Rimming?

[+ Axiom2001]

On 2/15/2022 at 3:03 PM, MaleAssLover said:

Yea doing it to a guy sounds like fun times 👅👅

I ate out one of the smoothest and tastiest of hot asses this past Thursday eve. 12.1.22     Yummmmmmmy indeed and then some....  

Edited December 4, 2022 by Axiom2001

[+ Axiom2001]

On 12/2/2022 at 9:53 PM, liubit said:

Poppers may lower your inhibitions and can thus make you hornier and more willing to “expand your horizons”, @CuriousByNature. Me? They just give me a nasty headache.

https://www.healthline.com/health/are-poppers-safe

Yes, yes, yes to your first 18 words.

[liubit]

Sorry, @Axiom2001, poppers are just NOT my thing. 

[YOUNG_LA_DOM]

RIMMING : seems like the best way to end a nice long full body rub down 

 

me being a top and not into anything in my hole just a nice soft tongue 👅 

[TorontoDrew]

I love to rim and be rimmed. One of my regulars is a dom top who loves getting rimmed. I love the sound of his moans when I go to town on that muscular ass.

Another two guys I see occasionally have started rimming me prior to fucking me. I love it.

[+ Lucky]

Since when is rimming a "fetish?"

[+ WilliamM]

9 minutes ago, Lucky said:

Since when is rimming a "fetish?"

I had the same question thirty . minutes ago. Thanks

[misterhumphries]

On 3/23/2013 at 8:34 PM, Tim FTL said:

Do you like to rim, be rimmed, both, curious, or never done?

If it's on the menu and the ass is spectacular AND CLEAN! I will gladly munch on it. But that's a very intimate act that I only do if an established partner wants it. And I know from experience bodybuilders love to get them big hard asses eaten out.

[misterhumphries]

47 minutes ago, Lucky said:

Since when is rimming a "fetish?"

I quote from a google definition. Fetish: a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.

This would include feet, eating ass, sneakers (never understood that one), pit hair, etc.

[jeezifonly]

On 1/6/2023 at 3:28 PM, Lucky said:

Since when is rimming a "fetish?"

Since the moment you find it done right… 😅

[+ Just Sayin]

I hate to be a Debbie Downer, but has anyone gotten bacterial or parasite infections from rimming? and what about using tongue condoms? (that doesn't sound like fun, but, hey, it may be better than risking a gastrointestinal disorder

[jeezifonly]

36 minutes ago, Just Sayin said:

I hate to be a Debbie Downer, but has anyone gotten bacterial or parasite infections from rimming? and what about using tongue condoms? (that doesn't sound like fun, but, hey, it may be better than risking a gastrointestinal disorder

There are no guarantees when it comes to intimate sexual contact. 

Mitigations include: an understanding between partners about what “clean” means. I ask about what’s been on the plate before I eat off it. I inspect it, sometimes ask if we can re-wash it together. 

I also serve my salad for tossing in a bowl that is very empty, hasn’t had anything in it in hours, and that bowl has been scoured, soaped rinsed and dried, using a fragrance free detergent. No issues so far, and it’s long been a favorite item on the menu. 😂

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Just Sayin said:

has anyone gotten bacterial or parasite infections

It's an easy way to transmit hepatitis C too.

 

[+ nycman]

7 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

It's an easy way to transmit hepatitis C too.

 

Ummm...I wouldn’t say ‘easy’.

“Percutaneous contact with contaminated blood is responsible for most infections…Indeed, the primary route of transmission in the developed world is injection drug use”

"Sexual transmission of hepatitis C is uncommon”

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hepatitis_C

Edited January 31, 2023 by nycman

[liubit]

I know rimming is not 100% risk-free (actually no sexual activity is), but the pleasure I get from giving or receiving far outweighs potential dangers for me. As a matter of fact, I rarely have sex without vigorous hungry rimming, and so far I haven’t caught anything from it. Lucky me. 

Edited January 31, 2023 by liubit

[+ robear]

On 12/2/2022 at 9:28 PM, CuriousByNature said:

Admittedly I am very ignorant, but how and why would poppers be used for this? I thought those were used for intercourse, to relax the bottom.

