JB_Studio38 Posted Wednesday at 02:42 AM Author Posted Wednesday at 02:42 AM (edited) 2 hours ago, PhileasFogg said: The solution suggested by many in his previous personas was “find a new career” I thought you blocked me, and yet you’re still here talking about me? Comical… 5 hours ago, Jamie21 said: Yes that’s the solution. This week I’ve said no to 4 clients who wanted fairly short notice bookings because I wasn’t able (or in one case inclined) to meet them. One guy asks for a short notice meeting every few weeks and every time I decline. It’s like a game. However this week 3 clients have messaged to ask my availability and I’ve replied with a positive answer to all of them. All of them have then gone quiet - no reply. No ‘thanks but my plans changed’ or ‘I’d like to book’ or anything. They just ignored me. This is why guys like @JB_Studio38get irritated. There’s a significant enough number of ‘clients’ who simply view providers as not really deserving of respect or consideration. It’s what happens in this industry and I find it unacceptable. Those guys behave badly and it needs to be called out. There’s no excuse for it. And before anyone says providers behave badly yes they do and that’s also unacceptable. What I’m talking about is clients because that’s my experience. You’re spot on. And these days, I will try to accommodate a same day session when I can: but a lot of times, depending on how far the commute is I simply can’t do it. It’s not even always about whether I’m ready or not, it’s just the logistics and commute that are the issue Many same day requests, they want to meet by like 9 p.m. at the latest. Most try to meet even earlier. The thing is: 4 PM to 7 PM is usually “prime time” for most people unless they are alone. That’s usually the time people are either wrapping up gym, meeting people for dinner, having a drink etc. That’s really not the best time to reach out and ask if someone is available right away. However, I am willing to meet them if they’re willing to meet later in the evening. If they want to meet during prime time, they need to give more advance notice. That’s why most times: I can’t meet same day clients until like after 8 p.m. Or if I’m in a hotel I can do something like before noon or 3-5 p.m. But all that still requires notice. I actually had a client who I liked a lot, but both times he reached out same day. The 2nd time I spent a good part of the evening trying to work something out. He didn’t want to drive out late, and was trying to book me in the morning. I was like, hotel checkout is at noon. So I have to work around that. He was trying to get me to ask for 2 PM checkout. I’m like bruh, I have no control over that. We ended up not meeting, and it pissed me off and after that I told him: NO MORE SAME DAY BOOKINGS. And I even told him, if you had let me know the day before or even earlier in the day (he was trying to contact me at 6 p.m. on a Friday, when I was with my friend having dinner and shopping), then I would have been ready, hotel room booked and all. That’s what some of these posters like @marylander1940 don’t understand: WE HAVE A LIFE. It’s not just about notice. It’s not about trying to be mean or controlling or anything. But if I don’t know how to prepare for someone’s arrival, how can I plan anything at all? Edited Wednesday at 02:47 AM by JB_Studio38
marylander1940 Posted Wednesday at 02:45 AM Posted Wednesday at 02:45 AM 12 minutes ago, JB_Studio38 said: I just hope you know: everytime you start talking shit about what I post, I’m going to have RECEIPTS to show that how you feel about me, is irrelevant. Case in point just yesterday: a real gentleman client booked me just like I asked. I went ahead and did same day notice, because I didn’t have anything immediately going on, but I still needed 2 hours notice (finish eating, showering, and the commute to downtown all takes 2 hours, that’s nothing crazy to ask). This is what I tell ALL clients. That I need 2 hours notice. It’s in my ads. And anyway, aren’t you the same person who talked about going to some escorts hotel in DC, walking over there and then being told you need a deposit when you got to the elevator? You the same person going around trying to see escorts on 15 minutes notice. It’s called boundaries, honey. It’s called taking control over one’s schedule and time, and making sure I’m actually ready for the client. And in my experience, nobody is really available last minute in reality. That’s just something that hookup culture (which has crossed over into the escort lifestyle) has created. Unless you have to bottom and do drag queen/cross dressing for the client I think 2 hours is too much time. Just my 2 cents! No, I don't see escorts within 15 minutes notice. Please don't put words in my mouth I've never said. you're selling your time and company. Sometimes you have to adapt, after all they're paying you when they could easily hire others even in the small markets you drive by. Again, 2 hours is excessive but it's your business.
