*NYC tops patient with bottoms

[timidexplorer]

Hi! Looking for NYC tops who are into kissing, sensual, and patient with a tight bottom, preferably tall. Tried to schedule with HenryAtwood, Kiddo, and Jose_ok but unfortunately none available this time. Thanks!

[DMICS]

 

 

https://rent.men/TallLongwood

 

 

[dlee02]

7 minutes ago, DMICS said:

 

 

https://rent.men/TallLongwood

 

 

His ad expired

[jony]

When it comes to big guys that know what to do with a tight bottom, I've personally had better luck with vers and vers bottoms than pure tops (as much as I like the idea of a pure top)..

I had a good experience with https://rent.men/CakesKing, who fits that description

[timidexplorer]

1 minute ago, jony said:

When it comes to big guys that know what to do with a tight bottom, I've personally had better luck with vers and vers bottoms than pure tops (as much as I like the idea of a pure top)..

I had a good experience with https://rent.men/CakesKing, who fits that description

Hot! But damn, currently not in NYC. I'm too last minute on this trip!

[TBD]

both kiddo and jose are not tall. 

Maybe widen your search and look for vers guys - i find guys who have been able to bottom are the best at being the type of top you desire. 

[timidexplorer]

Yea sorry, tall isn't a must! Kissing and being patient are. I met with Jose once and had a fantastic time.

3 minutes ago, TBD said:

both kiddo and jose are not tall. 

Maybe widen your search and look for vers guys - i find guys who have been able to bottom are the best at being the type of top you desire. 

 

[DMICS]

20 minutes ago, dlee02 said:

His ad expired

It shows he has recent activity going back to earlier this month. You can still message him via the RM chat.

[ShortCutie7]

Karl_Kelso is very tall, sensual, versatile, and a great kisser. Also stunningly handsome IMO.

https://rent.men/Karl_Kelso

[Chummily]

6 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

Karl_Kelso is very tall, sensual, versatile, and a great kisser. Also stunningly handsome IMO.

https://rent.men/Karl_Kelso

Seconded. I’m mostly a top and wanted to dip my toes into bottoming and went with him. He was very versatile, friendly and patient with me as I was bottoming for him.

[BrklynNYC]

13 hours ago, timidexplorer said:

Hi! Looking for NYC tops who are into kissing, sensual, and patient with a tight bottom, preferably tall. Tried to schedule with HenryAtwood, Kiddo, and Jose_ok but unfortunately none available this time. Thanks!

If you are just exploring bottoming, jose_ok, henryatwood wouldn't be the first ones I'd try. Lol. They are very big. Having said that , they are very patient with opening you up. Expect them to get to your second hole! 🥴

[Passionproject]

Agree with @BrklynNYC…guys often have bigger eyes than holes…Kelso, elii and Danbk are all good 

[+ PhileasFogg]

I just PM’d you a name and feedback 

[+ Italiano]

https://rentmen.eu/Dadbodnine

[timidexplorer]

1 hour ago, BrklynNYC said:

If you are just exploring bottoming, jose_ok, henryatwood wouldn't be the first ones I'd try. Lol. They are very big. Having said that , they are very patient with opening you up. Expect them to get to your second hole! 🥴

Haha yes fair enough. I'd say I'm less exploring than just generally...nervous about it! Met with Jose once and had an excellent time.

[BrklynNYC]

5 hours ago, timidexplorer said:

Haha yes fair enough. I'd say I'm less exploring than just generally...nervous about it! Met with Jose once and had an excellent time.

Gurl. Dont tell me you're a Virgin when you've been with Jose. 😂

[ShortCutie7]

1 minute ago, BrklynNYC said:

Gurl. Dont tell me you're a Virgin when you've been with Jose. 😂

Exactly, Jose has like double the girth of anyone else I’ve ever met!

[SecretProvider]

7 hours ago, BrklynNYC said:

Gurl. Dont tell me you're a Virgin when you've been with Jose. 😂

I was talking about EXACTLY this on another thread recently - clients messaging posing as virgins or someone who is inexperienced and 'nervous'. Then when we look at their rentmen profile and see that they have had loads of visits or reviews on the mr.number app too.  

