Swallowing Yes/No

[nomad]

Curious if this is important when hiring for others?

[Nue2thegame]

Not for me. 

[DMonDude]

For me, it's a "fantastic if they do, but they don't have to" thing.

Of the two guys i hire regularly who do give oral, neither have swallowed for me any of the times i've hired them. Not sure if it's a hard rule for them or something i have to ask/increase their rate for, but i've never really bothered to ask. One will do it to completion but doesn't take it in the mouth at all, the other just gives a couple slurps to get me ready to top him. I wish they did but it's not something i need bad enough that i would stop hiring them just because of that.

Have been considering trying a provider who i've been told is particularly good with "just lay back and get great head" sessions and he apparently always swallows. So if he blows my mind maybe I'll feel differently after that 😆

[nomad]

10 minutes ago, DMonDude said:

Have been considering trying a provider who i've been told is particularly good with "just lay back and get great head" sessions and he apparently always swallows. So if he blows my mind maybe I'll feel differently after that 😆

If he does, do you do the same in return?

[marylander1940]

31 minutes ago, nomad said:

Curious if this is important when hiring for others?

Are you asking about the client asking the escort to cum in his mouth therefore potentially making him lose another appointment or the escort sucking off the client?

We have a frequent poster who hires masseurs, he asks them for oral at the end of the session but doesn't warn them he's about to cum and does it in the guy's mouth. The times he said he was about to cum almost all of them pulled his cock out of their mouths, therefore he "learned" not to "warn" them. 

his post got multiple likes... 

[nomad]

I guess I w

1 minute ago, marylander1940 said:

Are you asking about the client asking the escort to cum in his mouth therefore potentially making him lose another appointment or the escort sucking off the client?

It all about me.  🤣 So me 💦

[marylander1940]

2 minutes ago, nomad said:

If he does, do you do the same in return?

In most cases after a guy cum his desire is gone. 

I'm amazed about so many videos then the bottom cums and the top (tops) cum in his mouth after. Obviously most guys in porno are extremely hot and that makes thing easier. 😂 

I remember the scandal when BelAmi boys started swallowing cum, after that Corbin Fisher and Sean Cody follow, Men.com, etc. Now many studios would only hire a bottom if he wants to swallow cum after getting fucked and cumming.

[marylander1940]

1 minute ago, nomad said:

I guess I w

It all about me.  🤣 So me 💦

Tell them upfront and offer them a higher rate. Also have mouth wash ready

[nomad]

1 minute ago, marylander1940 said:

In most cases after a guy cum his desire is gone. 

A guy told me this once.  So I delay when I see that cumming if I can.  😂

[nomad]

2 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Also have mouth wash ready.

Hmm, good point.  I have been a bad host all this time.  🤣

[DMonDude]

7 minutes ago, nomad said:

If he does, do you do the same in return?

Maybe, maybe not. It would depend. I've only swallowed for two providers so far. One is a guy who for a while, neither of us could host and i didn't have the extra funds for hotels, so we just met up in our cars in various places and i'd give him head. Another is a dom top guy who goes multiple rounds, so i usually suck the first load out of him and then he gives me the others while topping. Giving oral to completion usually isn't what i hire for cause in my regular hookup life i'm usually the one giving. So when i hire i want to be the one receiving, but I'm not opposed to doing it.

16 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

I tried to send you a DM but I wasn't allowed to do that. 

Try it again now, should work. I had my inbox disabled

[ShortCutie7]

I don’t care if they swallow but they need to be ok with getting cum in their mouth since I usually don’t know when I’m cumming while receiving oral.

On the flip side, I never [intentionally] swallow.

[+ Pensant]

I find other uses for their cum after they’ve cum on my chest🤪

[nomad]

1 hour ago, Pensant said:

I find other uses for their cum after they’ve cum on my chest🤪

Skincare? 😂

[muscmtl]

Escorts who swallow, now that's rare

[+ Jamie21]

I don’t swallow but I’m fine if the client wants to shoot in my mouth, and then especially if he wants a kiss with the mouthful but unfortunately not many guys are into that, especially after they have cum. I usually just spit it out somewhere appropriate. 

[big-n-tall]

First, let me say that I generally don't like the taste of cum. I say "generally" because there have been a couple of exceptions over the years—one guy's was surprisingly salty, while another's was relatively sweet and not unpleasant at all. I've had guys finish on my stomach while riding me, and I've occasionally dipped a finger into the puddle on my belly for a taste. That usually got a reaction—either turning them on or intriguing them enough to comment on it or start talking dirty.

That said, I don't mind when a provider wants to swallow my load or asks me to finish in his mouth. Likewise, if I'm really into the guy and caught up in the moment, I'll sometimes let him finish in my mouth if that's what he enjoys. On even rarer occasions, I'll swallow.

In reality, only a handful of guys have ever taken my load into their mouths or swallowed it completely. Most of those experiences happened during oral sessions, and since I don't usually climax easily from oral alone, they had to work for it. In my mind, they earned their reward.

One of my longtime regulars is the only guy I've ever given complete freedom regarding where he finishes. He usually prefers my stomach, chest, or even my T-shirt if I'm still wearing one. Occasionally, he'll want to finish in my mouth while I continue sucking him dry. It clearly excites him—he starts moaning, talking extremely dirty, and sometimes even slobbering a little. The intensity of his reaction only turns me on more.

Another regular loved finishing in my mouth. He had been a professional bodybuilder at one point, and I don't know whether it was all the supplements he took or something else, but I absolutely hated the taste of his. Most of the time, I'd either spit it out or let it dribble from my mouth while continuing to pleasure him as he lost control.

There were also two separate occasions where I brought guys to completion orally, and both forced my head down to make sure I swallowed their loads. Looking back on all of my experiences, I'd estimate that fewer than ten men have ever gotten me to taste their cum at all, let alone swallow it.

[Wings246]

So far, I have only swallowed from 1 person and 1 person only.  Needless to say, he’s my absolute favorite.  It’s fair to say he has cast a spell on me.  In my mind, the act itself completes my imagination of a real BFE.  I still vividly remember how he reacted — a combination of surprise, exhilaration, and ecstasy — when I refused to let go even after he warned me he was about to cum.  I guzzled every last drop of it.  He even playfully complained that he couldn’t taste any leftovers when he French kissed me afterwards.

23 hours ago, nomad said:

Curious if this is important when hiring for others?

To me, it is important as a psychological reward for the right person that I have an emotional attachment to.  Otherwise, I don’t care for it.

[Becket]

I would need to be very much in to the guy and sure about his history. It's a real intimate moment indeed but better be damn sure of his overall health. It's not just that one particular virus that can be passed from person to person. And I know thinking about all this stuff is a real turn off. Damn I wish all of this were easier. SIGH!!!!

[Redwine56]

11 hours ago, nomad said:

Skincare? 😂

A good vanilla protein shake!  

[soloyo215]

On 6/15/2026 at 9:49 PM, Nue2thegame said:

Not for me. 

Not a deal breaker but I wouldn't stop him if he chooses to.