marylander1940 Posted Wednesday at 02:50 AM Posted Wednesday at 02:50 AM 3 minutes ago, JB_Studio38 said: I thought you blocked me, and yet you’re still here talking about me? Comical… You’re spot on. And these days, I will try to accommodate a same day session when I can: but a lot of times, depending on how far the commute is I simply can’t do it. It’s not even always about whether I’m ready or not, it’s just the logistics and commute that are the issue Many same day requests, they want to meet by like 9 p.m. at the latest. Most try to meet even earlier. The thing is: 4 PM to 7 PM is usually “prime time” for most people unless they are alone. That’s usually the time people are either wrapping up gym, meeting people for dinner, having a drink etc. That’s really not the best time to reach out and ask if someone is available right away. However, I am willing to meet them if they’re willing to meet later in the evening. If they want to meet during prime time, they need to give more advance notice. That’s why most times: I can’t meet same day clients until like after 8 p.m. Or if I’m in a hotel I can do something like before noon or 3-5 p.m. But all that still requires notice. I actually had a client who I liked a lot, but both times he reached out same day. The 2nd time I spent a good part of the evening trying to work something out. He didn’t want to drive out late, and was trying to book me in the morning. I was like, hotel checkout is at noon. So I have to work around that. He was trying to get me to ask for 2 PM checkout. I’m like bruh, I have no control over that. We ended up not meeting, and it pissed me off and after that I told him: NO MORE SAME DAY BOOKINGS. And I even told him, if you had let me know the day before or even earlier in the day (he was trying to contact me at 6 p.m. on a Friday, when I was with my friend having dinner and shopping), then I would have been ready, hotel room booked and all. That’s what some of these posters like @marylander1940 don’t understand: WE HAVE A LIFE. It’s not just about notice. It’s not about trying to be mean or controlling or anything. But if I don’t fucking know now to prepare for someone’s arrival, how the fuck can I plan anything at all? I guess @PhileasFogg blocked your other screen name and not this one. When I saw that you were back in the forum posting I was excited because of how honest you're but I'm disappointed you still see the glass half-empty. Yes YOU have a life but as far as we know you don't have a 9 to 5 job like most of us. Obviously if you have an appointment with a Dr. or a Dentist that's something that can't be changed within less than 24 hours notice and rescheduling might delay it for weeks but if you're on the way out to Costco and a client wants to see you in 45 minutes at your place... be grateful and happy, go to Costco later that day, tomorrow, etc. Same with the gym. + Vegas_Millennial 1
JB_Studio38 Posted Wednesday at 02:53 AM Author Posted Wednesday at 02:53 AM 6 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: Unless you have to bottom and do drag queen/cross dressing for the client I think 2 hours is too much time. Just my 2 cents! No, I don't see escorts within 15 minutes notice. Please don't put words in my mouth I've never said. you're selling your time and company. Sometimes you have to adapt, after all they're paying you when they could easily hire others even in the small markets you drive by. Again, 2 hours is excessive but it's your business. What the hell does selling my time and company have to do with how much notice I need? And bottom or dress in drag, are you stereotyping? Question: would you just show up to your friend’s or family home with no notice? Is that something that’s a norm in your “circle”? And don’t say “it’s different”, because it’s not. I was with a client the other day, and his mother and niece were about to come over WHILE I WAS THERE. He was like, hell NO. I need a couple hours, I just woke up 😆