EDIT -
Profile on rentmen 'timidexplorer' has been up since 2018 and viewed over 200 times. https://rentmen.eu/timidexplorer

(for those unsure what that means - it means providers he has either reached out to, or viewed their profile, have taken time to not only reply to him but check out HIS profile too. We don't look at random profiles)

Fact: No one who is a tight bottom to the point of having to explicitly state that they need a top who is gentle and patient - would be able to take someone the size of Henry, Jose or Kiddo. That is something only size queens could do so. 

This whole post is one of a fantasist. All of you that have taken time out of your day to help a 'nervous' guy 🤣  have been trolled. He was posting here back in 2024 about being 'a novice bottom'. yeah right. He has been taking BIG cock for the last 2 years (at least)  

Edited 18 hours ago by SecretProvider

[ShortCutie7]

22 minutes ago, SecretProvider said:

I was talking about EXACTLY this on another thread recently - clients messaging posing as virgins or someone who is inexperienced and 'nervous'. Then when we look at their rentmen profile and see that they have had loads of visits or reviews on the mr.number app too.  

EDIT -
Profile on rentmen 'timidexplorer' has been up since 2018 and viewed over 200 times. https://rentmen.eu/timidexplorer

(for those unsure what that means - it means providers he has either reached out to, or viewed their profile have taken time to not only reply to him, but check out HIS profile too. We don't look at random profiles)

Fact: No one who is a tight bottom to the point of having to explicitly state that they need a top who is gentle and patient - would be able to take someone the size of Henry, Jose or Kiddo. That is something only size queens could do so. 

This whole post is one of a fantasist. All of you that have taken time out of your day to help a 'nervous' guy 🤣  have been trolled. He was posting here back in 2024 about being 'a novice bottom'. yeah right. He has been taking BIG cock for the last 2 years (at least)  

I’m sure you’re right, but actively posting/messaging doesn’t necessarily correlate with actual sexual activity. I personally haven’t done anything at all in almost a full year, despite regularly posting on here. I obviously can’t speak for the original poster, but I would honestly and genuinely describe myself as “inexperienced” even though my posts may imply otherwise.

[SecretProvider]

3 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

I’m sure you’re right

I am 😜

3 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

actively posting/messaging doesn’t necessarily correlate with actual sexual activity.

Oh this we know FOR SURE.

[hungry4darkmeat]

Try Savv - he fits the bill just let him know what you’re looking for and he will definitely deliver 

https://rent.men/Savv

 

[+ PhileasFogg]

8 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

EDIT -
Profile on rentmen 'timidexplorer' has been up since 2018 and viewed over 200 times. https://rentmen.eu/timidexplorer

(for those unsure what that means - it means providers he has either reached out to, or viewed their profile, have taken time to not only reply to him but check out HIS profile too. We don't look at random profiles)

I’m not very active on RM since I stick to regulars.  So, using your logic, tell me - what do my 2,145 views in a considerably shorter period of time say about me?

I don’t think you have valid reason to be doing anything but taking his request at face value.  

 

edited to add:   When I take the time to look at who’s viewed me, there NO basis to connect them to any communication from me.  In fact, most of them are client profiles and not providers.   I’ve even made a thread here about this  

So I’m simply not connecting the dots that you’re using to disparage @timidexplorer and to cast shade on his post 

AND, I’ll point out - hiring a top is not the same as successfully bottoming.  I’ve tried 10 times to bottom in two years.  One was pukashelldude who has a recent post here.  He barely got the head in before pulling out.   I’ve succeeeded with bottoming TWICE with two guys - both small and not girthy.    Me thinks you assume too much based on the observations you cite 

Edited 17 hours ago by PhileasFogg

[SecretProvider]

 

1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

edited to add:   When I take the time to look at who’s viewed me, there NO basis to connect them to any communication from me.  In fact, most of them are client profiles and not providers.   I’ve even made a thread here about this  

So I’m simply not connecting the dots that you’re using to disparage @timidexplorer and to cast shade on his post 

So, using your logic, tell me - what do my 2,145 views in a considerably shorter period of time say about me?