Inhaling poppers suddenly lowers your blood pressure a bit, creating a "rush" sensation and increased heart rate, which, for people who enjoy the feeling can enhance any kind of sexual engagement. Like "OMG there's nothing in the world right now but my tongue and his asshole." Or whatever. It only lasts a few minutes, but for fans (and I'm one of them), inhalants can be a fun sex accessory.

[Whippoorwill]

Has rimming always been as popular as it is now? I don't know how I missed it, but it was not in my repertory for my first few decades of gay debauchery. I remember being surprised when I first noticed it everywhere in porn. And now I wouldn't have sex without it, both as rimmer and rimmee. Ah, I get hard just imagining the feel of a tongue on my rosebud. 

[+ robear]

I think a LOT of sex practices have become more visible in the age of ubiquitous electronic porn. Various BDSM expressions, WS, pit-sniffing, rimming, erotic spitting, group action, cum-swapping, even fucking were not that evident in porn produced in, say, the 60s and 70s. The list goes on. That has to drive the "popularity" among consumers, although as always, porn and real life are 2 very different things.  I rimmed my way through the 70s, 80s, 90s, and aughts, but it was way more "niche" then than it is now.

[Sensualsmooth]

On 1/6/2023 at 5:34 PM, YOUNG_LA_DOM said:

RIMMING : seems like the best way to end a nice long full body rub down 

 

me being a top and not into anything in my hole just a nice soft tongue 👅 

If you ever get to Manhattan I’d be glad to give you an amazing rim 

[Winterangel]

On 3/16/2023 at 3:37 AM, Whippoorwill said:

Has rimming always been as popular as it is now? I don't know how I missed it, but it was not in my repertory for my first few decades of gay debauchery. I remember being surprised when I first noticed it everywhere in porn. And now I wouldn't have sex without it, both as rimmer and rimmee. Ah, I get hard just imagining the feel of a tongue on my rosebud. 

I’m the same,I had no interest for decades… decades! I then began seeing a young hot Brazilian guy. He introduced me to poppers (after decades of no interest) and in one session I asked to eat his ass. I didn’t use poppers that time and only superficially ate his butt, probably for less than a minute. But then after each subsequent session I did it again and finally got to the point where it’s almost all I want to do. I’ll still suck his fat cock and get fucked but my greatest enjoyment is doing poppers while he kneels over me doggy style, straddling my chest, sucking my cock, with his butt in my face. I love stretching his cheeks and getting my tongue in further.  He’s always clean but other guys can be hit and miss. It’s all about the face and the butt to me. The face needs to be cute and the butt clean, tight and a little hairy. 

[+ StLouisOct]

Once again, I’m reminded of a session with Artur Vesely 

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I was wrapped around him and mentioned that I liked to rim, but I wasn’t into being rimmed. He said, “Oh, I LIKE to rim.” Then he flipped me over and had me crying out with pleasure. Ever since, I’ve enjoyed it on both ends. 😋 

[Winterangel]

4 hours ago, StLouisOct said:

Once again, I’m reminded of a session with Artur Vesely 

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I was wrapped around him and mentioned that I liked to rim, but I wasn’t into being rimmed. He said, “Oh, I LIKE to rim.” Then he flipped me over and had me crying out with pleasure. Ever since, I’ve enjoyed it on both ends. 😋 

Hot guy, I would totally eat his ass and welcome his tongue in mine

[Simon Suraci]

I posted this rimming guide to the Face Sitting Session forum in response to a request there, but I realized this may be the most appropriate place to put it. I love rimming and consider myself a pro. You’re welcome, in advance.

Here’s my short little rimming pocket guide 😆 Is there a gay man’s cosmo mag I can write shit like this for? I’m thinking article title: “21 tips to drive his hole wild”, or something like that.

Rimming 101

1.  Cleanliness. Be sure the rimmee is clean and prepared so there’s no anxiety about it. If either of you prefer natural, musky, sweaty, or not cleaned out at all, have good communication beforehand to get on the same page.

2. Foreplay. Get warmed up and build up some anticipation. Do not rush. Kiss, touch, oral (cocks), nipples, stimulate erogenous zones, neck, ears, pits, whatever gets both of you going.

3. Control. The rimmer should initiate rimming. Move your partner’s body, even throw him around a bit if you like. Indicate with your body language that his hole is yours and you’re taking it. Assuming you’ve both worked out some mutual consent beforehand.