JB_Studio38 Posted Wednesday at 03:05 AM Author Posted Wednesday at 03:05 AM (edited) 2 hours ago, marylander1940 said: I guess @PhileasFogg blocked your other screen name and not this one. When I saw that you were back in the forum posting I was excited because of how honest you're but I'm disappointed you still see the glass half-empty. Yes YOU have a life but as far as we know you don't have a 9 to 5 job like most of us. Obviously if you have an appointment with a Dr. or a Dentist that's something that can't be changed within less than 24 hours notice and rescheduling might delay it for weeks but if you're on the way out to Costco and a client wants to see you in 45 minutes at your place... be grateful and happy, go to Costco later that day, tomorrow, etc. Same with the gym. He just posted a screenshot the other day saying he blocked me, he knows what he’s doing. He’s trying to talk behind my back, while simultaneously blocking me. Which goes to show the type of character he is. So he can gladly block me, and do both us a favor. As for you, you keep making hypothetical statements. You seem stuck on the premise that I alone have these plans, and don’t have anyone to answer to. And then throwing in I don’t have a 9-5 job, which is supposed to mean I’m always free 😆 Would you break your plans for an escort? If that escort reached out to you and let you know he was available? Don’t lie 🤥 because I already know…based on many interactions with clients and gay dudes in general, that it’s a no. So don’t try to come in my face with that double standard. You need to do some real life assessment, versus trying to assume how someone else’s life that you know nothing about, or how anything works. And I don’t shop at Costco, but thanks for suggesting something you clearly know nothing about ☝ Edited Wednesday at 05:15 AM by JB_Studio38
+ PhileasFogg Posted Wednesday at 05:49 AM Posted Wednesday at 05:49 AM (edited) 3 hours ago, marylander1940 said: I guess @PhileasFogg blocked your other screen name and not this one. Apparently blocking the profile doesn’t block posts that are quoted. Like you, I’m a strong advocate for providers rights and fair/respectful treatment. And I’m fiercely loyal to my regulars but I cannot ensure their satisfaction with their chosen vocation just like I can’t with my own - we are, in short, in for the distance or not But consistently, this young man asks for advice or insight, gets it, and then argues with the opinions and perspectives offered. So, I’d like to help, but life’s too short. i think your comments have been graceful and kind and I appreciate what you’ve said. I still fear they are falling on deaf ears. But as I said earlier, I respect this young man’s resilience in the face of frequent frustration. https://matterco.co/the-maybe-story/ Edited Wednesday at 06:22 AM by PhileasFogg + Vegas_Millennial, + BOZO T CLOWN and marylander1940 1 1 1
JB_Studio38 Posted Wednesday at 06:20 AM Author Posted Wednesday at 06:20 AM 31 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said: Apparently blocking the profile doesn’t block posts that are quoted. Like you, I’m a strong advocate for providers rights and fair/respectful treatment. And I’m fiercely loyal to my regulars but I cannot ensure their satisfaction with their chosen vocation just like I can’t with my own - we are, in short, in for the distance or not But consistently, this young man asks for advice or insight, gets it, and then argues with the opinions and perspectives offered. So, I’d like to help, but life’s too short. i think your comments have been graceful and kind and I appreciate what you’ve said. I still fear they are falling on deaf ears. But as I said earlier, I respect this young man’s resilience in the face of frequent frustration. The thing is, just because I may want to trade advice or talk about things that may be frustrating within the industry: does not equate to unhappiness. This is where you and some others are misinterpreting and taking it out of context. If you prefer escorts shut up and put up, just admit that’s what you prefer. If you can’t handle us talking about things that could be improved in the industry: remember you don’t have to read what I post. There’s 100s of threads here, why circle around mine and work yourself up ❌
marylander1940 Posted Wednesday at 07:56 AM Posted Wednesday at 07:56 AM 2 hours ago, PhileasFogg said: Apparently blocking the profile doesn’t block posts that are quoted. Like you, I’m a strong advocate for providers rights and fair/respectful treatment. And I’m fiercely loyal to my regulars but I cannot ensure their satisfaction with their chosen vocation just like I can’t with my own - we are, in short, in for the distance or not But consistently, this young man asks for advice or insight, gets it, and then argues with the opinions and perspectives offered. So, I’d like to help, but life’s too short. i think your comments have been graceful and kind and I appreciate what you’ve said. I still fear they are falling on deaf ears. But as I said earlier, I respect this young man’s resilience in the face of frequent frustration. https://matterco.co/the-maybe-story/ Picture running a business thinking all customers must adopt to your schedule,ways, policies, style, etc.? No flexibility at all... "¡ No bueno!"
