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So I was at a friend's gay Christmas party, lots of fun and games, including one of those games where you have to reveal embarrassing facts. I got the question, "who was the best sex of your life?" It wasn't even hard, I knew instantly, but have no idea what his name was. It was around 2013 in NYC. He was a stripper, kind of the blond built but not overly so. He had a college boy look. Incredible pole dancer. Had an extreme kink side. Basically started busting my balls while giving me a lap dance. And though he probably didn't talk to everyone about this, had a big love for firearms. When he found out I own a machine shop he got all excited about maybe making a gun replica. I've never been fucked by anyone with such enthusiastic excitement and endurance. I'd love to remember his name, maybe find out if he's still seeing clients. Might be worth the trip.

I started hiring when I was 23ish. I had a great career, but worked a minimum of 80 hour weeks, and didn't have time to be curious the traditional route. When I first started hiring, I wanted someone my age. To me, that meant no one over 27. There was an escort advertising, back then, who had the look I liked, but he was 29. And for me back then, that was older than I was looking for. Now fast forward 20 years. I am 42, I definately hire around my age, but still don't mind the occasional college guy. I still see that escorts add pop up once in a while. Amazingly, he's only 34. He somehow managed to only age 5 years in 20. If I see his ad pop up again, I'll share, but it only seems to be up for a day at a time. So my question here is, how common is it for escorts to lie about their age? Do they think they are fooling anyone? I hired a very well reviewed escort in New York once who claimed late 20's, and was obviously mid to late 30s, and I was extremely disappointed then. But all his reviews never mentioned his age.

The short answer is yes to both. It got to where he wouldnt charge me for weekends I was in town, and to me, he was exactly what I wanted personality wise, physically, as well as in bed. We were even close to the same age. Then one time together, he told me he was thinking of quitting escorting to take school seriously. I offered for him to move in with me, and I would help him with school. He was excited about the idea, and we spoke about it often over the next few weeks, and then his phone number was disconnected and he disappeared. Then, he contacted me. It was 6 or 7 years later. He said he had fallen on hard times, and was wondering if the offer was still available. I told him that a lot of time had gone by, but let's meet and catch up. We arranged a dinner date next time I was in town, and he had grown a substantial pot belly, lost his hair, hadn't showered in a while, and was obviously high. He wouldn't tell me what had happened, just kept trying to get me to take him to my room so he could convince me we should move in together. I felt bad for him. I offered to help him go through rehab, and told him if he could stay clean for 6 months, we would discuss it. He got mad, called me a bunch of things, and stormed off. That was the last I heard of him.

Add me as well. Fratboys are my weakness. As to the question, I have a couple from seeking arrangement I have a very regular relationship with. I also met a dancer at the corner pocket in Nola that I basically dated for about 6 months.

@MscleLovr, I am based in Salt Lake City.

Im just wondering if the infux of non pro competition has had any effect on escort rates? Ive hired many times in my life, and appreciate a good escort. I also believe in you get what you pay for, but having said that, two of my greatest finds in my life have been in just the last year through seeking arrangement. One of which is a young jock couple in college. One is a water polo player, the other a wrestler. I meet them at their place, they have dinner ready, we eat, cuddle on the couch for some tv, head to the bedroom where they give me a massage followed by some of the best play of my life, and they are always open to try new things. They found out a while ago that i hadnt actually tried many positions. The next time i met them, they had printed up a binder with all the different positions in them, top, bottom, 3 way, and oral, along with pictures and a description. And a special kink section in the back. Now everytime i go we try one top, one bottom, and one oral as well as variations. Once done, they have me rate each out of 10 points and mark it down for future reference. We then cuddle up, fall asleep, and in the morning they have breakfast ready along with a quicky, and send me on my way. For all that time and attention, they only want 200 per visit. I actually feel guilty and try to pay more, but they only have accepted once when their dog had some big vet bills. Another guy i just met, we went out to dinner, headed back to my place, sat in the hot tub and had a few drinks, went in and played in the bedroom for a couple of hours. When i went to pay him and take him home, he told me i payed him way too much. He was hoping for 80. and was happy with 100. We actually argued for a bit and he settled on taking 200. Both of these experiances rate in my top 10, actually top 3 for the couple. And yet they are a fraction of the cost of a pro with a better experience than many pros. Ive also had guys on there who want a new laptop or car or 1000 bucks to meet, but I've found plenty of really quality guys who seem more interested in a connection over a big payout. In fact, in the latters case, he was worried a large amount would ruin the experience for me. Its just got me wondering, with more amateur sites like that becoming available, has it impacted the business and pricing of professional escorts?

I had an appointment with him in dallas last year, and was really excited to meet him. I was traveling cross country, and went out of my way by quite a bit, basically i dropped down from the 70, and that's no small distance, to meet him based on his reviews. Unfortunately when i got there, he ghosted me and i never heard from him again. Based on how everyone talks about him, i wish i had had the chance.

