fee.... check

Escort decides to do an overnight with another client while on the clock with you for a weekend... check

Escort is sorry but he has a headache, somehow this doesn't seem to affect his ability to text all day or night.... check

Escort doesn't want to go to bed and proceeds to watch cartoon network the entire overnight... check

Escort never puts his phone down, even when having a meal or play time... check

Escort "borrows" something. Item is never returned... check

 

Escort beat me up.... check

Escort held me captive with knife at motel (WeHo) until I could come up with more money (he finally decided to just take my camera).... check

Escort showed up, demanded payment ($200) and immediately left.... check

Escort greeted me with a gun as I was coming out of the bathroom... check

Escort did not look like his pictures...... check x 10

Escort on drugs..... check x 5 - 10

Escort grabbed the steering wheel while I was driving (WeHo) and made car drive on the sidewalk.... check

Escort wouldn't get out of the car until I took him on a drug run... check

 

Lord...some people have ALL the FUN!

 

I got a good laugh from some of these shared experiences...and a few thankful shivers down my spine from others that I have not shared.....

[+ Funguy]

Escort beat me up.... check

Escort held me captive with knife at motel (WeHo) until I could come up with more money (he finally decided to just take my camera).... check

Escort showed up, demanded payment ($200) and immediately left.... check

Escort greeted me with a gun as I was coming out of the bathroom... check

Escort did not look like his pictures...... check x 10

Escort on drugs..... check x 5 - 10

Escort grabbed the steering wheel while I was driving (WeHo) and made car drive on the sidewalk.... check

Escort wouldn't get out of the car until I took him on a drug run... check

 

Most of these traumatic adventures were during the late 70s and 80s and I probably shouldn't call them "escorts" as they were mostly street pickups. When people say they miss the "good old days" of street hustlers, a shiver goes up my spine.

 

Better than a shiv

[MikeyGMin]

Lord...some people have ALL the FUN!

 

I got a good laugh from some of these shared experiences...and a few thankful shivers down my spine from others that I have not shared.....

It sure puts my, "He tried to get me drunk on an overnight so I would pass out and he could slip out to turn another trick." experience to shame.

[jawjateck]

How the heck have I missed all of this the past 20 years?

[AdamSmith]

How the heck have I missed all of this the past 20 years?

Having the wisdom and freedom to host at home?

 

Also, using common sense and paying normal attention when navigating hotels, no doubt.

 

Sneaky trick!

[mike carey]

I have this dark foreboding that I will be challenged by security at the Canyon Club Hotel.

[LADoug1]

I've heard that's it's difficult Or forbidden to get an escort or go-go boy into a hotel in Bangkok.

[trav05]

Not true at all. A few small and cheaper hotels will ask for a joiner fee. I've never had an issue with the bigger hotels.

Escorts are one of the biggest industries in Bangkok. The hotel industry would fall apart if they all forbid escorts.

[wklucas]

""I have never had a problem with hotel staff and guys I was hiring when traveling to various cities...knock on wood!!!"""

 

 

well my 1 & only knock on the door by "hotel staff" (that I can recall) was kind of prearranged - in NYC, the escort was roleplaying/pretending to be the hotel manager checking to see if he could do anything to make my stay better....until it fairly quickly came off, he looked very good in his business suit........(errrr, well another memory of staff knocking - the really cute hairy Greek room service waiter, who after 3 or 4 quick successive orders to my room, finally got onto the page where I wanted him to be - that was when I was really young & really horny)