JB_Studio38 Posted Wednesday at 08:05 AM Author Posted Wednesday at 08:05 AM 7 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: Picture running a business thinking all customers must adopt to your schedule,ways, policies, style, etc.? No flexibility at all... "¡ No bueno!" You mean like having business hours? That’s anywhere 🥴 But does it look like I’m having a hard time setting healthy boundaries for when I feel is best to be in the privacy of another person 🤔
+ PhileasFogg Posted Wednesday at 08:39 AM Posted Wednesday at 08:39 AM 42 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: Picture running a business thinking all customers must adopt to your schedule,ways, policies, style, etc.? No flexibility at all... "¡ No bueno!" Many providers do set boundaries and own it - they say “can’t host” - “have a day job, so only available on weekends” - “no pnp” -“need 24 hr notice” They put it out there, accept the trade off (reduced engagements) and don’t whine - or more importantly, don’t blame everything else BUT personal choices. Now, I think JB has equal concern about not being treated with respect And he deserves respect His superpower would be refusing to engage and finding satisfaction of only working with clients on HIS terms marylander1940 1
marylander1940 Posted Wednesday at 11:42 AM Posted Wednesday at 11:42 AM 5 hours ago, JB_Studio38 said: The thing is, just because I may want to trade advice or talk about things that may be frustrating within the industry: does not equate to unhappiness. This is where you and some others are misinterpreting and taking it out of context. If you prefer escorts shut up and put up, just admit that’s what you prefer. If you can’t handle us talking about things that could be improved in the industry: remember you don’t have to read what I post. There’s 100s of threads here, why circle around mine and work yourself up ❌ Why so confrontational with @PhileasFogg and so many others including myself? We're just giving you advice. Again: why do you need 2 hours minimum to get ready to see a client?
mike carey Posted Wednesday at 11:56 AM Posted Wednesday at 11:56 AM 8 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: Again: why do you need 2 hours minimum to get ready to see a client? Frankly, he doesn't owe anyone an explanation, and in reality, whether he needs it or not is immaterial. If that's what he wants, he is entitled to ask for it, and decline any engagement if the client is not prepared to accept it as a condition of meeting him. He can then move on as if that client had never been a realistic prospect. NJF, JB_Studio38 and + José Soplanucas 1 2
Mark_fl Posted Wednesday at 11:56 AM Posted Wednesday at 11:56 AM (edited) And why.the need to keep "proving" your success by quoting payments received. Its fine. Some people will jump through your hoops (hours, notice, deposits, etc.) It doesn't mean the majority of us will. If it works for you, and youre happy, congratulations. But that's not the image projected here. I read someone who is frustrated with clients who don't agree that your way is best. Edited Wednesday at 11:57 AM by Mark_fl + JamesB, ManTouch, marylander1940 and 1 other 1 1 2
aiseeya Posted Wednesday at 12:42 PM Posted Wednesday at 12:42 PM 14 hours ago, Jamie21 said: Yes that’s the solution. This week I’ve said no to 4 clients who wanted fairly short notice bookings because I wasn’t able (or in one case inclined) to meet them. One guy asks for a short notice meeting every few weeks and every time I decline. It’s like a game. However this week 3 clients have messaged to ask my availability and I’ve replied with a positive answer to all of them. All of them have then gone quiet - no reply. No ‘thanks but my plans changed’ or ‘I’d like to book’ or anything. They just ignored me. This is why guys like @JB_Studio38get irritated. There’s a significant enough number of ‘clients’ who simply view providers as not really deserving of respect or consideration. It’s what happens in this industry and I find it unacceptable. Those guys behave badly and it needs to be called out. There’s no excuse for it. And before anyone says providers behave badly yes they do and that’s also unacceptable. What I’m talking about is clients because that’s my experience. I think you might