M4rentnow used to offer client adds before they went down. I tried posting one stating what i was looking for, and never got any responses.

M4rentnow used to offer client adds before they went down. I tried posting one stating what i was looking for, and never got any responses.

Ive had both experiences. I had one escort I cancelled the day before with when i realized i was catching a cold, and he freaked out. He called me relentlessly for several days telling me i still owed him. He may have tried longer, but i blocked his number. On the flip side, just a few weeks ago i had to drive from pheonix to salt lake for work. After i hit the road, i thought i might as well make it a two day trip, and stop in Vegas. I checked out who was available, called, arranged what i was looking for, and booked a guy for a half night session for that night. He knew i was making a long drive, and told me to just give him a call when i got in, and he would come over. I stopped in kingman for food and fuel, which is pretty close to vegas, and shortly after was on the side of the road puking my guts out. I realized it was most likely food poisoning, and gave the escort a call. He suggested i get to the hotel, take a shower, and see if it was just a fluke, or more serious, and then update him. I did so, but was obviously in bad shape. I felt pretty bad about having to cancel with him when he was standing by, and was ready to offer to partially compensate him, but he wouldn't have it. He told me he was sorry my night in vegas was ruined, and he hoped i got feeling better before i had to hit the road again in the morning. He was beyond gracious, as opposed to the other guy who was just an ass. I think any decent person will realize that life happens, and be willing to adapt rather than blame.

I just told him that circumstances had changed and I was no longer available for meeting. I wished him luck, and he was very understanding.

It's not so much a need for discretion, as it is for respect for the grandpa. This nice older mormon guy went out of his way to help me in the business twenty years ago, setting me up with knowledge and contacts that have made me very successful. I don't feel I would be repaying his kindness by using the success he handed me for hireing his grandson for sex. Not that he judges me, and I don't judge the grandsons actions, it's just not an arrangement that would sit well with a man I really do respect, so it's off the table. Its too bad too, the guy is really hot.

It's not so much a need for discretion, as it is for respect for the grandpa. This nice older mormon guy went out of his way to help me in the business twenty years ago, setting me up with knowledge and contacts that have made me very successful. I don't feel I would be repaying his kindness by using the success he handed me for hireing his grandson for sex. Not that he judges me, and I don't judge the grandsons actions, it's just not an arrangement that would sit well with a man I really do respect, so it's off the table. Its too bad too, the guy is really hot.

So I gave it a try. I started chatting with one really hot guy who is a body builder, cute face, and very reasonable in his requests. Plus he has a kinky side which I love. I couldn't get over the fact that something about him seemed familiar however, so I hesitated on pulling the trigger, and never gave too much information about myself just incase. We've been chatting for a while now, and he's getting more eager, saying he needs some money for the holidays. I finally convinced myself I was being paranoid, and scheduled a date. Our date is Monday. Last night I went to a business Christmas party, and he was there. He's my old mentors grandson. I guess that puts an end to that.

Never mind, I found tons of info, I was just searching his full name instead of andrewk. Sorry, I can't figure out how to delete my original post.

Nothing came up in my search, but he looks exactly my type, fun, hot, and kinky. Anyone have any experiences with him? https://rentmen.eu/Andrewk

Yeah, I ended up going with Kai and Billy together. I exaggerated when I said half the price, but still, the two of them together were cheaper and more time than what I got at swinging Richard's. I dont remember the dancers name at swinging Richard's. He was blond, mid 20's, well built but not over the top, and had good moves and a killer smile on the stage. Too bad he was such a rip off and I was such a sucker. And I'm not new to clubs either. I've spent a good deal 9f time at the corner pocket in New Orleans, and a lot of time at Adonis in NYC, I was excited to add swinging Richard's to my list.

I'm just booking my tickets for Sundance this year at the end of January. Last year was a blast with some amazing escorts and experiences. I was wondering who's planning on going this year.

I was there this summer for my first time. It was mid week, the club was slow. I got there around 11. The dick dollars thing was confusing, and the guy didnt explain it well. Finally a very hot guy came on who gave me a lot of attention and invited me to join him in the VIP room. He indicated to me that if I did I would leave happy. I was surprised by the 100 fee, and they weren't clear how long that would get me. I paid it, we went back, and he spent a little while trying to talk me into buying a bottle of Champaign for the two of us. When I said no, he told me that my 15 minutes were up, and i had to pay another 100. I hadn't even gotten a dance. He promised if i did, i would get off, so i did. He then told me that we only had 15 minutes, but if i slipped the VIP guy a 200 tip, he wouldn't interrupt us again being that it was a slow night. This guy was really hot and i wanted what he lead me to believe would be as much time as i wanted. He told me to give him the cash, and he would negotiate the booth. He came back a minute later, and told me now that we had time, let's chat for a minute. He did dance as we chatted but he didn't touch me and told me I wasn't allowed to touch him yet. In another 15 minutes, the VIP lounge guy told us time was up. The dancer told me to give him a minute to sort it out, and came back saying things had picked up and we couldn't keep the booth past what was allowed. At this time I felt I had been scammed, I was out 400, and basically watched the guy dance for 15 minutes. I went to leave, and the dancer told me that I still owed him. I asked what the 400 was for, and he told me that all went to the tip and the house. I told him I had to buy more dick dollars, and he told me that those dont apply to private dances, private dances are cash. I was really frustrated at this point, and then he told me that I owed him 400. I about freaked out. I mentioned that he should have said something before we headed back, and that for that money I should have gotten what was promised. He called for a bouncer, and I gave him 200 so I could leave without any problems. So what amounted to a 15 minute dance i could have watched on the stage, and 15 minutes of telling him I didn't want a drink, cost me 600. I went to my hotel room, found a guy available on rentmen, and had a great time with him for half the price. Basically, if you do go, make sure you know how it works or you will get heavily taken advantage of.

