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This gentleman is traveling again and I don’t see any recent comments from anyone who has met him. Has anyone met Jon recently?

Ideally they reach out as a friend; that is awesome and the best possible outcome. Those were the guys with whom I traveled and shared unexpected gifts. And occasionally they had unexpected expenses arise and I’d help when I could beyond whatever our routine arrangement included. I viewed it as simply something one friend would do for another. The guys who “pestered” were really never friends - just someone looking for an easy buck and often with unrealistic expectations (“Fly me in for lunch so we can meet for the first time”). To the OP’s point, as soon as an escort’s attitude takes on a negative or aggressive tone then I thank then, decline to meet and vanish.

Perhaps a slightly different perspective: I don’t think anyone decides to be a poor communicator; it’s simply a skill some lack and, with it, a lack of perspective of how this is seen by others. I will struggle along with someone if I think they have good intentions because poor comms can be worked thru and doesn’t mean we won’t have a great time. On the other hand an attitude of anger, disregard, lack of mutual respect, etc., is a hard stop for me. I’ve made this mistake with a few guys and sat in a room and it’s awkward at best, usually becoming mechanical and impersonal. You can’t fix attitude. I have had guys begin to badger me a handful of times - mainly SA guys - and never string them along for sport or hopes they will change. No good will come of that and I go radio silent but never block. (To keep an eye out for any escalation that becomes concerning.)

“Hi John, I saw your profile and would be interested in a 2-hr meeting if you are available. I am staying at a hotel in midtown and would love to meet on January 3, 4 or 5 anytime after 6:00 pm. There is a lot of info about me in my profile including stats and what I’m looking for. Please let me know if you think we are a good match and what day/time works best for you. Also please let me know the rate for 2-hrs of your time. * Thanks - I look forward to meeting * Many disagree but I just don’t buy that a 2-hr should be double 1 hr. Many respond with a 2x figure and I accept or decline politely… never haggling. If I am on the fence about a new guy and hear $600 then I thank him for his time with kind regards. A couple of weeks ago a new guy followed up from this, asking why and I patiently shared my thoughts and he suggested $500. It was an afternoon incall, if that made a difference, and we had a great time. He was fun, 100% engaged, eager to please and I so left $100 tip. Win-Win.

Two of my all-time, top-10 experiences have been with transmen. The first was with Cyd St. Vincent who was very active on the Forum for a time. He is perhaps the most sexually intense person I have ever met. I was merely curious when I saw a couple of his videos and he was incredibly hot. The fact that he has a pussy was secondary. We went way over our 2 hours and the sheets were literally wet and in a knot on the floor. The other was a student I met on a business trip by happenstance and he was very inexperienced but curious. We moved slow and he got more and more into it and ended up spending the night with me at my hotel. We never fell asleep and he was insatiable for more orgasms long after I was exhausted.. For me it is all about personality. What is between the ears is more important than what's between the legs.

I’m slowly crawling from beneath my Covid blanket and dipping my… toe… into the waters again. I’ve heard from a handful of SA guys over the last few months including one favorite last week I thought had moved and is anxious to resume things. I don’t plan to rejoin SA at this point because it’s such a pain with potential banning but looked thru the directory yesterday and it’s pretty tempting.

Moved to Seattle…. Prepaid for two hours mid-Covid. Sigh. ? ☹ ?

I’m becoming a little irked with a RM guy to whom I gave $500 in April’ish as agreed pre-payment. I considered him more reliable than any other guy I helped. He was dependable, seemed genuine in all our meets and mature. He used to be active on this Forum (with a couple of hundred posts) and i posted recommendations a few times about positive meets. He moved frpm Atlanta to Seattle mid-summer and his RM profile is active with recent logins today and the phone number is the same. I’ve texted him a few times and not received any response, most recently a week ago. I am trying to decide if I want to message him on RM.

I took an Atlanta SA guy with me on a business trip for 5 days and paid air, expenses, etc., and gave him something in that ballpark for walking-around money since I was in meetings most of the time. I’m far too unpleasant to be around any longer than that. In Houston I regularly gave guys $100 - $300 for overnights. These were students who had nothing else to do and enjoyed a little taste of luxury. i still occasionally hear from a few SA guys but haven't met any in a year.

Has anyone met this gentleman ? https://rentmen.eu/smoothcaramel South American stranded in the US after the pandemic.

Update: I gave money to three guys to prepay for meetings. Two have moved out of state and I’ve not heard back from the third. I’m out a bit over $1000. Lesson learned.

I spent the afternoon with Johnny and recommend him and would see him again. He looks exactly like his pics and is whip smart and engaging. PM for details.

Has anyone met Johnny Bandera -> https://rentmen.eu/johnnybandera ?

Spent a couple of very pleasant hours with Franco this afternoon and he is recommended. We connected really well and he is as his profile describes. He mentioned that he has a full time job and recently moved; that may explain the lower number of reviews over time.

Has anyone met Franco -> https://rentmen.eu/FrancoScottXXL

I saw Favio - https://rentmasseur.com/UniqueEuroLatin - yesterday for a second visit and he was awesome. I’m not sure what happened in the above situation but he’s professional and reliable in my experience. Bonus: in addition to all of the usual stuff with a good masseur he took extra time beyond our scheduled window to talk with me about some difficult things going on in my life and is really sweet and empathetic.

Met a guy on Seekingarrangement who was really into it. We met 5 or 6 times and gradually peeled back the layers of why it was such a turn on for him. He could actually have an orgasm and ejaculate without either of us touching anything below his waist, which was fascinating. As we talked it became clear it was a combination of the physical stimulation of certain muscles (which he recalled being exciting at a young age) and the psychological element of a very masculine, physical interaction. I’ve never met anyone else into it.

I spent a couple of very pleasant hours with Vincent and will repeat. He’s a bright, sweet guy with lots of empathy and emotional intelligence and totally focused on me.

Has anyone had any recent experience with Vincent ? https://rentmen.eu/Vincent_Stone

No Note that the URL for each of these point back to Rentmen.

My experience is that it varies widely from a poor therapeutic massage to one guy who wanted to be a fisting bottom. I always use the approach of “These are the sorts of things I’ve enjoyed in the past.... do you think we are a good match”

Yes, I agree. I really had the hots for him. He kind of gave a vibe of glam party circuit boy / pan rough trade that was intriguing. [MEDIA=reddit]UmbrellaAcademy/comments/ayjypm[/MEDIA]

Jeesh, I sure wouldn’t want to hire anyone from my high school class. They’re all a bunch of old geezers.

I met two outstanding guys on A4A in Houston that I saw multiple times each and even brought together for a 3-way once. I’ve watched A4A in Atlanta and not seen anyone I’d be interested in hiring. I don’t know why the difference.

Niko ! Welcome to the Forum ! Members: Niko is a really sweet, sexy guy from Atlanta. It’s a pleasant surprise to have him join us.