4. Position. Some enjoy doggie style or 69 style rimming. These are fine to mix it up, but they offer less access and a suboptimal angle. You’re fighting to get in there to the best places. The first and primary position I recommend is with the rimmee on their back, at the edge of a bed or comfortable horizontal surface. A sling works well too. The important thing is both of you are comfortable, and the rimmer’s body is lower than the rimmee’s. Don’t strain your neck getting low. Raise your partner to a comfortable level and consider bolstering their pelvis with a pillow. You’re going to be in this position for a while and you don’t want to be preoccupied with fucking up your neck. You might also consider a knee pillow or something to cushion your knees.

5. Do not neglect his balls. Start with the taint and scrotum, and return to them periodically. Take advantage of how sensitive his scrotum is right off the bat and apply light pressure with your tongue, almost like running your fingertips over his body. This will drive him crazy. Run your tongue all the way up to the side of his cock and around each side of his scrotum. Then run down the taint and back up the middle of the scrotum. At points, return to this technique throughout the rimming session. It feels better and better the more turned on he gets. Vary the pressure at times, using your whole tongue with heavier pressure, and then medium, then light. Vary with using just the tip of your tongue.

6. Avoid over stimulating the opening or going inside too deep or too often. A lot of men just shove their tongue directly into the opening and try to worm their way inside. Do NOT do this. Rimming is a dance, a tease, and an extended buildup of pleasure. It’s all about anticipation, not arrival. By all means you can do the worm move, but use it sparingly, as a surprise, an accent, a flourish, not the main thing. It quickly gets repetitive and boring on its own, and you tend to overstimulate that way.

7. Magic button. This is the secret to mindblowing rimming sessions. For spatial reference, he’s lying on his back now, and you’re kneeling in front of him. Men have a very sensitive point above their opening, at the base of their taint. You can find it by running your tongue above their opening and finding some muscles running just to either side of it in a downward V shape. For those of you familiar with finding a clitoris, it’s not that far removed of a process, except there’s nothing sticking out to draw out. You have to find it buried within the tissue, almost like giving a deep tissue massage. (Damn, I’m good at my job!) The button is at the top of that V point, close to the outer edge of sensitive skin surrounding the hole, but still within it. It’s not inside the opening. Go above the opening. It takes a lot of practice finding the button. Don’t be discouraged. Practice, practice, practice.

8. Once you’ve found the magic button, press with the tip of your tongue into it. Vary your pressure from heavy to light. Maintain firm pressure, then release, then barely touch it. Switch up your stimulation techniques. Tickle it, tease it. Try everything you can to stimulate in just a little different way, and keep changing it. Vary your patterns and switch it up. The button is a powerful sensation point, but just like the glans penis, it’s not everything. Come back to it regularly but please keep a balance of stimulating ALL the areas around his hole. Do not overstimulate any one spot. That is KEY to your success.

9. Use your breath. Suck in air slowly, and then rapidly. Concentrate it in a small opening in your lips, or over your whole open mouth, and everything in between. When you suck in air, it cools the surface of his skin. It’s quite stimulating, especially when combined with other techniques at the same time or one right after the other. Similarly, slowly exhaling warm air will stimulate him in a little different way. The contrast between warm and cool is mesmerizing. Controlled breathing can even be part of your tantric practice if you want to incorporate it with your rimming skills. You can almost go into a trance.

10. Use your hair. If you have a beard, use it to your advantage. Push your chin up into the bowl of his hole and run it up and over across the taint and onto his balls. Use this technique periodically and return to it here and there. If your facial hair is particularly coarse, soften it with beard oil and conditioning products. Nobody wants steel wool on their asshole. If you have stubble, be VERY careful. It’s a hazard with rimming because you can get carried away in the moment and scratch him inadvertently. It really hurts. Stubble can be nice when used in a controlled way, but generally does not feel good on sensitive skin, especially for extended periods. If your chin is smooth or freshly shaven, use it similarly as mentioned above. It’s a different sensation but equally good to provide some variety. If you have long hair on your head, incorporate that stimulation into your routine. 