Thanks for the input guys. Chase looks like he could be a fun time and a good motivator, bit you are right about his pics looking like they might cover multiple years. Any other recommondations would be appreciated.

It was a few years back. I can't remember his name. He was out of Chicago. But any escort with experience as a trainer would work.

Hey guys, So a few years back, I was chatting with an escort who lived in an area I was about to visit for work. He told me he was a personal trainer and very into fitness. I mentioned that I was overweight and a hot guy like him training me would sure be amazing motivation. He suggested I book him for a week or two. He offered a nice discounted rate, and said we should rent a cabin or beach house, get away, and he would get me started on my fitness goals. He offered to take care of meal preparation, coach me, and by day we would hike and workout, and by night we would start with a massage and move into more aerobic activities. He promised that it would be a great kickstart to me getting inshape, and lots and lots of great sex to boot. Unfortunately the timing was bad with work, and my trip was cancelled. I now find I have the rest if the year off, and keep thinking back to his offer. He no longer escorts, so I was wondering if anyone knows of another escort who might be good in a simular situation?

I'm not an escort, but a long time client. I had one escorts really surprise me on this matter though. I travel all over with work, and I have a few regulars in different cities. One of my regulars a few years back knew that I saw escorts in different places, and he started asking me from a professional standpoint what I, as a client, found to be positive and negative things about other escorts I had tried. One session he told me he would be out of town for a couple of weeks, and would be on vacation in LA. He knew I frequent LA, and asked the tourist questions, and then asked if I had a guy I saw there. I told him I did, and he asked me about him, including what I liked about him and why. The next time I saw him, I asked how his vacation had been. He told me I was totally right. He had looked up my LA guy, and hired him to experience what made him a good escort. He told me he learned a few things, and it totally showed in our next session. For me just the thought of one of my regulars hiring another totally turned me on, and I thought the gesture was sweet that he was willing to do that to up his game.

I know this is an older post, but I would like to add my thoughts. For medical reasons, by my early 20's I was over 300 pounds. The gay world is very superficial, and I couldn't get a date. By 23, I was still a virgin, and that's when I started hiring escorts. I probably try about 6 new escorts a year, one every other month or so, and have done so for the last 15 years, and I have had many regulars, although I travel so much for work it makes it difficult for anything regular. I learned early on to always tell them my weight and make sure that they were okay with it. When hiring an escort, I do it not only for the sex, but to feel sexy myself. Any escort can get a guy off, that's just the basics. An exceptional escort will make you feel like the sexiest man alive while you are with him. He will make you feel like you are the only person in the world that matters to him. It's a feeling that I don't get from anyone in the real world, and one why I enjoy the company of a great escort so much. I have found that if I don't prepare them for what to expect, then I often find disappointment in the meeting. I had escorts turn me away at the door, which is exactly the opposite of the confidence boost I wanted. I've had escorts take me in, but not want to touch me, basically they touched as little as possible, had me jerk myself off, took my money, and shoved me out the door. I've had escorts who couldn't get hard, which makes it difficult for them to fuck me. This was all when I was in my early 20's, and a lot of my paycheck went to hiring them. Then I got lucky and hired Cameron Taylor. I warned him that I was 350 lbs, and he told me that was fine, but for the first time he made me feel like the sexiest man alive. There's nothing better than seeing a smile at the door rather than disappointment. There's nothing better than an escort who can't keep their hands off you. There's nothing better than an escort who is hard the instant he sees you. And sure, this may take a little prep on their part. I find the more information I give them, the better prepared they are for the appointment, and the better time I have. I have escorts flat out tell me that they aren't interested when I've told them my weight, and I do appreciate that. It means that they aren't wasting my time or money for a less than perfect experience. I've had escorts who simply didn't return my text or email after I told them I was heavy. Sure I was disappointed, but not as disappointed as I would have been paying their rate and having a bad experience. My vote is always tell them, If they are good at what they will do, it will only help them prepare a more pleasurable experience. If they turn you away, you are better off anyways.