LeoLeone Posted January 31, 2022 Share Posted January 31, 2022 I'm on Seeking, I live in a major Canadian city in the East Coast. Not much success as of yet, but we do not have many "Sugar Daddies" on there, compared to the U.S. When I do change the filter to the closest state (New York), I see pages of men; who are active. Sometimes I wish I was American haha! I'm heading back into the business on RentMen, after taking a break due to the COVID situation. I was super stressed with school as well, and we've been in random lock downs. Hopefully, the one we just got out of; is the last one forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted January 31, 2022 Share Posted January 31, 2022 I’m still very satisfied with my Seeking experiences and value. Things are a bit quiet right now for some reason 🤷🏻♂️ But I persevere. BSR and Chancealot 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted February 10, 2022 Share Posted February 10, 2022 What is up with guys identifying themselves as being non-smokers, and then having a pic of themselves smoking? Particularly when they make no reference to it or 420. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTMike Posted February 11, 2022 Share Posted February 11, 2022 4 hours ago, guru68 said: What is up with guys identifying themselves as being non-smokers, and then having a pic of themselves smoking? Particularly when they make no reference to it or 420. Unfortunately some guys are being completely honest about what they put on profile, some essentially honest and some total BS. I've met a gentleman who listed that he's a non-smoker and social drinker. Only to find that in reality he was a social smoker and a non-drinker. Ultimately seemed like a good guy and had just assumed that most people would find the way he listed the profile more attractive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skip Posted February 11, 2022 Share Posted February 11, 2022 I am using this site pretty regularly. I have found that the guys are of a higher caliber, but not quite as sexually adept as on Rentmen. Also they are on the expensive side and tend to be looking for a repeat/regular guy which is fine as long as you are prepared to manage the siutation. A lot more foreplay, wining and dining than a RM in and out thank you...On the plus side it's usually not as transactional and feels more natural. Of course you have to weed through the guys that think you are going to transfer a couple of grand to their account each month for a platonic mentor relationship involving world trqvel and shopping sprees. And those are the ones from places like Cullowee Alabama.... kko123, + V-Vhitner, GTMike and 4 others 1 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fedssocr1 Posted April 3, 2022 Share Posted April 3, 2022 I might have finally had some success! Met a cute little college freshman who literally lives just down the street when he's visiting home. He goes to a big state university a couple of hours away. We have some interests in common which is nice. Essentially we just had a sex date which was fine with me. He is the third "frat boy" I've met. I wonder if fraternities put the word out to their members that this site exists. All three of them were just basic sex meetings. But this one was the most fun and seems to have the best chances of becoming an on-going thing. Prime38, GTMike, MikeBiDude and 7 others 3 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prime38 Posted April 5, 2022 Share Posted April 5, 2022 (edited) Wishing you the best on this. Seeking has still be at hit and miss with me, but I just met someone that I hope turns into a successful arrangement. Fingers crossed. Edited April 5, 2022 by Prime38 Wrong word. fedssocr1, + FrankR, MikeBiDude and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowcatzxxx Posted April 5, 2022 Share Posted April 5, 2022 (edited) Good to see that other people are finding success on this site. It has been pretty much a bust for me in the Boston area. I joined after my previous SB (bisexual, unbelievably drop-dead gorgeous from head to foot and everything in-between), after a wonderful 2-year relationship, was convinced by his therapist that if he really plans to marry a woman, he ought to stop cultivating relationships that don't support his going in that direction. Unfortunately, I was very vulnerable at the time we met, and allowed myself to fall DEEPLY, deeply in love with this sweet, smart, charming adonis. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved, I suppose ... but I am now in a dizzying tailspin. In despair at this loss, I joined seeking, and have been not at all impressed. The best-looking guys seem to be charlatans, scammers, or guys who think they can get 4 figures monthly by doing private videos. Ah well, such is the SD life ... Edited April 5, 2022 by shadowcatzxxx BonVivant, starman05, Prime38 and 3 others 3 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prime38 Posted April 5, 2022 Share Posted April 5, 2022 Unfortunately, that is the majority of them, in any city. But some shine through MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ jessmapex Posted April 5, 2022 Share Posted April 5, 2022 I recently met a guy from RM and we were chatting about he got into the biz. He told me it was his gf who started with Seeking Arrangement where she would set up 'dates' with older men, ask them to pay for gas to meet for dinner, get a free dinner, and then ghost the person. Apparently many college kids use the trick to get free fancy dinners. She got him to do the same thing ..and that opened him up to seeking more opportunities in the "biz" as he realized he could monetize his youthful good looks. HoseMaster, pubic_assistance and BonVivant 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTMike Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 4 hours ago, jessmapex said: I recently met a guy from RM and we were chatting about he got into the biz. He told me it was his gf who started with Seeking Arrangement where she would set up 'dates' with older men, ask them to pay for gas to meet for dinner, get a free dinner, and then ghost the person. Apparently many college kids use the trick to get free fancy dinners. She got him to do the same thing ..and that opened him up to seeking more opportunities in the "biz" as he realized he could monetize his youthful good looks. Interesting perspective and can say in my experience that's substantially consistent with what I've heard from the guys from SA who were/are in College and pointed to how they became aware of the site. Through the years of all the young men I've met who fit in that category, i think almost 100% of them were first introduced to the site by "girl-friends". And in this case they meant close