11. Use your nose. Yup, that’s right. Don’t laugh, it’s seriously a great technique. Run your nose up and down, all over. Do the same breath techniques already mentioned, but through your nostrils. Press your nose directly into his opening. You don’t need to fuck him this way, just use pressure. It’s kind of like frottage in that way. Use your nose as a way to provide more and varied pressure everywhere, including the taint. Come back to using your nose here and there, but not for a long time at a stretch. As with any of these tips, do a little bit of everything. See what drives him crazy, see what sticks. Then withhold it from him and surprise him with it later…so much so that he squeals and begs!

12. Use your tongue. Obviously. What is not so obvious is to maintain variety. Use your whole broad tongue up from the ass crack all the way over his hole, up over his taint, past his balls, and lick his cock. Then try medium pressure, or less tongue contact, or just the tip, or light contact. Try slow, like VERY slow. That drives him nuts. Occasionally go faster, but not for the majority or for a long stretch. Too many men try to go too fast for too long. It’s too fucking much! Just calm down and take your time. It’s not a race. Please avoid: tickling and swaying with the tip of your tongue the way Eastern European porn actors kiss. It’s annoying. Be more intentional. Get more creative.

13. Involve his cheeks. Lightly bite or lick his ass cheeks. Use your hands. Rub your beard or chin against them. The hole is not everything. Cheek play provides more variety and more stimulation.

14. Hold his legs. Check in regularly. Sometimes he needs a break for his legs. Rimming can’t go forever otherwise he’s too raw. Find the right limit for you both, and don’t be afraid to move on to something else and come back to rimming later. Often rimming is foreplay leading to penetration, but it’s a worthwhile activity on it’s own.

15. Spread his cheeks. But not the whole time. Use this technique as another form of variety. The sensation is slightly different when you do this. Even better with the contrast of not doing it and then returning to it later.

16. Vary your motions. Try spelling something with letters across his hole, or whatever it takes to get you to avoid making the same dull motions over and over. Avoid too much monotony. Every 30 seconds change at least one item from the above list, by adding, changing, or taking away. Variety is paramount to your success.

17. Stimulate his cock. Rimming is about his hole, not his cock. However, feel free to add a little cock stimulation, a little lick, a little stroke, a little brush. This can be pretty sexy and gives more variety. If he’s hard, you might consider stroking him. If he’s soft, don’t worry, it’s completely normal and more typical for him to be flaccid. He can still be extremely turned on in this state, so do not take that as an indication of your success. His breathing, moaning, arching, verbal affirmations, and so on also tell you you’re both on your way to bliss.

18. Ditch the underwear. It’s sexy beforehand, but you need full access. Not just jockstrap level openness. You need the whole damn buffet on display to work your magic. Use all the tools in your box and use the whole box laid out in front of you, not just one corner. And if the box is only half open, rip off whatever is in your way and proceed with passion.

19. Most importantly, love what you do. If you’re not into it, it shows. [good] Rimming is not for everyone, certainly not the faint of heart. If you’re not into it, please save your partner the annoyance of performing a half-assed rim job, pun intended.

20. When he begs you to fuck him, you know you’re doing something right.

21. Advanced technique ***approach with extreme caution***: Biting the magic button. If and only if, and when you master the magic button, experiment with biting it. By that, I mean in a very controlled way. Softly. Think of the way you might nibble on someone’s earlobe, or maybe their nipples, but not hard like some guys enjoy their nipples tortured. Please do not attempt without consent, or without mastering the magic button. If you are not sure you have, you most definitely have not mastered the magic button. It takes a long time and lots of practice to even find it, much less master it. If you manage to do all of that, then consider experimenting with some light, controlled biting. It places pressure in a concentrated point where extreme pleasure is centered. Do not do this for an extended time. Only a little nip for a few seconds here and there. That’s all you need. It’s the cherry on top, not a scoop below.

[Wanderoz]

Now if I could only find the perfect smooth hairless-there ginger!

Can  anybody recommend one!

[Simon Suraci]

5 minutes ago, Wanderoz said:

Now if I could only find the perfect smooth hairless-there ginger!

Can  anybody recommend one!

Some consider me a ginger. Although I consider myself a blond. And yes, the carpet matches the drapes and the pillow covers and everything else! My hole is smooth and sexy. 😘

I will be taking no follow up questions to this comment ☝️ nor sending photos. Anticipating those requests already and no, sorry boys. Just hire me.