be convolating 2 different matters. Being responsive is expected in any industry - no one is going to argue otherwise. Schedule compatability, on the other hand, is a separate issue. Client/ provider may set up his scheduling system however he wishes. Free market and all. That said, every businessmen ought to prepare and frankly expect that not everyone will abide by your system. And the business has the sole discretion whther or not to do the deal. If you work in service industry, you ought to understand that not every enquiry equal to a deal. Some proceed on mutually agreed terms, some fell through for whatsoever reason. And I totally agree that dealing with multiple 'fee proposals' on daily basis is simply exhausting. But hey thats the cost of running a business. The only way to avoid it is either close down shop or never expand your client base. marylander1940 1
marylander1940 Posted Wednesday at 01:20 PM Posted Wednesday at 01:20 PM (edited) 2 hours ago, mike carey said: Frankly, he doesn't owe anyone an explanation, and in reality, whether he needs it or not is immaterial. If that's what he wants, he is entitled to ask for it, and decline any engagement if the client is not prepared to accept it as a condition of meeting him. I'm just wondering. May I? He started this thread complaining.... I know there's people out there who "take their time" at the escalator blocking others, getting their act together in a parking lot before deciding to drive, people who if you ask them a question while they're tightening their shoelaces, they'll stop doing it to look up and answer the question because they just can't "multitask", etc. I'm not like that! I owe my success among to that. Frankly... If I was an escort and someone would text me about getting together soon, I would be glad about it. Obviously if he wanted me to drive to see him, I would appreciate being allowed some common sense when it comes to driving time, distance, etc. It's certainly annoying when I make plans with someone, I'm getting dressed and in less than a minute I get a message asking, "are you on your way?" or "where are you?" when I clearly stated I would text when leaving my house and when I'm a block away. The younger the escort are the more impatient they are. 2 hours ago, mike carey said: . He can then move on as if that client had never been a realistic prospect. The client was interested in paying for his services but couldn't wait 2 hours. It happens! Edited Wednesday at 02:05 PM by marylander1940 dyslexia
marylander1940 Posted Wednesday at 01:26 PM Posted Wednesday at 01:26 PM 1 hour ago, Mark_fl said: And why.the need to keep "proving" your success by quoting payments received. Its fine. Some people will jump through your hoops (hours, notice, deposits, etc.) It doesn't mean the majority of us will. If it works for you, and youre happy, congratulations. But that's not the image projected here. I read someone who is frustrated with clients who don't agree that your way is best. Exactly! Even if those payments are true, it's not enough to make him happy because of those other men being bossy with him and outrageously asking about getting together in less than 2 hours. Such disruptive behavior to someone who placed an ad in RM with his number asking folks to hire him. 41 minutes ago, aiseeya said: I think you might be convolating 2 different matters. Being responsive is expected in any industry - no one is going to argue otherwise. Schedule compatability, on the other hand, is a separate issue. Client/ provider may set up his scheduling system however he wishes. Free market and all. That said, every businessmen ought to prepare and frankly expect that not everyone will abide by your system. And the business has the sole discretion whther or not to do the deal. If you work in service industry, you ought to understand that not every enquiry equal to a deal. Some proceed on mutually agreed terms, some fell through for whatsoever reason. And I totally agree that dealing with multiple 'fee proposals' on daily basis is simply exhausting. But hey thats the cost of running a business. The only way to avoid it is either close down shop or never expand your client base. yes, that's the cost of doing business especially when there are other choices to do in life.
