queensboroboy Posted January 20 Posted January 20 Hey guys, how do you know if someone is interested in you in the locker room of a gym?
Nightowl Posted January 20 Posted January 20 Good question. I’d like to know too. My gaydar isn’t very accurate. marylander1940 1
danteig Posted January 20 Posted January 20 I just get fully naked in front of them, if they keep staring at my dick I politely say “you want an introduction?” works every time Medin, jeezifonly, onmoamoa and 4 others 2 5
Pd1_jap Posted January 21 Posted January 21 I find if I'm plumped up a little bit guys take notice. You have to send clear signals of arousal. If they want to reciprocate they will adjust their cock or show off their ass. Just a moment... WWW.FISHBOWLAPP.COM Wanderoz, + SidewaysDM and Whippoorwill 1 2
San Angelo Posted January 21 Posted January 21 I stay away from gym locker rooms. Most gays of certain age range are horny freaks.
San Angelo Posted January 21 Posted January 21 2 hours ago, queensboroboy said: Hey guys, how do you know if someone is interested in you in the locker room of a gym? Why are you doing stuff in locker rooms? That's mad disrespectful to the other members. borgerback, MikeBiDude, Pd1_jap and 4 others 1 6
56harrisond Posted January 21 Posted January 21 If you lock eyes while glancing at each other, that's a good sign. But really, just start a conversation with him, complement his physique, shoes, or water bottle it doesn't really matter. You just need to break the ice, and see if you get a vibe. San Angelo, Pd1_jap, Njguy2 and 5 others 2 1 5
San Angelo Posted January 21 Posted January 21 25 minutes ago, 56harrisond said: If you lock eyes while glancing at each other, that's a good sign. But really, just start a conversation with him, complement his physique, shoes, or water bottle it doesn't really matter. You just need to break the ice, and see if you get a vibe. You know glancing and staring can be cultural, right? Staring is a sign of people trying to socialize as well. Finally, many people unsconsciously stare or glance. Sometimes they even do it out because of anxiety. marylander1940 1
jeezifonly Posted January 21 Posted January 21 "Interested" is such a broad term when applied to the location in question. Interested ...in hookup right now AT the gym? In talking about your workout? In getting your number to hookup later? In hearing your take on Heated Rivalry? In your favorite casserole recipe?? If your interest in him is reciprocated for any of the above, make eye contact and let yourself smile. Be smart about the first one, tho... BSR and + Charlie 2
+ Lucky Posted January 22 Posted January 22 I once had a guy follow me from the steam room at the Y in SF. He was naked, hard, and jerking as he followed me, and then stood at the end of my locker row continuing to jack off. Did he come? I don't know as I was not about to get sexual in the locker room so I ignored him. But I think it was safe to assume that he was into me. Years ago, of course. Whippoorwill, Pd1_jap, + SidewaysDM and 2 others 1 4
Nightowl Posted January 22 Posted January 22 2 hours ago, Lucky said: I once had a guy follow me from the steam room at the Y in SF. He was naked, hard, and jerking as he followed me, and then stood at the end of my locker row continuing to jack off. Did he come? I don't know as I was not about to get sexual in the locker room so I ignored him. But I think it was safe to assume that he was into me. Years ago, of course. I had a similar situation a few decades ago in the doorless showers of a health club. The guy in the stall opposite me was hard, jerking, and staring at me. I watched but didn’t engage. Like you, getting sexual in a locker room wasn’t something I was going to do. + Charlie 1
Monarchy79 Posted January 22 Posted January 22 (edited) This is a very tricky matter as some “signals” can be misinterpreted. I’ve had some bold things happen to me in the locker room, and some subtle things…. There was the time a dude was playing under his towel, staring at me in the steam room. I gave him a nod and a smile to acknowledge his flirting. The “bold” part was when I went to take a shower. That guy quickly hopped in my shower stall and started jacking off. He scared the crap out of me. Another bold moment was when I was changing my clothes at my locker. This guy comes up to locker next to mine to take off his workout clothes As I’m sitting down to put on and tie my shoes, he removes his briefs first, then takes forever to remove his socks and shirt. As his dick is swinging closely to my face, it’s