Providers that don't list "Daddy" under I Am Into

[Boaxxx]

I've always wondered if a provider does not list "Daddy" under I Am Into on RM if that means the provider is not interested in older guys as clients. 

[jmichaeliii]

14 minutes ago, Boaxxx said:

I've always wondered if a provider does not list "Daddy" under I Am Into on RM if that means the provider is not interested in older guys as clients. 

I am gonna be 60 soon and have hired several that don't list it, but we had amazing times.  I'd just ask them and to be honest you are just better off moving on if there is any hint of being hesitant on their side.  I have found that many of the younger guys (22-30) love older men as clients.

[nate_sf]

I wouldn’t assume that necessarily. Checking the Daddy box on the into list could mean he’s into older guys, or is into a Daddy/“Son” scenario, and/or he considers himself a Daddy. Best just to ask! 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I'm solidly middle-aged but do not consider myself a "Daddy." I have never had an issue with a provider unless they mention age or physical appearance requirements in their profile, in which case I don't even contact them. 

[BuffaloKyle]

As @nate_sf alluded to the provider might simply not be into any kind of daddy/son roleplay. If a provider is not willing to see a client of a certain age he'll have it stated right in his ad or will let you know when you inquire. I have seen in more than a few ads providers stating they only see clients above a certain age. I honestly though can't remember one time seeing in an ad that they need clients to be younger than a certain age.

[soloyo215]

3 hours ago, Boaxxx said:

I've always wondered if a provider does not list "Daddy" under I Am Into on RM if that means the provider is not interested in older guys as clients. 

The "daddy" thing might be interpreted as a specialty, not that they are not interested in older men as clients. That word can mean different things to different people. To some it could imply some kind of role play, to others, that they prefer older men, to others that they are age inclusive.

Lately the labeling in this "community" looks more like segregation rather than inclusiveness, so I'd not jump to conclusions and maybe ask. I say maybe because if I start communication and the provider doesn't ask, I don't see the need to volunteer information or inquire.

[PedroThreeTimes]

3 hours ago, Boaxxx said:

I've always wondered if a provider does not list "Daddy" under I Am Into on RM if that means the provider is not interested in older guys as clients. 

Honestly, I would guess most providers don’t give much thought to that section of the profile, I see many other profiles with all selected or none selected.

Another thought I had is: the more you select, the less you highlight, like, should I select everything I am into since this is a feature for the filters or should I select only a few of them that I would want to highlight, like “Kissing”, so customers know that it I am a provider that kiss?

I ultimately decided for the first option, but I think most boys don’t overthink that much, so I would advise to not give it that much attention when hiring.

If you really want to know, you can always ask, but honestly, I don’t really understand when clients introduce themselves with their pictures, age, or any other characteristics of them, that’s not a valid reason for me to decline service. Me personally prefer when a client approaches me and tells me what they are looking for right away, what matters the most to me is to know what will satisfy the client, hope more providers can share as well what is their preferred approach when hiring.

[BuffaloKyle]

6 hours ago, PedroThreeTimes said:

should I select everything I am into since this is a feature for the filters or should I select only a few of them that I would want to highlight, like “Kissing”, so customers know that it I am a provider that kiss?

Yeah, don't select everything. I tend to not believe that when I see it. I especially love when "straight" providers select everything.

Kissing is indeed one you should check off though if you're into it as I love to kiss for instance and will usually skip over a provider's ad pretty quick if they don't have that listed.

Edited yesterday at 04:40 AM by BuffaloKyle

[+ JamesB]

I always take those “into” lists with a grain of salt. Like I’ve mentioned in other threads, it’s always best to confirm directly with the provider about anything that’s important to you.

[MikeBiDude]

6 minutes ago, JamesB said:

I always take those “into” lists with a grain of salt. Like I’ve mentioned in other threads, it’s always best to confirm directly with the provider about anything that’s important to you.

Agree, I’ve had many a provider ignore whatever was on that checklist, for better or worse!

20 hours ago, nate_sf said:

Best just to ask!

This is all it takes gentlemen.