female College friends who either currently had SD's, themselves or had close girlfriends who did and suggested to the guys (gay and straight) to try it out and see what they were personally comfortable with along the wide spectrum of potential interactions and relationships. MscleLovr and BonVivant 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 Very interesting. I hadn’t heard at all of girls introducing their handsome male friends to Seeking. We should be grateful to these young women. I welcome anything that expands the dating pool of hot young guys for nice older men. MikeBiDude, GTMike, BonVivant and 1 other 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexMass2004 Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 Out of curiosity, has anyone found any decent guys through SA in the Los Angeles area in the last few months? Thanks! tennisjock, CaliMuscle, HoseMaster and 2 others 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoseMaster Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 On 4/6/2022 at 2:42 PM, AlexMass2004 said: Out of curiosity, has anyone found any decent guys through SA in the Los Angeles area in the last few months? Thanks! I’m curious as well. tennisjock, CaliMuscle and GTMike 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 I know that this thread is titled "success", but I have to share an amusing sort of "failure". I was looking at a young man's profile and I did what I always do, run image searches on his pictures. So I immediately get a hit on one of the pictures. The geography is right, as is the physical description. The picture match is for an aspiring musician who is not a personal trainer. The profile description says that the guy is a personal trainer. The name on the picture match is also the name of an entirely different guy in the same area who actually is a personal trainer. So this isn't just catfishing, it's sort of failed catfishing? It's too bad, the musician guy is cute and I'd be tempted if I thought he was legit. Still, my thanks to the author for the laughter. HoseMaster, tennisjock and marylander1940 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTMike Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 4 minutes ago, guru68 said: I know that this thread is titled "success", but I have to share an amusing sort of "failure". I was looking at a young man's profile and I did what I always do, run image searches on his pictures. So I immediately get a hit on one of the pictures. The geography is right, as is the physical description. The picture match is for an aspiring musician who is not a personal trainer. The profile description says that the guy is a personal trainer. The name on the picture match is also the name of an entirely different guy in the same area who actually is a personal trainer. So this isn't just catfishing, it's sort of failed catfishing? It's too bad, the musician guy is cute and I'd be tempted if I thought he was legit. Still, my thanks to the author for the laughter. That sucks. Yeah a LOT of "catfishing" unfortunately. tennisjock and HoseMaster 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTMike Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 On 4/6/2022 at 2:42 PM, AlexMass2004 said: Out of curiosity, has anyone found any decent guys through SA in the Los Angeles area in the last few months? Thanks! I've let subscription lapse as not worth it. womp womp HoseMaster 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 1 hour ago, GTMike said: That sucks. Yeah a LOT of "catfishing" unfortunately. And half-assed catfishing at that. The picture matched immediately and gave me the person's name, history, etc - didn't have to work at all to bust that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted June 30, 2022 Share Posted June 30, 2022 On 4/3/2022 at 6:55 PM, fedssocr1 said: He is the third "frat boy" I've met. I wonder if fraternities put the word out to their members that this site exists. Seeking used to post their advertising on all the major college campuses. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peter803 Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Don't really see any guys my type in my area, a major metro in the south. Most are average twinks. Are the good looking fit straight acting guys all on only fans now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 10 hours ago, peter803 said: Are all the good looking fit straight acting guys all on only fans now? It would seem that way...yes. Easier to stay home and jerk off for 500 strangers paying you a dollar than to travel to a hotel downtown where a sweaty fat tourist wants to stick his dick in your mouth and have his way with your ass for a hour . tennisjock, CaliMuscle, Huxley and 7 others 1 2 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fedssocr1 Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 18 hours ago, peter803 said: Don't really see any guys my type in my area, a major metro in the south. Most are average twinks. Are the good looking fit straight acting guys all on only fans now? I think it's always been a mix of different types of guys (and sometimes not guys). But I figure there's people out there looking for different kinds of guys. I suspect the ones who are not conventionally attractive or particularly fit don't end up generating very much interest. But it doesn't cost them anything to try. My guess is that most guys on OF don't end up making much money. Unless they manage to have a very large, pre-existing social media following they're not going to be discovered on OF. And without constant posting and interesting content they're not going to get many renewals. And I'm sure OF takes a huge cut of the gross income. TorontoDrew and HoseMaster 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 If there were an award for having your pictures used to catfish the most on SA, I would have to nominate Chaturbate model Zandersparks: https://chaturbate.com/zandersparks/ whose pictures I have seen in at least 6 different SA profiles, all with different geographies. tennisjock 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted July 8, 2022 Share Posted July 8, 2022 3 hours ago, fedssocr1 said: My guess is that most guys on OF don't end up making much money. Your guess is correct. https://earthweb.com/top-onlyfans-earners/ MscleLovr and ketut 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dutchal Posted July 13, 2022 Share Posted July 13, 2022 Anybody got any thoughts on any of these alternatives to Seeking Arrangement? https://www.gaysugardaddysites.com/ (The reviews are basically vapid and useless.) TorontoDrew, tennisjock and shadowcatzxxx 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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