growing and getting hard. He’s so close, I can smell his “pheromones”. He then stares at me then walks off to the shower, and takes his dirty clothes with him. His locker was never beside mine. Apparently, he wanted to flash me. Another instance was not in the locker room, but the actual weight room. This dude is benching, with shorts on with NO underwear. As I’m doing cable work not too far from him, I see his balls. I think nothing of it and move on to the next machine. This guy then positions himself to the machine right in front of me. When he sees other people, he closes his legs. When the area is empty, he opens them, and his balls and the head of his penis are out. I finally gave him eye contact, and when I did, his dick jumped and got more erect. I was usually caught off-guard, as I’m definitely not a guy that anyone would (or should) even look twice at in a gym… Edited January 23 by Monarchy79 + Charlie, marylander1940 and Whippoorwill 2 1
dutchal Posted January 22 Posted January 22 This varies a lot. Last weekend, a guy changed from his workout clothes into a towel facing away from me, but then, after the only other guy in that part of the locker room left, walked over to me and asked directly in a whisper: "Wanna play?", and walked into the sauna. I changed to a towel, too, and followed him. Another time, I was in the process of changing from workout clothes into street clothes, very near the water fountain. A very hot guy came out of the steam room, ostensibly to get a drink, but before and after he did that, rather obviously ran his eyes up and down over me. I got into a towel and joined him in the steam room for a very hot session. Other times guys in the sauna or steam room have arranged themselves so they're sort of half visible and make a move that could be simply rearranging themselves, or itching themselves, but is actually sending the "available" message. They're looking for you to respond in kind, and then you're off to the races. + SidewaysDM, + Charlie, Whippoorwill and 2 others 1 1 3
Monarchy79 Posted January 22 Posted January 22 1 hour ago, SidewaysDM said: Apparently, you are more attractive than you let on! Also, you may giving off some strong pheromones yourself, and are not even aware of it! If you discover your secret super powers…..please let the guys in this community know. I assure you, there are many of us who would welcome these types of BOLD encounters at the gym! 🤣 Trust me, I’m not…. lol…. To be fair, these things don’t happen to me frequently. I just may have lucked up with some guy having that post-workout hormone boost…. + Charlie, Whippoorwill and + SidewaysDM 1 2
Monarchy79 Posted January 22 Posted January 22 1 hour ago, dutchal said: This varies a lot. Last weekend, a guy changed from his workout clothes into a towel facing away from me, but then, after the only other guy in that part of the locker room left, walked over to me and asked directly in a whisper: "Wanna play?", and walked into the sauna. I changed to a towel, too, and followed him. Another time, I was in the process of changing from workout clothes into street clothes, very near the water fountain. A very hot guy came out of the steam room, ostensibly to get a drink, but before and after he did that, rather obviously ran his eyes up and down over me. I got into a towel and joined him in the steam room for a very hot session. Other times guys in the sauna or steam room have arranged themselves so they're sort of half visible and make a move that could be simply rearranging themselves, or itching themselves, but is actually sending the "available" message. They're looking for you to respond in kind, and then you're off to the races. Spot on!!! In addition to rearranging themselves in the sauna or steam room, some do what I call the “Sharon Stone -Basic Instinct” move where they open their legs, showing you ALL the goods under the towel. + SidewaysDM, + Charlie and Whippoorwill 2 1
Whoisyourdaddy Posted January 22 Posted January 22 My gym's locker room is very G-rated. I'd be shocked to ever see anyone under 40 naked there. However, the locker rooms that I used in the past were cruisier and had nudity. + SidewaysDM 1
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted Sunday at 03:18 AM Posted Sunday at 03:18 AM (edited) On 1/20/2026 at 5:26 PM, San Angelo said: Why are you doing stuff in locker rooms? That's mad disrespectful to the other members. "The lady doth protest too much, methinks". 😉 San Angelo Posted April 3, 2023 Yeap. We made out one time at my gym's restroom... Edited Sunday at 03:22 AM by Vegas_Millennial San Angelo, danteig and + azdr0710 1 1 1