+ PhileasFogg Posted Wednesday at 04:37 PM Posted Wednesday at 04:37 PM 4 hours ago, marylander1940 said: Why so confrontational with @PhileasFogg and so many others including myself? We're just giving you advice. Again: why do you need 2 hours minimum to get ready to see a client? You’d think he’d want to gain the insight of clients who do it, do it well, and do it with respect. But no, he just pisses them off by fighting with constructive feedback Becket, + BOZO T CLOWN and marylander1940 1 2
+ Jamie21 Posted Wednesday at 04:56 PM Posted Wednesday at 04:56 PM 4 hours ago, aiseeya said: I think you might be convolating 2 different matters. Being responsive is expected in any industry - no one is going to argue otherwise. Schedule compatability, on the other hand, is a separate issue. Client/ provider may set up his scheduling system however he wishes. Free market and all. That said, every businessmen ought to prepare and frankly expect that not everyone will abide by your system. And the business has the sole discretion whther or not to do the deal. If you work in service industry, you ought to understand that not every enquiry equal to a deal. Some proceed on mutually agreed terms, some fell through for whatsoever reason. And I totally agree that dealing with multiple 'fee proposals' on daily basis is simply exhausting. But hey thats the cost of running a business. The only way to avoid it is either close down shop or never expand your client base. I wasn’t complaining about the scheduling issues. I turn down business and it’s fine, that’s not my problem. My complaint was the enquiry that doesn’t end with either of ‘I’m booking’ or ‘thanks but no thanks’. You’re just left hanging. Thats unacceptable. Sometimes those guys ask again months later…guess what. I ignore them. NJF and JB_Studio38 1 1
Nue2thegame Posted Wednesday at 05:02 PM Posted Wednesday at 05:02 PM 3 minutes ago, Jamie21 said: I wasn’t complaining about the scheduling issues. I turn down business and it’s fine, that’s not my problem. My complaint was the enquiry that doesn’t end with either of ‘I’m booking’ or ‘thanks but no thanks’. You’re just left hanging. Thats unacceptable. Sometimes those guys ask again months later…guess what. I ignore them. The lack of common etiquette on both sides, client and provider, is common and still amazes me. I just experienced it. JB_Studio38 and + SidewaysDM 2
JB_Studio38 Posted Wednesday at 05:45 PM Author Posted Wednesday at 05:45 PM 5 hours ago, Mark_fl said: And why.the need to keep "proving" your success by quoting payments received. It’s not “proving” my success as I really don’t have to. I’m going along with the discussion showing: it’s one thing to “talk about” something, and another thing to actually be able to show otherwise. If someone wants to come on here and say how 2 hours notice is unreasonable, and I need a new career and I’m unhappy: I’m happy to show that there’s clients willing to abide by that. Not everybody is hell bent fixed on making escort’s schedule difficult, by being a pain in the ass like the one below ⬇️ 4 hours ago, marylander1940 said: I'm just wondering. May I? I’m going to explain it to you like a 3 year old, since you seem to be a bit “slow to catch” and “misinformed” of how things work. For you and the people in the back: #1: I know people personally (including someone here) who don’t take same day appointments. Why not? That’s their personal business. It’s a lot of reasons why, they may have a partner that they can’t just constantly back out on plans. They may have family, another responsibilities, whatever the case may be. It’s not up to you to “wonder why”. Just simply fall in line. It’s not rocket science. #2: I’ve said it elsewhere before and it’s pretty clear in my ads: I may not even be in the same neighborhood or city, as the person who reaches out to me. You even said it and contradicted yourself: “Obviously if he wanted me to drive to see him, I would appreciate being allowed some common sense when it comes to driving time, distance, etc.” Now, you can’t pick and choose what’s sensible and define what is common sense when it comes to driving time/distance for each individual person. It could be 10 minutes for one person, an hour for another, 3 hours for another. Some of my clients live in towns that take 2 hours just to drive to. It’s a fact: most clients I find where I reside and in certain cities, all seem to be around the same area of downtown or the convention center: Which takes me at least an hour to get to because: NOT EVERY ESCORT LIVES IN A STEREOTYPICAL DOWNTOWN APARTMENT AND UBERS. Even the RentMen city listings, often showing the major metro area, is likely not where everyone lives. If that’s not enough for you, there’s plenty other references that talk about needing notice, that other escorts have taken the time to discuss elsewhere on the online world. Educate yourself, and maybe you wouldn’t look so ignorant and gaslight someone’s preferences to mere “complaining”. AND AND AND There you go. Question answered. Now, please take it for what it is. I’m not just answering for you, I’m answering for everybody who asks the same thing.