I've taken a moment to check your profile so I could answer your question properly. Your premise is wrong. You are active on RM. In fact, you've left plenty of reviews for providers you have seen. Here's how it actually works:

• Clients view provider profiles.
• Provider profiles contain reviews.
• The moment you leave a review, every person viewing that provider's profile has a direct path to your profile.
• Many clients then click through to reviewer profiles.
• They want to see who else you've reviewed, whether you have a consistent type, how long you've been on RM, and whether your reviews appear genuine or fabricated.

That's the connection you're missing.

I also noticed you're using the same name on RM as you do here. Given how frequently you post on this forum, I'd be surprised if people haven't searched for your profile already. Some probably will after reading this thread.

And since you seem impressed by your 2,000 profile views, let me add some perspective. I've had over 8,000 profile views this month alone—and it hasn't even been a particularly busy month. Even if only a small percentage of those people click through to reviewer profiles, that's still significant traffic.

The difference is simple: that traffic can only reach profiles that are linked. "Timid little nervous virgin hole" has left no reviews, created no links, and has zero pathway leading back to his profile - unless he created that path by viewing someones profile or more likely - messaging them.

So that explains why you have profiles views and it's not rocket science and it's not a conspiracy and it's not a mystery. And it's not because you have been on a billboard in times square. Hope that helps. 

2 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

AND, I’ll point out - hiring a top is not the same as successfully bottoming.  

AND I'll point out - he has been able to take by his own admission one of the biggest and girthiest cocks in New York City. That is the definition of a 'successful bottom', NOT a novice. Clients message feigning virginity and inexperience all the time. Daily! It's weird behavior no doubt, thats the point I was making and this thread is illustrative of that behavior. 

Other people have commented that he cannot take a dick like that and then say they are still a scared intimated novice but you seem to have issue with me specifically. Why I can only speculate. I'm not one of your paid friends, I'm not impressed by your pomposity, I have no reason to be deferral or lie to you, and I suspect that is an unsettling situation for you. It obviously triggers something. 

2 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

 Me thinks you assume too much based on the observations you cite 

Your constant attempts to "gotcha" are really tiresome. 

You clearly don't know as much as you think you do, but you do however think quite a LOT of yourself, so I guess that checks out. I’m convinced you don’t care whether something is right or wrong—you just need to be on the opposite side of it so you can argue. You need to disagree with someone so you can perform at being the smartest person in the room. If confidence were a substitute for knowledge, you'd be a genius. You also love to give advice so let me share some with you:

You mistake being argumentative for being smart. They're not the same thing.

Put that on your fucking billboard. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

It’s always interesting when someone mistakes speculation for insight and insults for articulate debate.  But, what a bizarre level of certainty to have about someone you’ve never met.  Instead of not answering the question, you opted to skewer the questioner.   

You’ve constructed an entire narrative from forum posts, profile views, and your own assumptions about what someone’s sexual history “must” be. That’s not evidence; it’s fan fiction with a prosecutorial tone.

The oddest part is the insistence that nervousness, tightness, selectivity, or a desire for patience somehow become impossible once someone has had experience. Human beings aren’t assembly-line products. Comfort levels vary by partner, chemistry, circumstance, attraction, mood, and simple preference.

And the idea that because someone has met a well-endowed provider they therefore can no longer describe themselves as nervous or in need of patience is a conclusion you’ve invented, not a fact you’ve demonstrated.

Even if your theory were correct, publicly dissecting another member’s history and declaring that everyone who responded has been “trolled” seems far more disruptive to the discussion than the original question ever was.

Sometimes a person asking for a recommendation is just asking for a recommendation.

But yes, it’s me with a high opinion of myself Mr Pot…

Sincerely, 

Mr Kettle. 

[Cooper]

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