+ purplekow Posted Sunday at 03:48 AM Posted Sunday at 03:48 AM The Steel Gym in Palm Springs, for those coming to the Weekend or for a trip at another time, is essentially a gay gym with an older leaning crowd. The steam room dress code is towel for the extremely shy and nude for all the rest. There is a lot of self play followed by neighbor can I borrow a cup of cock, nipple play, blow jobs and even deep kissing which I find interesting to happen between strangers. I have seen one guy get pig roasted but that was the only anal activity I have seen there, but I am sure it happens. I would say 8 out of 10 times in the steam there is something going on, which usually stops when the door opens and resumes right after it closed when it is clear it is not an employee checking up. I have had a few brief mutual jerk off encounters. I went in the steam with an escort and he purposefully strutted around hard and then came to me and I blew him for a bit. When I came up, the other 6 guys in the room were either jerking themselves or their neighbor. At that point, the escort and I left. + Charlie 1
San Angelo Posted Sunday at 03:49 AM Posted Sunday at 03:49 AM 28 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said: "The lady doth protest too much, methinks". 😉 San Angelo Posted April 3, 2023 Yeap. We made out one time at my gym's restroom... Yup. But I never looked for that. You won't see me walking around expecting an encounter around the locker rooms. That's just nasty and screams out desesperation / putería.
San Angelo Posted Sunday at 03:55 AM Posted Sunday at 03:55 AM (edited) 46 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said: "The lady doth protest too much, methinks". 😉 San Angelo Posted April 3, 2023 Yeap. We made out one time at my gym's restroom... Why are you always doing this, going into my posting history to post some shit from many years ago? You are obsessed with me. Damn! It was Bruce Beckham, one of my all time crushes. That man is a 10 (or at least was it back then). The time we hooked up, we had previously chatted on Grindr several days before. It's just that we never met because he wanted to film for OF and I didn't want to. He later recognized me at the gym and followed me around without saying "hi" even, and that's how it happened. We only made out. And yes, it was a CLASSY organic random lockroom hookup. We didn't fuck. EW! Edited Sunday at 04:04 AM by San Angelo
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted Sunday at 05:47 AM Posted Sunday at 05:47 AM (edited) 1 hour ago, San Angelo said: ...And yes, it was a CLASSY organic random lockroom (sic) hookup... Love it! 😍 Edited Sunday at 05:51 AM by Vegas_Millennial + azdr0710, + Charlie, danteig and 1 other 2 2
San Angelo Posted 6 hours ago Posted 6 hours ago On 3/29/2026 at 1:47 AM, Vegas_Millennial said: Love it! 😍 I already reported you. You are always here doing this shit following me around looking into my posting history to pull up some crap. danteig 1
Cooper Posted 5 hours ago Posted 5 hours ago Administrator’s Reminder Gentlemen, Let’s stay on topic and avoid any personal attacks. The moderators are now following this thread. MikeBiDude 1
+ Charlie Posted 3 hours ago Posted 3 hours ago On 3/28/2026 at 8:48 PM, purplekow said: The Steel Gym in Palm Springs, for those coming to the Weekend or for a trip at another time, is essentially a gay gym with an older leaning crowd. The steam room dress code is towel for the extremely shy and nude for all the rest. There is a lot of self play followed by neighbor can I borrow a cup of cock, nipple play, blow jobs and even deep kissing which I find interesting to happen between strangers. I have seen one guy get pig roasted but that was the only anal activity I have seen there, but I am sure it happens. I would say 8 out of 10 times in the steam there is something going on, which usually stops when the door opens and resumes right after it closed when it is clear it is not an employee checking up. I have had a few brief mutual jerk off encounters. I went in the steam with an escort and he purposefully strutted around hard and then came to me and I blew him for a bit. When I came up, the other 6 guys in the room were either jerking themselves or their neighbor. At that point, the escort and I left. The Steel gym has apparently changed since I was a member there a number of years ago. when I never saw any activity in the locker room.
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