marylander1940 Posted Wednesday at 05:51 PM Posted Wednesday at 05:51 PM (edited) 12 minutes ago, JB_Studio38 said: It’s not “proving” my success as I really don’t have to. I’m going along with the discussion showing: it’s one thing to “talk about” something, and another thing to actually be able to show otherwise. If someone wants to come on here and say how 2 hours notice is unreasonable, and I need a new career and I’m unhappy: I’m happy to show that there’s clients willing to abide by that. Not everybody is hell bent fixed on making escort’s schedule difficult, by being a pain in the ass like the one below ⬇️ I’m going to explain it to you like a 3 year old, since you seem to be a bit “slow to catch” and “misinformed” of how things work. For you and the people in the back: #1: I know people personally (including someone here) who don’t take same day appointments. Why not? That’s their personal business. It’s a lot of reasons why, they may have a partner that they can’t just constantly back out on plans. They may have family, another responsibilities, whatever the case may be. It’s not up to you to “wonder why”. Just simply fall in line. It’s not rocket science. #2: I’ve said it elsewhere before and it’s pretty clear in my ads: I may not even be in the same neighborhood or city, as the person who reaches out to me. You even said it and contradicted yourself: “Obviously if he wanted me to drive to see him, I would appreciate being allowed some common sense when it comes to driving time, distance, etc.” Now, you can’t pick and choose what’s sensible and define what is common sense when it comes to driving time/distance for each individual person. It could be 10 minutes for one person, an hour for another, 3 hours for another. Some of my clients live in towns that take 2 hours just to drive to. It’s a fact: most clients I find where I reside and in certain cities, all seem to be around the same area of downtown or the convention center: Which takes me at least an hour to get to because: NOT EVERY ESCORT LIVES IN A STEREOTYPICAL DOWNTOWN APARTMENT AND UBERS. Even the RentMen city listings, often showing the major metro area, is likely not where everyone lives. If that’s not enough for you, there’s plenty other references that talk about needing notice, that other escorts have taken the time to discuss elsewhere on the online world. Educate yourself, and maybe you wouldn’t look so ignorant and gaslight someone’s preferences to mere “complaining”. AND AND AND There you go. Question answered. Now, please take it for what it is. I’m not just answering for you, I’m answering for everybody who asks the same thing. You live in an "escort desert", even guys from big cities travel there occasionally because of the lack of choices, something that always guarantees a good trip. In big cities uber rules, parking sucks. "Common sense" means a reasonable time to go from A to B. Yes, some of your clients live far. It happens! Presentable? Usually doesn't take 2 hours for that. Thank you for taking time to reply to me. Edited Wednesday at 05:58 PM by marylander1940 Misspelling
Cooper Posted Wednesday at 05:54 PM Posted Wednesday at 05:54 PM Administrator’s Reminder Gentlemen, First off, stop with the personal attacks. Our Guideline has always been to attack the issue not the person. Let’s stay on topic. 👍🏼 MikeBiDude 1
JB_Studio38 Posted Wednesday at 10:19 PM Author Posted Wednesday at 10:19 PM 4 hours ago, Cooper said: Administrator’s Reminder Gentlemen, First off, stop with the personal attacks. Let’s stay on topic. 👍🏼 I much rather that be the case. But when some come saying straight up ASSinine things, just to be funny and try to hush someone up and detract from their message without even knowing the reality: it’s hard to keep it cordial. At the same time I’m not really too phased about someone who actually leads themselves to believe this is true: ⬇️ 8 hours ago, marylander1940 said: Frankly... If I was an escort and someone would text me about getting together soon, I would be glad about it. Lol, that cracked me up. If you were an escort? Why not go ahead and be one, if you think you can do it better. What’s your age? You probably still have time…go ahead and try it out. Put a RentMen ad up, see how many inquires you sort thru to get your first client, and report back 😆 My 🔮 says you’re bluffing and projecting 😉 marylander1940 1
Mark_fl Posted Wednesday at 10:34 PM Posted Wednesday at 10:34 PM Someone really hit a nerve. Very telling. marylander1940 and Becket 2
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