peter803

Thank you for your advice. I'm sort of new to this, especially flying out. In your experience or opinion, is it advisable to put 50% upfront?

So good to hear you guys had success. I'm stuck in the hotel lonely and pissed. Have been talking to this good-looking guy in a small town 60 miles south of Boston. He was so sweet and eager during the past one week of texting and video chatting, so I booked the hotel and hopped on a plane from the South. Things then went south after that. Very few communications. The only one he had is for half the allowance up front to meet in person. Of course I refused. Now I'm stuck in the hotel till Monday. I still couldn't figure out what signals I missed. Everything was so perfect until I boarded the flight. Is this the new trick of scammers?

I'm wondering if you are willing to provide allowances, what amount do you normally offer? And what do guys ask for? So far 2/4k a month seems popular to me. Anyone willing to share theirs? Thx

For the good looking, athletic, and masculine guys, they have lots of chasers to choose from. Couple of guys I have been chasing have been transparent with me about the offers they got, and deleted their profiles after they became the kept men (no, I'm not blocked) usually in couple of weeks. I'm comfortable enough to throw out a few grands for the right guy and most guys are fine with that offer. But I didn't get the ones I really wanted. Guess the super rich guys got the best. There are some really attractive guys exactly my type, and there is competition among daddies to get them. Nobody talked about this, just wanted to point it out.

I enlarged my search area to cities within a short flight and started to talk to a few which are exactly my type. As the conversation goes, 2 started asking for money before meeting, and of course never heard from them after I told them no. One wanted a virtual relationship. The journey is fun, but so far bears no fruit. Wonder whether the same happens to sugar babies. Does this turn off a lot of potential SD/SBs? A lot of inactive profiles. Wonder whether they registered, found no results, left and never come back?

Don't really see any guys my type in my area, a major metro in the south. Most are average twinks. Are the good looking fit straight acting guys all on only fans now?

If a daddy is having someone exclusively to him, and his support is the guy's sole income, 5K budget a month is probably the minimum, and 300k/500K income depending on the location is the threshold to me. If a daddy is seeing someone casually and supplementing the guy's income, then 1 to 2K budget works well, and thusmuch lower income. What's the percentage of daddy making 300K/500K and above?